{"id":22699,"date":"2021-12-16T11:02:56","date_gmt":"2021-12-16T08:02:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=22699"},"modified":"2021-12-16T11:02:58","modified_gmt":"2021-12-16T08:02:58","slug":"miss-germania-2021-e-o-mama-de-33-de-ani","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/miss-germania-2021-e-o-mama-de-33-de-ani\/","title":{"rendered":"Miss Germania 2021 e o mam\u0103 de 33 de ani"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Foto: Anja Kallenbach instagram <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Nu urm\u0103resc concursuri de Miss a\u0219a c\u0103 am aflat de posesoarea noului titlu de Miss Germania de pe peretele unei tipe din lista mea. Tip\u0103 trecut\u0103 de 30 de ani, poate \u0219i de 40, care munce\u0219te de c\u00e2nd se \u0219tie, care e frumoas\u0103, dar la modul matur, marcat de wear and tear \u0219i de bune \u0219i rele. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Te-ai fi a\u0219teptat ca genul \u0103sta de femeie s\u0103 aplaude decizia unei \u021b\u0103ri ca Germania de a renun\u021ba la standardele de frumuse\u021be nerealist\u0103, aschimodic\u0103, zero riduri, zero expresie, a copilelor abia ie\u0219ite din pubertate, \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219eze genul de frumuse\u021be matur\u0103, \u00eemplinit\u0103, care vine cu experien\u021ba de via\u021b\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0102\u0103\u0103, dar nu. Tipa probabil c\u0103 m\u00e2ncase dup\u0103 un m\u00e2rlete cu ceafa groas\u0103, care \u00een\u021belege frumuse\u021bea doar ca “chestia aia care-mi scoal\u0103 mie pl repede” \u015fi se v\u0103ieta c\u0103 dac\u0103 \u00een concursurile de miss nu mai conteaz\u0103 frumuse\u0163ea, cum ar fi s\u0103 te opereze chirurgi care nu \u015ftiu medicin\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103-\u0163i preg\u0103teasc\u0103 masa la restaurant buc\u0103tari care nu \u015ftiu s\u0103 g\u0103teasc\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mda. C\u00e2t misoginism internalizat. C\u00e2nd ajungi s\u0103 te vezi tu pe tine prin ochii unui cocalar jegos, aka o adun\u0103tur\u0103 random de celule \u00een jurul unei g\u0103urici umede, e c\u0103 au luptat degeaba genera\u0163ii \u00eentregi de femei – \u015fi de b\u0103rba\u0163i – s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i fac\u0103 rost de drepturi egale. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 a \u015fofa sau a opera sunt skilluri obiective \u015fi verificabile, bazate pe \u015ftiin\u0163\u0103, experien\u0163\u0103 \u015fi \u00eendem\u00e2nare \u015fi care, prin acelea\u015fi proceduri dau (\u00een limite rezonabile) acelea\u015fi rezultate, frumuse\u0163ea e subiectiv\u0103, definibil\u0103 prin diverse criterii \u015fi extrem de variat\u0103 de la o epoc\u0103 la alta. De la femela obez\u0103 a perioadei preistorice la modelul sculptural al antichit\u0103\u0163ii, de la femeia durdulie cu \u0163\u00e2\u0163e \u015fi \u015folduri a Evului Mediu (semn de opulen\u0163\u0103) la fotomodelul format oase \u015fi glitter al secolului trecut, idealul de frumuse\u0163e a fost mai sinuos dec\u00e2t pi**tul boului. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Faptul c\u0103 \u00een prezent, frumuse\u0163ea tinde s\u0103 se defineasc\u0103 mai degrab\u0103 ca o calitate a maturit\u0103\u0163ii dec\u00e2t ca o obsesie a perfec\u0163iunii pubere e un lucru absolut minunat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei iat\u0103 de ce. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sunt pe net o mul\u0163ime de foto cu Miss Germania 2021, Anja Kallenbach. Are 33 de ani, un business, \u015fi dou\u0103 feti\u0163e. \u015ei e o femeie absolut superb\u0103. I-am vizitat Instagramul. Duce o via\u0163\u0103 activ\u0103, are o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de poze de prin mun\u0163i \u015fi v\u0103i, \u00een trening \u015fi adida\u015fi, \u015fi are o figur\u0103 bine lucrat\u0103, de om care nu s-a neglijat. Are o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de poze \u00een care \u00ee\u015fi str\u00e2nge \u00een bra\u0163e \u015fi \u00ee\u015fi pup\u0103 copiii. Are poz\u0103 cu un pahar de vin bun. Se bucur\u0103 de via\u0163\u0103. E femeie adev\u0103rat\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un titlu de miss se presupune c\u0103 e supremul feminit\u0103\u0163ii. Iar la 18 ani, e\u015fti un copil cu ca\u015f la bot. Habar nu ai ce \u00ee\u0163i place. Tot ce \u00eencerci e s\u0103 placi foarte tare oamenilor t\u0103i prefera\u0163i \u015fi reproduci mecanic, f\u0103r\u0103 g\u00e2ndire critic\u0103, tot ce auzi de la ei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

La 18 ani, sora voastr\u0103 aici de fa\u0163\u0103 se \u00eenc\u0103l\u0163a cu fesul \u015fi-\u015fi punea \u00een cap paporni\u0163a. Era proast\u0103 de \u00eempungea. Plouau oportunit\u0103\u0163i cu nemiluita \u00een jurul ei, iar ura de sine acumulat\u0103 \u00eentr-o copil\u0103rie abuziv\u0103 \u015fi marcat\u0103 de tot soiul de lipsuri o \u00eempiedica s\u0103 le valorifice. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

La 18 ani, nu ai ce face cu un titlu de miss. Cel mult s\u0103-\u0163i pierzi min\u0163ile de prea mult succes \u015fi s\u0103 devii prad\u0103 u\u015foar\u0103 pentru tot soiul de gunoaie umane lihnite dup\u0103 c\u0103rni\u0163\u0103 fraged\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu po\u0163i spune c\u0103 e\u015fti femeie p\u00e2n\u0103 nu ai trecut prin ni\u015fte greut\u0103\u0163i ale vie\u0163ii, p\u00e2n\u0103 nu ai gestionat bugetul unei case pentru o lun\u0103, p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd nu ai \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at s\u0103 prioritizezi corect utilul deasupra pl\u0103cutului, p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd nu \u0163i-ai \u00eensu\u015fit o meserie \u015fi nu \u0163i-ai demonstrat valoarea profesional\u0103 prin proiecte bine f\u0103cute. P\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd nu ai trecut prin c\u00e2teva experien\u0163e amoroase \u015fi nu ai \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at s\u0103 te respec\u0163i pe tine \u00eens\u0103\u0163i \u015fi s\u0103 nu la\u015fi nici un nemernic s\u0103 abuzeze de tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Po\u0163i spune c\u0103 o fat\u0103 de 18 ani e femeie \u00een m\u0103sura \u00een care po\u0163i spune c\u0103 un b\u0103iat de 18 ani e b\u0103rbat. Nici unul nu \u015ftie pe ce lume tr\u0103ie\u015fte. Lipsa experien\u0163ei de via\u0163\u0103 \u015fi fricile specifice v\u00e2rstei \u00eei fac fie s\u0103 se \u00eenchid\u0103 \u00een ei, fie s\u0103 pluseze cu bravad\u0103 agasant\u0103. Lipsa cunoa\u015fterii de sine \u00eei face s\u0103 reproduc\u0103 papagalice\u015fte, f\u0103r\u0103 \u00een\u0163elegere real\u0103, idei auzite de la p\u0103rin\u0163i \u015fi prieteni. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Oricum, frumuse\u0163ea de la 30 de ani e mai nuan\u0163at\u0103, mai complex\u0103, mai expresiv\u0103. Sui\u015furile \u015fi cobor\u00e2\u015furile vie\u0163ii dau \u00een\u0163elepciune \u015fi substan\u0163\u0103, iar asta d\u0103 mii de nuan\u0163e \u015fi privirii, \u015fi z\u00e2mbetului, \u015fi corpului, \u015fi buzelor. Frumuse\u0163ea de la 18 ani e ca gri\u015ful cu lapte. O chestie simpl\u0103 \u015fi dulce, f\u0103r\u0103 pic de rafinament sau ad\u00e2ncime a aromei. Frumuse\u0163ea de la 30 e ca o friptur\u0103 \u00een marinad\u0103. Are textur\u0103, are n condimente, mai profun\u0163ate sau mai estompate, are ulei pentru lunecare, are component\u0103 acid\u0103 pentru fr\u0103gezime, are element surpriz\u0103, are poveste. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cu Anja Kallenbach, Germania a f\u0103cut pasul necesar. S\u0103 \u00eenl\u0103ture cli\u015feele plictisitoare legate de v\u00e2rst\u0103 \u015fi perfec\u0163iune neverosimil\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 celebreze Femeia. A\u015fa cum e ea. Frumoas\u0103 \u00een fiecare zi, printre treburi cotidiene \u015fi temele copilului. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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