{"id":22963,"date":"2022-02-24T11:10:08","date_gmt":"2022-02-24T08:10:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=22963"},"modified":"2022-02-24T11:10:09","modified_gmt":"2022-02-24T08:10:09","slug":"posta-redactiei-din-nou-impreuna","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/posta-redactiei-din-nou-impreuna\/","title":{"rendered":"Po\u0219ta redac\u021biei: Din nou \u00eempreun\u0103?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. \u00cen sensul \u00een care el sau ea, sau chiar tu, de ce nu, ne trimi(te)\u021bi problema voastr\u0103 de suflet pe birou@lorenalupu.com. Noi citim, cuget\u0103m \u0219i analiz\u0103m, apoi propunem o solu\u021bie sau d\u0103m o opinie \u00ceNTR-UN ARTICOL PE BLOG.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sau \u00een consulta\u0163ie privat\u0103, contra cost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Scrisorica de azi spune a\u015fa:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Drag\u0103 Lorena, <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u00cemi place blogul t\u0103u, mai ales po\u0219ta redac\u021biei. Dai sfaturi sincere, adev\u0103rate, nu \u021bi-e mil\u0103 deloc de cel care \u00eentreab\u0103 \u0219i nu-l protejezi deloc, dar p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103, e \u00een interesul lui s\u0103 te asculte. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Am avut un iubit acum trei ani, \u00eentr-un ora\u0219 de provincie. Nu spun care e ora\u0219ul, pentru c\u0103 prietenii mei te citesc \u0219i ar putea s\u0103 m\u0103 recunoasc\u0103. A fost o rela\u021bie frumoas\u0103, ne-am \u00een\u021beles foarte bine, am \u021binut mult la el \u0219i el a p\u0103rut c\u0103 \u021bine mult la mine. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Dar a intrat la facultate \u00een<\/strong> <strong>Bucure\u0219ti \u0219i \u00een momentul \u0103la mi-a spus c\u0103 nu vrea s\u0103 continue rela\u021bia, pentru c\u0103 nu-i plac situa\u021biile la distan\u021b\u0103 \u0219i c\u0103 probabil va cunoa\u0219te alte persoane la facultate \u0219i nu vrea s\u0103 m\u0103 mint\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00een\u0219ele. Eu am suferit mult, dar am acceptat. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Acum, peste trei ani, m\u0103 mut la Bucure\u0219ti. Am g\u0103sit un job foarte bun, am \u0219i unde s\u0103 stau, \u0219i vreau s\u0103 \u00eencep de la zero \u00eentr-un ora\u0219 care \u00eemi poate oferi o carier\u0103 mai bun\u0103 \u0219i mai mul\u021bi bani dec\u00e2t a\u0219 c\u00e2\u0219tiga acas\u0103 <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>M\u0103 tot bate g\u00e2ndul s\u0103 \u00eel caut pe iubitul meu, pentru c\u0103 nici un b\u0103iat nu m-a f\u0103cut s\u0103 m\u0103 simt at\u00e2t de bine, \u0219i mi-e dor \u00een continuare de el. Par o g\u00e2sc\u0103 proast\u0103 dac\u0103 fac asta? Po\u021bi s\u0103-mi spui, nu m\u0103 sup\u0103r. Am nevoie de un sfat. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Cu prietenie, <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>X. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Drag\u0103 X., <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>S\u0103 mor dac\u0103 \u00een\u021beleg de ce fug oamenii dup\u0103 al\u021bi oameni care i-au abandonat \u0219i care le-au ar\u0103tat f\u0103r\u0103 drept de apel c\u0103 nu sunt o prioritate \u00een vie\u021bile lor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tu, din c\u00e2te \u00een\u021beleg, aveai o rela\u021bie exclusiv\u0103 cu iubi. Apoi, c\u00e2nd iubi a dat de o situa\u021bie mai bun\u0103 de via\u021b\u0103 (a intrat la facultate) te-a l\u0103sat balt\u0103 pur \u0219i simplu. Era sigur c\u0103 g\u0103se\u0219te pe cineva mai bun dec\u00e2t tine. Ca dovad\u0103 c\u0103 \u00een ochii lui NU ERAI THE BEST THING. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd un om \u00eent\u00e2lne\u0219te the best thing, r\u0103m\u00e2ne statornic, indiferent unde \u00eel duce via\u021ba. Cunosc b\u0103ie\u021bi care s-au mutat \u00een ora\u0219e mai mari \u0219i au c\u0103utat joburi pentru iubitele lor, s\u0103 le aduc\u0103 \u0219i pe ele, pentru c\u0103 nu \u00ee\u021bi imaginau via\u021ba f\u0103r\u0103 ele. Cunosc pove\u0219ti cu b\u0103rba\u021bi care au cunoscut videochatiste din Rom\u00e2nia \u0219i au venit de la cel\u0103lalt cap\u0103t al p\u0103m\u00e2ntului s\u0103 fie cu ele, sau le-au pl\u0103tit drumul s\u0103 vin\u0103 ele. Acesta este comportamentul unui b\u0103rbat care te consider\u0103 prioritatea lui. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 unul te las\u0103 balt\u0103 de cum d\u0103 de mai bine, te va l\u0103sa balt\u0103 dac\u0103 la un moment dat g\u0103se\u0219te un job bine pl\u0103tit afar\u0103, sau dac\u0103 g\u0103se\u0219te o tip\u0103 mai bogat\u0103, sau dac\u0103, sau dac\u0103. Pentru el, ai fost o op\u021biune pasabil\u0103 pe moment. Te-a \u0219i pasat de cum a trecut momentul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sigur, po\u021bi s\u0103-l cau\u021bi. Dar va fi o dinamic\u0103 frustrant\u0103 pentru tine. Tu, disperat\u0103, c\u0103ut\u00e2nd s\u0103 demonstrezi c\u0103 \u00eei meri\u021bi iubirea, iar \u0103la, umfl\u00e2ndu-se \u00een pene c\u0103 sunt \u00een limb\u0103 femeile dup\u0103 el \u0219i c\u0103 uite ce pasiuni nedomolite st\u00e2rne\u0219te. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu mai bine \u00ee\u021bi asumi c\u0103 \u0103sta TE-A ABANDONAT F\u0102R\u0102 REGRETE c\u00e2nd a avut \u0219ansa, \u0219i, ddac\u0103 tot schimbi ora\u0219ul, \u00eencerci s\u0103 cuno\u0219ti oameni noi? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sper c\u0103 \u021bi-am fost util\u0103, <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Lorena. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 \u0163i-a pl\u0103cut acest articol,&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\">sus\u0163ine site-ul cu o dona\u0163ie<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-14577\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>***<br>Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? 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