{"id":22765,"date":"2021-12-29T12:10:43","date_gmt":"2021-12-29T09:10:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=22765"},"modified":"2021-12-29T12:54:58","modified_gmt":"2021-12-29T09:54:58","slug":"o-admir-pe-dana-nalbaru","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/o-admir-pe-dana-nalbaru\/","title":{"rendered":"O admir pe Dana N\u0103lbaru"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Periodic, Facebook \u00ee\u021bi aduce memories. \u0218i \u00een memories, descoperi discu\u021bii care te-au enervat odinioar\u0103, discu\u021bii \u00een care ai investit nervi, patos \u0219i mor\u021bi\u0219ori de m\u0103micu\u021b\u0103. Unele devin meh, uite pe ce t\u00e2mpenii am luat eu 30 de zile de zucc. Altele te reenerveaz\u0103 la loc \u0219i sim\u021bi nevoia s\u0103 mai spumegi o dat\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se g\u0103sise acum trei ani Adina Alberts, experta \u00een de toate \u0219i \u00een nimic special, s\u0103 se ia de Dana N\u0103lbaru c\u0103 are riduri. Dana N\u0103lbaru fiind fosta vocalist\u0103 a unei trupe din anii 90 pe nume HI-Q, care f\u0103cea furori. Apoi, s-a m\u0103ritat, are nu mai \u0219tiu c\u00e2\u021bi copii, mai multe firme, e ceea ce bunic\u0103-mea ar numi o femeie la casa ei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i alege s\u0103 lase timpul s\u0103 treac\u0103 peste ea \u00eentr-un mod foarte natural, drept care, \u00een prezent, arat\u0103 ca o femeie matur\u0103, trecut\u0103 prin via\u021b\u0103. \u0218i se iau de ea \u021b\u0103r\u0103ncile ca Alberts c\u0103 e ne\u00eengrijit\u0103. Acela\u0219i tip de \u021b\u0103r\u0103nci care se iau \u0219i de Loredana c\u0103 e excesiv de fillerit\u0103 \u0219i botoxat\u0103. Dar pe \u021b\u0103r\u0103ncile astea nicicum nu le po\u021bi satisface. Dac\u0103 nu folose\u0219ti adjuvante, de ce nu? Dac\u0103 le folose\u0219ti, de ce?? La c\u00e2t de ur\u00e2t fac, zici c\u0103 au ele obliga\u021bia s\u0103 te tuf\u0103, \u0219i nu li se scoal\u0103 straponul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mkay. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eu cred \u00een dreptul absolut al fiec\u0103rei femei de a ar\u0103ta cum crede de cuviin\u021b\u0103. Care vrei s\u0103 \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u0219ti natural, spor \u0219i succese pe ramur\u0103. Care vrei s\u0103 \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u0219ti supranatural, \u0219i s\u0103 spargi mii de euro pe toate inova\u021biile chirurgiei \u0219i dermatologiei, spor \u0219i succese pe ramur\u0103. Loredana e zei\u021ba mea \u0219i inten\u021bionez s\u0103 \u00eei calc pe urme c\u00e2nd va fi cazul, dar respect enorm oamenii ca N\u0103lbaru, care pur \u0219i simplu \u00ee\u0219i \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219eaz\u0103 evolu\u021bia natural\u0103. \u0218i asta pentru c\u0103 mai nou, a fi femeie \u0219i a avea o v\u00e2rst\u0103 e noul LGBT. To\u021bi pro\u0219tii planetei simt nevoia s\u0103 arunce cu hate, de parc\u0103 singura menire a unei femei de la o v\u00e2rst\u0103 \u00een sus ar fi s\u0103 pun\u0103 baticul \u00een cap \u0219i s\u0103 spele podele acas\u0103 \u0219i prin institu\u021bii. Se zv\u00e2rcolesc str\u0103mo\u0219ii daci \u0219i sfin\u021bii ortodoc\u0219i \u00een morminte c\u00e2nd o femeie matur\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i arog\u0103 dreptul s\u0103 fie cool. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iar partea care m\u0103 ofenseaz\u0103 personal \u00een tot acest dialog – suficient de mult \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 m\u0103 reumplu de nervi\u0219ori nervo\u0219i pe o m**ial\u0103 care a avut loc acum trei ani – e adjectivul “ne\u00eengrijit\u0103”. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pentru c\u0103 \u0163\u0103r\u0103ncile care folosesc acest termen \u00een\u0163eleg \u00eengrijirea \u00eentr-un singur mod. \u015ei anume, s\u0103 ar\u0103\u0163i la final ca Pamela Anderson \u00een perioada Baywatch. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei eu am primit frecvent titulatura de “ne\u00eengrijit\u0103”, de\u015fi genul meu de frizur\u0103 presupune vizite mai dese la un coafor bun dec\u00e2t orice pleat\u0103 lung\u0103 c\u0103reia \u00eei mai tai din v\u00e2rfuri la c\u00e2teva luni, plus o grij\u0103 constant\u0103 fa\u0163\u0103 de greutate, pentru c\u0103 dac\u0103 sora voastr\u0103 face f\u0103lcu\u0163e, nu are p\u0103r lung s\u0103 le mascheze, \u015fi nici barb\u0103, ca domnii. Orice \u00eenceput de dubl\u0103 b\u0103rbie, pliu sau \u015funculi\u0163\u0103, orice eventual\u0103 atrac\u0163ie gravita\u0163ional\u0103 se vede 3D, din toate direc\u0163iile, \u015fi atunci, trebuie s\u0103 lucrezi mereu la tine \u015fi cu tine, s\u0103 nu apar\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Deci, da, m\u0103 \u00eengrijesc ca o maniac\u0103, dar pentru c\u0103 acest tip de \u00eengrijire nu cadreaz\u0103 cu ideea de p\u0103pu\u015fic\u0103 Barbie a \u0163\u0103r\u0103ncii, m\u0103 ia cu “ce b\u0103ie\u0163oi e asta, ce ne\u00eengrijit\u0103”, de\u015fi are trei gu\u015fe \u015fi eu niciuna. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Probabil c\u0103 \u015fi Dana N\u0103lbaru se \u00eengrije\u015fte. Dar nu \u00een modul \u00een care consider\u0103 \u0163\u0103r\u0103ncile c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 se \u00eengrijeasc\u0103. \u015ei atunci, \u0163\u0103r\u0103ncile populeaz\u0103 spa\u0163iul public cu p\u0103reri nesolicitate pe subiecte care nu sunt de interes public, s\u0103 se justifice **terea de grij\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

O rezolu\u0163ie realist\u0103 pe care ar trebui s-o adopt\u0103m de noul an ar trebui s\u0103 fie asta. S\u0103 accept\u0103m c\u0103 feminitatea aia generic\u0103 e un rol social care li se potrive\u015fte NUMAI ANUMITOR INDIVIDE. A\u015fa cum \u015fi masculinitatea aia generic\u0103, de \u00eencordac de musculatur\u0103, li se potrive\u015fte numai anumitor indivizi, \u015fi e ok. N-o s\u0103 s\u00e2c\u00e2ie nimeni un IT-ist cu tricou negru \u015fi ochelari s\u0103 se bat\u0103 parte-n parte cu Cichicean. Sau cu Cristi D\u0103nile\u0163. aka tot Cichicean. Apropo de Cichicean, Mircea Badea mai exist\u0103? Nu am mai auzit nimic de el de c\u00e2nd d\u0103dea pe post fotografii cu feti\u0163a minor\u0103 a Raluc\u0103i Jensen \u015fi asmu\u0163ea cocalarii la agresiune \u00eempotriva unui copil. Dar divaghez. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei s\u0103 accept\u0103m c\u0103 a fi \u00eengrijit nu e totuna cu a ar\u0103ta cu dou\u0103zeci de ani mai t\u00e2n\u0103r dec\u00e2t e\u015fti. Exist\u0103 produse cosmetice extrem de s\u0103n\u0103toase \u015fi doldora de nutrien\u0163i, dar care nu-\u015fi propun s\u0103 transforme utilizatorul \u00een adolescent, \u015fi exist\u0103 toxina botulinic\u0103 – e exact ce \u00eei spune numele, o toxin\u0103 – care \u015fterge riduri ca o campioan\u0103. Nutri\u0163ia adecvat\u0103 \u015fi rejuvenarea sunt scopuri care se al\u0103tur\u0103 uneori, dar \u00een niciun caz nu se suprapun. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A fi \u00eengrijit nu e totuna cu a ar\u0103ta ca o prin\u0163esic\u0103 de mall. Dimpotriv\u0103: dac\u0103 faci sal\u0103 cu regularitate \u015fi mai ai \u015fi un job, e\u015fti fizic mai \u00eengrijit \u015fi mai tonifiat dec\u00e2t va fi vreodat\u0103 numita prin\u0163esic\u0103, chiar dac\u0103 por\u0163i trening \u015fi o coad\u0103 simpl\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A fi \u00eengrijit nu e totuna cu a z\u00e2mbi dulce \u00een poze. \u00cenc\u0103 m\u0103 apuc\u0103 spumele pe gigeii care intr\u0103 pe o poz\u0103 \u00een care nu z\u00e2mbesc, pentru c\u0103 vreau s\u0103 ar\u0103t machiajul, nu s\u0103 v\u00e2nd o expresie t\u00e2mp\u0103 de curc\u0103 ame\u0163it\u0103 de la vi\u015finele din vi\u015finat\u0103, \u015fi se apuc\u0103 s\u0103 comenteze ampwlea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A fi \u00eengrijit \u0163ine de ac\u0163iunile pe care le \u00eentreprinzi \u00een raport cu identitatea pe care \u0163i-ai definit-o. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iar Dana N\u0103lbaru a ales o identitate de femeie matur\u0103, asumat\u0103, pe care nu o intereseaz\u0103 s\u0103 fie dr\u0103g\u0103la\u015f\u0103 din nici un punct de vedere. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei frankly, abia asta \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 fii mafiot. C\u0103 dac\u0103 ai un medic bun, injec\u0163iile cu botox sunt gata \u00een zece minute. Ultimul botox mi l-am pus \u00eenainte de clipul cf<\/a> \u015fi a fost a\u015fa: doamna doctor, trec \u015fi eu pe la dvs. s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00een\u0163epa\u0163i un pic. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Medicul: OK, m\u00e2ine la unu po\u0163i? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eu: Ce tare, la dou\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 fiu la o \u00eent\u00e2lnire. M\u0103 \u00een\u0163epa\u0163i \u00een drum spre \u00eent\u00e2lnire. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

E fix at\u00e2t de simplu s\u0103-\u0163i pui botox, \u015fi fix at\u00e2t de coios s\u0103 \u00eenfrun\u0163i gura \u0163\u0103r\u0103ncilor, aleg\u00e2nd s\u0103 nu o faci. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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