{"id":22966,"date":"2022-02-25T10:54:03","date_gmt":"2022-02-25T07:54:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=22966"},"modified":"2022-02-25T11:03:50","modified_gmt":"2022-02-25T08:03:50","slug":"posta-redactiei-mama-nemultumita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/posta-redactiei-mama-nemultumita\/","title":{"rendered":"Po\u0219ta redac\u021biei: Mama nemul\u021bumit\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. \u00cen sensul \u00een care el sau ea, sau chiar tu, de ce nu, ne trimi(te)\u021bi problema voastr\u0103 de suflet pe birou@lorenalupu.com. Noi citim, cuget\u0103m \u0219i analiz\u0103m, apoi propunem o solu\u021bie sau d\u0103m o opinie \u00ceNTR-UN ARTICOL PE BLOG.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sau \u00een consulta\u0163ie privat\u0103, contra cost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Scrisorica de azi spune a\u015fa:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Bun\u0103, Lorena! <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Numele<\/strong> <strong>meu este X si am 35 de ani. Sunt c\u0103s\u0103torit\u0103 de 5 ani \u0219i am o feti\u021b\u0103 de aproape 4 ani. Am terminat o facultate bun\u0103, acum lucrez \u00eentr-o companie mare, am o pozi\u021bie de middle management, un salariu foarte bun (pentru Rom\u00e2nia), cas\u0103, ma\u0219in\u0103, teoretic nu \u00eemi lipsesc multe pe partea asta. Eu sunt o fire independent\u0103, rebel\u0103, am tatuaje (multe), mai multe g\u0103uri in urechi, \u00eemi port p\u0103rul \u00een coafuri nebune\u0219ti, \u00eemi plac hainele sport, pielea, adida\u0219ii, machiajele \u00eemi plac mai accentuate, unghiile lungi, far f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 fiu indecent\u0103 sau vulgar\u0103. Fumez, dar nu beau alcool, nu m\u0103 droghez, nu umblu cu b\u0103rba\u021bi. Muncesc s\u0103 aduc bani \u00een cas\u0103, muncesc \u0219i acas\u0103, g\u0103tesc, sp\u0103l, calc, fac curat, am grij\u0103 de copil \u0219i de educa\u021bia ei, nu-i lipse\u0219te nimic. Fac sport, \u021bin diet\u0103, am grij\u0103 de &nbsp;mine. Nu sunt perfect\u0103, le am pe ale mele clar, dar am realizat destul de mult pentru o femeie de v\u00e2rsta mea, cu pu\u021bin ajutor din partea tat\u0103lui meu care m-a sus\u021binut mereu \u0219i material \u0219i emo\u021bional \u0219i cu cre\u0219terea copilului.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Problema mea este c\u0103 mama mea nu este niciodat\u0103 mul\u021bumit\u0103 de mine! C\u0103 de ce fumez, de ce am tatuaje, de ce mi-am f\u0103cut codi\u021be afro la 35 de ani c\u0103 sunt prea b\u0103tr\u00e2n\u0103 de a\u0219a ceva \u0219i r\u00e2de lumea de mine, c\u0103 nu m\u0103 \u00eembrac adecvat, c\u0103 nu sunt o doamn\u0103 (\u0219i aici \u00eemi scoate ochii cu na\u0219a mea de cununie care \u00een opinia ei este femeia perfect\u0103, o lady, elegant\u0103, finu\u021b\u0103, clasic\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 tatuaje, care nu fumeaz\u0103, nu iese \u00een eviden\u021b\u0103 \u0219i are familia perfect\u0103), c\u0103 mereu am f\u0103cut numai lucruri aiurea, c\u0103 nu am f\u0103cut nimic bun, \u0219i pot s\u0103 continui a\u0219a \u00eenc\u0103 10 pagini de repro\u0219uri.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ideea e c\u0103 \u00eemi stric\u0103 orice bucurie, orice m\u0103 face pe mine fericit\u0103 sau s\u0103 m\u0103 simt mai bine pt ea nu e ok, parc\u0103 nici copilul nu \u00eel cresc cum trebuie, ea \u0219tie mai bine ca mine, m\u0103 face s\u0103 m\u0103 simt c\u0103 nu am reu\u0219it nimic in via\u021b\u0103, ca nu sunt ok a\u0219a cum sunt, c\u0103 poate nu e bine a\u0219a cum aleg eu s\u0103 fiu, mai altfel. Nu m\u0103 simt de 35 de ani, nu cred c\u0103 v\u00e2rsta e un impediment pentru nimic mai ales pentru p\u0103r sau haine. Chiar dac\u0103 cumva \u0219tiu c\u0103 nu conteaz\u0103 ce crede\/zice ea, nu m\u0103 pot opri s\u0103 m\u0103 simt oribil de fiecare dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd vorbesc cu ea, \u00eei povestesc sau \u00eei ar\u0103t ceva&#8230;Ce ar trebui s\u0103 fac? Vreau s\u0103 o fac s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 c\u0103 nu m\u0103 definesc ca om p\u0103rul \u0219i tatuajele, c\u0103 am reu\u0219it totu\u0219i s\u0103 fac ceva bun \u00een via\u021b\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103 (chiar dac\u0103 \u00een trecut am avut un divor\u021b, probleme cu fostul so\u021b cu banii). <\/strong><br><strong>Mul\u021bumesc c\u0103 m-ai ascultat, e cazul s\u0103 m\u0103 opresc c\u0103 a\u0219 mai avea at\u00e2t de multe de povestit&#8230;via\u021ba mea e un haos, simt ca o s\u0103 intru \u00een depresie chiar dac\u0103 la suprafa\u021b\u0103 totul pare ideal \u0219i numai floricele roz&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>X. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Drag\u0103 X, <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Probabil c\u0103 nu \u00ee\u021bi spun nimic nou c\u00e2nd, pe baza descrierii tale, \u00ee\u021bi spun c\u0103 tanti pe care mi-o descrii e o narcisist\u0103 clasic\u0103, o persoan\u0103 abuziv\u0103, care mai mult ca sigur are tripuri de putere atunci c\u00e2nd te umile\u0219te \u0219i care se hr\u0103ne\u0219te din faptul c\u0103 te face s\u0103 te sim\u021bi ultimul om. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ce po\u021bi s\u0103 faci? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A) S\u0103 te deta\u0219ezi de veninul pe care \u021bi-l vars\u0103, \u00een deplin\u0103 cuno\u0219tin\u021b\u0103 de cauz\u0103, \u00een fufle\u021bel. Jarteaua ordinar\u0103 (\u0219i \u0219tiu c\u0103 aici o s\u0103 sar\u0103 zece tanti s\u0103 m\u0103 certe c\u0103 p\u0103rin\u021bii nu se judec\u0103, dar ba da, se judec\u0103, \u0219i cei care nu-\u0219i accept\u0103 copiii a\u0219a cum sunt \u0219i \u00eei umilesc gratuit \u00een baza unui fals sentiment de posesiune se judec\u0103 cel mai crunt, \u0219i nimic din ce cotcod\u0103ci\u021bi voi \u00een sec\u021biunea de comentarii nu schimb\u0103 asta) te trage con\u0219tient \u00een jos, \u0219i deriv\u0103 pl\u0103cere din asta. \u0218tii de ce te face prea b\u0103tr\u00e2n\u0103 pentru aia \u0219i ailalt\u0103? PENTRU C\u0102 EA SE SIMTE PREA B\u0102TR\u00c2N\u0102 PENTRU AIA \u0218I AILALT\u0102 \u0218I DESCARC\u0102 ASTA PE TINE. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Taman de aceea, demonstra\u021biile c\u0103 e\u0219ti o fat\u0103 bun\u0103 \u0219i etc. n-o intereseaz\u0103 \u0219i le ignor\u0103. Mai mult. Le ignor\u0103 \u0219tiind c\u00e2t\u0103 frustrare \u00ee\u021bi induce faptul c\u0103 le ignor\u0103. Prin asta, te men\u021bine \u00eentr-un raport submisiv, pentru c\u0103 te for\u021beaz\u0103 s\u0103 insi\u0219ti \u00een a-i demonstra lucruri pe care ea o s\u0103 le ignore \u00een continuare. O dinamic\u0103 extrem de destructiv\u0103 pentru echilibrul t\u0103u sufletesc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cum o opre\u0219ti? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Repe\u021bi dup\u0103 mine: Sunt un adult func\u021bional, cu o via\u021b\u0103 echilibrat\u0103, \u0219i nu am de demonstrat nim\u0103nui nimic. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Solicit\u0103 ajutorul unui psiholog, s\u0103 ie\u0219i din dinamica asta de copil r\u0103nit care cer\u0219e\u0219te iubirea mamei scorpii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Asum\u0103-\u021bi c\u0103 individa asta are iubire pentru o singur\u0103 persoan\u0103: ea \u00eens\u0103\u0219i. Drept care, vei \u00eenceta s\u0103 investe\u0219ti orice fel de interes, preocupare, p\u0103sare, din exact secunda asta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Valabil nu doar pentru m\u0103mici narcisiste egoiste, ci pentru oricine din vie\u021bile voastre private care caut\u0103 s\u0103 v\u0103 constr\u00e2ng\u0103 s\u0103 fi\u021bi altcineva. Primul pas al iubirii de orice fel e acceptarea omului a\u0219a cum este. Dac\u0103 individa caut\u0103 s\u0103 te modeleze cu insulte \u0219i umilin\u021be s\u0103 fii alt\u0103 persoan\u0103, nu \u021bine la tine a\u0219a cum e\u0219ti, \u0219i din acel moment, orice cer\u0219eal\u0103 a aprob\u0103rii din partea ta se \u00eentrerupe. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cemi scrii de tat\u0103l t\u0103u c\u0103 te sus\u021bine material \u0219i emo\u021bional. Scoate-o pe scorpie din mintea ta \u0219i reinveste\u0219te toat\u0103 aceast\u0103 energie pentru a fi fiica iubitoare pe care acest om CHIAR o merit\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Deci, cum \u00eencepe baba cu criticile, \u00ee\u021bi c\u00e2n\u021bi pe interior vestita pies\u0103 Jet de subsemnata. JEEEET, N-ARE NIMENI TIMP DE TINEEE, JEEEET, N-ARE NIMENI TIMP DE TINE. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<div class=\"video-container\"><span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"700\" height=\"394\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/u76cl8GnVss?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B) Pasul al doilea, pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 deta\u0219area interioar\u0103, este s\u0103 NU \u00eei permi\u021bi s\u0103 se mai ia de tine. Nu mai e\u0219ti o pre\u0219col\u0103ri\u021b\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u00e2nd dup\u0103 tandre\u021be matern\u0103. Nu mai e\u0219ti o liceanc\u0103 timid\u0103, care are nevoie de acordul p\u0103rin\u021bilor s\u0103 se \u00eenscrie la un concurs cu premii pentru mu\u0219tar Tecuci. Nu mai e\u0219ti un copil mic care-\u0219i t\u00e2r\u00e2ie mucii dup\u0103 el. E\u0218TI UN OM ADULT, CARE \u0218TIE CINE E \u0218I \u0218TIE CE VREA. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i \u00een aceast\u0103 calitate, ai tot dreptul s\u0103 setezi limite, s\u0103 spui c\u0103 un anumit lucru e inadmisibil, s\u0103 nu permi\u021bi comportamente, iar dac\u0103 aceste comportamente persist\u0103, s\u0103 impui consecin\u021be. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cu javrele de acest tip, \u00een special, se aplic\u0103 axioma RuPaul: I always try to come from a place of love, but sometimes you need to break it down for a motherf***r. \u00cen traducere liber\u0103, cu unii nu merge iubirea \u015fi armonia, pentru c\u0103 vor abuza, \u015fi atunci, se impune s\u0103-\u0163i \u00eenfigi prompt ciomagul \u00een mor\u0163ii lor. Da, inclusiv dac\u0103 e vorba de mami narcisist care crede c\u0103 rolul copiilor e doar s\u0103 compenseze pentru via\u0163a pe care nu \u015ftie s\u0103 \u015fi-o fac\u0103 interesant\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-i chinuie. \u015ei s-o ling\u0103 ap\u0103sat \u00een c zi de zi pentru privilegiul de a se fi n\u0103scut. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen secunda \u00een care se apuc\u0103 s\u0103 te critice: te ridici \u015fi pleci sau \u00eei \u00eenchizi telefonul. Dac\u0103 vrea s\u0103 fac\u0103 drame din asta: te ridici \u015fi pleci sau \u00eei \u00eenchizi telefonul. \u00cei spui sec \u015fi ferm c\u0103 e\u015fti la v\u00e2rsta la care \u00ee\u0163i alegi singur\u0103 hainele \u015fi accesoriile, iar dac\u0103 \u00eei plac doamnele, n-are dec\u00e2t s\u0103 fie ea una, dar tu nu mai ai timp de investit \u00een rahaturi de genul. Preferi s\u0103 aloci acest timp propriului copil, s\u0103 fii o mam\u0103 mai bun\u0103 dec\u00e2t a fost ea vreodat\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ba po\u0163i s\u0103 deschizi discu\u0163ia \u015fi a\u015fa: Pe ce baz\u0103 pretinzi tu un copil perfect, scorpie sinistr\u0103? E\u015fti tu cumva o mam\u0103 perfect\u0103? Nu. E\u015fti o jigodie veninoas\u0103, rea, plin\u0103 de ur\u0103 \u015fi frustr\u0103ri, \u015fi nu \u015ftii dec\u00e2t s\u0103 \u00eemi strici via\u0163a cu r\u0103ut\u0103\u0163ile tale. Scorpiile ca tine ar merita copii infractori droga\u0163i, s\u0103 ai motiv \u00eentemeiat de perpetue negativisme \u015fi repro\u015furi. Japi\u0163\u0103 sinistr\u0103 \u015fi rea. Din momentul \u0103sta, mi se f\u00e2lf\u00e2ie de tot ce crezi tu \u015fi nu mai am timp de tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Singurul mod de a face genul \u0103sta de cotarl\u0103 narcisist\u0103 s\u0103 se dea jos de pe tine e s\u0103 o ba\u0163i cu propriile ei arme. Abia c\u00e2nd va vedea c\u0103 nu te mai face s\u0103 suferi, ci, dimpotriv\u0103, o faci tu pe ea s\u0103 se simt\u0103 oribil de c\u00e2te ori deschide un conflict, va c\u0103uta alte c\u0103i de comunicare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iar dac\u0103 nu le caut\u0103, rupi pur \u015fi simplu contactul cu totul \u015fi gata.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ia toat\u0103 aceast\u0103 energie, pe care o irose\u015fti pe japi\u0163a care nu o va aprecia niciodat\u0103, \u015fi d\u0103ruie\u015fte-o tat\u0103lui t\u0103u iubitor, care e al\u0103turi de tine, \u015fi copilului care are nevoie de tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u015ei f\u0103 \u015fi ni\u015fte terapie, pentru c\u0103 faptul c\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103 o bagi \u00een seam\u0103 pe zdrean\u0163a asta \u015fi nu i-ai dat jet de mult, de\u015fi ceva \u00eemi spune c\u0103 e\u015fti con\u015ftient\u0103 de jocurile ei, \u00eemi dovede\u015fte c\u0103 ai un pic de sindrom Stockholm, pe care nu \u0163i-l pot trata eu la po\u015fta redac\u0163iei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sper c\u0103 \u0163i-am fost util\u0103, <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lorena. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 \u0163i-a pl\u0103cut acest articol,&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\">sus\u0163ine site-ul cu o dona\u0163ie<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-14577\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<br>Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? 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