Te citesc de foarte mult timp, cam de c\u00e2nd ai \u00eenceput blogul, \u0219i mi se pare c\u0103 e\u0219ti printre cei mai consisten\u021bi bloggeri din Rom\u00e2nia. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Am apreciat r\u0103spunsurile pe care le-ai dat cititorilor t\u0103i gay \u0219i mi-am f\u0103cut curaj s\u0103-\u021bi scriu \u0219i eu. Am o stare de nemul\u021bumire \u0219i furie cum nu pot pune \u00een cuvinte. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Sunt cu Z. de trei ani \u0219i avem o rela\u021bie foarte bun\u0103. Ne plac acelea\u0219i lucruri, nu ne plictisim unul de altul \u0219i sexul e \u00eenc\u0103 foarte bun. Ai putea spune c\u0103 mi-am g\u0103sit sufletul pereche. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Dar, Lorena, e al treilea an \u00een care Z. pleac\u0103 de s\u0103rb\u0103tori acas\u0103 la m\u0103-sa \u0219i ta-su, unde st\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 dup\u0103 Revelion. Pleac\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 mine, s\u0103 ne fie clar. M\u0103-sa \u0219i ta-su sunt foarte credincio\u0219i, gen citesc versete din Biblie \u0219i \u00ee\u021bi r\u0103spund la fiecare problem\u0103 cu “A\u015fa a vrut Dumnezeu”, iar asta mi se pare foarte enervant. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Mai nasol e c\u0103 m\u0103-sa \u015fi ta-su nu \u015ftiu c\u0103 Z. are o rela\u0163ie cu mine, \u00eel tot frec\u0103 la cap s\u0103 se \u00eensoare, c\u0103 vor nepo\u0163i, \u00eel tot combin\u0103 cu diverse domni\u015foare, iar Z. le face uneori pe plac \u015fi iese cu ele, s\u0103-i mai lini\u015fteasc\u0103. \u015etiu c\u0103 nu-l intereseaz\u0103 niciuna, dar tot e frustrant, m\u0103 \u00een\u0163elegi? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Z. zice c\u0103 nu poate s\u0103 le spun\u0103 c\u0103 e gay, \u015fi c\u0103 asta i-ar omor\u00ee. E al treilea an \u00een care fac Cr\u0103ciunul \u015fi Revelionul f\u0103r\u0103 partenerul meu plecat la p\u0103rin\u0163i \u015fi m\u0103 simt ca o c***\u0103 proast\u0103 pe care gigel n-o prezint\u0103 p\u0103rin\u0163ilor de ru\u015fine, dar \u00eei convine s\u0103 i se s*** p*** \u00een continuare. <\/strong>(Edit de Lorena, I’m trying to not get zucced, scuze.) Nu mai pot a\u015fa, fat\u0103. Ce \u00eemi recomanzi s\u0103 fac<\/strong>? <\/p>\n\n\n\n Keep up the good work, <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n X. <\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Drag\u0103 X., <\/p>\n\n\n\n Oamenii \u0103\u015ftia, cu lenea lor spiritual\u0103 care \u00eei face s\u0103 claseze orice problem\u0103 dificil\u0103 cu “A\u015fa a vrut Dumnezeu” \u015fi s\u0103 nu-\u015fi bat\u0103 capul, \u0163i-au oferit solu\u0163ia perfect\u0103 de coming out. “A\u015fa a vrut Dumnezeu”. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Empatizez profund cu tine, pentru c\u0103 \u00eemi imaginez c\u00e2t e de iritant s\u0103 fii secretul ru\u015finos al cuiva, \u00een special c\u00e2nd din partea ta, investi\u0163ia e pe bune \u015fi e la capacitate maxim\u0103. Furia \u015fi frustrarea ta sunt legitime, \u015fi cred c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 ai o conversa\u0163ie extrem de serioas\u0103 – \u015fi de ultimativ\u0103 – cu Z. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cen primul r\u00e2nd, nu e foarte s\u0103n\u0103tos pentru el ca om s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 \u00een falsitate. Nu e ca \u015fi cum, dac\u0103 mimeaz\u0103 acerb religiozitatea c\u00e2nd e acas\u0103, e mai pu\u0163in gay. Plus c\u0103 oamenii nu mor at\u00e2t de u\u015for. Se ofuscheaz\u0103, e adev\u0103rat, se b\u0103l\u0103c\u0103resc, se dau de ceasul mor\u0163ii, dar nu mor din at\u00e2ta lucru. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cen al doilea r\u00e2nd, e incorect \u015fi fa\u0163\u0103 de domni\u015foarele acelea s\u0103 le curtezi \u015fi s\u0103 le creezi speran\u0163e \u015fi a\u015ftept\u0103ri, c\u00e2nd tu nu ai nici un fel de atrac\u0163ie fa\u0163\u0103 de ele. Mai ales c\u0103 femeile din comunit\u0103\u0163ile religioase sunt men\u0163inute artificial \u00eentr-o stare de ignoran\u0163\u0103 seren\u0103 \u015fi t\u00e2mp\u0103, prin urmare, sunt naive ca ni\u015fte copii de gr\u0103dini\u0163\u0103 \u015fi se topesc complet dac\u0103 un b\u0103iat mai de doamne-ajut\u0103 le arat\u0103 interes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Legat de ceea ce tu nume\u0219ti rela\u021bia voastr\u0103: Oric\u00e2t de bun ar fi sexul \u015fi oric\u00e2t de bine te \u00een\u0163elegi cu cineva, nu cred c\u0103 e s\u0103n\u0103tos pentru stima ta de sine s\u0103 accep\u0163i un aranjament de acest tip, \u00een care tu pui tot sufletul \u015fi toat\u0103 implicarea, iar cel\u0103lalt e cu tine doar c\u00e2nd are el chef, apoi exact c\u00e2nd vine vremea s\u0103 celebr\u0103m familia, celula sf\u00e2nt\u0103 a societ\u0103\u0163ii, e de neg\u0103sit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Genul acesta de neasumare e alegerea lui \u015fi, \u00een m\u0103sura \u00een care persist\u0103 \u00een ea, e momentul s\u0103 iei tu distan\u0163\u0103. Dac\u0103 tot te trateaz\u0103 ca pe c***a pe care nu o poate prezenta p\u0103rin\u0163ilor, m\u0103car s\u0103 te bucuri \u015fi de beneficiile c***ei pe care n-o po\u0163i prezenta p\u0103rin\u0163ilor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Data viitoare c\u00e2nd ini\u0163iaz\u0103 sex, cere-i bani. C***ele se pl\u0103tesc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n S\u0103 rezum\u0103m: da, ai dreptate \u015fi da, trebuie s\u0103-\u0163i ceri ferm dreptul la o rela\u0163ie asumat\u0103, mai ales dup\u0103 trei ani, iar dac\u0103 Z. decide c\u0103 e mai important s\u0103 \u00ee\u015fi \u0163in\u0103 p\u0103rin\u0163ii \u00een credin\u0163ele lor dec\u00e2t s\u0103 le spun\u0103 adev\u0103rul, e momentul s\u0103 te \u00eentrebi dac\u0103 e\u015fti \u00eentr-adev\u0103r \u00eentr-o rela\u0163ie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sper c\u0103 \u0163i-am fost util\u0103, <\/p>\n\n\n\n Lorena. <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 \u0163i-a pl\u0103cut acest articol, sus\u0163ine site-ul cu o dona\u0163ie<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n *** ***<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. \u00cen sensul \u00een care el sau ea, sau chiar tu, de ce nu, ne trimi(te)\u021bi problema voastr\u0103 de suflet...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":20018,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22742","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/mailbox-507594_640.jpg?fit=640%2C426&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22742","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22742"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22742\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":22744,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22742\/revisions\/22744"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20018"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22742"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22742"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22742"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}![\"\"](\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\")
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