{"id":22247,"date":"2021-08-21T09:50:05","date_gmt":"2021-08-21T06:50:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=22247"},"modified":"2021-08-21T09:50:06","modified_gmt":"2021-08-21T06:50:06","slug":"gay-ii-relatable","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/gay-ii-relatable\/","title":{"rendered":"Gay-ii relatable"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Weekendul acesta va avea loc Cluj Pride, mar\u0219ul compatrio\u021bilor no\u0219tri ardeleni. Cu acest prilej, vreau s\u0103 deschid \u00eenc\u0103 un subiect: pove\u021bele de “relatabilitate”. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015etiu, \u015ftiu, nu e un cuv\u00e2nt. Dar \u00eel cre\u0103m noi acum, ca inovatori ce suntem, \u015fi explic \u00een cele ce urmeaz\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De c\u00e2nd cu toate campaniile de hate organizate de grup\u0103rile tradi\u0163ionaliste, \u015fi care au agitat cu succes to\u0163i pro\u015ftii conflictuali, \u0103ia care au impresia c\u0103 orientarea sexual\u0103 se ia prin interac\u0163iune, sau ceva de genul – dac\u0103 chiar crezi asta, am o veste pentru tine. Nu e\u015fti atras de b\u0103rba\u0163i \/ femei pentru c\u0103 ai v\u0103zut pe net b\u0103rba\u0163i \/ femei vorbind despre acceptarea diversit\u0103\u0163ii, ci pentru c\u0103 asta te excit\u0103 pe tine fizic, iar dac\u0103 asta e situa\u0163ia, 36845743256789 de comentarii pline de hate nu o vor schimba. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 pro\u015ftii orbi\u0163i de ur\u0103, plini de spume, mai sunt \u015fi \u00een\u0163elep\u0163ii pov\u0103\u0163uitori. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Unul dintre ei s-a pogor\u00e2t ca un arhanghel pe acest site acum c\u00e2teva zile, s\u0103 mansplainuiasc\u0103, p\u0103truns de importan\u0163a propriei \u00een\u0163elepciuni, c\u0103 vede\u0163i, lumea v\u0103 ur\u0103\u015fte pentru c\u0103 scoate\u0163i la \u00eenaintare toate travestitele colorate \u015fi b\u0103rba\u0163ii deprava\u0163i \u00een c gol, \u015fi c\u0103 nu a\u015fa ar trebui s\u0103 fie. De ce nu scoate\u0163i la \u00eenaintare gay-ii \u015fi lesbienele “relatable”, care s\u0103 arate a oameni, \u015fi atunci lumea chiar ar putea s\u0103 empatizeze cu voi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iar eu m\u0103 uit la postacii plini de hate \u015fi m\u0103 \u00eentreb: de unde prezum\u0163ia c\u0103 \u0103\u015ftia ar putea empatiza cu ceva? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen fine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ce m-a zg\u00e2riat pe retin\u0103 la prima citire a fost verbul: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

“a scoate la \u00eenaintare”. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Simpla utilizare a unui astfel de verb te transpune \u00een modul \u00een care \u00een\u0163eleptul nostru vede Pride: ca pe defilarea armatei poporului. Mul\u0163i ignoran\u0163i cred cu t\u0103rie c\u0103 exist\u0103 undeva for\u0163ele interna\u0163ionale LGBT care opereaz\u0103 ordine din centrul unitar LGBT \u015fi c\u0103 ace\u015ftia fac un mar\u015f coregrafiat p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een cele mai mici am\u0103nunte, unde ei scot la \u00eenaintare ce cred ei c\u0103 e important \u015fi strecoar\u0103 \u00een obscuritatea fundalului, sau a\u015fa ceva, elementele mai pu\u0163in importante. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2nd colo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2nd colo, este vorba de persoane individuale, din tot spectrul curcubeului. \u015ei \u00een cadrul mar\u015fului, fiecare vine s\u0103 se reprezinte pe sine \u015fi at\u00e2t. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nimeni nu e “scos la \u00eenaintare” \u00een mod particular, sau “tras pe banca de rezerve”. Toat\u0103 lumea merge normal, sau danseaz\u0103, dac\u0103 se nimere\u015fte pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 boxele cu muzic\u0103 \u015fi vrea s\u0103 fac\u0103 asta. Nici m\u0103car nu \u0163i se impune s\u0103 dansezi, sau s\u0103 nu dansezi. Te compor\u0163i cum sim\u0163i. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Acum, c\u0103 am lichidat-o pe asta cu scosul la \u00eenaintare, hai s\u0103 vorbim despre principala problem\u0103 a pove\u0163elor de acest tip. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei anume insinuarea c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 existe un mod corect de a fi queer, respectiv moduri gre\u015fite. Modul corect pas\u0103mite este acela de a ar\u0103ta c\u00e2t mai urban casual, de a te pierde \u00een mul\u0163ime. Modul gre\u015fit – dup\u0103 percep\u0163ia lui Gigel, e de a practica extravagan\u0163a \u015fi a crea personaje sclipitoare \u015fi vizibile din avion. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A\u015fa cum impun roluri de gen \u00eentre heterosexuali (b\u0103rbatul la sal\u0103, femeia la crati\u0163\u0103), a\u015fa \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 ordoneze \u015fi comunitatea LGBT. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

DAAAR <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Comunitatea LGBT s-a n\u0103scut TOCMAI din refuzul alinierii la norme. Primele mar\u015furi Pride din State nu au fost organizate de “gay-ii relatable”, care, exact ca gigeii tradi\u0163ionali\u015fti, se \u00eensurau cu “femei de cas\u0103”, pe care le \u00een\u015felau pe la spate pe rupte, gigeii cu femei, “gay-ii relatable” cu b\u0103rba\u0163i. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Primele mar\u015furi din State au fost organizate de persoane transgender de culoare. Cele care, prin cum ar\u0103tau, erau cele mai supuse persecu\u0163iei \u015fi abuzurilor de toate tipurile. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vocile lor au fost cele care au \u00eenceput reforma drepturilor umane. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am citit recent un status pe Twitter, nu mai \u0163in minte autorul, dar \u00eel completez de cum m\u0103 ajut\u0103 sec\u0163iunea de comentarii: Ballet dancers and hair dressers made it ok for football players to come out, not the other way around. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

E o men\u0163iune important\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pentru c\u0103, dac\u0103 azi, gay relatable 1 poate tr\u0103i deschis \u00eentr-o rela\u0163ie normal\u0103 cu gay relatable 2 \u015fi, \u00een cartierele civilizate, nu \u00eei arat\u0103 lumea cu degetul \u015fi nu \u0163ip\u0103 profanit\u0103\u0163i spre ei, e exact datorit\u0103 activismului \u015fi umilin\u0163elor publice asumate de drag queens \u015fi trans people asuma\u0163i \u015fi vocali. De aceea nu e cazul s\u0103 vin\u0103 gay-ii relatable, s\u0103 se urce mo\u0163 pe drepturile deja acumulate \u015fi s\u0103 fac\u0103 reguli pentru cei care le-au ob\u0163inut in the first place. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Taman de aceea, mar\u015ful pride ar trebui s\u0103 fie exact ceea ce este, \u015fi anume un loc care s\u0103 g\u0103zduiasc\u0103, cu iubire \u015fi acceptare, TOATE, culorile curcubeului. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ca s\u0103 nu punctez evidentul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vin camerele de televiziune s\u0103 filmeze mar\u015ful. 2000 de persoane \u00een blugi \u015fi tricou, 100 de queens \u00een costume \u00eemprumutate direct din carnavalul din Rio. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ghici unde se vor \u00eendrepta magic \u015fi magnetic. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bingooooooooo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Dac\u0103 \u0163i-a pl\u0103cut acest articol, sus\u0163ine site-ul cu o dona\u0163ie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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