{"id":22475,"date":"2021-10-20T11:13:37","date_gmt":"2021-10-20T08:13:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=22475"},"modified":"2021-10-20T12:22:39","modified_gmt":"2021-10-20T09:22:39","slug":"mitul-pilulei-rosii-si-al-femeii-submisive","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/mitul-pilulei-rosii-si-al-femeii-submisive\/","title":{"rendered":"Mitul pilulei ro\u0219ii \u0219i al femeii submisive"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

V\u0103 povesteam c\u0103, prin 2014 – 2015, b\u0103rba\u021bii respin\u0219i de femei pentru c\u0103 nu aveau nimic de oferit au \u00eenceput s\u0103 fac\u0103 haite pe forumuri \u0219i site-uri \u0219i s-au autointitulat pompos “manosfera”. C\u0103ut\u00e2nd motivele respingerii, evident c\u0103 nu l-au identificat pe principalul, \u015fi anume, faptul c\u0103 majoritatea femeilor nu au ce se s\u0103 piard\u0103 timp cu loseri \u015fi, dac\u0103 nu sunt lucr\u0103toare sexuale, nu au de ce s\u0103 \u00eempart\u0103 p\u0103s\u0103ric\u0103 de caritate la to\u0163i milogii, \u015fi au decretat: problema e la femeia modern\u0103, “c\u0103 a pierdut contactul cu adev\u0103rata ei natur\u0103” (probabil, sp\u0103larea pe creier secular\u0103 care le f\u0103cea s\u0103 se cread\u0103 cet\u0103\u0163eni de rangul al doilea, s\u0103 \u00eencaseze b\u0103taie, umilin\u0163\u0103 \u015fi lips\u0103 de respect doar pentru c\u0103 societatea era astfel aranjat\u0103 \u00eenc\u00e2t adev\u0103rata dovad\u0103 a valid\u0103rii sociale ca femeie consta \u00een a fi nevasta unuia, iar tu munceai s\u0103 men\u0163ii asta cam cum munce\u015fte un sclavete de corpora\u0163ie s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 angajat. Cu diferen\u0163a c\u0103 sclavetele de corpora\u0163ie prime\u015fte un salariu, iar nevasta eroin\u0103, doar faptul c\u0103 nu o b\u00e2rfeau vecinii la fel de tare ca pe “femeile u\u015foare”.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

OK. Deci, aceast\u0103 “adev\u0103rat\u0103 natur\u0103” e o sp\u0103lare pe creier, cum am spus. Adev\u0103rata natur\u0103 a femeii eliberate de cli\u015fee e adev\u0103rata natur\u0103 a oric\u0103rui alt om: cu c\u00e2t faci ceea ce \u00ee\u0163i place, cu c\u00e2t te perfec\u0163ionezi \u00een a face ceea ce \u00ee\u0163i place, cu c\u00e2t ob\u0163ii mai mul\u0163i bani \u015fi mai mult\u0103 influen\u0163\u0103, cu at\u00e2t e\u015fti un om mai \u00eemplinit. Da, ok, dac\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2lne\u015fti o persoan\u0103 care s\u0103 te completeze, e minunat, dar nu indispensabil. Da, dac\u0103 legi c\u00e2teva prietenii pe care s\u0103 te po\u0163i baza e minunat, dar nu indispensabil. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Problema cu forumurile acestea de labagii toxici care nu \u00ee\u015fi asum\u0103 indezirabilitatea \u015fi decreteaz\u0103 c\u0103 “au luat pilula ro\u015fie” c\u00e2nd le pretind unor femei care nu le datoreaz\u0103 nimic “s\u0103 fie submisive”, strict pe baz\u0103 de de\u0163inere de p\u0103s\u0103ric\u0103 este \u00een INFLUEN\u0162A PE CARE O EXERCIT\u0102 ASUPRA PU\u015eTANILOR. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Intr\u0103 copila\u015fii lipsi\u0163i de experien\u0163\u0103, afl\u0103 de la rata\u0163ii \u0103\u015ftia jenan\u0163i c\u0103 femeile ar trebui s\u0103 fie umile \u015fi supuse \u015fi s\u0103-\u015fi asume o pozi\u0163ie de inferioritate, \u015fi le place. Cui nu-i place o doctrin\u0103 care te decreteaz\u0103 superior f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 fie nevoie s\u0103 depui un efort cu care s\u0103 c\u00e2\u015ftigi numita superioritate? De aceea au at\u00e2ta succes religiile – care \u00eei decreteaz\u0103 superiori pe adep\u0163ii lor \u015fi-i enable s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103 de sus altora. De aceea are at\u00e2ta succes na\u0163ionalismul. E\u015fti superior doar pentru c\u0103 e\u015fti rom\u00e2n. Nu e ca \u015fi cum te-ai n\u0103scut polonez \u015fi a trebuit s\u0103 munce\u015fti din greu, s\u0103 devii rom\u00e2n. E un dat oarecare, random, pentru c\u0103 s-a nimerit s\u0103 te na\u015fti pe aici. Dac\u0103 te n\u0103\u015fteai ni\u015fte sute de kilometri mai \u00eencolo, erai ungur \u015fi \u00eenjurai rom\u00e2nii. Dac\u0103 te n\u0103\u015fteai un pic spre sud, erai s\u00e2rb \u015fi \u00eenjurai pe toat\u0103 lumea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Problema mea c\u00e2nd copila\u015fii lipsi\u0163i de experien\u0163\u0103 \u015fi degrab\u0103 sedu\u015fi de BS-ul inferiorit\u0103\u0163ii femeii intr\u0103 pe aceste forumuri este c\u0103 se formeaz\u0103 o nou\u0103 genera\u0163ie de masculi misogini, toxici \u015fi abuzivi, iar genera\u0163iile noi de fete \u015fi femei se v\u0103d obligate s\u0103 reia lupta pentru dreptul lor la o via\u0163\u0103 liber\u0103 \u015fi la egalitate de \u015fanse de la zero. Egalitate de \u015fanse de care e\u015fti v\u0103duvit \u00een mare m\u0103sur\u0103, c\u00e2nd \u015fi pia\u0163a muncii este infestat\u0103 de idio\u0163i misogini de genul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Azi, am v\u0103zut la un prost\u0103nac din lista mea acelea\u015fi cli\u015fee de manosfer\u0103, regurgitate inept, \u00een aplauzele altor maimu\u0163e. Nu voi da numele prost\u0103nacului. Un gigel de vreo 20 \u015fi ceva de ani, absolut neremarcabil din toate punctele de vedere. Nu-i dau numele, pentru c\u0103 nu merit\u0103 el individual aten\u0163ia. \u015ei problema mea nu e cu el. \u00cenc\u0103 un prost\u0103nac influen\u0163abil care perpetueaz\u0103 idei toxice pentru c\u0103 at\u00e2ta poate \u015fi at\u00e2ta face. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dau aceste cli\u015fee pentru <\/p>\n\n\n\n

a) a avertiza femeile legat de acest tip de indivizi. Cu care nu pierzi timp. Cum vine unul s\u0103-\u0163i spun\u0103 c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 fii submisiv\u0103, c\u0103 aia e adev\u0103rata ta natur\u0103, c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 fii frumoas\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 z\u00e2mbe\u015fti frumos, jbang, block all over. Trebuia s\u0103 fii a\u015fa \u015fi pe dincolo c\u00e2nd boul te \u0163inea acas\u0103 \u015fi te \u00eentre\u0163inea. Dac\u0103 tu te \u00eentre\u0163ii singur\u0103, ai dreptul s\u0103 fii exact cum e\u015fti, iar dac\u0103 boul vrea ceva de la tine, s\u0103 mediteze ce are de oferit s\u0103 echivaleze. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

b) a avertiza b\u0103rba\u0163ii cu bun sim\u0163 \u015fi a\u015ftept\u0103ri realiste c\u0103 nu, manosfera is NOT the way to go, c\u0103 nimeni nu \u00ee\u0163i datoreaz\u0103 submisivitate, timp \u015fi aten\u0163ie by default, pentru simplul fapt c\u0103 a tras “p\u0103s\u0103ric\u0103” la loteria genetic\u0103 \u015fi c\u0103 socoteala de acas\u0103 nu se potrive\u015fte cu cea din t\u00e2rg. Bine, cei c\u00e2t de c\u00e2t maturi \u015fi trecu\u0163i prin via\u0163\u0103 \u015ftiu deja asta. Iar \u0103lora mici prefer s\u0103 le-o spun eu the easy way, ca s\u0103 nu afle the hard way. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

OK. Iat\u0103 \u015fi print screenul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Ne amuz\u0103m cum gigelul relativizeaz\u0103 succesul unei femei, faptul c\u0103 “au lucrurile personale rezolvate, cariera, s\u0103n\u0103tatea, bani deoparte”. Chit c\u0103 sunt miliarde de oameni, \u015fi b\u0103rba\u0163i, \u015fi femei, pe aceast\u0103 planet\u0103, care \u015fi-ar dori cu disperare s\u0103 le ob\u0163in\u0103 pe toate acestea, muncesc 24 \/ 7 \u015fi nu reu\u015fesc nicicum. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sincer, dac\u0103 e s\u0103 aleg \u00eentre a avea un b\u0103rbat, fie el \u015fi Brad Pitt \u00een perioada “Troia” \u015fi a avea toate aceste lucruri cu pre\u0163ul de a nu mai vedea p*l\u0103 \u00een via\u0163a mea, a\u015f alege toate aceste lucruri f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 ezit o secund\u0103. E plin\u0103 istoria de femei care au investit tot ce aveau \u015fi tot ce puteau \u00een “iubirea” unui b\u0103rbat, iar dup\u0103 ce au ajuns la o anumit\u0103 v\u00e2rst\u0103 \u015fi l\u0103sare a \u0163\u00e2\u0163elor, \u0103la s-a uitat ad\u00e2nc \u00een ochii lor \u015fi le-a confesat c\u0103 a g\u0103sit pe alta mai t\u00e2n\u0103r\u0103, cu \u0163\u00e2\u0163e mai agere. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Casa, cariera, banii nu pleac\u0103 nic\u0103ieri dac\u0103 \u0163i se las\u0103 \u0163\u00e2\u0163ele. De aceea, investi\u0163ia \u00een tine \u00eens\u0103\u0163i e singura care nu va fi afectat\u0103 de \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2nire \u015fi alte realit\u0103\u0163i biologice cu care putem lupta punctual, putem avea un stil de via\u0163\u0103 s\u0103n\u0103tos, un regim de \u00eengrijire cosmetic\u0103 \u015fi chiar interven\u0163ii plastice de la o v\u00e2rst\u0103 \u00een sus, dar pe care nu le putem nega global. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

“De\u015fi sunt valoroase profesional \u015fi bine implicate social, totu\u015fi b\u0103rba\u0163ii corespunz\u0103tori nu le aleg pe ele \u015fi chiar aleg pe altele mai slab cotate”. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gigelul care nu se uit\u0103 la ce e \u00een mintea unei femei, ci doar la c** ei nu e o noutate. Exista \u015fi pe vremea c\u00e2nd eram copil. A existat dintotdeauna. Partea la care r\u00e2d e preten\u0163ia c\u0103 ar fi “b\u0103rbatul corespunz\u0103tor”. Corespunz\u0103tor cui? Corespunz\u0103tor altor gigei, la fel de pro\u015fti ca el? OK, p\u0103i tufe\u0163i-v\u0103 \u00een c*** \u015fi l\u0103sa\u0163i-ne \u00een pace, corespunz\u0103torilor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Realitatea e c\u0103 nu po\u0163i decreta tu c\u0103 e\u015fti corespunz\u0103tor. \u00centreab\u0103 o femeie. \u015ei nu o \u00eentreba dac\u0103 e\u015fti corespunz\u0103tor a\u015fa, generic. Femeile sunt oameni politico\u015fi \u015fi vor r\u0103spunde “cel mai corespunz\u0103tor”. \u00centreab-o dac\u0103 ar fi dispus\u0103 s\u0103 se m\u0103rite cu tine \u015fi are \u00eencredere c\u0103 po\u0163i \u00eentre\u0163ine copii. Dac\u0103 zice “da” convins, f\u0103r\u0103 ezitare, atunci \u0163i se confirm\u0103 c\u0103 e\u015fti corespunz\u0103tor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Or, pule\u0163ii \u0103\u015ftia de obicei stau acas\u0103 cu p\u0103rin\u0163ii \u015fi le cer bani s\u0103 bea un suc \u00een ora\u015f. Nu sunt corespunz\u0103tori nici pentru o partid\u0103 satisf\u0103c\u0103toare de cunilingus. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mergem mai departe. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Valoarea sexual\u0103 sau atractivitatea”, despre care abereaz\u0103 gigel, sunt cele care \u00eei fac pe b\u0103rba\u0163i s\u0103 vrea s\u0103 v\u0103 cheme la ei acas\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 v\u0103 co\u0163\u0103ie rapid \u015fi neorgasmic. Adic\u0103, s\u0103 face\u0163i gratuit munca pentru care lucr\u0103toarele sexuale le-ar lua lejer c\u00e2teva sute de lei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar pentru ca un b\u0103rbat s\u0103 se ACTUALLY \u00ceNDR\u0102GOSTEASC\u0102, \u015fi nu s\u0103 v\u0103 trateze ca pe o surs\u0103 de sex \u015fi munci casnice, trebuie s\u0103 v\u0103 respecte, s\u0103 v\u0103 aprecieze \u015fi s\u0103 aib\u0103 pre\u0163uire pentru omul din voi, nu pentru bucata apetisant\u0103 de carne. Abia acei b\u0103rba\u0163i vor vedea dincolo de riduri, gu\u015fe \u015fi os\u00e2nz\u0103, c\u00e2nd \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2ni\u0163i. \u0102\u015ftia care abereaz\u0103 despre “valoarea sexual\u0103” se vor tira rapid la urm\u0103toarele \u0163inte. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0102ia care aleg o femeie \u00een func\u0163ie de “calmitatea (wtf word is this?), tinere\u0163ea, bun\u0103tatea, prospe\u0163imea, submisivitatea, docilitatea” VOR DE FAPT O PROAST\u0102 PE CARE S-O SLUG\u0102REASC\u0102, DE CARE S\u0102 SE FOLOSEASC\u0102 \u015eI PE CARE S-O EJECTEZE DE CUM \u00ceNCETEAZ\u0102 S\u0102 FIE T\u00c2N\u0102R\u0102 \u015eI SUPL\u0102. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Orice vanitate profesional\u0103” <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cum recunoa\u015ftem un ratat \u00een devenire, un nimeni \u00een drum, un pielea p*** absolut? din confuzia pe care o face \u00eentre dorin\u0163a de evolu\u0163ie social\u0103, acces spre putere economic\u0103 \u015fi stabilitate, \u015fi vanitate, aka dorin\u0163a de a face parad\u0103 de tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Revenim. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Orice vanitate profesional\u0103 sau ambi\u0163ie social\u0103 nejustificat\u0103 sunt total \u015fi profund turn off pentru un b\u0103rbat valoros” <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Rectific\u0103m: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Orice dorin\u0163\u0103 de a fi pe picioarele tale \u015fi a avea banii \u015fi cercul t\u0103u social, s\u0103 ai unde s\u0103 te duci \u00een caz c\u0103 boul devine abuziv, sunt un profund turn off pentru un dobitoc ratat, \u00een special dac\u0103 dobitocul ratat nu poate livra profesional \u015fi social la acela\u015fi nivel \u015fi e for\u0163at zi de zi s\u0103 con\u015ftientizeze c\u0103 e\u015fti mai bun\u0103 dec\u00e2t el. Numai c\u0103, \u00een loc s\u0103 pun\u0103 osul la treab\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 evolueze el, dobitocul va face tot posibilul s\u0103 te saboteze pe tine \u015fi s\u0103 te reduc\u0103 la nivelul lui”. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Morala: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Po\u0163i duce o via\u0163\u0103 100% fericit\u0103 fiind “antifeminin\u0103”, dar cu toate nevoile asigurate, pe c\u00e2nd “feminitatea” pe care o define\u015fte boul \u0103sta nu garanteaz\u0103 cu nu vei pl\u00e2nge m\u00e2ine, cu trei copii de fust\u0103, la serviciile de asisten\u0163\u0103 social\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Nu primi\u0163i sfaturi de dating de la dobitoci. Nici \u00een calitate de b\u0103rba\u0163i, nici \u00een calitate de femei. De cum v\u0103 spune unul s\u0103 fi\u0163i “submisive”, da\u0163i-i un \u015fut s\u0103 zboare p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00eentr-o \u0163ar\u0103 musulman\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Cine nu v\u0103 respect\u0103 realiz\u0103rile profesionale \u015fi sociale \u015fi v\u0103 trateaz\u0103 ca pe ni\u015fte slugi care \u00eenc\u0103 nu s-au prins c\u0103 ar fi cazul s\u0103 fie slugi s\u0103 v\u0103 sug\u0103 c***iele. Pe toate trei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iar aceasta e ADEV\u0102RATA pilul\u0103 ro\u015fie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Dac\u0103 \u0163i-a pl\u0103cut acest articol, sus\u0163ine site-ul cu o dona\u0163ie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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