{"id":22759,"date":"2021-12-28T12:49:20","date_gmt":"2021-12-28T09:49:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=22759"},"modified":"2021-12-28T12:49:21","modified_gmt":"2021-12-28T09:49:21","slug":"rezolutii-realiste-de-anul-nou","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/rezolutii-realiste-de-anul-nou\/","title":{"rendered":"Rezolu\u021bii realiste de Anul Nou"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Salut, internet, <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sunt Lorena Lupu \u0219i \u00een fiecare an am rezolu\u021bii. \u00cen fiecare an inventez apa cald\u0103, dar, ghinion, degeaba o inventez eu, dac\u0103 RADET nu \u021bine cu mine. \u00cen fiecare an, cot la cot cu voi, creez acelea\u0219i rezolu\u021bii fantasmagorice, despre cum voi sl\u0103bi 100 de kg, despre cum voi merge cu regularitate la sal\u0103, despre cum \u00eemi voi face o prezen\u021b\u0103 profi online, despre cum o s\u0103 particip la toate castingurile \u0219i cum voi ob\u021bine rolul vie\u021bii mele. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i mereu \u021beap\u0103. Al\u021bii \u00ee\u0219i propun \u0219i mai mari basme, ca de exemplu: d\u0103 g\u0103seasc\u0103 perechea perfect\u0103, jobul perfect, mina de bani perfect\u0103, s\u0103 educe copilul perfect, \u0219i a\u0219a mai departe. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ca, la finalul urm\u0103torului an, s\u0103 constate c\u0103 sunt \u00een exact acela\u0219i rahat, \u0219i c\u0103 nimic n-a evoluat \u00een nici o direc\u021bie. Iar asta s\u0103 \u00eei fac\u0103 s\u0103 se simt\u0103 absolut oribil. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Drept care, hai s\u0103 fim reali\u0219ti. Hai s\u0103 cre\u0103m rezolu\u021bii pe care le actually putem respecta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

  1. Anul \u0103sta, o s\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nc tot ce am poft\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nc, \u0219i e o decizie asumat\u0103. <\/strong><\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    \u0218tii c\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi place s\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nci? \u0218tii c\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi curg ochii la un kebab, sau la o pizza? OK. Las\u0103 BS cu sl\u0103bitul \u0219i cu dieta, c\u0103 nu e de tine \u0219i nu vei fi niciodat\u0103 omul \u0103la. \u00cen loc s\u0103 te sim\u021bi perpetuu vinovat, m\u0103n\u00e2nc\u0103 c\u00e2t \u00ee\u021bi trebuie, m\u0103n\u00e2nc\u0103 cu poft\u0103 \u0219i bucur\u0103-te de gust. Se nume\u0219te asumare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    2. Anul \u0103sta, o s\u0103 fac shopping ca dementa, \u0219i asta e. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Da, \u0219tiu. C\u00e2\u021bi bani ai economisi, dac\u0103 nu \u021bi-ai dori rochia aia superb\u0103, \u0219i noul parfum Chanel, \u0219i noua palet\u0103 de farduri de la Anastasia, \u0219i noii chilo\u021bi Victoria’s Secret. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Dar hei, e munca ta, \u0218i faptul c\u0103 te duci zi de zi s\u0103 dai tot ce po\u021bi merit\u0103 periodic o r\u0103splat\u0103. \u00cen loc s\u0103 te sim\u021bi perpetuu vinovat de lunga serie de cump\u0103r\u0103turi care \u021bi-au u\u0219urat cardul, zi a\u0219a: Sunt un colec\u021bionar de bucurii, iar chestiile astea sunt bucurii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    \u0218i gata. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Esen\u021bial e s\u0103 pl\u0103te\u0219ti \u00eent\u00e2i facturile curente \u0219i impozitele scadente, s\u0103 nu bat\u0103 potera \u0219i ANAF la u\u0219\u0103, pui la o parte bani de m\u00e2ncare pentru restul lunii, mai pui de o urgen\u021b\u0103 medical\u0103 \u0219i restul se f… cu sete. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    \u0218i cu asumare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    3. Anul \u0103sta, m\u0103 bucur de aspectele pozitive ale jobului meu de kk, nu mai visez s\u0103 fiu CEO<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Jobul \u00een care oamenii sunt pl\u0103ti\u021bi pe ochi frumo\u0219i s-a desfiin\u021bat o dat\u0103 cu supermodelele anilor 90. Azi, c\u00e2nd fiecare prin\u021besic\u0103 are instagram \u0219i face poze arcuit\u0103 grav de spate, modellingul a devenit parodia termenului de odinioar\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    \u00cen plus, doi ani de Covid au masacrat oportunit\u0103\u021bi \u0219i au \u00eenchis companii cu nemiluita. Dac\u0103 e\u0219ti ca mine, cuno\u0219ti mai mul\u021bi \u0219omeri de ultim\u0103 or\u0103 dec\u00e2t angaja\u021bi. Dac\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103 ai un job, \u0219i un cineva dispus s\u0103 dea bani la ANAF, la S\u0103n\u0103tate \u0219i la Pensii pentru tine, te-ai scos. E\u0219ti un om liber. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Ignor-o pe \u0219efa isteric\u0103 sau pe clientul neam prost. C\u00e2nt\u0103-le \u00een g\u00e2nd Da\u021bi-v\u0103 \u00een puuuuulaaa mea, pe melodia lui Deschide u\u0219a, cre\u0219tine. Iei un paycheck? Bravo \u021bie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Ia-l \u00een continuare. \u0218i \u00een timp ce \u00eel iei, caut\u0103 asiduu ceva mai bun, \u0219i perfec\u021bioneaz\u0103-te, s\u0103 fii preg\u0103tit c\u00e2nd apare acel ceva mai bun. Dar nu dispera. Sentimentul de at\u00e2ta se poate acum e real. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    E nevoie doar de asumare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    4. Anul \u0103sta, o s\u0103 port adida\u0219i cu fal\u0103. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    A existat un moment \u00een vie\u021bile noastre, \u00een care ni s-a spus c\u0103 nu e\u0219ti adev\u0103r\u0103ciune de femeie superb\u0103, remarcabil\u0103 \u0219i nemaipomenit\u0103, dac\u0103 nu mergi pe tocuri like a boss. \u0218i ai pantofi cu tocuri. Nu doar c\u0103 \u00eei ai, periodic mai cumperi c\u00e2te unii, \u00een ideea c\u0103 vine acea zi c\u00e2nd o s\u0103 mergi pe tocuri like a boss, \u0219i s\u0103 ai op\u021biuni. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    \u00cen timp ce tu, \u00een via\u021ba ta real\u0103, por\u021bi zi de zi adida\u0219i. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    How about: Frate, sunt o gagic\u0103 de tip adidas, e stilul meu, \u0219i mai d\u0103-le \u00een pl de tocuri? \u0218i din momentul acesta, \u00eemi cump\u0103r doar ceea ce am de g\u00e2nd s\u0103 port? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Via\u021ba se simplific\u0103 mult c\u00e2nd \u00ee\u021bi cumperi doar pantofii pe care \u0219tii c\u0103 \u00eei vei purta. Moment de asumare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    5. Anul \u0103sta, o s\u0103 beau<\/strong> \/ fumez \/ etc \u00een continuare. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Salut, oameni care v\u0103 tot l\u0103sa\u021bi de diverse chestii. V\u0103 l\u0103sa\u021bi de ele pe 2 ianuarie, c\u0103 e inuman s\u0103 te torturezi singur de Revelion, apoi ceda\u021bi pe 4. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Iat\u0103 vin colind\u0103tori cu vestea cea bun\u0103: Errare humanum est, drept care, e ok, s\u0103 ai un viciu, at\u00e2ta timp c\u00e2t tu e\u0219ti la volan, nu el. Po\u021bi doar s\u0103 limitezi dozajul \u0219i s\u0103 cre\u0219ti calitatea. A\u0219a \u00ee\u021bi transformi viciul \u00een experien\u021b\u0103 senzorial\u0103. Cu asumare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    6. Anul \u0103sta, voi da \u0219i rateuri. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    E un lucru minunat s\u0103 urm\u0103re\u0219ti asiduu perfec\u021biunea. Dar asta vine cu genul \u0103la de presiune \u0219i stres de la care se moare \u00een ultima vreme de atac cerebral sau de cord la 35 de ani. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    O rezolu\u021bie realist\u0103 e: voi face c\u00e2t pot, \u0219i uneori, n-o s\u0103 pot. Sunt un om cu puteri limitate, nu un robot, \u0219i \u00eemi pot \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021bi performan\u021bele, dar \u00een limite rezonabile. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    \u0218i soarele va r\u0103s\u0103ri oricum \u0219i m\u00e2ine. Lumin\u00e2nd cu raze bl\u00e2nde momentul t\u0103u de asumare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    7. Anul \u0103sta, o s\u0103-mi bag<\/strong> p \u00een mor\u021bii unora, \u0219i e ok. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Aici intr\u0103 cei care \u00ee\u0219i jur\u0103 c\u0103 se vor purta impecabil, indiferent cu ce exemplare de gigei b\u0103tubili cu bocancul \u00een muf\u0103 au de a face. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Nuuuu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Uneori, e necesar s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi bagi p \u00een mor\u021bii c\u00e2te unuia, \u0219i dup\u0103 un timp, descoperi \u0219i satisfac\u021bia aferent\u0103. \u0218i cum mul\u021bi gigei confund\u0103 polite\u021bea cu fraiereala, momentul surpriz\u0103 al r\u0103bufnirii tale \u00eei va face s\u0103 se g\u00e2ndeasc\u0103 de dou\u0103 ori \u00eenainte s\u0103 se lege de tine data viitoare. Iar asta \u021bine tot de asumare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    8. Anul \u0103sta, o s\u0103 arunc<\/strong> uneori chestii pe jos. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    \u0102\u0103\u0103\u0103, mnu. P\u00e2n\u0103 aici. Arunc\u0103-\u021bi gunoiul la co\u0219, nu fi jigodie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Dac\u0103 toat\u0103 lumea de pe tot p\u0103m\u00e2ntul ar avea o singur\u0103 rezolu\u021bie, \u0219i anume, s\u0103 arunce mereu gunoiul la co\u0219, deja 2022 ar fi un an infinit mai bun \u0219i mai plin de speran\u021b\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Iar asta ar fi tot o asumare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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