{"id":22805,"date":"2022-01-13T13:01:13","date_gmt":"2022-01-13T10:01:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=22805"},"modified":"2022-01-13T13:13:28","modified_gmt":"2022-01-13T10:13:28","slug":"despre-nuduri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/despre-nuduri\/","title":{"rendered":"Despre nuduri"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

S-a iscat o minirafal\u0103 \u00een comentarii, ieri, c\u00e2nd am scris despre profa care \u015fi-a dep\u0103\u015fit amplu atribu\u0163iile pedagogice c\u00e2nd tot grupul ei de elevi de pe Whatsapp a f\u0103cut cuno\u015ftin\u0163\u0103, complet nesolicitat, cu costumul Evei, cel de dinainte de frunz\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cu ce am sup\u0103rat masele? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cu afirma\u0163ia c\u0103 sungurele femei care au vreun motiv s\u0103 trimit\u0103 nuduri sunt cele care au profesii adulte. Pentru c\u0103 a\u015fa \u00ee\u015fi extind portofoliul \u015fi baza de clien\u0163i. A\u015fa cum un dezvoltator imobiliar are motive solide s\u0103 publice \u015fi s\u0103 prezinte imagini cu blocurile pe care le construie\u015fte. A\u015fa cum un restaurant are motive solide s\u0103 publice \u015fi s\u0103 prezinte imagini cu m\u00e2nc\u0103rurile apetisante din meniu. \u015ei a\u015fa mai departe. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 jobul t\u0103u nu implic\u0103 oferte de acest tip, nu ai nici un motiv s\u0103 trimi\u0163i poze cu tine \u00een pielea goal\u0103 absolut nim\u0103nui. \u015ei nu, nu m\u0103 refer doar la femei. \u00cenc\u0103 nu am primit un d pick – iar \u00een perioada \u00een care reclama cu mine f\u0103cea furori, primeam c\u00e2te cincizeci pe zi – care s\u0103 m\u0103 fac\u0103 s\u0103 spun: vai ce bine, ce frumuse\u0163e f\u0103r\u0103 margini, exact chestia asta lipsea \u00een via\u0163a mea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 vreau s\u0103 fac cuno\u015ftin\u0163\u0103 intim cu anatomia cuiva, m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 live & unplugged, fa\u0163\u0103 \u00een fa\u0163\u0103, sau m\u0103 rog, fa\u0163\u0103-n spate, etc. Dac\u0103 nu m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 s\u0103 fac cuno\u015ftin\u0163\u0103 intim cu anatomia cuiva, orice imagine de acest tip pe care mi-o bag\u0103 pe g\u00e2t (metaforic, desigur, c\u0103 fizic nu \u00eei pa\u015fte oportunitatea nici dac\u0103 renasc de zece ori cu \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u0163iri) e nesolicitat\u0103 \u015fi, din acest an, o s\u0103 plictisesc circa de poli\u0163ie din vecini cu extrem de multe pl\u00e2ngeri. E singurul mod \u00een care \u00eei dezv\u0103\u0163\u0103m pe gigei s\u0103 ne mai trimit\u0103 ce nu dorim s\u0103 vedem. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar \u00een cazul fetelor, mai ales \u00een \u0163\u0103ri \u00eenapoiate cultural ca a noastr\u0103, orice imagine nud trimis\u0103 unui h\u0103ndr\u0103l\u0103u – sau mai multora – te poate expune la \u015fantaj – dac\u0103 nu faci aia, aia \u015fi aia te pun pe net – te p\u00e2r\u0103sc \u00een fa\u0163a familiei – te fac de r\u00e2s la \u015fcoal\u0103 – la munc\u0103 – etc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Doar pentru c\u0103 h\u0103ndr\u0103l\u0103ul pare c\u0103 te place ACUM, nu e o garan\u0163ie c\u0103 te va pl\u0103cea \u015fi mai \u00eencolo, sau c\u0103 nu se va schimba radical din secunda \u00een care te are la m\u00e2n\u0103 cu poze deocheate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ca s\u0103 nu subliniez o alt\u0103 latur\u0103 a arogan\u0163ei masculine: colectarea de trofee pe r\u0103boj. “Facem pariu c\u0103 o conving \u015fi pe g\u00e2sca asta s\u0103 \u00eemi dea poze nud?” “Dar cine e?” se intereseaz\u0103 tovar\u0103\u015ful, belind ochii lacom la nurii \u00eempricinatei. “Una de la mine de la \u015fcoal\u0103, nici n-o bag \u00een seam\u0103, dar e proast\u0103 \u015fi face orice dac\u0103 \u00eei spun. Uite, la pariu c\u0103 ne trimite nuduri, dac\u0103 \u00eei cer?” <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tu \u00eei trimi\u0163i nuduri pentru c\u0103 ai impresia, naiv, c\u0103 a\u015fa cimentezi atrac\u0163ia dintre voi. \u0102la groh\u0103ie de r\u00e2s cu ga\u015fca la bere \u015fi se valideaz\u0103 \u00een ochii lor, ce tare e el c\u0103 uite, face din femei ce vrea mu\u015fchiul lui. \u015ei zece gigei dobitoci \u00ee\u0163i analizeaz\u0103 corpul, cum te-ar pune \u015fi ce \u0163i-ar face. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Desigur, dac\u0103 ai un job adult, unde genul \u0103sta de comentarii \u015fi priviri \u00ee\u0163i aduc mii de euro lunar, merit\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar dac\u0103 e\u015fti Vasilica de la magazinul din col\u0163, ai un \u015fef care se d\u0103 \u015fi el la tine \u015fi abia a\u015fteapt\u0103 o mic\u0103 vulnerabilitate care s\u0103-i dea ap\u0103 la moar\u0103 s\u0103 te \u015fantajeze \u015fi el, \u015fi eventual o \u015fef\u0103 de 40 de ani divor\u0163at\u0103 \u015fi frustrat\u0103, care crede c\u0103 c***ele tinere \u015fi frumoase ca tine sunt singurele vinovate c\u0103 a p\u0103r\u0103sit-o b\u0103rbatul, genul \u0103sta de expunere nu \u00ee\u0163i va face dec\u00e2t \u015fi mai mult r\u0103u. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Regula de aur a nudurilor este: nu le trimite \u015fi punct. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cine vrea s\u0103 vad\u0103 cum ar\u0103\u0163i f\u0103r\u0103 fe\u015f\u0103nul t\u0103u fabulos, s\u0103 fac\u0103 bine s\u0103 vin\u0103 s\u0103 constate \u00een persoan\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Asta e p\u0103rerea mea legat\u0103 de nuduri. De aceea nu am trimis nuduri niciodat\u0103 nim\u0103nui \u015fi nici nu inten\u0163ionez vreodat\u0103 s\u0103 trimit, indiferent c\u00e2t de mare ar fi amoarea pitoresc\u0103 \u015fi mizericordioas\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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