Sigur, c\u00e2nd e o diferen\u0163\u0103 de v\u00e2rst\u0103 at\u00e2t de mare \u00eentre eroi, te a\u015ftep\u0163i ca fl\u0103c\u0103ul s\u0103 realizeze impactul emo\u0163ional al faptelor lui asupra unui copil. \u015ei nu, nu m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 s\u0103 vin\u0103 te miri cine s\u0103 \u00eemi abereze c\u0103 dac\u0103 ea a g\u0103sit traseul coco\u015felului spre p\u0103s\u0103ric\u0103 nu mai era copil. Ba era. Un copil manipulat s\u0103 ofere sex unui b\u0103iat mult mai mare, pe care probabil c\u0103 se temea c\u0103 \u00eel va pierde altminteri. Un copil exploatat s\u0103 fac\u0103 sex, cam cum fuseser\u0103 exploatate \u015fi colegele mele din general\u0103. Nu e ca \u015fi cum sim\u0163ea vreuna vreo pl\u0103cere fizic\u0103. Era strict o tranzac\u0163ie. Ele livrau g\u0103urica str\u00e2mt\u0103 \u015fi umed\u0103, \u0103la \u00een schimb le b\u0103ga \u00een seam\u0103 \u015fi le f\u0103cea s\u0103 se simt\u0103 iubite \u015fi integrate social. Cam \u0103sta e singurul rol al sexului c\u00e2nd tu abia \u015ftii s\u0103-\u0163i legi \u015fireturile. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dar nu. \u0102la a decis s\u0103 c\u00e2\u015ftige puncte de bengo\u015fenie umilind-o public pe feti\u0163a pe care o sedusese \u015fi ar\u0103t\u00e2nd pozele \u015fi filmele cu ea \u00eentregului liceu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u015ei de aici, a urmat un calvar. H\u0103r\u0163uire, umilire, jigniri, amenin\u0163\u0103ri. \u015ei nu doar de la b\u0103ie\u0163i care, m\u0103 rog. Mul\u0163i probabil c\u0103 erau la fel de idio\u0163i b\u0103tubili \u00een cap ca el. Ci \u015fi de la fete care, \u00een mod normal, ar fi trebuit s\u0103 empatizeze cu o fat\u0103 filmat\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 voia ei \u015fi expus\u0103 cu scopul r\u0103zbun\u0103rii. C\u00e2nd mama fetei a venit la \u015fcoal\u0103 s\u0103 discute cu directorul, au \u00eenceput s\u0103 o bruscheze \u015fi s\u0103 o jigneasc\u0103 \u015fi pe ea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Singura solu\u0163ie a r\u0103mas tribunalul. Iar verdictul? O jignire la adresa decen\u0163ei umane. Dup\u0103 acest caz grav de p***grafie infantil\u0103, revenge porn, h\u0103r\u0163uire \u015fi instigare la h\u0103r\u0163uire, te a\u015fteptai la ani grei de \u00eenchisoare, exmatriculare, ceva consecin\u0163e solide care s\u0103 \u00eenve\u0163e pulifricii de rahat ai acestei \u0163\u0103ri de rahat c\u0103, o dat\u0103 ce ai fost cu o femeie, pentru c\u0103 se presupune c\u0103 ai iubit-o, o respec\u0163i \u00een mor\u0163ii m\u0103-tii de jeg bor\u00e2t \u015fi c\u0103lcabil pe cap \u015fi nu te apuci s\u0103 postezi intimit\u0103\u0163i \u00eenregistrate f\u0103r\u0103 acord. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sincer? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Eu a\u015f pedepsi revenge porn cu castrare chimic\u0103. Cineva care se raporteaz\u0103 \u00eentr-un mod at\u00e2t de toxic la femeile din via\u0163a lui nu merit\u0103 s\u0103 poat\u0103 face sex \u00een continuare. \u015ei p****grafia infantil\u0103, idem. \u0102sta trebuia castrat de patru testicule pentru ce i-a f\u0103cut respectivei copile. Sau mai barbar. T\u0103iate cu fier\u0103str\u0103ul, cusute la loc cu a\u0163\u0103 marin\u0103reasc\u0103 \u015fi t\u0103iate cu fier\u0103str\u0103ul \u00eenc\u0103 o dat\u0103. Poate c\u0103 asta ar echivala ru\u015finea, umilin\u0163a, suferin\u0163a, anxietatea, situa\u0163iile de nedescris prin care trece o victim\u0103 de revenge p**n. Chiar \u015fi una adult\u0103. D-ap\u0103i un copil? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tribunalul, dragi cititori, a ordonat confiscarea telefonului pe care se aflau pozele \u015fi filmele. At\u00e2t. De parc\u0103 nu po\u0163i accesa de pe un laptop conectat tot ce e pe telefon \u015fi s\u0103 salvezi tot ce-\u0163i convine, lol. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
De ce via\u0163a, integritatea, intimitatea, dreptul la onoare ale unei femei au zero valoare \u00een mizeria asta de \u0163ar\u0103? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sper ca p\u0103rin\u0163ii fetei s\u0103 fac\u0103 apel \u015fi s\u0103 cear\u0103 pu\u015fc\u0103rie pentru jegul care i-a provocat ni\u015fte traume teribile fiicei lor. Nu corec\u0163ie, nu terapie. Revenge p**n trebuie pedepsit cu PU\u015eC\u0102RIE. Ani grei de pu\u015fc\u0103rie, s\u0103 piard\u0103 \u0103la orice oportunitate de carier\u0103 \u015fi, odat\u0103 cu asta, orice oportunitate de a mai profita de \u00eencrederea \u015fi dragostea unor femei pentru a le umili public. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00cen schimb, vreau s\u0103 aduc \u00een aten\u0163ia domniilor voastre un alt aspect, cel pu\u0163in la fel de grav- <\/p>\n\n\n\n
OK, gunoiul prost \u015fi javr\u0103 e gunoi prost \u015fi javr\u0103, at\u00e2ta poate \u015fi at\u00e2ta face, PU\u015eC\u0102RIEEEE. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Faptul cu adev\u0103rat grav e c\u0103 to\u0163i elevii acelei \u015fcoli au pactizat cu agresorul. To\u0163i au \u00eenceput s\u0103 insulte, s\u0103 amenin\u0163e, s\u0103 h\u0103r\u0163uiasc\u0103 victima. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
F\u0103r\u0103 acest tip de efect de turm\u0103, \u0103la r\u0103m\u00e2nea un paria social, pentru c\u0103 lumea ar fi ales s\u0103 se deta\u015feze de comportamentul \u015fi de faptele lui, iar fata era l\u0103sat\u0103 \u00een pace, pentru c\u0103 lumea ar fi \u00een\u0163eles c\u0103 dobitocul nu i-a solicitat consim\u0163\u0103m\u00e2ntul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
I meeean, nu trebuie s\u0103 fii un geniu, sau cine \u015ftie ce savant de renume mondial s\u0103 te prinzi c\u0103 faptul c\u0103 \u0103la plimb\u0103 nuduri ale ei f\u0103r\u0103 acord e nu doar ilegal ci \u015fi o atingere adus\u0103 onoarei \u015fi demnit\u0103\u0163ii persoanei. C\u0103 \u0163ine de bun sim\u0163 elementar s\u0103 nu aprobi \u015fi aplauzi ca foca astfel de fapte. S\u0103 nu plusezi pe linia lor \u015fi s\u0103 devii \u015fi tu creativ \u00een a agasa oameni care nu-\u0163i datoreaz\u0103 nimic. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u015ei totu\u015fi, de ce un liceu \u00eentreg de tineri \u00een linii mari normali au ales s\u0103 h\u0103r\u0163uiasc\u0103 – jigneasc\u0103 – umileasc\u0103 victima? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
De ce au luat \u00een bra\u0163e tic\u0103lo\u015fia infect\u0103 \u015fi sc\u00e2rboas\u0103 a \u0103luia, \u015fi nu drama unui copil care s-a trezit peste noapte f\u0103cut troac\u0103 de porci, pentru o singur\u0103 vin\u0103 – \u015fi anume, faptul c\u0103, din dorin\u0163a de a p\u0103stra un mascul, i-a oferit \u0103luia tot ce i-a cerut? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
De ce grupuri mari de oameni se las\u0103 m\u00e2na\u0163i \u00een ac\u0163iuni toxice, violente, cu consecin\u0163e cumplite, de c\u00e2te un tic\u0103los, \u015fi nu \u00ee\u015fi folosesc mintea din dotare s\u0103 se \u00eentrebe de ce fac ceea ce fac? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
E de meditat la asta. \u015ei e de tras o concluzie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Putem alege s\u0103 fim marionete, s\u0103 facem jocul bully-ilor \u015fi nemernicilor, sau s\u0103 zicem stop, stai a\u015fa, de ce. Ce consecin\u0163e au faptele mele \u015fi de ce s\u0103 fiu eu idiotul util al altuia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u015ei cu c\u00e2t, \u00een astfel de contexte, punem sub semnul \u00eentreb\u0103rii pretextele \u015fi minciunile agresorului \u015fi cu c\u00e2t refuz\u0103m s\u0103-i facem jocul, cu at\u00e2t vom elimina astfel de comportamente din societate \u015fi implicit traumele induse de ele. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Exist\u0103 vreo justificare pentru revenge p? V\u0103 zic eu: Absolut deloc. Dac\u0103 o femeie nu te mai iube\u015fte \u015fi nu te mai respect\u0103, desparte-te \u015fi punct. Orgoliul t\u0103u de ciumpalac nu e mai presus de via\u0163a \u015fi demnitatea ei. Iar dac\u0103 crezi c\u0103 e, e\u015fti un gunoi subuman \u015fi meri\u0163i s\u0103 fii f\u0103cut po\u015ft\u0103 \u00een \u00eenchisoare de de\u0163inu\u0163i cu bile pe p. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Exist\u0103 vreo justificare pentru a aplauda revenge p \u015fi a h\u0103r\u0163ui victima? V\u0103 zic eu: Absolut nici una. S\u0103 filmezi sau fotografiezi pe cineva f\u0103r\u0103 acord e o infrac\u0163iune. Iar c\u00e2nd tu sus\u0163ii agresorul \u015fi blamezi victima, devii complice al infrac\u0163iunii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Grij\u0103 mare cu cine ne \u00eenh\u0103it\u0103m \u015fi grij\u0103 \u015fi mai mare ce ne l\u0103s\u0103m influen\u0163a\u0163i s\u0103 facem. De obicei, dac\u0103 e \u00een zona atac – mi\u015ftoc\u0103real\u0103 de X, pe care tu nu-l cuno\u015fti \u015fi care \u00ee\u015fi vede lini\u015ftit de treaba lui, mai mult ca sigur, amicul e un bully \u015fi te corupe s\u0103 devii \u015fi tu unul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
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