\u0218tiu c\u0103 mai mult \u00ee\u021bi scriu fetele \u0219i am observat c\u0103 nu prea simpatizezi b\u0103ie\u021bii, dar dai sfaturi ok \u0219i poate m\u0103 po\u021bi ajuta \u0219i pe mine. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Am cunoscut o tip\u0103 foarte mi\u0219to. Foarte frumoas\u0103, foarte de\u0219teapt\u0103, genul dup\u0103 care se uit\u0103 to\u021bi pe strad\u0103. I-am dat semne de interes \u0219i mi-a r\u0103spuns cu entuziasm. \u0218i, dup\u0103 asta, mi s-a f\u0103cut fric\u0103. Dac\u0103 genul \u0103sta de tip\u0103 m\u0103 desconsider\u0103 \u0219i m\u0103 p\u0103r\u0103se\u0219te \u0219i sigur o va face mai devreme sau mai t\u00e2rziu, o s\u0103 suf\u0103r ca un dement, \u0219i nu sunt preg\u0103tit pentru asta. \u0218i totu\u0219i, o plac \u0219i m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 \u00een continuare. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ce ai face tu \u00een locul meu?<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n Mul\u021bumesc, <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n X. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Drag\u0103 X., <\/p>\n\n\n\n Fetele \u00eemi scriu pentru c\u0103 aleg \u00een mod liber \u0219i nesilit de nimeni s\u0103 o fac\u0103, iar faptul c\u0103 nu prea simpatizez b\u0103ie\u021bii e un mit urban. Nu \u00eei simpatizez pe gher\u021boii sini\u0219tri care t\u00e2rfesc timp \u015fi aten\u021bie cu insulte \u0219i \/ sau h\u0103r\u021buire, dar cu b\u0103rba\u021bii normali, lini\u0219ti\u021bi, ancora\u021bi \u00een rezonabil, nu am absolut nimic. Ba din contr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Acum, dac\u0103 o tip\u0103 foarte mi\u0219to, care te \u0219i atrage, \u00ee\u021bi r\u0103spunde cu entuziasm la interes, am un singur sfat: enjoy the moment. Via\u021ba e scurt\u0103 \u0219i nu merit\u0103 s-o tr\u0103im cu fric\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Aspectul fizic al oamenilor nu are nici o leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu caracterul lor sau cu modul \u00een care te vor trata. De desconsiderat \u0219i p\u0103r\u0103sit poate \u0219i o ur\u00e2t\u0103 cu spume, iar de construit o rela\u021bie ok poate \u0219i Miss Univers. Mul\u021bi b\u0103rba\u021bi cred c\u0103 femeile frumoase ar trebui s\u0103 se poarte ca ni\u0219te juc\u0103tori de burs\u0103, \u0219i multe femei frumoase chiar o fac. Dar nu toate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dar poate c\u0103 nu \u021bi-e fric\u0103 de femeie. Poate c\u0103 \u021bi-e fric\u0103 de tine \u00eensu\u021bi \u0219i de un soi de \u00eenclina\u021bie de a b\u0103ga motoarele la 100% din prima, pe care am remarcat-o la mult\u0103 lume, \u0219i b\u0103rba\u021bi, \u0219i femei, \u0219i care de obicei \u00eei face pe oamenii care se apropie de al\u021bii \u00een ritm mai lent s\u0103 se sperie \u0219i s\u0103 se simt\u0103 sufoca\u021bi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Oh, well, partea bun\u0103 e c\u0103 ne putem autoeduca \u0219i tempera, \u0219i esen\u021bial, putem fi cu adev\u0103rat aten\u021bi la omul de l\u00e2ng\u0103 noi, s\u0103 vedem cum g\u0103sim numitorul comun. Iar asta nu prin analize verbale lungi \u0219i obositoare – mam\u0103\u0103\u0103, c\u00e2t ur\u0103sc vorba lung\u0103, s\u0103r\u0103cia omului – ci sim\u021bind vibe-ul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cen definitiv, chiar dac\u0103 nu va fi o rela\u021bie lung\u0103 – nu avem de unde s\u0103 \u0219tim, c\u0103 nu suntem babe omide cu glob de cristal – , m\u0103car po\u021bi s-o faci s\u0103 fie special\u0103 \u0219i memorabil\u0103. Dar pentru asta, aten\u021bia ta trebuie s\u0103 fie pe “ce putem noi s\u0103 facem interesant \u0219i de neuitat azi”, nu pe “omg, sigur g\u0103se\u0219te un milionar m\u00e2ine \u0219i se mut\u0103 la Las Vegas poim\u00e2ine, iar eu o s\u0103 cer\u0219esc pe cartoane la gar\u0103 cu pancarta Dragostea orbe\u015fte”. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sper c\u0103 \u0163i-am fost util\u0103, <\/p>\n\n\n\n Lorena. <\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 \u0163i-a pl\u0103cut acest articol, sus\u0163ine site-ul cu o dona\u0163ie<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n *** Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. \u00cen sensul \u00een care el sau ea, sau chiar tu, de ce nu, ne trimite(\u021bi) problema voastr\u0103 de suflet...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":22608,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22607","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/girl-gfedf3ab0a_640.jpg?fit=640%2C340&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22607","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22607"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22607\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":22609,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22607\/revisions\/22609"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/22608"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22607"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22607"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22607"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}![\"\"](\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\")
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