{"id":23384,"date":"2022-05-21T10:36:57","date_gmt":"2022-05-21T07:36:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=23384"},"modified":"2022-05-21T10:36:59","modified_gmt":"2022-05-21T07:36:59","slug":"despre-despartirile-de-fenta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/despre-despartirile-de-fenta\/","title":{"rendered":"Despre desp\u0103r\u0163irile de fent\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Azi, dragi prieteni, vom trata un red flag absolut abominabil din dating. \u015ei anume, genul de gigel sau gigel\u0103 care se tot desparte de tine, apoi revine asupra deciziei \u015fi \u00eencepe s\u0103 se milogeasc\u0103, apoi se desparte iar \u015fi tot a\u015fa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Acum, depinde ce vre\u0163i \u015fi voi. Dac\u0103 vre\u0163i doar sex periodic, genul \u0103sta de persoan\u0103 e ideal. Nu ai cum s\u0103 iei \u00een serios at\u00e2ta superficialitate \u015fi instabilitate, drept care, iei ce e de luat f\u0103r\u0103 p\u0103reri de r\u0103u \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 ezit\u0103ri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar dac\u0103 vre\u0163i o rela\u0163ie serioas\u0103 \u015fi profund\u0103, decizia e simpl\u0103 \u015fi clar\u0103. Fugi\u0163i m\u00e2nc\u00e2nd p\u0103m\u00e2ntul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nici un om serios \u015fi responsabil nu se suce\u015fte la modul \u0103sta. O, vai, te iubesc de nu mai pot. \u00cemi pare r\u0103u, \u00eemi doresc s\u0103 ne oprim. Dar stai, te iubesc de nu mai pot. Dar stai, e cazul s\u0103 ne oprim. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Omul care face asta cu tine nu d\u0103 doi bani pe sentimentele \u015fi pe emo\u0163iile tale. Altfel, i-ar fi team\u0103 c\u0103 te va pierde. \u015ei ar ezita luuung \u00eenainte s\u0103 \u00eencerce fente cu tine, pentru c\u0103 ar intui c\u0103 nu vor \u0163ine \u015fi c\u0103 o va lua la mu** dur. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei nu, faptul c\u0103 se \u00eentoarce peste dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni, milogindu-se s\u0103 relua\u0163i firul pove\u015ftii nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 \u00eentre timp a realizat ce valoare inestimabil\u0103 e\u015fti \u015fi c\u0103 \u00eei pare r\u0103u de pierdere. \u00censeamn\u0103 doar c\u0103 \u015ftie c\u0103 are un obiect de joac\u0103 u\u015for de m\u00e2nuit \u015fi c\u0103 extrage putere din acest du-te-vino al manipul\u0103rii ieftine. C\u0103 \u00ee\u015fi umfl\u0103 egoul \u015fi iluzia puterii din emo\u0163iile tale. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cu genul \u0103sta de om merit\u0103 s\u0103 fii c\u00e2t po\u0163i tu de distant \u015fi de rece. Pe de o parte pentru c\u0103, dejuc\u00e2ndu-i planurile de a face yoyo cu tine, ie\u015fi din filmul narcisist de “oh, myyyy, ce fabulo\u015fenie irezistibil\u0103 sunt, n-ai v\u0103zuuuuut a\u015fa cevaaaaaaaaaaaa, uite cum moare sclavul \u0103sta dup\u0103 mine.” \u015ei pentru c\u0103 ace\u015fti oameni sunt \u00een mod dubios sedu\u015fi exact de cei pe care simt c\u0103 nu-i pot manipula. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un om pentru care contezi c\u00e2tu\u015fi de pu\u0163in, tu ca persoan\u0103, nu se va \u015fterge la c** cu tine. Dintr-un motiv simplu. \u00cei pas\u0103 de ceea ce sim\u0163i. \u015ei de modul \u00een care te poate afecta prin deciziile lui sau ei. \u00cen momentul \u00een care \u00ee\u0163i tot d\u0103 desp\u0103r\u0163iri de fent\u0103, e de o imaturitate dureroas\u0103 \u015fi, din momentul \u0103la, e cazul s\u0103 te deta\u015fezi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei dac\u0103 se roag\u0103? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 e o persoan\u0103 foarte hot \u015fi bun\u0103 la pat, desigur, mai merge o tur\u0103. Dar f\u0103r\u0103 investi\u0163ie sufleteasc\u0103 \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 iluzii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2nd cineva te place cu adev\u0103rat, are planuri cu tine. Mai pe termen scurt, mai pe termen lung, \u00een unele cazuri pe termen nelimitat. Nu \u00ee\u015fi pune nici o secund\u0103 problema c\u0103 ar putea s\u0103 renun\u0163e la tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 un om \u00ee\u015fi declar\u0103 renun\u0163area – cred c\u0103 e cazul s\u0103 ne oprim – eu, una, nu \u00eemi pot imagina vreun motiv valid care s\u0103 justifice \u00eenc\u0103 o \u015fans\u0103. Nu conteaz\u0103 c\u00e2t insist\u0103, sau \u00een ce moduri se roag\u0103. Dac\u0103 nu te-a luat \u00een serios din prima, ce te face s\u0103 crezi c\u0103 te ia \u00een serios acum?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu uita\u0163i. \u015emecherii \u00ee\u015fi permit s\u0103 fie \u015fmecheri doar dac\u0103 exist\u0103 fraieri cu care s\u0103 \u0163in\u0103 vr\u0103jeala. De aceea cer unii gigei femeilor s\u0103 z\u00e2mbeasc\u0103. Par mai u\u015for de prostit c\u00e2nd au un z\u00e2mbet t\u00e2mp pe fa\u0163\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar de ce trebuie obligatoriu s\u0103 prosteasc\u0103 pe cineva? Pentru c\u0103, pur \u0219i simplu, unii oameni nu se simt bine \u00een situa\u021bii de tip win – win. Dac\u0103 cel\u0103lalt e fericit, ceva nu e \u00een regul\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Unica re\u021bet\u0103 a fericirii e: pe seama suferin\u021bei altuia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A\u0219adar: se tot desparte \u0219i revine unul -una? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ajuta\u021bi-l voi \u00een indecizie cu un haipa definitiv. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cu pl\u0103cere. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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