{"id":22388,"date":"2021-10-01T14:25:55","date_gmt":"2021-10-01T11:25:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=22388"},"modified":"2021-10-01T14:25:56","modified_gmt":"2021-10-01T11:25:56","slug":"femeile-si-bulinele","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/femeile-si-bulinele\/","title":{"rendered":"Femeile \u0219i bulinele"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>E u\u0219or s\u0103 crezi, c\u00e2nd e\u0219ti citit \u00een special de bula ta, c\u0103 societatea noastr\u0103 a evoluat dincolo de conceptul femeii ca adun\u0103tur\u0103 de celule \u00een jurul unei g\u0103uri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Apoi \u00ee\u021bi pic\u0103 sub ochi mizerii ca asta: <\/p>\n\n\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/plugins\/post.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fphoto.php%3Ffbid%3D2449971461800298%26set%3Da.109037422560392%26type%3D3&amp;show_text=true&amp;width=500\" width=\"500\" height=\"497\" style=\"border:none;overflow:hidden\" scrolling=\"no\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; picture-in-picture; web-share\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n\n\n<p>Nenea care a ouat-o pe asta nu era chiar gigel fiul ploii. E un recruiter de oarecare notorietate \u0219i reputa\u021bie. Dar, \u0219i a\u0219a, e adeptul mentalit\u0103\u021bii medievale conform c\u0103reia femeia are un singur scop pe lume, cel de acuplare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cencepe cu o nara\u021biune cu un amic care a fost concediat pentru c\u0103 &#8220;a invitat o coleg\u0103 la cafea&#8221;. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>O minciun\u0103 vizibil\u0103 din avion pentru orice om cu experien\u0163\u0103 profesional\u0103 de cel pu\u0163in entry level. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Un lucru primordial pe care nu \u00eel vrea nici un departament profesionist de HR e un proces de contesta\u0163ie a concedierii de la un angajat furios. Astea se c\u00e2\u015ftig\u0103 relativ u\u015for, \u00een primul r\u00e2nd pentru c\u0103 firma e cea care trebuie s\u0103 demonstreze vinov\u0103\u0163ia angajatului concediat, nu angajatul trebuie s\u0103-\u015fi demonstreze nevinov\u0103\u0163ia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen condi\u0163iile astea, dac\u0103 un departament profesionist de HR a decis concedierea lui Masculferoc, \u0103la a f\u0103cut mai mult ca sigur mult mai mult dec\u00e2t s\u0103 invite femeia la cafea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Iar acest mult mai mult a fost dovedibil. Mesaje libidinoase, apropouri insistente \u0219i remarci nelalocul lor de fa\u0163\u0103 cu martori, diverse alte gesturi pentru care exist\u0103 probe concrete \u0219i pe care firma le poate prezenta \u00een instan\u021b\u0103, \u00een cazul \u00een care e dat\u0103 \u00een judecat\u0103 de cel concediat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u015ei nici o femeie nu se duce glon\u0163 la HR, de la prima abatere a lui Masculferoc. \u00cent\u00e2i \u00eei spune frumos: Iart\u0103-m\u0103, Vasilic\u0103, dar nu e\u0219ti genul meu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Abia dac\u0103 Vasilic\u0103 trece peste aceast\u0103 informa\u021bie, cum fac mereu Masculiiferoci, incapabili s\u0103 ia un &#8220;nu&#8221; drept ceea ce este, ajunge \u015fi femeia, \u00een disperare de cauz\u0103, pe la departamentul de HR. CU DOVEZI. Altfel, tanti de la HR nu te bag\u0103 foarte tare \u00een seam\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cam a\u015fa e concedierea pe baz\u0103 de h\u0103r\u0163uire sexual\u0103 \u00een Rom\u00e2nia. Dac\u0103 nu e cu dovezi solide, care s\u0103 garanteze c\u00e2\u015ftig de cauz\u0103 firmei \u00een caz c\u0103 Masculferoc se simpte nedrept\u0103\u0163it (ce, el n-are voie s\u0103 invite la cafea???) \u015fi d\u0103 \u00een judecat\u0103 compania, nu se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nemaivorbind c\u0103 mul\u0163i dintre oamenii corporate din Rom\u00e2nia sunt tot rom\u00e2ni, exact ca \u0103la care a scris statusul. Genul care scuz\u0103 masculul n\u0103r\u0103va\u015f c\u0103 &#8220;a\u015fa e, drag\u0103, b\u0103rba\u0163ii&#8221;, c\u0103 victima e sigur de vin\u0103, c\u0103 umbla prea machiat\u0103, purta fust\u0103 scurt\u0103 \u015fi de ce avea vsginul la ea dac\u0103 nu inten\u0163iona s\u0103-l foloseasc\u0103, h\u0103h\u0103h\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cam a\u015fa e, \u00een realitate, situa\u0163ia celor &#8220;concedia\u0163i pentru c\u0103 au invitat o femeie la cafea&#8221;. De obicei, au h\u0103r\u0163uit-o luni \u00een \u015fir, \u00een moduri suficient de agresive \u015fi de iritante s-o fac\u0103 pe aia s\u0103 reclame, \u015fi s\u0103-i fac\u0103 pe cei de la HR s\u0103 zic\u0103 &#8220;da, dom&#8217;le, nu se poate a\u015fa&#8221;. Probabil, \u00eentr-o prim\u0103 faz\u0103, l-au chemat s\u0103-i spun\u0103 amiabil s\u0103 nu mai \u00eencerce s\u0103 bage cu sila pe g\u00e2t cafea doamnei. Probabil c\u0103 n-a func\u0163ionat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>O companie te concediaz\u0103 pentru h\u0103r\u0163uire sexual\u0103 DUP\u0102 CE A \u00ceNCERCAT S\u0102 SE \u00ceN\u0162ELEAG\u0102 CU TINE PE TOATE C\u0102ILE S\u0102 \u00ceNCETEZI, iar tu ai continuat. De prost \u015fi de \u00eenc\u0103p\u0103\u0163\u00e2nat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>S\u0103 trecem acum la a doua abera\u0163ie. C\u0103 femeile ar trebui s\u0103 poarte buline, ca semaforul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hei, dar o fac deja. Exist\u0103 femei cu bulin\u0103 verde, aka diversele lucr\u0103toare sexuale, la strad\u0103, cu anun\u0163 la gazet\u0103, online, la domiciliul ei, la domiciliul t\u0103u, la hotel motel halidei inn. Acelea fac exact asta. Deservesc cu sex la solicitare, contra cost, gigeii care simt c\u0103 le trop\u0103ie hormonii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Colegele tale de la munc\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 fie toate, by default, cu bulin\u0103 ro\u015fie pentru tine. Pe de o parte, pentru c\u0103 nu ai cum s\u0103 pretinzi respect profesional c\u00e2nd tu \u00eei umpli mesageria privat\u0103 de libidino\u015fenii \u015fi d-pics, \u015fi pe de alta, pentru c\u0103, dac\u0103 alegi s\u0103 te c sub geam, tot \u0163ie o s\u0103-\u0163i vin\u0103 la nas mirosul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sigur, dac\u0103 \u00een timp se dezvolt\u0103 ceva, de comun acord, care poate duce la ceva serios, und\u0103 verde. Dar s\u0103 \u00eencerci s-o co\u0163\u0103i f\u0103r\u0103 obliga\u0163ii pe Maricica, \u015fi apoi s\u0103 dai nas \u00een nas cu ea 40 de ore pe s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103, ofticat\u0103 c\u0103 n-ai sunat-o a doua zi \u015fi umpl\u00e2nd compania cu b\u00e2rfe despre tine, e o eroare de mascul idiot care nu \u015fi-o poate \u0163ine \u00een pantaloni. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Prezum\u0163ia c\u0103 o femeie ar purta din proprie ini\u0163iativ\u0103 bulin\u0103 verde, aka &#8220;\u015fti\u0163i, gigei, fac gratis munca aia dezagreabil\u0103 pentru care profesionistele cer bani grei&#8221; ilustreaz\u0103 ce mentalitate reductiv\u0103 \u015fi retrograd\u0103 are gigelul postac fa\u0163\u0103 de femei. Faptul c\u0103 \u0103sta e cotat drept recruiter bun \u00een \u0163ara asta medieval\u0103 e tragic. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Also, remarc\u0103m c\u0103 nu a inventat \u015fi bulina &#8220;da, m\u0103 f intens, animalic, din toate pozi\u0163iile, m\u0103 f pe tot mobilierul, \u015fi dac\u0103 termin mobilierul, m\u0103 f \u015fi pe jos, \u015fi pe pere\u0163i, \u015fi \u00een locuri publice, DAR NU CU RATATUL DE TINE&#8221;. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Abia pe asta am purta-o toate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 \u0163i-a pl\u0103cut acest articol, sus\u0163ine site-ul cu o dona\u0163ie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-14577\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>***<br>Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? 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