Te citesc dintotdeauna \u0219i te admir foarte tare. Ai o g\u00e2ndire analitic\u0103, spirit critic \u0219i umor. E ce iubesc eu mai mult la oameni. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cendr\u0103znesc s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi povestesc ceva. Eu p\u00e2n\u0103 la 20 de ani am avut doar o rela\u021bie de 3 ani. Cu o femeie. Pe vremea aia s\u0103 fii gay era ceva r\u0103u de tot. Am fost dus\u0103 la preo\u021bi \u0219i psihologi \u0219i am \u00eencasat b\u0103t\u0103i acas\u0103 \u0219i mult shaming pentru asta. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Trecem peste. Mai t\u00e2rziu am aflat c\u0103 sunt bi. Am copii mari deja, de vreo 2 ani pentru c\u0103 s-a instalat rutina \u0219i monotonia, eu \u0219i so\u021bul meu ne-am decis s\u0103 spice it up. S\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m lucruri. Jocule\u021be. Thresome, swing. Am fost la un party. Am abordat un cuplu. Discret \u0219i finu\u021b. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ca s\u0103 nu lungesc povestea, pot doar s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi spun c\u0103 mi-am auzit pove\u0219ti. Unii prieteni nu mai vorbesc cu noi. Mie mi-au pus etichete de panoram\u0103 \u0219i mam\u0103 degenerat\u0103. De la dup\u0103 ce c\u0103 ai o v\u00e2rst\u0103 \u0219i uite cum ar\u0103\u021bi….p\u00e2n\u0103 la \u021bie nu \u00ee\u021bi e ru\u0219ine. Nu mai sunt copil. Am \u00eencasat destul pentru libertatea de expresie. Am r\u0103mas f\u0103r\u0103 acei prieteni \u0219i evident, nici din familia mea nu vorbe\u0219te aproape nimeni cu mine. Vreau doar s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi aud p\u0103rerea ta sincer\u0103. Crezi c\u0103 e gre\u0219it? S\u0103 vreau s\u0103 experimentez senza\u021bii? Sunt egoist\u0103? Sunt deplasat\u0103? Sunt o mam\u0103 rea?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n X. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Drag\u0103 X., <\/p>\n\n\n\n E un cli\u0219eu rom\u00e2nesc idiot de \u021b\u0103rani pro\u0219ti faptul c\u0103, o dat\u0103 ce ai devenit mam\u0103, via\u021ba ta trebuie s\u0103 fie o infinit\u0103 slug\u0103real\u0103 \u0219i nimic altceva. E ura tipic\u0103 \u0219i \u00eenn\u0103scut\u0103 fa\u021b\u0103 de femei a tradi\u021bionalismului. Dac\u0103 n-ai copii, “pentru ce mai tr\u0103ie\u015fti?”, dac\u0103 ai copii, cum \u00ee\u0163i permi\u0163i s\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u015fti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n O femeie are dreptul la pl\u0103cere indiferent ce v\u00e2rst\u0103 are, c\u00e2te kilograme, c\u00e2\u0163i copii \u015fi ce not\u0103 \u00eei dau \u015fantieri\u015ftii c\u00e2nd trece pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 ei pe strad\u0103. Dac\u0103 partenerul \/ partenerii consimt \u015fi totul se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u00eentr-un mod care s\u0103 bucure pe toat\u0103 lumea, nu v\u0103d problema. Prietenii care te m\u0103n\u00e2nc\u0103 de c pentru asta \u015fi rudele care au de l\u0103trat pe subiect sunt \u0163\u0103rani pro\u015fti \u015fi pierderea lor e un c\u00e2\u015ftig. Nu trebuie s\u0103-\u0163i f nervii \u015fi cu ei, mai mult timp pentru copii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n DAR exist\u0103 un dar. \u015ei e important de subliniat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Tu ai responsabilitatea copiilor t\u0103i. \u0162ine de tine s\u0103 cre\u015fti din ei adul\u0163i bine \u00eendruma\u0163i, echilibra\u0163i \u015fi preg\u0103ti\u0163i adecvat pentru via\u0163\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Taman de aceea: e esen\u0163ial s\u0103 \u015ftii s\u0103 compartimentezi \u00een a\u015fa fel, \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 nu vad\u0103 copiii trei arabi f\u0103c\u00e2nd bukkake cu tine c\u00e2nd ies accidental noaptea s\u0103-\u015fi pun\u0103 o can\u0103 cu lapte cu ni\u015fte cookies. Trebuie s\u0103 \u00eei fere\u015fti de libertinajul pe care \u00ee\u0163i place s\u0103-l experimentezi, \u015fi acest lucru e mai dificil pentru tine dec\u00e2t pentru o gagic\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 obliga\u0163ii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u015etii s\u0103 compartimentezi? \u015etii s\u0103 fii mama matur\u0103 \u015fi responsabil\u0103, atunci c\u00e2nd e\u015fti cu ei? Timpul al\u0103turi de ei are sau nu de suferit \u00een urma experimentelor tale? <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 da, mult\u0103 s\u0103n\u0103tate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Societatea a recunoscut acest drept b\u0103rba\u0163ilor din cele mai vechi timpuri, cu cli\u015feele umblatului din floare \u00een floare \u015fi cu \u00eemp\u0103ciuitorul “tot acas\u0103 se \u00eentoarce”. Mi se pare firesc s\u0103 \u00eel recunoasc\u0103 \u015fi femeilor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 ai un cuibu\u015for de nebunii situat \u00een alt cartier, sau buget de hoteluri, dac\u0103 oferi copiilor toat\u0103 afec\u0163iunea pe care ai fi oferit-o anyway, dac\u0103 ei nu duc lips\u0103 de nimic, nu doar material, ci \u015fi emo\u0163ional \u015fi motiva\u0163ional, spun doar at\u00e2t: o via\u0163\u0103 avem \u015fi-o bort\u0103-n c. Exploreaz\u0103-le pe ambele la peak potential. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Iar legat de ce spun pro\u015ftii, \u00eel citez pe RuPaul: Unless they paying your bill, pay them bitches no mind. 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