{"id":23459,"date":"2022-06-05T10:38:12","date_gmt":"2022-06-05T07:38:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=23459"},"modified":"2022-06-05T11:14:04","modified_gmt":"2022-06-05T08:14:04","slug":"cum-sa-interactionezi-cu-persoane-transgender","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/cum-sa-interactionezi-cu-persoane-transgender\/","title":{"rendered":"Cum s\u0103 interac\u0163ionezi cu persoane transgender"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ieri, am citit pe peretele Antonellei acest status. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"672\" height=\"361\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Captura-de-ecran-2022-06-05-040019.jpg?resize=672%2C361&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-23460\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Captura-de-ecran-2022-06-05-040019.jpg?w=672&amp;ssl=1 672w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Captura-de-ecran-2022-06-05-040019.jpg?resize=300%2C161&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Captura-de-ecran-2022-06-05-040019.jpg?resize=150%2C81&amp;ssl=1 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 672px) 100vw, 672px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Remarc\u0103m cum, de la un punct \u00eencolo, angajatul pizzeriei \u00ee\u015fi pierde profesionalismul \u015fi \u00eencepe s\u0103 fie intens preocupat de ce are clientul \u00eentre picioare? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ceea ce pentru omul needucat \u015fi lipsit de etic\u0103 profesional\u0103 de la telefon este un caz simplu de f*tere de grij\u0103 aiurea, pentru o persoan\u0103 transgender este cea mai dureroas\u0103, chinuitoare \u015fi insuportabil\u0103 \u00eentrebare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pentru c\u0103 identitatea, mintea \u015fi emo\u0163iile apar\u0163in unui sex, iar anatomia altuia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nici un b\u0103rbat nu alege dintr-o toan\u0103 s\u0103 fie femeie. \u00cen special nu \u00eentr-o \u0163ar\u0103 ca Rom\u00e2nia, unde \u00een multe cercuri b\u0103rbatul e considerat \u00een continuare cununa crea\u0163iei \u015fi singurul relevant, iar femeia, un dispozitiv de cur\u0103\u0163enie \u015fi f\u0103cut copii care e indicat s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103 pu\u0163in \u015fi numai c\u00e2nd e \u00eentrebat\u0103, \u00een rest, s\u0103 stea \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103rie \u015fi s\u0103 arate dr\u0103gu\u0163, c\u0103 altfel \u00eei vor repro\u015fa tot gigeii c\u0103 nu vor s-o tuf\u0103, de parc\u0103 ar fi treaba ei s\u0103-i fac\u0103 s\u0103 vrea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 o persoan\u0103 n\u0103scut\u0103 biologic b\u0103rbat \u00ee\u015fi asum\u0103 toate nepl\u0103cerile \u015fi tot stresul aferente modului \u00een care e v\u0103zut\u0103 \u015fi tratat\u0103 o femeie \u00eentr-o \u0163ar\u0103 ca asta, e dintr-un singur motiv: pentru c\u0103 aceasta este adev\u0103rata EI identitate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Unele persoane transgender sunt passing, adic\u0103 arat\u0103 conform cu identitatea asumat\u0103, altele nu. Unele au bani sau know-how s\u0103 acceseze resurse pentru tratament hormonal, chirurgie estetic\u0103, opera\u0163ii de confirmare a genului \u015fi a\u015fa mai departe, altele nu. Dar, indiferent dac\u0103 o femeie transgender arat\u0103 ca Miss Indonezia sau ca Leonard Doroftei,  con\u015ftiin\u0163a de sine \u015fi apartenen\u0163a identitar\u0103  la genul feminin sunt  acelea\u015fi, \u015fi ce po\u0163i face tu e s\u0103 respec\u0163i aceast\u0103 identitate. A\u015fijderea \u015fi pentru b\u0103rba\u0163i transgender. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">-Da, doamn\u0103. Pizza cu ce toppinguri? Aia, aia \u015fi aia. Adresa? Cutare. Sos de ro\u015fii dulce sau picant? OK, vine \u00een 60 de minute. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu te cost\u0103 absolut nimic s\u0103 respec\u0163i identitatea de gen a unei persoane transgender, \u015fi cu acest minimum semn de respect \u015fi civiliza\u0163ie, evi\u0163i s\u0103 contribui la suferin\u0163a \u015fi umilin\u0163ele cu care o societate ca a noastr\u0103 a cople\u015fit-o destul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u015ei \u00een definitiv, de ce s\u0103 presezi \u00eentrebarea &#8220;doamn\u0103 sau domn&#8221;? E ca \u015fi cum ai \u00eentreba omul ce are \u00een chilo\u0163i. Iar asta te prive\u015fte \u00eentr-un singur caz. \u015ei anume, dac\u0103 ajungi \u00een pat cu respectiva persoan\u0103. Atunci, da, e indicat s\u0103 \u015ftii peste ce dai acolo jos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar dac\u0103 persoana e client online sau \u00een via\u0163a real\u0103, chiar NU te tufe grija. Dac\u0103 persoana e cineva online cu care probabil c\u0103 nu vei avea interac\u0163iune irl niciodat\u0103, chiar NU te tufe grija. Dac\u0103 persoana e o cuno\u015ftin\u0163\u0103 sau coleg\u0103 la munc\u0103, chiar NU te tufe grija. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Repet: nu e mare br\u00e2nz\u0103 s\u0103 respec\u0163i identitatea cuiva \u015fi s\u0103 faci abstrac\u0163ie de detaliile care \u00eei indic\u0103 genul de la na\u015ftere. Nu e greu de \u00een\u0163eles c\u0103 ne reprezint\u0103 mai mult con\u015ftiin\u0163a de sine \u015fi modul \u00een care ne definim,  \u015fi nu neap\u0103rat aspectul fizic pe care pu\u0163ini au luxul s\u0103 \u015fi-l aleag\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ce s\u0103 nu spui niciodat\u0103<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bine, \u00een m\u0103sura \u00een care vrei s\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u015fti uman, empatic \u015fi cu \u00een\u0163elegere de semeni. Dac\u0103 e\u015fti o javr\u0103 toxic\u0103, probabil c\u0103 ai dat deja comentariul &#8220;S\u0103 v\u0103 f, Loreno, pe tine \u015fi pe to\u0163i dezaxa\u0163ii t\u0103i!&#8221;, iar eu am transformat deja comentariul \u00een &#8220;Sunt un bou \u015fi nu \u015ftiu cine m-a sc\u0103pat din staul la ora asta&#8221;. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>Nu insista lung \u015fi agasant cu &#8220;dar tu e\u015fti de fapt b\u0103rbat \/ femeie&#8221; (sexul biologic, that is). <\/strong><\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sigur a auzit-o deja de la m\u0103-sa, ta-su, bunici, membrii mai idio\u0163i ai familiei, bullies de la \u015fcoal\u0103, liceu \u015fi facultate, gigei libidino\u015fi care \u00eencercau s-o strecoare \u015fi ei, scorpii toxice cu gura mare \u015fi a\u015fa mai departe. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu, nu apar\u0163ine sexului s\u0103u biologic. Dac\u0103 ar fi apar\u0163inut, via\u0163a ar fi fost infinit mai simpl\u0103. S\u0103 sim\u0163i c\u0103 e\u015fti ceea ce spun genitalele c\u0103 e\u015fti e ipostaza convenabil\u0103 \u015fi confortabil\u0103 \u00een care evi\u0163i EXTREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEM DE MULT\u0102 h\u0103r\u0163uire aiurea. Dar, uneori, adev\u0103rul interior al omului nu are cum s\u0103 nu ias\u0103 la iveal\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">2. <strong>Nu veni cu abera\u0163ii de genul &#8220;o s\u0103 \u00eensori \/ m\u0103ri\u0163i \u015fi \u00ee\u0163i trece. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">. \u00cen primul r\u00e2nd, prezum\u0163ia c\u0103 \u015ftii care e preferin\u0163a sexual\u0103 a persoanei transgender, \u015fi c\u0103 aceasta ar trebui s\u0103 fie obligatoriu straight, c\u0103 a\u015fa spui tu, e o impertinen\u0163\u0103 \u015fi o intruziune uria\u015f\u0103. Sunt persoane trans atrase de acela\u015fi sex, persoane trans atrase de sexul opus \u015fi persoane trans bisexuale. Iar persoana potrivit\u0103 pentru o femeie transgender, de exemplu, nu e cineva care s\u0103-i spun\u0103 s\u0103 arunce tocurile \u015fi rujul \u015fi s\u0103-\u015fi lase barb\u0103. Persoana potrivit\u0103 pentru un b\u0103rbat transgender nu e cineva care s\u0103-l frece la cap s\u0103-\u015fi lase p\u0103rul lung \u015fi s\u0103 z\u00e2mbeasc\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Persoana potrivit\u0103 pentru o persoan\u0103 transgender este cea care \u00een\u0163elege c\u0103 nu are \u00een primul r\u00e2nd o rela\u0163ie cu corpul, ci cu mintea \u015fi sufletul. \u015ei abia dup\u0103 ce le \u00een\u0163elege pe acestea, are o rela\u0163ie \u015fi cu corpul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ceea ce \u00eencerc eu s\u0103 explic aici e exemplificat mult mai bine de clipul \u0103sta din The Danish Girl: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<div class=\"video-container\"><span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"700\" height=\"394\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/5Ackdv3pgmU?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Titlul Identity Crisis e pus gre\u015fit. Ea nu are aici o criz\u0103 de identitate. E pur \u015fi simplu r\u0103nit\u0103 \u015fi umilit\u0103 c\u00e2nd \u00een\u0163elege c\u0103 tipul era interesat de Einar, identitatea biologic\u0103 \u015fi public\u0103, \u015fi nu de Lily &#8211; persoana care era ea de fapt. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Acum sper c\u0103 \u00een\u0163elege\u0163i nivelul de ignoran\u0163\u0103 \u015fi de stupiditate obtuz\u0103 din afirma\u0163ia &#8220;Las\u0103 c\u0103 te \u00eensori \/ m\u0103ri\u0163i \u015fi-\u0163i trece&#8221;. Adeseori, nu doar c\u0103 nu trece, ci se complic\u0103 mai mult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>3. Nu veni cu inep\u0163ii de genul &#8220;\u00ce\u0163i st\u0103tea mai bine ca b\u0103iat \/ fat\u0103.&#8221; <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sunt total inutile, \u015fi mai sunt \u015fi stupide \u015fi idioate, pentru c\u0103 pretind s\u0103 plaseze statul bine, aka aspectul exterior pe un plan prioritar fa\u0163\u0103 de adev\u0103rul identitar al omului respectiv. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E irelevant cum \u00eei st\u0103tea bine, p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103. E important cine este. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>4. Ab\u0163ine-te de la \u00eendelungi abera\u0163ii dezl\u00e2nate despre bolile psihice ale persoanei <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u015eti\u0163i ce define\u015fte rom\u00e2nul cu adev\u0103rat bou, dar convins c\u0103 d\u0103 pe dinafar\u0103 de de\u015ftept? Impulsul de a da diagnostice necalificate pe s\u0103n\u0103tatea mintal\u0103 a altora. Impulsul de a abera exhaustiv despre cum o anumit\u0103, sau mai multe persoane transgender sunt bolnavi psihic, nebuni, demen\u0163i, psihopa\u0163i \u015fi etc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sigur, exist\u0103 \u015fi persoane transgender cu tulbur\u0103ri mintale, a\u015fa cum exist\u0103 \u015fi persoane straight cu tulbur\u0103ri mintale, gen \u0103la din paragraful precedent. Dar asta nu te calific\u0103 s\u0103 dai diagnostice dac\u0103 nu e\u015fti calificat profesional s\u0103 o faci. \u015ei \u00een primul r\u00e2nd nu bazate doar pe informa\u0163ia c\u0103 X e transgender. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cunosc persoane transgender echilibrate, calme \u015fi iubitoare \u015fi cunosc heterosexuali plini de venin, ur\u0103 \u015fi toxicitate. Ar fi u\u015for s\u0103 ne d\u0103m cu presupusul care e bolnavul psihic acolo, dar hei, nu avem acea diplom\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>5. Nu pune \u00eentreb\u0103ri intruzive. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0162i-ai t\u0103iat p&#8230;a? Ai de g\u00e2nd s\u0103-\u0163i pui \u0163\u00e2\u0163e? Ai de g\u00e2nd s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i tai \u0163\u00e2\u0163ele? \u015ei a\u015fa mai departe. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 nu e\u015fti prieten foarte apropiat cu persoana transgender, nu te f grija. \u015ei dac\u0103 e\u015fti prieten foarte apropiat, e mai adecvat s\u0103 la\u015fi persoana s\u0103 \u0163i se confeseze \u015fi s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i spun\u0103 lucruri \u00een ritmul ei, c\u00e2nd simte c\u0103 poate avea \u00eencredere \u00een tine, \u015fi s\u0103 nu for\u0163ezi o intimitate care nu exist\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">6. <strong>Nu uita c\u0103 persoana transgender e o om, exact ca tine, \u015fi e la fel de u\u015for de r\u0103nit ca tine. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate chiar mai u\u015for de r\u0103nit, pentru c\u0103 tu ai avut noroc. Corpul \u015fi con\u015ftiin\u0163a de sine au coincis, nimeni nu te-a pus sub semnul \u00eentreb\u0103rii, nimeni nu te-a \u015fcolit agasant s\u0103 fii mai masculin \/ mai feminin\u0103 c\u00e2nd identitatea \u015fi emo\u0163iile tale \u00ee\u0163i dictau contrariul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fiecare persoan\u0103 transgender care \u00ee\u0163i iese \u00een cale a dus lupte pe care nici m\u0103car nu le b\u0103nuie\u015fti, \u00een special \u00eentr-o \u0163ar\u0103 ca asta. Faptul c\u0103 e ok e dovada rezilien\u0163ei \u015fi t\u0103riei de caracter. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iar acest lucru merit\u0103 respectat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 v-a pl\u0103cut acest text, pute\u021bi sus\u0163ine activitatea siteului cu o dona\u0163ie.&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/paypalme\/Trollywood\"><strong>Aici<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-14577\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<br>Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/lorenalupu\">Twitter<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;\u015fi&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCCHBtHi6S2GlUFqETH70cjQ\">YouTube<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ieri, am citit pe peretele Antonellei acest status. 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