{"id":22794,"date":"2022-01-10T10:48:38","date_gmt":"2022-01-10T07:48:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=22794"},"modified":"2022-01-10T10:48:39","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T07:48:39","slug":"posta-redactiei-probleme-de-baiat-scund","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/posta-redactiei-probleme-de-baiat-scund\/","title":{"rendered":"Po\u0219ta redac\u021biei: Probleme de b\u0103iat scund"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. \u00cen sensul \u00een care el sau ea, sau chiar tu, de ce nu, ne trimi(te)\u021bi problema voastr\u0103 de suflet pe birou@lorenalupu.com. Noi citim, cuget\u0103m \u0219i analiz\u0103m, apoi propunem o solu\u021bie sau d\u0103m o opinie \u00ceNTR-UN ARTICOL PE BLOG.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sau \u00een consulta\u0163ie privat\u0103, contra cost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Scrisorica de azi spune a\u015fa:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Salut, Lorena, <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Problema mea nu se poate rezolva. Nici nu \u0219tiu de ce te plictisesc cu asta. Poate doar a\u0219a, ca s\u0103 aflu \u0219i perspectiva cuiva din afar\u0103, mai ales cineva analitic \u0219i calculat cum e\u0219ti tu. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Sunt un tip scund \u0219i cu asta cred c\u0103 am spus tot.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Nu ai idee c\u00e2t\u0103 umilin\u021b\u0103 \u00eenghite de la femei un tip scund. C\u00e2te priviri condescendente, ce reac\u021bii sarcastice dac\u0103 vrea s\u0103 fac\u0103 o mi\u0219care, cum te expediaz\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 stea la discu\u021bii, cum te trec instant \u00een friendzone. De\u0219i nu ai cum s\u0103 lucrezi la asta, nu e un defect de caracter \u0219i nu ai cum s\u0103-\u021bi schimbi \u00een\u0103l\u021bimea. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u00cemi doresc o femeie care s\u0103 vad\u0103 dincolo<\/strong> <strong>de aspectul \u0103sta \u0219i nu \u0219tiu unde s-o g\u0103sesc. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Tu ce zici?<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>X. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Drag\u0103 X, <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Eu zic c\u0103 friendzone nu e at\u00e2t de r\u0103u \u0219i nu \u00een\u021beleg de ce se agit\u0103 cei care ajung acolo. Sexul e at\u00e2t de u\u0219or de cump\u0103rat peste tot, pe c\u00e2nd prietenia adev\u0103rat\u0103 e inestimabil\u0103. Orice om care se vaiet\u0103 de friendzone merit\u0103 s\u0103 moar\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 prieteni, \u00eentr-un azil de stat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Exact ca friendzone, \u00een\u0103l\u021bimea ta \u00een sine nu e o problem\u0103. Ce crezi c\u0103 au \u00een comun Danny de Vito, Peter Dinklage \u0219i defunctul, dar etern radiantul Prince, aka the Symbol? Exact. Un imens succes la mase. \u0218i la mese. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">De c\u00e2te ori apar \/ ap\u0103reau pe micile, mijlociile \u0219i marile ecrane, se holba lumea cu respira\u021bia \u00eentret\u0103iat\u0103, de zici c\u0103 au alergat cinci ture de IOR cu masca sanitar\u0103 pe fa\u021b\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">De ce, c\u00e2nd \u00eei vede pe numi\u021bii, lumea nu simte nevoia s\u0103 comenteze sarcastic? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pentru c\u0103 fiecare s-a remarcat \u00een primul r\u00e2nd prin talent, carism\u0103, personalitate \u0219i excelen\u021ba presta\u021biei, care \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103tor apar\u021binea unei persoane mici de \u00een\u0103l\u021bime. Nu s-au definit ca ni\u0219te minioni care mai f\u0103ceau ni\u0219te chestii, ci invers, ca ni\u0219te creatori talenta\u021bi, originali, captivan\u021bi care, printre altele, erau  minioni. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Din acest punct de vedere, mailul t\u0103u e incomplet. \u0218tiu despre tine doar c\u0103 e\u0219ti scund \u0219i c\u0103 ai face amor, dar nu partikip\u0103 combatantele. Profund neinteresant. To\u021bi b\u0103rba\u021bii vor s\u0103 f f\u0103r\u0103 obliga\u021bii \u0219i toate femeile vor s\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nce f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 se \u00eengra\u0219e. Not gonna happen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 \u0219i imaginea pe care o transmi\u021bi poten\u021bialelor juliete e la fel de incomplet\u0103: &#8220;sunt scund \u0219i a\u0219 f ceva&#8221;, nu te mira c\u0103 nu se creeaz\u0103 conexiuni. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">De aceea, propun o schimbare a focusului. De la a te justifica \u015fi a te scuza infinit c\u0103 e\u015fti scund, how about la a te purta ca \u015fi cum factorul \u00een\u0103l\u0163ime nu exist\u0103 \u015fi de a livra energie pozitiv\u0103, excelen\u0163\u0103 \u00een ceea ce faci \u015fi good vibes? Oamenii nu vor uita niciodat\u0103 modul \u00een care-i faci s\u0103 se simt\u0103, spune un cli\u015feu siropos. Dar adev\u0103rat. Livreaz\u0103 good feels &amp; good energy \u015fi oamenii vor uita ce \u00een\u0103l\u0163ime ai. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Also: rezolv\u0103-\u0163i nevoia de chestia aceea ru\u015finoas\u0103 cu niscai doamne de pe anuntul.ro \u015fi nu-\u0163i mai infesta rela\u0163iile interumane cu nevoia de a co\u0163\u0103i \u015fi tu ceva. Cu c\u00e2t e\u015fti mai calm, mai relaxat \u015fi tragi mai pu\u0163in de doamne \u015fi domni\u015foare, cu at\u00e2t ele vor fi atrase de tine. Femeile resping disperarea insistent\u0103, agasant\u0103 \u015fi nedemn\u0103 (care vorbe\u015fte doar despre lips\u0103 de op\u0163iuni, indiferent de \u00een\u0103l\u0163imea combatantului), dar sunt atrase de relaxarea \u015fi dr\u0103g\u0103l\u0103\u015fenia unui tip care \u015ftie s\u0103 fie amiabil \u015fi fermec\u0103tor, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 par\u0103 c\u0103 vrea neap\u0103rat ceva. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">la 157 cm \u00een\u0103l\u0163ime, Prince a fost idolul tuturor femeilor din genera\u0163ia lui. \u00centr-o perioad\u0103 \u00een care standardul de frumuse\u0163e masculin\u0103 era Gigelul \u00eenalt, solid, musculos, cu p\u0103r pe piept, apt s\u0103 mute singur mobila \u00een cas\u0103 c\u00e2nd decide nevasta c\u0103 vrea s\u0103 redecoreze. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Deci, se poate. Dac\u0103 ai cu ce. \u00cen primul r\u00e2nd, de la g\u00e2t \u00een sus. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sper c\u0103 \u0163i-am fost util\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lorena. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 \u0163i-a pl\u0103cut acest articol,&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\">sus\u0163ine site-ul cu o dona\u0163ie<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-14577\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<br>Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? 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