{"id":23273,"date":"2022-05-01T10:19:20","date_gmt":"2022-05-01T07:19:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=23273"},"modified":"2022-05-01T10:19:21","modified_gmt":"2022-05-01T07:19:21","slug":"despre-transfobie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/despre-transfobie\/","title":{"rendered":"Despre transfobie"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

C\u00e2nd vine vorba de persoane transgender, v\u0103d lucrurile \u00eentr-un singur fel. Via\u021ba ta, corpul t\u0103u, deciziile tale. Dac\u0103 e\u0219ti un b\u0103rbat \u00een corp de femeie sau o femeie \u00een corp de b\u0103rbat, po\u021bi alege liber s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219ezi identitatea, s\u0103 refuzi normele tradi\u021bionaliste aplicabile unui corp \u00een care nu te reg\u0103se\u0219ti \u0219i, c\u00e2t timp nu d\u0103unezi nim\u0103nui cu asta, nimeni nu are dreptul s\u0103 te insulte. Un b\u0103rbat cis, adic\u0103 trup de b\u0103rbat, identitate asumat masculin\u0103, sau o femeie cis, trup de femeie cu identitate asumat feminin\u0103 nu cunosc suferin\u021ba \u0219i negarea de sine, eforturile \u0219i tortura interioar\u0103 care vin din diferen\u021ba at\u00e2t de mare \u00eentre corp \u0219i suflet. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Te afecteaz\u0103 cu ceva c\u0103 Dorel Ionescu, n\u0103scut b\u0103rbat la na\u0219tere, \u00ee\u0219i ia o rochie, un \u0219irag de m\u0103rgele \u0219i \u00ee\u0219i spune Dorela Ionescu, dac\u0103 asta simte c\u0103 e? Pe mine nu v\u0103d de ce m-ar privi deciziile lui Dorel Ionescu. Dorel Ionescu e o persoan\u0103 adult\u0103, vaccinat\u0103, \u00ee\u0219i cunoa\u0219te universul interior mai bine dec\u00e2t o s\u0103 i-l cunoa\u0219tem noi, cei de dinafar\u0103, iar dac\u0103 identitatea lui interioar\u0103 e aceea de femeie, da, v\u0103 rog, doamna Dorela, s\u0103 fi\u021bi fericit\u0103 \u0219i iubit\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Taman de aceea, c\u00e2nd Facebook \u00eemi bag\u0103 sub nas, nu \u0219tiu de ce, astfel de post\u0103ri, m\u0103 umplu de spume. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Opa, v\u0103d c\u0103 nu se vede prea bine ce debiteaz\u0103 gigel. Stai s\u0103 dau print screen la \u00een\u021belepciunile lui. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Remarc\u0103m cum gigelul \u0103sta abereaz\u0103 despre noul normal, ca \u0219i cum, dac\u0103 persoana din imagine, n\u0103scut\u0103 b\u0103rbat, alege s\u0103 se defineasc\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 ca o femeie, subit \u0219i el trebuie de m\u00e2ine s\u0103 poarte tocuri, s\u0103 se epileze \u0219i s\u0103-\u0219i spun\u0103 Costina. Definitely not the case. Noul normal e s\u0103 fii tu ceea ce e\u0219ti, dar s\u0103 m\u0103 la\u0219i \u0219i pe mine s\u0103 fiu ceea ce sunt. Iar ceea ce sunt e pe baz\u0103 de creier \u0219i spirit, nu pe baz\u0103 de organ genital. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

E aproape ilar cum intransigen\u021bii \u0103\u0219tia, care vor s\u0103 constr\u00e2ng\u0103 pe toat\u0103 lumea s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 numai \u00eentr-un anumit fel, proiecteaz\u0103 asupra oponen\u021bilor filme care povestesc despre un volum similar de intransigen\u021b\u0103. C\u00e2nd colo, despre ce e vorba \u00een S\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2na Pride? Las\u0103-i pe al\u021bii s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 \u00een pace. Nu vine nimeni s\u0103 te f** \u00een c** sau s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi dea limbi \u00een p*** cu sila. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen sezonul al 14-lea, RuPaul’s Drag Race, considerat cel mai important show de televiziune al comunit\u0103\u021bii LGBT, a acceptat primul competitor heterosexual. \u0218i l-au tratat normal \u0219i fratern. OK, au f\u0103cut un pic de mi\u0219to de mersul lui de h\u0103ndr\u0103l\u0103u din zona rural\u0103 a Americii, dar mers de h\u0103ndr\u0103l\u0103u din zona rural\u0103 a Rom\u00e2niei am \u0219i eu, deci probabil c\u0103 ar fi f\u0103cut mi\u0219to \u0219i de mine. Poate mai pu\u021bin agresiv dec\u00e2t mi\u0219toul care s-ar face de mersul meu la o emisiune hetero, ca Bravo, ai stil. Unde eu a\u0219 participa strict pe post de contrapunct comic la toate \u00eenchipuitele de acolo. Dar, hei, divaghez. Ideea e c\u0103 a venit un b\u0103rbat straight \u00een ga\u0219ca de gay, iar \u0103ia l-au acceptat ca atare f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 clipeasc\u0103. Sigur, cu fine mi\u0219touri legate de stilul lui, dar \u00eentre noi fie vorba, cam aveau dreptate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mbun, deci noul normal nu e c\u0103 to\u021bi suntem obliga\u021bi s\u0103 tranzi\u021bion\u0103m ci c\u0103 unii pot s\u0103 tranzi\u021bioneze \u0219i s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 a\u0219a cum simt. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen sprijinul urii sale fa\u021b\u0103 de persoanele trans, gigel aduce o poz\u0103 cu o femeie trans ajuns\u0103 la \u00eenchisoare. Da, oamenii fac fapte reprobabile indiferent de identitatea de gen, orientarea sexual\u0103, etnie \u0219i etc., dar, oricum, majoritatea infractorilor sunt tot b\u0103rba\u021bi hetero, \u0219i nu v\u0103d pe nimeni neg\u00e2ndu-le dreptul la existen\u021b\u0103 doar pentru c\u0103 unii fac p\u00e2rnaie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

La \u00eenchisoare, femeia trans a l\u0103sat gravide dou\u0103 colege de celul\u0103. Iar acest lucru ar dovedi, pe baza logicii lui Gigel, c\u0103 a) totul e vina educa\u021biei sexuale de la 4 ani \u0219i b) e vorba de dezaxare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am gug\u0103lit \u0219tirea. Sexul dintre femeia trans \u0219i cele dou\u0103 natur a fost pe deplin consensual, \u0219i nu doar asta, cu una dintre ele tocmai tr\u0103ie\u0219te o poveste profund\u0103 de iubire. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u0103i, dac\u0103 Orange Is The New Black ne-a \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat ceva, e tocmai faptul c\u0103 femeile se plictisesc r\u0103u la zdup, nu au ce face toat\u0103 ziua, \u0219i atunci, se h\u00e2rjonesc \u00een fel \u0219i chip de cum prind un col\u021bi\u0219or lini\u0219tit sau o ciozv\u00e2rt\u0103 de \u00eentuneric. Dac\u0103 era o femeie bio care se \u00eencurca cu dou\u0103 colege de celul\u0103, nu mai era nici o problem\u0103, nu? Dimpotriv\u0103, gigel ar fi \u00eentrebat c\u00e2nd iese filmul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

E o percep\u021bie gre\u0219it\u0103 c\u0103 femeile transgender sunt atrase numai de b\u0103rba\u021bi, iar b\u0103rba\u021bii transgenderi, numai de femei. Sigur, sunt \u0219i din \u0103\u0219tia. Dar sunt foarte mul\u021bi \/ multe care sunt atrase de ambele genuri \u00een egal\u0103 m\u0103sur\u0103, \u0219i chiar unii de orientare sexual\u0103 adecvat\u0103 corpului \u00een care s-au n\u0103scut. \u0218tiu situa\u021bii de femei transgender aflate \u00een rela\u021bii cu femei bio sau alte femei transsgender. B\u0103rba\u021bi transgender atra\u0219i de b\u0103rba\u021bi bio, al\u021bi b\u0103rba\u021bi transgender sau chiar femei transgender. Identitatea de gen nu se suprapune peste orientarea sexual\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Deci, marea dram\u0103 \u0219i marea dezaxare din textul lui gigel e c\u0103 trei persoane au f\u0103cut sex consensual. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar dac\u0103 un b\u0103rbat biologic o urm\u0103rea pe una pe strad\u0103 \u0219i o apuca de c***, vinovat\u0103 era ea c\u0103 nu avea fusta mai lung\u0103 \u0219i c\u0103 purta machiaj. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ce leg\u0103tur\u0103 are sexul liber consim\u021bit dintre tipa trans \u0219i cele dou\u0103 viitoare gravide cu educa\u021bia sexual\u0103 a minorilor. de vreme ce toate trei sunt de v\u00e2rst\u0103 adult\u0103? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 e un lucru care duce la nenum\u0103rate violuri, abuzuri \u0219i un num\u0103r teribil de mare de mame minore, e exact invers. Totul deriv\u0103 din absen\u021ba educa\u021biei sexuale, care s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021be copilul cum s\u0103 identifice semne de h\u0103r\u021buire \u0219i cum s\u0103 se apere de ele. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iar presupunerea c\u0103, inform\u00e2ndu-i pe copii despre existen\u021ba comunit\u0103\u021bii LGBT, \u00eel molipse\u0219ti de transgenderit\u0103 acut\u0103, e o prostie cras\u0103. Pe orice transgender, gay, lesbian\u0103 \u0219i etc. \u00eel s\u00e2c\u00e2ie lung familia \u0219i societarea c\u0103 e cazul s\u0103 se adapteze normelor \u00een vigoare, \u0219i tot nu se “]ntreapt\u0103”. Pentru c\u0103 \u0219i ceea ce e\u0219ti, \u0219i ce \u00ee\u021bi place s\u0103 f sunt \u00eenscrise ad\u00e2nc \u00een tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar indivizii ca acesta nu stau s\u0103 g\u00e2ndeasc\u0103 logic. Ura \u0219i prostia \u00eei priveaz\u0103 de abilitatea de a ra\u021biona. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen definitiv, dac\u0103 privim cazul din \u00eenchisoare la modul calm \u0219i rece: ni\u0219te oameni au f\u0103cut sex, pentru c\u0103 au vrut, \u0219i au ap\u0103rut dou\u0103 sarcini. Accentul e PENTRU C\u0102 AU VRUT. Oare \u0103sta s\u0103 fie aspectul triggering pentru gigel? Faptul c\u0103, \u00een cazul femeii transgender, femeile au vrut? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Din acest punct: fiind o \u021bar\u0103 democratic\u0103, \u00eenc\u0103 exist\u0103 op\u021biunea avortului, deci, dac\u0103 femeile nu simt c\u0103 pot duce responsabilitatea unui copil, pot pune stop sarcinii. Dac\u0103 prefer\u0103, \u00eei pot na\u0219te \u0219i \u00eei pot da spre adop\u021bie. Pe acolo, procedurile de adop\u021bie sunt simple \u0219i eficiente. Iar dac\u0103 \u00eei vor, pot s\u0103-i aib\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103-i creasc\u0103. Fiind o \u021bar\u0103 educat\u0103, au disponibile toate variantele din lume. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Unde e dezaxarea? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Din punctul meu de vedere, e doar \u00een ura \u0219i spumele ira\u021bionale ale lui gigel. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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