{"id":23184,"date":"2022-04-16T10:48:28","date_gmt":"2022-04-16T07:48:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=23184"},"modified":"2022-04-16T10:53:15","modified_gmt":"2022-04-16T07:53:15","slug":"cum-ne-crestem-fetitele","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/cum-ne-crestem-fetitele\/","title":{"rendered":"Cum ne cre\u0219tem feti\u021bele?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Vine din c\u00e2nd \u00een c\u00e2nd gigel \u00een sec\u021biunea de comentarii \u0219i \u00eencepe s\u0103 zbiere: Dar cum n-ave\u021bi voi, femeile, drepturi egale? Legea zice c\u0103 da. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Evident, ceea ce ignor\u0103 gigel, din prostie sau rea-voin\u021b\u0103, este c\u0103 \u00eentre legea scris\u0103 \u00een Monitorul Oficial \u0219i obiceiurile locului e un delay de vreo 50 de ani. O mul\u021bime de indivizi trateaz\u0103 \u00een continuare femeile ca \u0219i cum ar fi ni\u0219te substitute de oameni mai pu\u021bin valoro\u0219i. \u0218i dac\u0103 indivizii sunt b\u0103rba\u021bi, de multe ori nu fac dec\u00e2t s\u0103 se r\u0103zbune pentru ratarea din vie\u021bile lor. Dar ce te faci, c\u00e2nd indivizii sunt alte femei? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i nu m\u0103 refer la copil\u0103ria mea, c\u00e2nd ni se spunea constant s\u0103 vedem cum ne purt\u0103m, c\u0103 altfel nu ne ia niciunul. Zici c\u0103 eram colete po\u0219tale. Dac\u0103 destinatarul nu se prezenta nici dup\u0103 al doilea aviz, o s\u0103 fii returnat\u0103 la depozit, \u0219i via\u021ba ta lipsit\u0103 de importan\u021b\u0103 va fi obiect de batjocur\u0103 pe tot restul vie\u021bii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apoi te miri de toate pove\u0219tile astea de amor ratat, unde femeile \u00eendur\u0103 umilin\u021b\u0103 \u0219i abuz f\u0103r\u0103 num\u0103r, pentru c\u0103 sigur nu vor g\u0103si altul mai bun. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Noroc c\u0103 sora voastr\u0103 nu a pus botul la acest tip de mentalitate niciodat\u0103, \u0219i nici m\u0103car nu a avut nevoie de feminism. Pur \u0219i simplu, nu se sim\u021bea cu nimic mai prejos de nici un b\u0103rbat, \u0219i nu vedea de unde \u0219i p\u00e2n\u0103 unde se presupune c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 stea ghiocel s-o ia unul, c\u00e2nd ea se distreaz\u0103 maxim \u0219i neluat\u0103 de nimeni. Sora voastr\u0103 e genul care se duce s\u0103 preia colete po\u0219tale, nu genul care constituie colet po\u0219tal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mkay. Dar noi suntem \u00een anul domnului nostru 2022. An \u00een care s-au perindat deja mai multe valuri de feminism dec\u00e2t valuri de ulei pe D\u00e2mbovi\u021ba \u0219i, c\u00e2t de c\u00e2t, se presupune c\u0103 lumea a \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 nu organul genital stabile\u0219te cine e un om \u0219i ce \u0219tie el s\u0103 fac\u0103 \u00een via\u021b\u0103. Organul genital e relevant dac\u0103 vrei s\u0103 fii vedet\u0103 de filme adulte. \u00cen alte domenii, e profund \u0219i definitiv irelevant. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mbun. Mergea sora voastr\u0103 cu metroul. La dou\u0103 scaune distan\u021b\u0103, o mam\u0103 cu un fiu de cam cinci ani\u0219ori. Fiul era genul acrobat de circ precoce. Nu voia loc s\u0103 stea. Executa o rutin\u0103 complicat\u0103, de dat casting la Cirque du Soleil, pe bara din mijloc. M\u0103mica \u00eel mustra de form\u0103 c\u0103 nu vrea s\u0103 se a\u0219eze, dar de fond, \u00eentreaga ei f\u0103ptur\u0103 radia de bucurie, v\u0103z\u00e2nd c\u00e2t de agil \u0219i de vioi e odorul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sta\u021bie. Urc\u0103 o femeie mai simpl\u0103, dup\u0103 vorb\u0103, dup\u0103 port, \u021bin\u00e2nd de m\u00e2n\u0103 o feti\u021b\u0103. Feti\u021ba vede scaunele libere dintre mine \u0219i mama vedetei de Cirque du Soleil \u0219i alearg\u0103 spre scaun, apoi se a\u0219az\u0103 \u00eenc\u00e2ntat\u0103 c\u0103 a prins loc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u0103-sa: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Vai, drag\u0103, dar ce repede te a\u0219ezi. Lene\u0219\u0103 \u0219i degeaba te-am mai pomenit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Remarc\u0103m cum mama b\u0103iatului \u00eel las\u0103 s\u0103 fac\u0103 tot ce vrea, ba chiar e m\u00e2ndr\u0103 dac\u0103 \u0103la mic se d\u0103 \u00een spectacol, pe c\u00e2nd mama fetei o \u021bine \u00een frecu\u0219 la melodie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Vezi? B\u0103iatul \u0103la sare pe bar\u0103, nu vrea s\u0103 stea l\u00e2ng\u0103 tine. C\u0103 e\u0219ti ur\u00e2t\u0103 \u0219i proast\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aici, sora voastr\u0103 a atins limita de abuz verbal prev\u0103zut\u0103 de lege \u0219i a s\u0103rit c\u00e2t colo: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Stimat\u0103 doamn\u0103, de ce v\u0103 ur\u00e2\u021bi feti\u021ba \u00een halul \u0103sta? De ce \u00eei spune\u021bi toate mizeriile astea jegoase \u0219i infecte, care s\u0103 inoculeze \u00een ea ideea c\u0103 e lipsit\u0103 de valoare? Apoi, dac\u0103 va crede cu adev\u0103rat c\u0103 e lipsit\u0103 de valoare \u0219i se va m\u0103rita cu un prost care o va bate, tot pe ea o ve\u021bi \u00eenvinui, corect? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-B\u0103ie\u021belul meu n-a stat deloc pe scaun \u0219i nu are leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu feti\u021ba, a completat m\u0103mica de b\u0103ie\u021bel, miraculos pe aceea\u0219i lungime de und\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Ascult\u0103-m\u0103, s-a \u00eentors sora voastr\u0103 spre copil\u0103. Indiferent ce \u00ee\u021bi spune oricine: e\u0219ti frumoas\u0103, e\u0219ti de\u0219teapt\u0103 \u0219i meri\u021bi tot ce e mai bun \u00een via\u021b\u0103. Dac\u0103 \u00eenve\u021bi \u0219i dac\u0103 munce\u0219ti, o s\u0103 po\u021bi ob\u021bine tot ce vrei tu. Niciodat\u0103, niciodat\u0103 s\u0103 nu ascul\u021bi de oamenii care te trag \u00een jos, indiferent dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi sunt rude sau se dau prieteni. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-A\u0219a este, m-a aprobat m\u0103mica de b\u0103iat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Sunt frumoas\u0103 \u0219i de\u0219teapt\u0103\u0103\u0103! a strigat feti\u021ba. Sunt frumoas\u0103 \u0219i de\u0219teapt\u0103! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-S\u0103 nu ui\u021bi asta niciodat\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i am cobor\u00e2t. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Drag\u0103 cititoare, <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 vreodat\u0103 ai tras-o pe fiic\u0103-ta \u00een jos cu remarci de rahat, pentru c\u0103 e\u0219ti o vac\u0103 frustrat\u0103 \u0219i necorespunz\u0103tor tufut\u0103 de boul pe care \u021bi l-ai ales aiurea, de fric\u0103 s\u0103 nu r\u0103m\u00e2i singur\u0103: S\u0102 TE PI\u0218 \u00ceN BOT. Ce ar fi s\u0103 nu dai mai departe \u0219i urm\u0103toarei genera\u021bii trauma feminit\u0103\u021bii desconsiderate, supuse mereu insultelor \u0219i contesta\u021biilor \u0219i plasate mereu pe locul al doilea? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ascult\u0103-m\u0103, f\u0103, \u0219i ascult\u0103-m\u0103 bine, c\u0103 dac\u0103 nu, te caut \u0219i te bat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

FIIC\u0102-TA E FRUMOAS\u0102 \u0218I DE\u0218TEAPT\u0102. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 tu, persoana care a decis s-o aduc\u0103 pe lume, nu \u0219tii s\u0103-i insufli putere \u0219i \u00eencredere, e\u0219ti o mam\u0103 de toat\u0103 jena \u0219i mai bine te ab\u021bineai de la f\u0103tat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

O repet: FIIC\u0102-TA E FRUMOAS\u0102 \u0218I DE\u0218TEAPT\u0102. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Misiunea ta e s-o faci s\u0103 devin\u0103 cea mai bun\u0103 versiune a ei, nu s-o demolezi emo\u021bional cu rahaturi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u0103 dac\u0103 fuge de acas\u0103 la 14 ani c\u0103 s-a s\u0103turat de mizeriile tale \u0219i r\u0103m\u00e2ne gravid\u0103 la 15, tot tu o s\u0103 fii cu aoleul \u00een gur\u0103, prea idioat\u0103 s\u0103 te prinzi c\u0103 gesturile ei sunt rezultanta direct\u0103 a faptului c\u0103 e\u0219ti un rateu ca mam\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De ce mamele de b\u0103ie\u021bi \u0219tiu instinctiv s\u0103-i lase s\u0103 fie ei \u00een\u0219i\u0219i? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pentru c\u0103 b\u0103ie\u021bii sunt mai presus? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

FIIC\u0102-TA E FRUMOAS\u0102 \u0218I DE\u0218TEAPT\u0102. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sau i-o spui \u00een fiecare zi, p\u00e2n\u0103 te crede, sau scot pumnul prin ecran \u0219i-\u021bi dau o pervers\u0103 ca pe T\u00e2rgu Ocna. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Orice gigel ur\u00e2t ca \u00eemprumutul nepl\u0103tit la timp se crede buricul p\u0103m\u00e2ntului. De ce? PENTRU C\u0102 M\u0102-SA I-A SPUS C\u0102 E FRUMOS \u0218I DE\u0218TEPT. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iubi\u021bi-v\u0103 \u0219i sus\u021bine\u021bi-v\u0103 moral \u0219i faptic feti\u021bele. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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