{"id":22591,"date":"2021-11-28T13:53:09","date_gmt":"2021-11-28T10:53:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=22591"},"modified":"2021-11-29T01:31:40","modified_gmt":"2021-11-28T22:31:40","slug":"ecaterina-teodoroiu-si-feminitatea","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/ecaterina-teodoroiu-si-feminitatea\/","title":{"rendered":"Ecaterina Teodoroiu \u0219i feminitatea"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Am asistat la ni\u0219te discu\u021bii absolut abominabile. \u0218i m\u0103 \u00eentreb, sincer \u0219i din toat\u0103 inima, dac\u0103 au fost ni\u0219te discu\u021bii pe care a trebuit s\u0103 le \u00eendure Ecaterina Teodoroiu \u00eens\u0103\u0219i, c\u00e2nd a ales o carier\u0103 militar\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u0103, m\u0103mic\u0103, mai pune o rochi\u021b\u0103 pe tine, c\u0103 ar\u0103\u021bi ca un h\u0103ndr\u0103l\u0103u. Cine te ia pe tine, dac\u0103 ar\u0103\u021bi ca \u0219i cum ai avea %$^# mai mare dec\u00e2t a lor? M\u0103i, m\u0103mic\u0103, mai stai \u0219i la crati\u021b\u0103, c\u0103 uite ce zic vecinele. M\u0103i, m\u0103mic\u0103, dac\u0103 te duci \u00een armat\u0103, o s\u0103 zic\u0103 lumea c\u0103 e\u0219ti transgenderi\u021b\u0103 de-aia. M\u0103i, m\u0103mic\u0103, mai z\u00e2mbe\u0219te \u0219i tu, c\u0103 pari prea fioroas\u0103 cu pu\u0219cociul \u0103la \u0219i sperii pe\u021bitorii, \u0219i r\u0103m\u00e2i fat\u0103 b\u0103tr\u00e2n\u0103, doamne fere\u0219te, \u0219i te r\u00e2de satul, \u00een timp ce face aluzii nes\u0103rate la pisicile tale. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Multe, multe comentarii \u00een acest registru, sub \u0219tirile care anun\u021bau bancnota de 20 de lei, cu imaginea Ecaterinei Teodoroiu. Diferen\u021ba e c\u0103 nu suntem \u00een 1884, \u0219i nici \u00een 1917, anul c\u00e2nd a murit COMAND\u00c2ND UN PLUTON DE INFANTERIE (da, bitch, \u00een anul 1917, c\u00e2nd \u00eenc\u0103 femeia era considerat\u0103 incapabil\u0103 de multe, o femeie a ajuns la comanda unui pluton de infanterie, \u00een exact aceast\u0103 \u021bar\u0103, iar asta \u00ee\u021bi spune c\u00e2t e puternic\u0103 \u0219i competent\u0103 era numita femeie. Un b\u0103rbat cu acelea\u0219i calit\u0103\u021bi \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 bagajul c\u00e2rcotelilor misogine \u0219i p\u0103reri idioate cum c\u0103 locul lui e la crati\u021b\u0103 ar fi ajuns cel pu\u021bin general.) <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar revenim. Nu suntem \u00een 1884, nu suntem nici \u00een 1917, ci \u00een 2021, anul \u00een care se presupune c\u0103 am \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 femeile sunt oameni liberi s\u0103 fac\u0103 ce alegeri personale vrea mu\u0219chiul lor, \u0219i dac\u0103 nu vor s\u0103 fie feminine la modul tradi\u021bional, e decizia lor, \u0219i nu ai nici un drept de c\u00e2rcoteal\u0103 pe subiect, \u00een special dac\u0103 e\u0219ti un b\u0103g\u0103tor \u00een seam\u0103 oarecare, CARE HABAR NU AI CARE SUNT AMBI\u021aIILE \u0218I ASPIRA\u021aIILE EI PERSONALE. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar, de\u0219i suntem \u00een 2021, influen\u021ba aurifer – dacopat\u0103 face s\u0103 vin\u0103 puhoi de oligofreni b\u0103tubili \u00een cap cu un bocanc de munte cu \u021binte, \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eenceap\u0103: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vai, dar asta nu e feminin\u0103. Vai, dar asta arat\u0103 mai b\u0103rbat dec\u00e2t mine. Vai, dar asta e a\u0219a \u0219i pe dincolo. Vai, dar cine era dispus s\u0103 o tuf\u0103 pe asta? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

V-o zic, \u00een calitatea mea de femeie profund nefeminin\u0103, c\u0103 sunt destui. \u0218i chiar unii la care nu te-ai a\u0219tepta. Nu de parc\u0103 num\u0103rul de cet\u0103\u021beni dispu\u0219i s\u0103 te tuf\u0103 are vreo leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu valoarea ta uman\u0103 sau cu ceea ce faci \u0219i c\u00e2t de bine faci ceea ce faci, dar strict pentru a lichida nonproblema asta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cu c\u00e2t te intereseaz\u0103 mai pu\u021bin dac\u0103 vrea lumea s\u0103 te tuf\u0103, cu at\u00e2t cre\u0219te misterios num\u0103rul doritorilor. Da, e un paradox, dar probabil are de a face cu spiritul gigelian de a se pune contr\u0103 by default tuturor viselor femeilor. Vine una feminin\u0103, toat\u0103 numai \u021b\u00e2\u021be, ging\u0103\u0219ie \u0219i miau-miau. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Oh, vreau un iubit, s\u0103-l pup tandru pe c\u0103p\u0219or \u0219i s\u0103-i fac ciorb\u0103 \u00een fiecare zi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gigel: Ce naiv\u0103 e\u0219ti, iubirea e un simplu contract, f\u0103t frumos nu exist\u0103 \u0219i oricum o s\u0103 mori singur\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vine una miserupist\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103-n m\u0103duva oaselor, concentrat\u0103 strict pe ambi\u021bii personale. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gigel: \u0218TIU c\u0103 vrei un iubit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tu: Chiar nu, \u0219i chiar am vibrator acas\u0103, iar restul chestiilor pe care le face un b\u0103rbat pe la casa omului \u0219tiu s\u0103 le fac \u0219i eu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gigel: Ba AR TREBUI s\u0103 vrei un iubit, \u0219i o s\u0103-\u021bi mai dau 77654478 de comentarii idioate, p\u00e2n\u0103 te conving c\u0103 ar trebui. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tu: M\u0103 convingi cel mult s\u0103 te bag \u00een mor\u021bi\u0219orii m\u0103-tii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gigel: Tssss. Numai feminismul e de vin\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

* <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar s\u0103 revenim la Ecaterina Teodoroiu \u0219i puhoiul de comentarii idioate legate de feminitatea ei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ce a definit-o pe Ecaterina Teodoroiu, motivul pentru care a r\u0103mas \u00een istorie \u0219i a ajuns pe bancnot\u0103 nu e nici abilitatea de a face sarmale, nici disponibilitatea de a z\u00e2mbi frumos, nici dorin\u021ba de a g\u0103si un so\u021b \u0219i a face o cas\u0103 de plozi, adic\u0103 imbecilit\u0103\u021bile pe care le acuz\u0103 turma aurifer – dacopat\u0103. Ci faptul c\u0103 a fost un soldat excep\u021bional, care a slujit \u021bara \u00een lupt\u0103, \u00een primul r\u0103zboi mondial,, un soldat curajos care a evadat dup\u0103 ce a fost luat prizonier, un soldat decorat de casa regal\u0103 \u0219i avansat la gradul de sublocotenent \u00ceN URMA MERITELOR PERSONALE, \u0219i nu pentru c\u0103 ar fi f\u0103cut \u0219coala de ofi\u021beri pe pile \u0219i \u0219pag\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A murit la 24 de ani, \u00een fruntea plutonului s\u0103u (era genul de sublocotenent care lupta cot la cot cu oamenii lui), \u00een b\u0103t\u0103lia de la M\u0103r\u0103\u0219e\u0219ti. B\u0103t\u0103lia care a ap\u0103rat Moldova (singurul teritoriu rom\u00e2nesc liber de invazia german\u0103 \u00een acel moment, c\u00e2nd \u0219i casa regal\u0103 era refugiat\u0103 la Ia\u0219i.) <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Asta ca s\u0103 ne fie clar contextul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Acum, s\u0103 judeci un erou na\u021bional dup\u0103 detaliul anatomic irelevant dintre picioare, n\u0103sc\u0103tor de standarde retardate \u0219i inepte care \u00eencep toate cu substantivul generic “femeile” e doar dovada nivelului de retard profund spre care duce manipularea aurifer – dacopat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cum putem lupta pentru drepturile femeilor? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen primul r\u00e2nd, nimicind verbal instant orice mugetare de tipul “femeile ar trebui s\u0103”, respectiv “tu, ca femeie, ar trebui s\u0103…” <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu, tuzgura m\u0103-tii, eu \u00een primul r\u00e2nd ca om ar trebui s\u0103 fiu liber s\u0103 \u00eemi fac propriile alegeri, iar dac\u0103 sunt alegeri proaste, hei, m\u0103car am tr\u0103it cum am vrut. Spre deosebire de vecinele mele babe care au fost nevestele unuia, menajerele gratis, au renun\u0163at la vise \u015fi ambi\u0163ii s\u0103 fie \u0103la scul\u0103-n bascul\u0103 la casa lor, nu ele, au \u00eendurat b\u0103taie \u015fi neglijen\u0163\u0103, \u015fi acum tot singure sunt, c\u0103 \u0103la a murit de ceva boal\u0103 datorat\u0103 excesului alimentar, fumatului sau b\u0103uturii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ele cu alegerile lor bune au avut o via\u0163\u0103 mult mai dureroas\u0103 \u015fi mai trist\u0103 dec\u00e2t am avut eu cu alegerile mele 100% nefeminine, \u015fi nu, inep\u0163iile pe care le debitezi tu nu influen\u0163eaz\u0103 asta cu nimic. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Altfel, decizia de a o pune pe bancnot\u0103 pe Ecaterina Teodoroiu, o femeie care s-a impus strict prin calit\u0103\u0163i definite tradi\u0163ional ca masculine, mi se pare ABSOLUT GENIAL\u0102. \u015ei probabil c\u0103 \u0103ia care au luat decizia nici n-au g\u00e2ndit-o p\u00e2n\u0103 la cap\u0103t, dar e o sfidare a tuturor stereotipurilor cu care ne-au presat p\u0103rin\u0163i, educatori (unii), cuno\u015ftin\u0163e \u015fi \u015fefi din ziua \u00een care ne-am n\u0103scut. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sigur, azi nu a\u015f permite num\u0103nui s\u0103-mi spun\u0103 s\u0103 fiu feminin\u0103. Dac\u0103 e \u00een via\u0163a privat\u0103, \u015fi nu \u00een\u0163elege de vorb\u0103 bun\u0103 c\u0103 NU, contactul se \u00eentrerupe t\u0103ios \u015fi definitiv. Iar dac\u0103 e \u00een via\u0163a profesional\u0103, garantez un proces pentru discriminare de gen oricui \u00eencearc\u0103. \u015ei nu doar c\u0103 garantez un proces pentru discriminare de gen, dar promit s\u0103 \u00eei \u015fi fac maxim\u0103 publicitate, s\u0103 setez un precedent. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Femeile trebuie s\u0103 FAC\u0102 CE VOR, \u00een limita \u00een care nu \u00eencalc\u0103 legile \u015fi libertatea personal\u0103 a altora. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

At\u00e2t. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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