{"id":23053,"date":"2022-03-22T12:05:22","date_gmt":"2022-03-22T09:05:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=23053"},"modified":"2022-03-22T12:05:23","modified_gmt":"2022-03-22T09:05:23","slug":"ce-importanta-te-crezi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/ce-importanta-te-crezi\/","title":{"rendered":"Ce important\u0103 te crezi"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

De c\u00e2te ori setez ni\u0219te limite clare ale lucrurilor pe care sunt dispus\u0103 s\u0103 le accept, se treze\u0219te c\u00e2te un gigel: Vai, dar ce important\u0103 te crezi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cu ce? Cu faptul c\u0103 nu permit oricui s\u0103 mi se urce \u00een cap cum are chef \u0219i c\u0103 \u00eemi organizez via\u021ba dup\u0103 un set de priorit\u0103\u021bi proprii, nu dup\u0103 cum se treze\u0219te unul sau altul c\u0103 are chef s\u0103 m\u0103 pistoneze? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 un b\u0103rbat face reguli clare ale timpului \u0219i efortului pe care e dispus s\u0103 \u00eel aloce altora, normaaaal. Doar e b\u0103rbat. E evident c\u0103 are un timp limitat \u0219i resurse limitate, \u0219i e evident c\u0103 le va investi acolo unde consider\u0103 c\u0103 renteaz\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar c\u00e2nd e\u0219ti femeie, indiferent ce rezultate livrezi \u00een ceea ce faci, o parte a societ\u0103\u021bii se va a\u0219tepta \u00een continuare s\u0103 fii u\u0219or de jucat ca o bil\u0103 legat\u0103 de un elastic, pe de o parte, \u0219i s\u0103 te dai peste cap s\u0103 mul\u021bume\u0219ti orice preten\u021bie, oric\u00e2t de lipsit\u0103 de miz\u0103, pe de alta, <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u0103 dac\u0103 nu, “te crezi prea important\u0103”. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u0103i, gigel, \u00een acest moment, tu emi\u0163i preten\u0163ii la timpul meu, deci hell yes, e important, altfel b\u00e2z\u00e2iai \u00een alt\u0103 parte. \u015ei atunci, ce ar fi s\u0103 \u00eencepi s\u0103 tratezi \u015fi tu timpul meu ca pe ceva important (nu de alta, dar altfel chiar b\u00e2z\u00e2iai \u00een alt\u0103 parte) \u015fi s\u0103 respec\u0163i priorit\u0103\u0163ile persoanei cu care interac\u0163ionezi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

E\u015fti liber s\u0103 nu m\u0103 crezi important\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 urmezi partea cu b\u00e2z\u00e2itul \u00een alt\u0103 parte. Dar dac\u0103 e important pentru tine s\u0103 b\u00e2z\u00e2i pe aici, \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 sunt important\u0103 eu, iar aceast\u0103 importan\u0163\u0103 trebuie respectat\u0103 ca atare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar gigeii au un dublu standard fantastic. Pe de o parte, vor s\u0103 \u0163i se oplo\u015feasc\u0103 \u00een cap \u015fi s\u0103 te frece agasant \u015fi interminabil la melodioar\u0103, specific pe tine. Pe de alta, s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i sublinieze iar \u015fi iar ce lipsit\u0103 de importan\u0163\u0103 e\u015fti, de\u015fi modul \u00een care aleg s\u0103 te frece agasant \u015fi interminabil la melodioar\u0103 specific pe tine spune exact opusul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei aici, noi punem piciorul \u00een prag \u015fi spunem: B\u0103i, porcul pulii mele (citat din defuncta Planeta Moldova, love love love), sau nu sunt important\u0103, \u015fi prin urmare te dai \u00een mor\u0163ii m\u0103-tii mai \u00eencolo \u015fi nu-mi iei aerul, sau sunt foarte important\u0103 \u015fi atunci m\u0103 tratezi ca pe ceva foarte important. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu o ardem ca patronii rom\u00e2ni care \u00ee\u015fi minimalizeaz\u0103 \u015fi umilesc continuu salaria\u0163ii, de\u015fi ar da faliment f\u0103r\u0103 ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu am ales s\u0103 m\u0103 nasc femeie. De aceea g\u0103sesc o pasiune \u00een arta travestiului. \u015ei nu m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 s\u0103 fiu genul \u0103la de femeie conform\u0103 cu mentalitatea tradi\u0163ional\u0103, care las\u0103 mereu de la ea, de team\u0103 c\u0103 dac\u0103 o las\u0103 prostul, ea cui r\u0103m\u00e2ne. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eu nu trebuie s\u0103-i r\u0103m\u00e2n absolut nim\u0103nui, pentru c\u0103 nu sunt animal furajer \u015fi nici proprietatea cuiva. Sunt un om liber, care e \u00een perpetu\u0103 mi\u015fcare, deci nu r\u0103m\u00e2ne. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iar deciziile mele pe resursele, priorit\u0103\u0163ile \u015fi timpul meu sunt de importan\u0163\u0103 maxim\u0103. Prin urmare, se respect\u0103 ca atare, f\u0103r\u0103 cotcod\u0103celi inutile \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 tentative de minimalizare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sper c\u0103 m-am f\u0103cut \u00een\u0163eleas\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Ce important\u0103 te crezi”. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu m\u0103 cred, ci sunt. Pentru mine, eu sunt cea mai important\u0103. M\u0103car pentru faptul c\u0103, \u00een momente grele, \u015ftiu c\u0103 m\u0103 pot baza \u00een primul r\u00e2nd pe mine. A\u015f fi scris “numai pe mine”, dar ar fi o nedreptate fa\u0163\u0103 de anumi\u0163i oameni, cei care m-au sus\u0163inut necondi\u0163ionat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Problema la nivel de societate nu e c\u0103 eu m\u0103 cred important\u0103. Problema e c\u0103 at\u00e2tea alte femei se cred personaje secundare \u00een propriile vie\u0163i. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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