{"id":23310,"date":"2022-05-05T10:18:16","date_gmt":"2022-05-05T07:18:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=23310"},"modified":"2022-05-05T11:48:57","modified_gmt":"2022-05-05T08:48:57","slug":"metoo-la-gopo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/metoo-la-gopo\/","title":{"rendered":"#metoo la Gopo"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Exist\u0103 c\u00e2teva gale pompoase \u015fi cu preten\u0163ii \u00een Rom\u00e2nia. Nu intereseaz\u0103 pe nimeni. Au o morg\u0103 lipsit\u0103 de carism\u0103, expirat\u0103 de 30 de ani, de serbare comunist\u0103 fake \u015fi preten\u0163ioas\u0103, \u015fi to\u0163i prezentatorii vorbesc limba de lemn specific\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Spre deosebire de astea, Gopo izbute\u015fte performan\u0163a de a face an de an controvers\u0103 at\u00e2t \u00een social media, c\u00e2t \u015fi \u00een pres\u0103, s\u0103 fac\u0103 gurile bune \u015fi rele deopotriv\u0103 s\u0103 comenteze, iar acest lucru este foarte actual \u015fi specific culturii anilor 2020. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pentru c\u0103 s\u0103 fim sinceri: \u00een afar\u0103 de c\u00e2\u0163iva cinefili masochi\u015fti, nici dracu n-o s\u0103 fie interesat s\u0103 iroseasc\u0103 trei ore aride \u015fi chinuitoare cu noua capodoper\u0103 a lui Cristi Puiu, iar faptul c\u0103 omul \u00ee\u015fi desconsider\u0103 din ce \u00een ce mai mult spectatorii \u015fi \u00ee\u015fi bate p de snobismul lor \u00een arc de cerc din ce \u00een ce mai amplu se vede de la un film la altul. Faptul c\u0103 lumea nu mai are chef s\u0103 mearg\u0103 la cinema li se datoreaz\u0103 \u015fi celor ca el. S\u0103 zicem c\u0103 eu a\u015f fi un suflet t\u00e2n\u0103r, \u00eensetat de art\u0103, dornic s\u0103 m\u0103 cultiv. Dac\u0103 cineva \u00ee\u015fi bate joc de inocen\u0163a mea cu un film de Cristi Puiu, garantat m\u0103 \u00eentorc la Twilight \u015fi la High School Musical pentru tot restul vie\u0163ii mele. Cam cu moartea domnului L\u0103z\u0103rescu, a murit \u015fi cheful lui Puiu de a face un film care s\u0103 intereseze \u00een mod real \u015fi onest pe cineva. Faptul c\u0103 \u00een continuare industria din Rom\u00e2nia se \u00eenc\u0103p\u0103\u0163\u00e2neaz\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eei s**\u0103 p**a umil \u015fi preaplecat e emblema ipocriziei acestui neam. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eroinele galei de acest an au fost dou\u0103 femei, Viorica Vod\u0103 \u015fi Katia Pascariu, \u015fi, dac\u0103 la un film de Cristi Puiu nu m-a\u015f uita nici dac\u0103 a\u015f primi o superofert\u0103 de 10.000 de euro net s\u0103-l promovez &#8211; ok, rectific, poate abia atunci, dar cu banii \u00eenainte, ca la intelectuale &#8211; la un film cu Viorica Vod\u0103 \u015fi Katia Pascariu m-a\u015f uita, a\u015f face promovare gratis, a\u015f pl\u0103ti bilet \u015fi a\u015f face concurs pe blog s\u0103 pl\u0103tesc din banii mei bilet pentru o sut\u0103 de c\u00e2\u015ftig\u0103tori. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pentru c\u0103, mult prea mult timp, entertainmentul rom\u00e2nesc a fost dominat doar de b\u0103rba\u0163i, iar majoritatea rolurilor feminine erau pe dou\u0103 coordonate cli\u015feice: mama gospodin\u0103, fata t\u00e2n\u0103r\u0103, c\u0103ut\u0103toare de iubire \u015fi c***a par\u015fiv\u0103, care \u00eencurc\u0103 vie\u0163ile altora.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ajunsesem deja s\u0103 glumesc cu directorii de casting: Hai, b\u0103i, Oano, \u00eenc\u0103 o c***\u0103?? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Da, p\u0103i ce vrei s\u0103 fii? Tanti Nu\u0163i? Dac\u0103 te pun s\u0103 tai o ceap\u0103, faci ploaie de degete. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mi se pare extrem de important ce a punctat Viorica Vod\u0103, \u015fi anume h\u0103r\u0163uirea sexual\u0103 de care a avut parte. \u015ei acest tip de h\u0103r\u0163uire sexual\u0103 nu e specific doar teatrului \u015fi filmului rom\u00e2nesc, ci \u00een majoritatea domeniilor profesionale. Dac\u0103 e\u015fti frumu\u015fic\u0103 \u015fi unul pune ochii pe tine, te trateaz\u0103 ca \u015fi cum te trecuse\u015fi benevol \u00een catastiful de f***e. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eu, dup\u0103 cum m\u0103 \u015fti\u0163i, sunt genul de om pe care nu \u00eel prea po\u0163i h\u0103r\u0163ui sexual, pentru c\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2i indic destul de clar \u015fi de rece c\u0103 nu \u0163ine figura, \u015fi apoi, dac\u0103 v\u0103d c\u0103 gigel insist\u0103 bovin, de la un punct \u00eencolo, \u00eemi bag poola \u00een mor\u0163i\u015forii lui de m\u0103 aude tot Bucure\u015ftiul, din Pipera \u015fi p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een P\u0103cii. \u015ei nu regret asta. Dac\u0103 rahatul \u0103sta de \u0163ar\u0103 misogin\u0103 n-ar fi produs at\u00e2tea gunoaie de b\u0103rba\u0163i gre\u0163o\u015fi \u015fi iritan\u0163i, probabil c\u0103 n-a\u015f fi dezvoltat acest skill. Dar omul face ce trebuie s\u0103 fac\u0103 pentru a supravie\u0163ui. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen schimb, industria entertainmentului din Rom\u00e2nia are alte trei moduri de a h\u0103r\u0163ui actri\u0163e. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>A) Castingul cu prelungiri. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Te cheam\u0103 unii la un casting. \u00ce\u0163i trimit un text. Tu stai, investe\u015fti timpul t\u0103u valoros. \u00eenve\u0163i textul, te aranjezi, te duci, dai tot ce po\u0163i. Apoi \u00eencepi s\u0103 prime\u015fti telefoane \u015fi mailuri nedorite de la \u0103la care face proiectul, pentru c\u0103 de fapt te chemase la casting c\u0103 i se cam pusese pata pe tine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 nu cooperezi, fie te respinge \u015fi atunci ai f\u0103cut tot acel efort degeaba, sau, dac\u0103 e par\u015fiv \u015fi pervers. Te mai cheam\u0103 o dat\u0103. \u015ei \u00eenc\u0103 o dat\u0103. \u015ei \u00eenc\u0103 o dat\u0103. La un moment dat, \u00eencepi s\u0103 te \u00eentrebi dac\u0103 nu cumva e\u015fti angajat\u0103 full time la departamentul de casting al proiectului, pentru c\u0103 ai ajuns s\u0103 ba\u0163i drumul \u0103la mai des dec\u00e2t drumul la Carrefourul de peste drum de casa ta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar nu. \u0102la care face proiectul se uit\u0103 \u00eentreb\u0103tor la tine, dac\u0103 te-ai mai g\u00e2ndit legat de \u015ftii tu ce. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tu \u00een punctul \u0103sta e\u015fti at\u00e2t de frustrat\u0103 de num\u0103rul mare de plimb\u0103ri f\u0103r\u0103 finalitatea unui contract ferm, \u00eenc\u00e2t singurul f*** la care te g\u00e2nde\u015fti e cum s\u0103-\u0163i ba\u0163i p*** \u00een m\u0103-sa. \u015ei se vede pe tine. Apoi brusc, peste noapte, e ales altcineva pentru rol, iar tu r\u0103m\u00e2i cu o avere investit\u0103 \u00een taxiuri, fond de ten, un vraf de texte studiate degeaba \u015fi o ur\u0103 re\u00eennoit\u0103 pe b\u0103rba\u0163i. Apoi, tot ei: De ce sunt at\u00e2t de frustrate femeile moderne, tssss. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 nu ar fi existat aspectul a\u015ftept\u0103ri sexuale \u015fi a\u015f fi luat toate castingurile la care m-am dus pe criteriul adecv\u0103rii la rol, cred c\u0103 a\u015f fi avut o list\u0103 de credite de film p\u00e2n\u0103 la  Cucuie\u0163ii de Deal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>B) \u0102ia cu care nu te f \u00eencep s\u0103 te vorbeasc\u0103 de r\u0103u, s\u0103 te fac\u0103 dificil\u0103 \u015fi nebun\u0103 <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dup\u0103 ce au abuzat \u00een acest mod de timpul t\u0103u \u015fi de disponibilitatea ta de a da prob\u0103 dup\u0103 prob\u0103, dar nu s-a legat aspectul co\u0163\u0103ial\u0103, \u00eencep s\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nce c**t despre tine. C\u0103 e\u015fti nebun\u0103. C\u0103 e\u015fti dificil\u0103. C\u0103 e\u015fti rea. C\u0103 e\u015fti dus\u0103 cu pluta. C\u0103 etc etc etc. Chit c\u0103 istoricul faptic e c\u0103 ai fost mai mult dec\u00e2t tolerant\u0103 \u0219i r\u0103bd\u0103toare, c\u0103 te-ai prezentat  con\u0219tiincios \u0219i punctual la n castinguri \u0219i ai fost mereu un candidat implicat \u0219i deschis. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u015ei cum mult\u0103 lume e fie credul\u0103, fie r\u0103uvoitoare, fie ambele, din trei gigei care m\u0103n\u00e2nc\u0103 kkt despre tine  aiurea-n tramvai \u0163i se zide\u015fte o reputa\u0163ie abominabil\u0103, de ajungi pe lista neagr\u0103 a tuturor \u015fi pas de mai munce\u015fte \u00een domeniu, dac\u0103 po\u0163i. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>C) Dar \u00een continuare se a\u015fteapt\u0103 gratuit\u0103\u0163i de la tine<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Poate vrei s\u0103-mi poveste\u015fti \u015fi mie experien\u0163a ta nu \u015ftiu care, c\u0103 documentez un scenariu, poate vrei s\u0103 te ui\u0163i \u015fi tu peste chestia asta, poate vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 aju\u0163i cu ni\u015fte prietene ale tale videochatiste, poate \u015ftii o actri\u0163\u0103 care vrea s\u0103 joace topless, poate vrei s\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu, nu vreau s\u0103. Nu-mi mai pretinde gratuit\u0103\u0163i \u015fi nu m\u0103 mai pune  la cincizeci de drumuri degeaba. Respect\u0103 regula de trei simpl\u0103. A) Angajeaz\u0103-m\u0103. B) Pl\u0103te\u015fte-m\u0103. C) Nu te da la mine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>S\u0103 revenim la m\u0103rturisirea vulnerabil\u0103 \u015fi dureroas\u0103 a Vioric\u0103i Vod\u0103. A trecut ignorat\u0103, ba chiar luat\u0103 la mi\u015fto de colegii ei de echip\u0103, b\u0103rba\u0163i \u015fi femei. Cam cum se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 tradi\u0163ional cu h\u0103r\u0163uirea \u00eempotriva femeilor, \u00een \u0163ara asta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Din punctul acesta de vedere, fotografia de al\u0103turi e priceless. \u015ei at\u00e2t de gr\u0103itoare.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar dac\u0103 ne uit\u0103m la fe\u0163ele celor doi actori din background, ele ilustreaz\u0103 exact reac\u0163ia societ\u0103\u0163ii rom\u00e2ne\u015fti la tot acest stres \u015fi toate aceste h\u0103r\u0163uiri experimentate de femei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>B\u0103rbatul, profund plictisit, profund nep\u0103s\u0103tor, iritat c\u0103 acest subiect insignifiant apare iar \u00een raza lui auditiv\u0103. Iar femeia nu foarte atr\u0103g\u0103toare e like: ce s\u0103 zic, drag\u0103, de ce mie nu mi se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103? P\u0103i nu \u0163i se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 pentru c\u0103 nimeni nu se g\u00e2nde\u015fte la tine \u00een acel mod, dar asta nu invalideaz\u0103 cu nimic  tot rahatul prin care trece o femeie care e actually frumoas\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Noroc cu Katia Pascariu, c\u00e2\u015ftig\u0103toarea premiului Gopo pentru rol principal feminin, care a confirmat \u015fi a &#8216;\u00eent\u0103rit confesiunea Vioric\u0103i Vod\u0103. \u015ei care i-a mul\u0163umit artistei mai mature c\u0103 a deschis subiectul, \u015fi a dezb\u0103tut frecven\u0163a cu care se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 cele men\u0163ionate de ea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aceste dou\u0103 femei au f\u0103cut ca Premiile Gopo de acest an s\u0103 conteze. \u015ei s\u0103 nu fie \u00eenc\u0103 o ceremonie de mon\u015ftri sacri care se pup\u0103 \u00een c** unii pe al\u0163ii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 v-a pl\u0103cut acest text, pute\u021bi sus\u0163ine activitatea siteului cu o dona\u0163ie.&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/paypalme\/Trollywood\"><strong>Aici<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-14577\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>***<br>Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/lorenalupu\">Twitter<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;\u015fi&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCCHBtHi6S2GlUFqETH70cjQ\">YouTube<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ascult\u0103 Jet pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/album\/3ahSP7bHbzcKsWtGDdzRLK\">Spotify<\/a><\/strong>, cump\u0103r\u0103 piesa pe&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/music.apple.com\/album\/id\/1497428911\"><strong>iTunes<\/strong><\/a>&nbsp;sau pe&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Jet\/dp\/B084DZ4W5J\"><strong>Amazon Music<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Exist\u0103 c\u00e2teva gale pompoase \u015fi cu preten\u0163ii \u00een Rom\u00e2nia. Nu intereseaz\u0103 pe nimeni. 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