{"id":23237,"date":"2022-04-23T10:28:41","date_gmt":"2022-04-23T07:28:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=23237"},"modified":"2022-04-23T10:37:54","modified_gmt":"2022-04-23T07:37:54","slug":"imi-pare-rau-pentru-tine-ilinca-vandici","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/imi-pare-rau-pentru-tine-ilinca-vandici\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00cemi pare r\u0103u pentru tine, Ilinca Vandici"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Foto: Facebook, pagina oficial\u0103 <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pe m\u0103sur\u0103 ce b\u0103rba\u021bii acestei \u021b\u0103ri se educ\u0103 progresiv, devin din ce \u00een ce mai civiliza\u021bi, ap\u021bi s\u0103 poarte o conversa\u021bie decent\u0103, s\u0103 asculte, s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 – bine, sunt \u0219i hoarde de gigei sc\u0103pa\u021bi \u00een cap la na\u0219tere, dar c\u00e2t timp exist\u0103 buton de block \u0219i mar\u0219 \u00een mor\u021bii m\u0103-tii, nu ne batem capul cu ei, mul\u021bumim celor din prima categorie c\u0103 au f\u0103cut efortul adapt\u0103rii la secolul actual – o parte dintre femei parc\u0103 parcurg direc\u021bia opus\u0103. P\u00e2n\u0103 acum, era croitoreasa de dame Dana Budeanu care abera c\u0103 \u00eei place b\u0103rbatul mafiot, m\u00e2rlan, mitoman \u0219i lipsit de empatie – de\u0219i mi se p\u0103rea un paradox. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pe de o parte, pentru c\u0103 clien\u021bii lui Budeanu erau femei. C\u00e2nd targetul t\u0103u e format din femei, s\u0103 lingi \u00een c** masculi toxici e contraintuitiv. S\u0103 ridici \u00een sl\u0103vi tot ce face via\u021ba clientelor tale mai nepl\u0103cut\u0103, mai pus\u0103 \u00een pericol, mai frustrant\u0103 \u0219i mai lipsit\u0103 de stabilitate – adic\u0103 b\u0103rba\u021bii de proast\u0103 calitate – e o decizie de business extrem de proast\u0103. \u0218i sper din suflet c\u0103 Budeanu a fost boicotat\u0103 prompt m\u0103car de o parte dintre clientele ei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pe de alt\u0103 parte, pentru c\u0103 ajunge o singur\u0103 privire la Budeanu \u0219i realizezi c\u0103 ea personal n-ar tolera un a\u0219a-numit mafiot mai mult de o secund\u0103. I-ar zice s\u0103-\u0219i taie p \u0219i s\u0103 \u0219i-o bage \u00een c de la prima obr\u0103znicie. Asta \u00een cazul \u00een care \u00eei place de fapt acel organ. Mie Budeanu mi-a dat \u00eentotdeauna vibes de fat\u0103 interesat\u0103 de fapt de fete, caz \u00een care retorica mafiotului \u00eei justifica de fapt propriul comportament. Nu, domnule judec\u0103tor, nu afirm c\u0103 a\u0219 avea certitudini legate de sexualitatea lui Budeanu, sau c\u0103 m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 – genul meu sunt femeile care conduc cu ra\u021biunea – spun doar c\u0103 mi se pare o imens\u0103 ipocrizie s\u0103 spui gigeilor s\u0103 fie mafio\u021bi, c\u00e2nd tu personal nu ai permite neam s\u0103 fii tratat\u0103 a\u0219a cum le recomanzi ipochimenilor \u0103stora s\u0103-\u0219i trateze iubitele. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Acum, dup\u0103 ce Firea a pierdut alegerile, Budeanu a cam pierdut \u0219i ea din aten\u021bia public\u0103, pentru c\u0103 targetul cocalar jegos pe care \u00eel v\u00e2na cu dumele alea oribile \u00eei ia gagicii blugi din Obor la 50 de lei, nicidecum haute couture de D\u00e2mbovi\u021ba. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i bine a f\u0103cut. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u0103rba\u021bii rom\u00e2ni au deja sute de pick up arti\u0219ti, red pill gurus \u0219i be\u021bivi de la bodega din col\u021b care s\u0103 le spun\u0103 c\u0103 femeile trebuie b\u0103tute \u0219i f…te. Ultimul lucru de care au nevoie e un influencer femeie care s\u0103 insiste pe mizeria asta incalificabil\u0103, care nenoroce\u0219te at\u00e2tea vie\u021bi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar locul r\u0103mas gol a fost umplut recent de Ilinca Vandici. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen toate interviurile ei recente, Ilinca Vandici vine cu o retoric\u0103 absolut toxic\u0103 \u0219i scary. C\u0103 nu se a\u0219teapt\u0103 ca b\u0103rbatul s\u0103 se duc\u0103 la Mega la cump\u0103r\u0103turi, sau s\u0103 aib\u0103 \u0219i el grij\u0103 de copii, sau s\u0103 fac\u0103 treab\u0103 prin cas\u0103. \u0219i c\u0103 e perfect ok s\u0103 o \u00een\u0219ele, s\u0103 fac\u0103 orice nef\u0103cut\u0103, c\u0103 i-ar ierta absolut orice. Dar condi\u021bia sine qua non e s\u0103 aib\u0103 bani f\u0103r\u0103 num\u0103r, s\u0103 ofere o via\u021b\u0103 de lux. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eu sunt o persoan\u0103 foarte privat\u0103, dar v\u0103 voi dezv\u0103lui at\u00e2t: am avut pe c\u00e2nd eram t\u00e2n\u0103r\u0103 \u0219i n\u0103b\u0103d\u0103ioas\u0103 c\u00e2\u021biva iubi\u021bi cu mul\u021bi, mul\u021bi bani. Exact genul despre care bate c\u00e2mpii Ilinca. \u0218i da, oamenii \u0103ia mi-au pl\u0103tit haine scumpe, c\u0103l\u0103torii, o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de experien\u021be memorabile. \u00cen schimb, pentru c\u0103 i-am sedus prin personalitatea mea \u0219i ce aveam \u00een cap, niciodat\u0103 nu a existat un raport de tipul: gigel, f\u0103 ce vrei tu cu mine, sunt g\u0103ina ta lobotomizat\u0103 absolut\u0103, nu m\u0103 a\u0219tept la nimic, e\u0219ti buricul p\u0103m\u00e2ntului. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Genul de b\u0103rbat care a\u0219teapt\u0103 un astfel de comportament \u0219i o astfel de mentalitate de la o femeie e de obicei s\u0103r\u0103kia de Ferentari chinuit\u0103 de complexe. \u0218i chiar dac\u0103 se \u00eembog\u0103\u021be\u0219te, s\u0103r\u0103kia de Ferentari chinuit\u0103 de complexe r\u0103m\u00e2ne la aceea\u0219i zg\u00e2rcenie boln\u0103vicioas\u0103 \u0219i aceea\u0219i nevoie de a face pe \u00eencordacul agresiv cu tot dinadinsul, iar \u00eenrobirea \u00een acest mod a femeii e doar un mod de a-i anihila preten\u021biile. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u0103rba\u021bii boga\u021bi DE BUN\u0102 CALITATE continu\u0103 s\u0103 te respecte ca om, bag\u0103 bani \u00eentr-o femeie pentru c\u0103 o apreciaz\u0103 \u0219i cred \u00een ea, pentru c\u0103 o consider\u0103 valoroas\u0103 \u0219i pentru c\u0103 \u00eei pre\u021buiesc timpul \u0219i compania. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Faptul c\u0103, pentru a ob\u021bine sprijinul material al unui b\u0103rbat cu bani, trebuie s\u0103 te negi pe tine \u0219i s\u0103 devii aceast\u0103 yeswoman absolut\u0103 e un mit. Mit practicat \u00een realitate de b\u0103rba\u021bi care au extrem de pu\u021bin de oferit \u0219i de femei ipocrite, care au gre\u0219ita impresie c\u0103 plac cuiva dac\u0103 fac sluj targetului cocalar toxic. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Da, un b\u0103rbat cu bani nu se duce la Mega \u0219i nu spal\u0103 pe jos, pentru c\u0103 are angaja\u021bi care fac asta pentru el. \u0218i implicit \u0219i pentru ea. Nu e ca \u0219i cum se dezice de responsabilitatea lui \u00een treburile casei. Doar o deleg\u0103 unor salaria\u021bi. Dar c\u00e2nd s\u0103r\u0103kia de Ferentari o aude pe Ilinca Vandici aber\u00e2nd prostia asta pe la televizor, \u00eei zice nevestei: Vezi, f\u0103, toat\u0103 munca din cas\u0103 e treaba ta. Nu conteaz\u0103 c\u0103 aduci la bugetul familiei mai mul\u021bi bani dec\u00e2t mine, e corect ca dup\u0103 munc\u0103 eu s\u0103 stau pe netflix cu d\u00e2nsa \u00een sus iar tu la crati\u021b\u0103 \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103rie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tot Ilinca spune c\u0103 o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de femei o ur\u0103sc \u0219i o invidiaz\u0103 pentru tot ce are. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ilinco, eu nu te ur\u0103sc \u0219i nu te invidiez. Te comp\u0103timesc, sora mea. Pe baza a ce poveste\u0219ti, e cam clar ce ai: o rela\u021bie extrem de toxic\u0103 \u0219i de abuziv\u0103. Dac\u0103 un gigel te-a convins c\u0103, doar pentru c\u0103 are mul\u021bi bani, e perfect \u00een regul\u0103 s\u0103 f \u0219i pe altele, \u00eenseamn\u0103, sora mea, c\u0103 nu \u00eel prea atragi sexual \u0219i nu \u00eel prea \u00eempline\u0219ti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cei \u021bii minte pe b\u0103rba\u021bii cu bani de care am zis mai sus? Preocuparea lor nu era cum s\u0103 m\u0103 conving\u0103 c\u0103 e cazul s\u0103 \u00eei \u00een\u021beleg c\u0103 vor s\u0103 copuleze \u0219i cu altele. Preocuparea lor era s\u0103 fac\u0103 dragoste c\u00e2t mai mult cu mine. A\u0219a se poart\u0103 un iubit care chiar te dore\u0219te \u0219i care chiar e \u00eendr\u0103gostit de tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 mintea lui e deja sub alte fuste, m\u0103mic\u0103, e\u0219ti \u00eentr-o rela\u021bie de convenien\u021b\u0103. I-ai turnat unuia un plod sau mai mul\u021bi, \u0219i \u0103la \u00ee\u021bi cump\u0103r\u0103 cooperarea pentru a burl\u0103ci \u00een continuare sub impresia respectabilit\u0103\u021bii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2t de trist s\u0103 renun\u021bi la orice preten\u021bie pentru o iubire autentic\u0103, mai ales c\u00e2nd tu e\u0219ti vedet\u0103 tv \u0219i c\u00e2\u0219tigi suficient \u0219i singur\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eentre\u021bii o gr\u0103dini\u021b\u0103 \u00eentreag\u0103, cu tot cu personal. Nici m\u0103car nu ai scuza c\u0103 nu ai din ce tr\u0103i dac\u0103 pleci \u0219i c\u0103 ajungi la mila serviciului de asisten\u021b\u0103 social\u0103 din sectorul de care apar\u021bii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Regret c\u0103 e\u0219ti marioneta unuia care nu te place foarte tare, Ilinco. \u0218i regret c\u0103, prin ceea ce aberezi public, \u00eencerci s\u0103 convingi alte femei c\u0103 e ok a\u0219a. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu, gagici, nu e. Singur\u0103tatea e \u00eentotdeauna preferabil\u0103 unei rela\u021bii disfunc\u021bionale, iar dac\u0103 pui pe mas\u0103 jum\u0103tate din p\u00e2ine, \u00een cas\u0103 se face jum\u0103tate din munc\u0103, nonnegociabil. S\u0103 fii slug\u0103 nepl\u0103tit\u0103 \u00een al doilea job fulltime NU \u00eenseamn\u0103 rela\u021bie. S\u0103 treci orice cu vederea de dragul milioanelor unuia NU \u00eenseamn\u0103 rela\u021bie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen special c\u0103, \u00een momentul \u00een care e \u00eendr\u0103gostit de voi, un b\u0103rbat normal, bogat sau nu, va c\u0103uta moduri \u00een care s\u0103 v\u0103 ridice, nu moduri \u00een care s\u0103 v\u0103 doboare. Cei care fac b sunt ni\u0219te gunoaie psihopate \u0219i pretinsa lor iubire e doar o form\u0103 de subminare \u0219i control. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu le confunda\u021bi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Boicota\u021bi emisiunile Ilinc\u0103i Vandici \u0219i croitoria Danei Budeanu. Sus\u021bine\u021bi modele feminine care v\u0103 ajut\u0103 s\u0103 v\u0103 valorifica\u021bi poten\u021bialul, nu promotoarele abuzului. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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