{"id":22888,"date":"2022-02-06T11:16:20","date_gmt":"2022-02-06T08:16:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=22888"},"modified":"2022-02-06T11:19:52","modified_gmt":"2022-02-06T08:19:52","slug":"romanii-din-danemarca-si-bebelusul-abuzat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/romanii-din-danemarca-si-bebelusul-abuzat\/","title":{"rendered":"Rom\u00e2nii din Danemarca \u015fi bebelu\u015ful abuzat"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Mai \u0163ine\u0163i minte familia Bodnariu din Norvegia? Circul de nedescris cu care au \u0163inut ocupat\u0103 social media luni \u00een \u015fir, cu occidentul cel r\u0103u \u015fi decadent care fur\u0103 copiii de rom\u00e2na\u015f, \u015fi to\u0163i dacii verzi indigna\u0163i p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een din\u0163i, cum \u00ee\u015fi permit, domle, nemernicii de vestici s\u0103 ia copiii omului, ba chiar s-a ajuns la abera\u0163ii de genul \u0103vai, copiii \u0103ia sunt r\u0103pi\u0163i pentru versiunea a) pia\u0163a neagr\u0103 a adop\u0163iilor, versiunea b) p**ofili norvegieni versiunea c) trafic de persoane versiunea d) trafic de organe. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103, Bodnariii \u00een\u015fi\u015fi s-au spart \u00een interogatoriu, \u015fi culmea, pe Antena 3, care, s\u0103 vede\u0163i ironie, \u00eei intervieva s\u0103-i ajute. C\u0103 da, \u00eei batem, dar nu grav, c\u0103 \u00een Rom\u00e2nia n-ar fi violen\u0163\u0103. C\u00e2nd au ouat-o pe asta, au oferit confesiunea faptei, care practic anula orice prezum\u0163ie de nevinov\u0103\u0163ie. Au fost dec\u0103zu\u0163i din drepturile p\u0103rinte\u015fti, copiii au fost adopta\u0163i de familii norvegiene – \u015fi nu to\u0163i cinci de o singur\u0103 familie, pentru c\u0103 dac\u0103 nu faci fa\u0163\u0103 depedeve nervos \u015fi emo\u0163ional la cinci copii, te opre\u015fti din f\u0103cut copii la momentul potrivit, nu ajungi s\u0103-i ba\u0163i \u015fi s\u0103-\u0163i descarci pe ei frustr\u0103rile \u015fi stresul. Bodnariii au drept de vizit\u0103 de dou\u0103 ori pe s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 \u015fi \u00eentre timp, nu li se mai aude gura deloc. Au \u00een\u0163eles c\u0103 a nu bate copiii \u00eenseamn\u0103 exact asta: a nu bate copiii. F\u0103r\u0103: dar numai o palm\u0103 pe fund, dom judec\u0103tor, \u015fi cu cureaua, nu cu parul. \u015ei am dat numai la cap, s\u0103 nu \u015fchiop\u0103teze. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Treaba e simpl\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Te mu\u0163i \u00een vest. \u00ce\u0163i plac salariile bune, eficien\u0163a serviciilor, polite\u0163ea cu care e\u015fti tratat, faptul c\u0103 Netflix are filme pe care nu le vezi \u00een Rom\u00e2nia \u015fi a\u015fa mai departe. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Odat\u0103 mutat \u00een vest, trebuie s\u0103 \u00een\u0163elegi c\u0103 nu ai doar drepturi europene, ci \u015fi obliga\u0163ii europene. Printre ele: nu \u00ee\u0163i desfigurezi nevasta \u015fi nu \u00ee\u0163i desfigurezi copiii. Altfel, nevasta are tot dreptul s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i ia tot ce ai \u00eentr-un proces \u015fi tot altfel, statul nu te las\u0103 s\u0103-\u0163i transformi \u015fi copiii \u00een demen\u0163i abuzivi \u015fi traumatiza\u0163i ca tine, ci \u0163i-i ia \u015fi-i d\u0103 unora care au r\u0103bdare cu ei \u015fi \u00eei vor cre\u015fte calm \u015fi echilibrat, s\u0103 ias\u0103 din ei persoane calme \u015fi echilibrate, bine integrate social, nu perpetuatori ai violen\u0163ei \u015fi frustr\u0103rilor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mi se pare normal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Acum, iar rage toat\u0103 social media, pentru c\u0103 bebelu\u015ful familiei Rotundu, de cinci s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni, a ajuns la spital cu hemoragie cerebral\u0103 \u00een Danemarca \u015fi, desigur, p\u0103rin\u0163ii au fost aresta\u0163i imediat pentru violen\u0163\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu, domle, eu cunosc pe ta-su \u015fi m\u0103-sa, sunt oameni ca lumea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 lansez un topic, comentariile sunt pline v\u00e2rf de oameni ai c\u0103ror p\u0103rin\u0163i erau oameni foarte ca lumea \u00een societate, de fa\u0163\u0103 cu al\u0163i adul\u0163i, de p\u0103rerea c\u0103rora le p\u0103sa, dar care, acas\u0103, cu copiii, \u00ee\u015fi d\u0103deau arama pe fa\u0163\u0103, pentru c\u0103 nu considerau c\u0103 vor exista consecin\u0163e. Pentru c\u0103 nu se g\u00e2ndeau c\u0103 respectivii copii sunt viitori adul\u0163i care nu vor uita modul \u00een care au fost abuza\u0163i. \u015ei o caracteristic\u0103 comun\u0103 a acestor p\u0103rin\u0163i violen\u0163i e c\u0103 to\u0163i, acum, neag\u0103 cu ferocitate \u015fi neru\u015finare modul \u00een care te-au tratat \u015fi \u00ee\u0163i spun ni\u015fte basme cu o copil\u0103rie idilic\u0103 fake, pentru care aproape c\u0103-\u0163i vine \u0163ie acum s\u0103 le arzi vreo dou\u0103, diferen\u0163a fiind c\u0103 tu ai evoluat \u015fi ai \u00een\u0163eles \u00eentre timp c\u0103 violen\u0163a nu e o solu\u0163ie la nimic. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u0103 duci un bebelu\u015f la spital cu hemoragie cerebral\u0103, zb\u0103t\u00e2ndu-se \u00eentre via\u0163\u0103 \u015fi moarte, e o dovad\u0103 c\u0103 nu e de tine s\u0103 ai copii. \u015ei o dovad\u0103 c\u0103 de fapt protec\u0163ia copilului \u00ee\u0163i face de fapt un serviciu c\u00e2nd \u0163i-l ia. Dac\u0103 \u00eel abuzezi \u00een halul \u0103sta c\u00e2nd e un bebelu\u015f mic \u015fi pufos, doamne fere\u015fte ce o s\u0103-i faci c\u00e2nd \u00ee\u0163i deseneaz\u0103 cu carioci pe pere\u0163i, c\u00e2nd \u00ee\u0163i d\u0103r\u00e2m\u0103 cutiile cu farduri de la Sephora, 300 de lei bucata, \u015fi le face praf \u015fi pulbere, sau c\u00e2nd descoperi c\u0103 a f\u0103cut art\u0103 abstract\u0103 pe oglind\u0103 cu rujul t\u0103u de ocazii speciale de la Dior. Sau, poate c\u0103 nu a f\u0103cut el nimic r\u0103u, dar ai avut tu o zi proast\u0103 la munc\u0103, ai avut clien\u0163i idio\u0163i, iar acum, te r\u0103zbuni pe el, c\u0103 e \u00een drum. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Chiar nu m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 s\u0103 vin\u0103 dacii verzi s\u0103-mi explice \u00een comentarii c\u0103 e tradi\u0163ie neao\u015f\u0103 rom\u00e2neasc\u0103 s\u0103 dai copilul cu capul de pere\u0163i de mic, s\u0103 aib\u0103 antrenament pentru b\u0103t\u0103ile de mai t\u00e2rziu. Da, dac\u0103 bebelu\u015ful t\u0103u ajunge la spital cu hemoragie cerebral\u0103, \u015fi singurii adul\u0163i din vie\u0163i\u015foara lui era\u0163i voi, nu s-a pogor\u00e2t duhul nesf\u00e2nt, e cazul s\u0103 fii arestat \u015fi s\u0103 r\u0103spunzi \u00een fa\u0163a legii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Punct. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

F\u0103r\u0103 alte patriotisme, c\u0103 vai, vestul oprim\u0103 rom\u00e2nii \u015fi vai, ne iau copiii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 vestul oprima rom\u00e2nii, nu le d\u0103dea un loc de munc\u0103 \u015fi \u015fansa unui trai civilizat, \u00eei f\u0103cea pachet \u015fi-i trimitea \u00eenapoi. Vestul nu te oprim\u0103, dimpotriv\u0103, \u00ee\u0163i ap\u0103r\u0103 copiii s\u0103 nu-i oprimi tu, dac\u0103 e cazul. Pur \u015fi simplu nu crede c\u0103 tu l-ai f\u0103cut, tu \u00eel omori. \u00cel va scoate din ghearele tale, dac\u0103 vede c\u0103 reprezin\u0163i un pericol pentru el, a\u015fa cum ar fi normal s\u0103 fac\u0103 \u015fi protec\u0163ia copilului din \u0163ara noastr\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu mai vre\u0163i s\u0103 v\u0103 ia vestul copiii? Face\u0163i-i cu responsabilitate, asigura\u0163i-v\u0103 c\u0103 sunte\u0163i ok emo\u0163ional \u015fi material, nu face\u0163i mai mul\u0163i dec\u00e2t suporta\u0163i s\u0103 \u00eengriji\u0163i \u015fi s\u0103 educa\u0163i, \u015fi important, nu da\u0163i \u00een ei. Bagajul vostru de sechele emo\u0163ionale nu trebuie dat mai departe. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Dac\u0103 \u0163i-a pl\u0103cut acest articol, nu \u00eemi trimite un mesaj privat despre asta. \u00a0Sus\u0163ine site-ul cu o dona\u0163ie<\/a>.<\/strong> Dac\u0103 nu \u0163i-a pl\u0103cut, nu \u00eemi trimite mesaj privat despre asta. Po\u0163i dona \u015fi pentru a propune un subiect. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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