{"id":22561,"date":"2021-11-20T11:50:04","date_gmt":"2021-11-20T08:50:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=22561"},"modified":"2021-11-20T12:55:16","modified_gmt":"2021-11-20T09:55:16","slug":"femeia-care-intimideaza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/femeia-care-intimideaza\/","title":{"rendered":"Femeia care intimideaz\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Vai, dar m\u0103 intimidezi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Propozi\u021bia asta m-a iritat de fiecare dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd am auzit-o, \u00een special \u00een situa\u021biile complet neutre, \u00een care nu aveam nici un chef de conflict, \u0219i \u00een care \u00eemi vedeam strict de treaba mea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Asta p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een momentul \u00een care am remarcat ce femei o primesc over and over again pe asta cu “m\u0103 intimidezi”. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen general, femeile inteligente \u015fi care \u015ftiu ce vor. Una proast\u0103 de d\u0103 \u00een gropi \u015fi u\u015for de dus cu z\u0103h\u0103relul nu intimideaz\u0103 pe nimeni, pentru c\u0103 nu are de ce. Una pe care o faci din vorbe nu intimideaz\u0103 pe nimeni, pentru c\u0103 nu are de ce. Una u\u015for de combinat \u015fi u\u015for de manipulat nu intimideaz\u0103 pe nimeni, pentru c\u0103 nu are de ce. Una de care gigeii se folosesc c\u00e2nd \u015fi cum vor ei, \u015fi care nu are curaj s\u0103 formuleze propriile ei a\u015ftept\u0103ri, ci doar sper\u0103 c\u0103 meritele ei vor fi la un moment dat remarcate – ceea ce, evident, nu se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103, pentru c\u0103 nimeni nu va lucra s\u0103 \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u0163easc\u0103 o ofert\u0103 care merge \u015fi a\u015fa – nu intimideaz\u0103 pe nimeni, pentru c\u0103 nu are de ce. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

G\u00e2\u015ftele basic nu intimideaz\u0103 pe nimeni, pentru c\u0103 nu au de ce. Da, gigeii vor prefera s\u0103 se cupleze cu ele, pentru c\u0103, dup\u0103 cum am punctat, sunt u\u015for de folosit \u015fi low maintenance, dar experien\u0163a lor al\u0103turi de numi\u0163ii gigei va fi extrem de frustrant\u0103. Vor livra totul \u015fi nu vor primi nimic. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei de ce intimidezi tu, chiar c\u00e2nd vii cu inten\u0163ii bune \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 f\u0103r\u00e2m\u0103 de conflict? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pentru c\u0103 transmi\u0163i putere \u015fi fermitate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cine crede c\u0103 e un lucru r\u0103u ca o femeie s\u0103 transmit\u0103 putere \u015fi fermitate? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen general, cretinii retrograzi, care au preten\u0163ia c\u0103 femeia datoreaz\u0103 tuturor \u015fi oricui trece pe acolo gra\u0163ie, amabilitate infinit\u0103, pl\u0103cinte \u015fi o fela\u0163ie moca. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei \u00een particular, cretinii retrograzi care ar vrea s\u0103 te f**\u0103, dar \u015ftiu c\u0103 nu merge a\u015fa u\u015for. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pe cine intereseaz\u0103 \u0103\u015ftia? Nu pe tine, dac\u0103 e\u015fti un om st\u0103p\u00e2n pe mijloacele tale, \u015fi nu te intereseaz\u0103 s\u0103 stai \u00een cap s\u0103 te plac\u0103 toat\u0103 lumea, pentru c\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2i te ui\u0163i la om, \u015fi dup\u0103 aceea, la ce spune. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar mai e un aspect, foarte par\u015fiv \u015fi pervers. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Arareori, \u0103ia care spun c\u0103 se simt intimida\u0163i de tine nu sunt cu adev\u0103rat intimida\u0163i. E doar o tehnic\u0103 penal\u0103 de manipulare, care s\u0103 te fac\u0103 s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i mic\u015forezi tu personalitatea, s\u0103 fii mai u\u015for de \u00eenc\u0103lecat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cum parezi manevra asta? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Printr-un simplu: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Excelent. Ador s\u0103 intimidez impostorii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Adic\u0103, adic\u0103 ce vrei s\u0103 spui, c\u0103 eu sunt un impostor? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu te gr\u0103be\u015fti s\u0103 r\u0103spunzi la asta \u015fi \u00een nici un caz nu te disculpi. Vaaai, nuuu, nuu am vrut s\u0103 zic asta, oioioi. Nu crea patternul \u00een care tu te miloge\u015fti s\u0103 fii iertat\u0103 pentru simpla existen\u0163\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dup\u0103 ce la\u015fi o pauz\u0103, \u00eei spui: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Nu \u015ftiu, c\u0103 nu te cunosc suficient. Urmeaz\u0103 s\u0103 descop\u0103r. Momentan, faptul c\u0103 te dai intimidat a\u015fa u\u015for nu \u00eemi inspir\u0103 \u00eencredere. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei \u00eel la\u015fi pe intimidat s\u0103 vin\u0103 el cu scuzele \u015fi cu vaaai, nuuu, nuuu am vrut s\u0103 zic asta, oioioi. Dac\u0103 vine. Dac\u0103 pluseaz\u0103 cu alt\u0103 insult\u0103, e un bou. E un bou din via\u0163a ta personal\u0103? Te ridici, pleci acas\u0103 \u015fi nu-i mai oferi timp. Dac\u0103 \u0163i-l cere, \u00eei spui c\u0103 te sim\u0163i intimidat\u0103. E un bou din via\u0163a ta profesional\u0103? Rezumi interac\u0163iunea la minimul necesar \u015fi \u00een rest, \u00eel ignori. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u0103car s\u0103-i dai motive reale s\u0103 se simt\u0103 intimidat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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