Te citesc cu sfin\u021benie din clasa a 10-a, de c\u00e2nd ne-a zis profa de rom\u00e2n\u0103 c\u0103 “Dona Juana” nu e pentru v\u00e2rsta noastr\u0103, a\u0219a c\u0103 am cump\u0103rat-o \u0219i citit-o oricum. \u0218i, pentru c\u0103 te admir mult, ast\u0103zi apelez \u0219i eu la po\u0219ta redac\u021biei pentru un sfat de la tine.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Am 23 de ani, am terminat cu note relativ mari un liceu considerat de elit\u0103, \u00een cur\u00e2nd termin \u0219i arhitectura \u0219i \u00eemi place s\u0103 cred c\u0103 nu sunt proast\u0103. Cu toate astea, sunt dureros de incult\u0103. O fi vina mea, a sistemului, probabil am\u00e2ndou\u0103, habar nu am. Dar m\u0103 uit la genera\u021bia p\u0103rin\u021bilor mei sau la a ta, adic\u0103 la cei care au prins o educa\u021bie mai serioas\u0103, \u0219i v\u0103d ni\u0219te oameni care, de bine, de r\u0103u, au o baz\u0103 de cultur\u0103 general\u0103 \u0219i pot s\u0103 lege coerent dou\u0103 vorbe. \u0218i apoi m\u0103 uit la mine, care nu \u0219tiu o boab\u0103 de istorie sau de economie \u0219i nu \u00een\u021beleg nimic din politic\u0103. Nu \u0219tiu nimic despre nimic, \u00een ultimul timp am \u00eenceput s\u0103 fac un efort s\u0103 citesc \u0219tirile \u0219i m\u0103 simt dep\u0103\u0219it\u0103 de tot ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n A\u0219 vrea s\u0103 schimb asta, a\u0219 vrea \u00een\u021beleg ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u00een jurul meu ca s\u0103 pot fi un cet\u0103\u021bean \u0219i un profesionist responsabil. \u0218i ca s\u0103 pot avea conversa\u021bii despre altceva dec\u00e2t Bravo ai stil, lol. Unde \u0219i cum m\u0103 sf\u0103tuie\u0219ti s\u0103 \u00eencep?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n tl;dr sunt o g\u00e2sc\u0103 ignorant\u0103, cum fac<\/strong> s\u0103 nu mai fiu o g\u00e2sc\u0103 ignorant\u0103?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Mul\u021bumesc,<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n X<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Drag\u0103 X, <\/p>\n\n\n\n Eu cred c\u0103 te subestimezi. Mailul t\u0103u e mai corect gramatical, mai coerent \u0219i mai pu\u021bin dezl\u00e2nat dec\u00e2t 70% din mailurile pe care le primesc la po\u0219ta redac\u021biei \u0219i dec\u00e2t 99,9% din comentariile de pe YouTube \u0219i Facebook. \u0218i al doilea avantaj al t\u0103u este c\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi dai seama c\u0103 ai nevoie de educa\u021bie suplimentar\u0103, pe c\u00e2nd analfabe\u021bii incapabili de deduc\u021bie logic\u0103 elementar\u0103 sunt m\u00e2ndri de de\u0219tept\u0103ciunea lor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Apoi, hai s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi dezv\u0103lui un mic secret. La 23 de ani, nici eu nu \u0219tiam mare lucru. Sau, chiar dac\u0103 \u0219tiam, nu aveam viteza de reac\u021bie \u0219i stima de sine necesare pentru a folosi \u00een conversa\u021bii, \u00een special \u00een divergen\u021be de opinie, ceea ce \u0219tiam. E un proces de maturizare \u0219i acumulare, pe care trebuie s\u0103-l sus\u021bii prin lectur\u0103 constant\u0103, aten\u021bie la nuan\u021b\u0103, \u0219i, important, aten\u021bie la discrepan\u021ba dintre ce predic\u0103 oamenii \u0219i ce fac \u00een realitate. Pentru c\u0103, dac\u0103 cite\u0219ti o carte de istorie sau una de economie doar ca un cumul de date, le ui\u021bi. Dac\u0103 le cite\u0219ti urm\u0103rind interesele \u0219i motiva\u021biile care au declan\u0219at respectivele fenomene, \u00eencepi s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegi via\u021ba \u00een general, \u0219i atunci, le re\u021bii altfel \u0219i le utilizezi c\u00e2nd ai nevoie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dup\u0103 aceea. S\u0103 te cultivi doar ca s\u0103 fii cultivat \u0219i s\u0103 te lauzi cui trece pe acolo cu cultura ta nu e absolut deloc simpatic, nici pentru tine, nici pentru cei \u00een cauz\u0103. Cunosc c\u00e2teva specimene, \u0219i sunt insuportabile. Propun urm\u0103toarea re\u021bet\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cencepe cu ghiduri generale care con\u021bin schi\u021be ale principalelor perioade istorice, structuri economice, sau ce alt domeniu vrei s\u0103 explorezi. Apoi, las\u0103 curiozitatea s\u0103 te conduc\u0103 spre c\u0103r\u021bi, texte \u0219i articole mai specifice, care detaliaz\u0103 \u0219i explic\u0103. \u0218i \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 meditezi la modul \u00een care lucrurile pe care le descoperi astfel se aplic\u0103 \u00een via\u021ba de zi cu zi. Asta \u00ee\u021bi va forma cel mai important instrument al omului: g\u00e2ndirea critic\u0103. \u0218i o s\u0103 iei multe banuri pe Facebook c\u00e2nd va veni c\u00e2te un retardat s\u0103 abereze, iar tu nu vei avea r\u0103bdare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n OK. Glumesc. Partea serioas\u0103 este: nu \u00eencerca s\u0103 cite\u0219ti prin prisma mentalit\u0103\u021bii “Eu acum m\u0103 fac cult\u0103”, ci prin prisma lui “Hai s\u0103 afl\u0103m lucruri noi \u0219i s\u0103 le \u00een\u021belegem”. Cu alte cuvinte: accentul s\u0103 nu fie pe tine, ci pe ceea ce vrei s\u0103 aprofundezi \u015fi s\u0103 \u00een\u0163elegi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Ideea e c\u0103 nu trebuie s\u0103 fii prea sever\u0103 cu tine \u00eens\u0103\u021bi. Da, ok, \u0219coala nu te-a \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat mare lucru. Nici pe mine. Dar e at\u00e2ta informa\u021bie \u00een jur, iar internetul poate fi folosit s\u0103 cau\u021bi \u0219i s\u0103 asimilezi cultur\u0103, nu s\u0103 te ui\u021bi ore \u00een \u0219ir la Tik Tokuri inepte. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Iar legat de \u0219tiri: majoritatea celor care le scriu lucreaz\u0103 \u00een ture de opt ore \u0219i trebuie s\u0103 livreze un num\u0103r aberant de mare de \u0219tiri, care musai s\u0103 fac\u0103 trafic. \u00cen consecin\u021b\u0103, majoritatea sunt at\u00e2t de prost scrise, at\u00e2t de lipsite de sens, at\u00e2t de adunate cu furca, \u00eenc\u00e2t nu ai ce s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegi. Vrei s\u0103 vezi structura unei \u0219tiri scrise decent? \u00cencearc\u0103 CNN. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sper c\u0103 \u021bi-am fost util\u0103, <\/p>\n\n\n\n Lorena. <\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 \u0163i-a pl\u0103cut acest articol, sus\u0163ine site-ul cu o dona\u0163ie<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n *** Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. \u00cen sensul \u00een care el sau ea, sau chiar tu, de ce nu, ne trimi(te)\u021bi problema voastr\u0103 de suflet...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":22930,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22929","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/carte.jpg?fit=640%2C360&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22929","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22929"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22929\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":22931,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22929\/revisions\/22931"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/22930"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22929"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22929"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22929"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}![\"\"](\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\")
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