{"id":22926,"date":"2022-02-17T10:55:29","date_gmt":"2022-02-17T07:55:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=22926"},"modified":"2022-02-17T10:55:30","modified_gmt":"2022-02-17T07:55:30","slug":"unora-nu-le-place-bucurestiul","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/unora-nu-le-place-bucurestiul\/","title":{"rendered":"Unora nu le place Bucure\u015ftiul"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Eu sunt o fat\u0103 de mic ora\u015f. \u00cen micile ora\u0219e, cei mai mul\u021bi oameni au idei pu\u021bine \u0219i fixe legate de cum trebuie s\u0103 decurg\u0103 via\u021ba. Te na\u0219ti, cre\u0219ti, cau\u021bi o slujb\u0103, te c\u0103s\u0103tore\u0219ti, faci copii, \u0219i la un moment dat, mori. Simplu, f\u0103r\u0103 variabile \u0219i sinuozit\u0103\u021bi. \u0218i au un mare dispre\u021b fa\u021b\u0103 de cei care se abat c\u00e2tu\u0219i de pu\u021bin de la traseu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aceia\u0219i oameni aveau mereu de comentat, \u0219i mereu negativ, c\u00e2nd venea vorba de Bucure\u0219ti. Ce ora\u0219 jegos, g\u0103l\u0103gios, gr\u0103bit. Cum pot, dom’le, s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 oamenii acolo? Ce mitici lipsi\u0163i de maniere. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De cum m-am mutat \u00een Bucure\u015fti, chit c\u0103 mi se vorbise despre el numai de r\u0103u, m-am \u00eendr\u0103gostit nebune\u015fte \u015fi uite c\u0103, de\u015fi au trecut anii, tot nu-mi imaginez via\u0163a altundeva. O s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 de vacan\u0163\u0103 la un hotel pet friendly? Ok. Mutat definitiv? Heck no. Cu amendamentul c\u0103 via\u0163a ne-a \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at ca niciodat\u0103 s\u0103 nu spunem niciodat\u0103, pentru c\u0103 nu \u015ftii ce complex de \u00eemprejur\u0103ri te vor sili s\u0103 faci exact ce spuneai c\u0103 nu ai face. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De obicei, c\u00e2nd vorbesc despre escroci, arogan\u0163i \u015fi impostori, vizitatorii tind s\u0103 se refere la primii oameni cu care au interac\u0163iune c\u00e2nd coboar\u0103 din tren sau maxitaxi. Nenea cu taxi privat care cere 100 de lei pe kilometru parcurs, tanti covrig\u0103reas\u0103 pe care o neglijeaz\u0103 so\u0163ul acas\u0103 \u015fi care se r\u0103zbun\u0103 r\u0103stindu-se la clien\u0163i, \u015fmecherul care se crede mai \u015fmecher dac\u0103, \u00een loc s\u0103 te ocoleasc\u0103, se ciocne\u015fte de tine \u015fi te \u00eenjur\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar de multe ori, ace\u015fti indivizi nici m\u0103car nu sunt bucure\u015fteni. Se poart\u0103 a\u015fa pentru c\u0103 au auzit zvonuri cum c\u0103 Bucure\u015ftiul e de kkt, \u015fi au dedus c\u0103 merge \u015fi a\u015fa. E cumva ca falsa \u00eengrijorare a p\u0103rin\u0163ilor de LGBT care \u00ee\u015fi iau odraslele la suduit \u00een ideea c\u0103 mam\u0103, ce nasol o s\u0103-i trateze al\u0163ii. \u015ei care nu par s\u0103 \u00een\u0163eleag\u0103 c\u0103, aleg\u00e2nd o atitudine agresiv\u0103, devin parte din problem\u0103, nu din solu\u0163ie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bucure\u015ftenii care nu au complexe de provenien\u0163\u0103, cei autentici, rar se comport\u0103 bovin, de obicei sunt relaxa\u0163i \u015fi au un umor savuros \u015fi \u015ffichuitor, pe care nu ai cum s\u0103 nu-l iube\u015fti. Sigur, \u0103\u015ftia nu defileaz\u0103 prin gar\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 motiv, deci nu \u00eei \u00eent\u00e2lne\u015fti de cum cobori. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u0103i da, Lorena, dar to\u0163i colegii mei care au intrat la facultate la Bucure\u015fti s-au schimbat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu ora\u015ful e de vin\u0103. Ora\u015ful face doar ceea ce e menit s\u0103 fac\u0103: \u00ee\u0163i ofer\u0103 o arie de oportunit\u0103\u0163i extrem de tentante, \u015fi descoperi c\u0103 po\u0163i face bani mai mul\u0163i dec\u00e2t acas\u0103 la Cucuie\u0163ii de Deal, c\u0103 po\u0163i avea o arie mai extins\u0103 de colaboratori sau de colabor\u0103ri, c\u0103, odat\u0103 ce ai banii, po\u0163i investi \u00een mai multe \u015fi tot a\u015fa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De vin\u0103 e ceea ce o s\u0103 numim \u00een cele ce urmeaz\u0103 prostia crunt\u0103 a tinere\u0163ii. De care m-am f\u0103cut \u015fi eu vinovat\u0103 \u00een oarecare m\u0103sur\u0103 dup\u0103 ce am dat de succes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2nd te treze\u015fti c\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i merge bine, mai bine dec\u00e2t oric\u00e2nd p\u00e2n\u0103 atunci, te pocne\u015fte o \u00eenfumurare direct propor\u0163ional\u0103 cu umilin\u0163a pe care ai \u00eendurat-o p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een acel moment. \u015ei, \u00een be\u0163ia impresiei c\u0103 e\u015fti mai presus de orice gre\u015feal\u0103, de vreme ce iat\u0103, \u00ee\u0163i merge bine \u00een urma eforturilor tale, tinzi s\u0103 r\u0103ne\u015fti oameni care nu merit\u0103 asta. \u015ei aici nu m\u0103 refer la gigeii care latr\u0103 la post\u0103ri pe social media sau la agaricii care, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 le dai tu vreun indiciu c\u0103 e cazul, decid c\u0103 ei te vor f \u015fi \u00eencep s\u0103 te frece iritant la melodie. Pe \u0103\u015ftia i-a\u015f gaza ca la Holocaust \u015fi i-a\u015f face s\u0103pun, dac\u0103 nu ar fi prea mare deranjul. \u015ei nu din \u00eenfumurare ci, pur \u015fi simplu, pentru c\u0103 modul \u00een care \u00ee\u0163i paraziteaz\u0103 timpul \u015fi r\u0103bdarea e o crim\u0103 \u00een sine. Subliniez asta pentru c\u0103 m\u0103 a\u015ftept s\u0103 apar\u0103 Gunoi Uman 1, 45 \u015fi 678965 s\u0103 bat\u0103 c\u00e2mpii c\u0103 da, \u00een \u00eenfumurarea ta m-ai respins pe mine, care \u00ee\u0163i postam 47890 de irelevan\u0163e stupide \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 haz \u00een fiecare zi. Da, te-am respins pentru c\u0103 e timpul meu \u015fi nu \u0163i-l datorez doar pe baz\u0103 de vrut cu tot dinadinsul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u0103 refer la faptul c\u0103 am r\u0103nit oameni care puseser\u0103 efort autentic \u00een a m\u0103 sprijini \u015fi care crezuser\u0103 \u00een mine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar asta nu e vina ora\u015fului, cum spuneam. Ora\u015ful \u00ee\u0163i ofer\u0103 oportunit\u0103\u0163ile. Partea de maturizare \u015fi gestionare a succesului \u00een a\u015fa fel, \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2i om \u00een tot acel timp, \u0163ine deja de fiecare individ \u00een parte. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iar legat de viteza cu care se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 lucrurile? OK. Dar rezultanta este promptitudinea serviciilor de care ai nevoie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei legat de miticism, adic\u0103 nepolite\u0163ea celebr\u0103 a bucure\u015ftenilor? Mie mi se pare o dovad\u0103 mai mare de nepolite\u0163e modul \u00een care micul provincial consider\u0103 c\u0103 are autoritatea s\u0103 le spun\u0103 altora ce s\u0103 fac\u0103, s\u0103 se \u00eensoare \/ m\u0103rite, s\u0103 fac\u0103 copii, ba chiar s\u0103 \u00eei judece cu termeni aspri dac\u0103 lucrurile astea nu se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103. Da, sunt bovine b\u0103g\u0103cioase \u015fi \u00een Bucure\u015fti; dar \u00eentr-un num\u0103r mult mai mic, \u015fi de obicei, \u0103\u015ftia sunt bucure\u015fteni de import. \u00cen general, urma\u015ful autentic de mic parizian e foarte laissez-faire, \u00een ideea c\u0103 dac\u0103 nu m\u0103 afecteaz\u0103 direct ce faci tu cu via\u0163a ta, de ce s\u0103 m\u0103 bag. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Partea bun\u0103, \u00een final e c\u0103, oric\u00e2t de tare ai pretinde c\u0103 ur\u0103\u015fti Bucure\u015ftiul, nu o s\u0103 spui niciodat\u0103 nu, dac\u0103 apare vreo oportunitate. \u015ei, pentru c\u0103 Bucure\u015ftiul e Bucure\u015fti, mereu apare c\u00e2te o oportunitate, de unde nici nu te a\u015ftep\u0163i. Acesta e farmecul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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