Scrisorica de azi spune a\u015fa:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Drag\u0103 Lorena, <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cemi place mult rubrica Po\u0219ta redac\u021biei, \u0219i am nevoie de ajutor. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Sunt cu un tip de c\u00e2teva luni. La \u00eenceput, c\u00e2nd ne-am combinat, locuia cu alta. Mi-o tot vorbea de r\u0103u, c\u0103 e insistent\u0103, c\u0103 e cic\u0103litoare, c\u0103 nu face sex cum ar vrea el sau c\u00e2t ar vrea el, c\u0103 nu se simte iubit \u0219i multe altele. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n A p\u0103r\u0103sit-o pe aia \u0219i ne-am mutat \u00eempreun\u0103.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n Eu nu sunt genul gospodin\u0103, pentru c\u0103 nu prea am nevoie s\u0103 fiu. Am salariu mare, chem o tanti s\u0103 fac\u0103 curat o dat\u0103 pe s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 \u0219i prefer s\u0103 tr\u0103iesc, nu s\u0103 frec chestii. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Dar de c\u00e2nd m-am mutat cu tipul, el a \u00eenceput diverse compara\u021bii enervante cu fosta, c\u0103 aia f\u0103cea \u0219i aia dregea. Asta m\u0103 enerveaz\u0103, Lorena, pentru c\u0103 \u00eemi amintesc cum se pl\u00e2ngea de ea la \u00eenceputul rela\u021biei, \u0219i mi se pare foarte aiurea, dar nu \u0219tiu cum s\u0103 pun problema. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Help, please, <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n X. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Drag\u0103 X., <\/p>\n\n\n\n Exact cum mi-ai scris mie. P\u0103i bine, b\u0103i, Gogule, dac\u0103 era a\u0219a de minunat\u0103, de ce nu ai r\u0103mas cu ea? D\u0103-i un telefon, poate te mai a\u0219teapt\u0103, cu fierul de c\u0103lcat \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103. Nu, nu s\u0103 \u021bi-l aplice peste figur\u0103 c\u0103 ai p\u0103r\u0103sit-o, de\u0219i era gospodina perfect\u0103, dar asta nu te satisf\u0103cea. Ci s\u0103 se apuce direct de c\u0103lcat c\u0103m\u0103\u0219i, lol. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sunt oameni (\u0219i b\u0103rba\u021bi, \u0219i femei) de un egoism feroce. Ace\u0219tia \u00eei examineaz\u0103 \u0219i \u00eei trateaz\u0103 pe al\u021bii strict prin prisma nevoilor pe care ace\u0219ti al\u021bii le satisfac. \u0102la nu are inteligen\u021ba emo\u021bional\u0103 \u0219i altruismul necesare pentru a te \u00een\u021belege ca om de sine st\u0103t\u0103tor, cu bune \u0219i rele. \u0102la a schimbat un robot de buc\u0103t\u0103rie cu anumite func\u021bii (treab\u0103 prin cas\u0103) cu versiunea nou\u0103 \u0219i \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021bit\u0103 (tu), dar nu s-a a\u0219teptat s\u0103 existe \u0219i func\u021bii lips\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Surpriz\u0103, oameni diferi\u021bi vin cu calit\u0103\u021bi \u0219i defecte diferite, \u0219i trebuie accepta\u021bi ca atare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Legat de compara\u021biile \u0219i repro\u0219urile lui iubi, po\u021bi s\u0103: <\/p>\n\n\n\n a) \u00eei aminte\u0219ti de fiecare dat\u0103 v\u0103ic\u0103relile lui legate de fosta, \u00een momentul c\u00e2nd a p\u0103r\u0103sit-o. Se pare c\u0103 menajul gratis nu e good enough for you, gigel, de vreme ce, iat\u0103, e\u0219ti aici \u0219i nu acolo. De ce pretinzi lucruri pe care nu dai doi bani? <\/p>\n\n\n\n b) \u00eei spui c\u0103 drumul spre fosta e deschis nonstop din partea ta, dac\u0103 aranjamentul prezent nu \u00eel satisface. Dar s\u0103 te anun\u021be cu trei s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni preaviz, s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi dea timp s\u0103 cau\u021bi alt sclav sexual \u0219i s\u0103 apuci s\u0103-l sco\u021bi de la \u00eentre\u021binere. <\/p>\n\n\n\n c) \u00eei zici \u0219i tu de fostul t\u0103u care \u00ee\u021bi l\u0103sa s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2nal \u00een sertarul de bani o mie de euro pentru spart pe mici pl\u0103ceri feminine. \u0218i de fostul care \u00ee\u021bi d\u0103duse card s\u0103 cheltuie\u0219ti c\u00e2t vrei tu. \u0219i de fostul care te-a dus \u00een croaziere prin toat\u0103 lumea. \u00cen m\u0103sura \u00een care el copiaz\u0103 comportamentul fo\u0219tilor t\u0103i, poate cooperezi \u0219i tu \u00een a o imita pe fosta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n d) \u00cei explici frumos, omene\u0219te, c\u0103 are iubit\u0103, nu menajer\u0103, buc\u0103t\u0103reas\u0103 \u0219i slug\u0103. Dar aceste servicii sunt disponibile pe pia\u021b\u0103, contra cost. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 \u00eel vezi c\u0103 persist\u0103 \u00een a fi bou – unii \u00een\u021beleg din prima, al\u021bii o \u021bin pe a lor aiurea-n tramvai – \u00eencheie pur \u0219i simplu rela\u021bia. NU e treaba ta s\u0103 preiei obliga\u021biile nici unei foste. Dac\u0103 e fost\u0103, probabil c\u0103 defectele au fost mai mari dec\u00e2t calit\u0103\u021bile. Iar dac\u0103 nu au fost: de ce ai vrea s\u0103 fii cu unul care ia calit\u0103\u021bile ca pe ceva ce se cuvine l\u0219i se vaiet\u0103 doar de defecte? D\u0103-l \u00een mor\u021bii lui. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sper c\u0103 \u021bi-am fost util\u0103, <\/p>\n\n\n\n Lorena. <\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 v-a pl\u0103cut acest text, pute\u021bi sus\u0163ine activitatea siteului cu o dona\u0163ie. 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