{"id":23489,"date":"2022-06-13T09:59:49","date_gmt":"2022-06-13T06:59:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=23489"},"modified":"2022-06-13T09:59:50","modified_gmt":"2022-06-13T06:59:50","slug":"femeile-preot","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/femeile-preot\/","title":{"rendered":"Femeile preot"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

St\u0103team de vorb\u0103 cu cineva mai \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103 dec\u00e2t mine \u015fi mult mai religios, genul de om care \u015ftie sfin\u0163ii \u015fi s\u0103rb\u0103torile, nu doar Cr\u0103ciunul \u015fi Pa\u015ftele, \u015ftie c\u00e2nd \u0163ii post \u015fi c\u00e2nd nu (c\u00e2nd vrea mu\u015fchiul t\u0103u, lol) \u015fi c\u00e2nd te pui \u00een genunchi \u00een timpul slujbei ortodoxe \u015fi c\u00e2nd te ridici (\u00een cazul meu e simplu, nu m\u0103 pun \u00een genunchi deloc, iar dac\u0103 se uit\u0103 lumea cu repro\u015f la mine, m\u0103 uit \u00eenapoi cu un z\u00e2mbet obraznic.) <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei m\u0103 \u00eentreab\u0103: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Auzi, Lorena, tu ce ai de fapt cu religia? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Am o problem\u0103 cu perpetua subminare a femeii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Adic\u0103? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Adic\u0103, de\u015fi majoritatea cov\u00e2r\u015fitoare a delictelor sexuale sunt \u00eenf\u0103ptuite de b\u0103rba\u0163i, religia asta idioat\u0103 – \u015fi altele la fel de idioate – spal\u0103 pe creieri de milenii femeile c\u0103 ele constituie ispita \u015fi cumva e vina lor c\u0103 jegurile \u0103lea nu pot s\u0103-\u015fi \u0163in\u0103 p \u00een pantaloni. \u015ei mereu femeia trebuie s\u0103 renun\u0163e la apari\u0163ii publice, la un rol \u00een urbe, s\u0103 se acopere c\u00e2t mai mult, s\u0103 se ascund\u0103 c\u00e2t mai mult, s\u0103 se nege ca identitate \u015fi ca om de sine st\u0103t\u0103tor c\u00e2t mai mult, \u015fi s\u0103 fie o slug\u0103 c\u00e2t mai lipsit\u0103 de ap\u0103rare a b\u0103rbatului. Nu doar c\u0103 nu suport religia, dar, ra\u0163ional, nici o femeie s\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103 cu capul nu ar avea vreun motiv s\u0103 calce \u00eentr-o institu\u0163ie care \u00eei vine cu mizeriile astea degradante \u015fi dezumanizante. Mentalitatea asta, cu femeia – ispit\u0103, e direct vinovat\u0103 de reflexul retarda\u0163ilor de a blama victima h\u0103r\u0163uirii sexuale \/ violului. Cum erai \u00eembr\u0103cat\u0103? Erai machiat\u0103? I-ai dat s\u0103 \u00een\u0163eleag\u0103 ceva? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Combin\u0103 asta cu teoria perpetuei ru\u015fini de care trebuie s\u0103 sufere femeia. Ru\u015fine care, altminteri, e un simptom foarte s\u0103n\u0103tos. Dac\u0103 ai gre\u015fit cuiva cu ceva. Dar s\u0103 nu fi gre\u015fit nim\u0103nui cu nimic \u015fi s\u0103-\u0163i fie perpetuu ru\u015fine, pur \u015fi simplu, a\u015fa, f\u0103r\u0103 motiv, mi se pare o form\u0103 de sindrom Stockholm. Genul \u0103sta de ru\u015fine transform\u0103 femeile \u00een victime perfecte pentru b\u0103rba\u0163i abuzivi, b\u0103t\u0103u\u015fi \u015fi sociopa\u0163i. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

D-apoi prostiile alea pe care le promovau mai demult, cum c\u0103 femeia religioas\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 \u00eendure stoic b\u0103taia de la animalul care o de\u0163ine cu acte, c\u0103 numai a\u015fa ajunge \u00een rai? Din punctul meu de vedere, numai pe baza acestor c\u00e2teva considerente, femeile ar trebui s\u0103 renun\u0163e toate la religie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei mai e un lucru. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De ce femeile fac numai munca de jos \u00een l\u0103ca\u015fe de cult, spal\u0103 \u015fi m\u0103tur\u0103, dar rolurile de conducere sunt permise numai b\u0103rba\u0163ilor? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Hai, m\u0103, Lorena, cum ar fi un preot femeie? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Cred c\u0103 ar fi minunat\u0103. Ar asculta toate confesiunile enoria\u015filor cu mil\u0103 \u015fi empatie. Ar \u015fti s\u0103-i sf\u0103tuiasc\u0103 de bine, cu un surplus de aplicare practic\u0103. Ar pune accentul pe \u00een\u0163elegere \u015fi comunitate, nu pe cine mai afurisim azi. Ar gospod\u0103ri mai bine resurse, pentru c\u0103, \u00een special femeile religioase, asta fac \u015fi acas\u0103. Ca prin minune, dintr-un salariu minim pe economie, \u0163in o cas\u0103, hr\u0103nesc \u015fi spal\u0103 o familie timp de o lun\u0103. Ar empatiza mai mult cu p\u0103c\u0103to\u015fii, \u015fi i-ar ajuta s\u0103 se \u00eendrepte. Ar \u0163ine predici \u00eenfl\u0103c\u0103rate, pline de emo\u0163ie \u015fi de credin\u0163\u0103. Femeia preot ar putea reforma orice credin\u0163\u0103 din asta arhaic\u0103 centrat\u0103 pe m\u0103rea\u0163a p*l\u0103 a b\u0103rbatului. Numai c\u0103… <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Numai c\u0103 ce? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-C\u00e2nd se apropie de 40, fiecare femeie are un puseu de midlife crisis. A\u015fa cum gigeii se combin\u0103 cu pi\u0163ipoance de 20 de ani, femeile \u00ee\u015fi amintesc cum visau ele la 18 s\u0103 c\u00e2nte la chitar\u0103 electric\u0103 \u00eentr-o trup\u0103 de heavy metal. \u015ei exist\u0103 riscul ca P\u0103rintele Eufrosina, preotul cel mai bun pe care l-a avut parohia vreodat\u0103, mult peste to\u0163i *bagiii care \u00ee\u015fi \u00eensu\u015feau banii din cutia milei \u015fi tr\u0103geau enoria\u015fele de glandele mamare, s\u0103 p\u0103r\u0103seasc\u0103 totul de pe o zi pe alta, apoi s\u0103 afli de pe Facebook c\u0103 acum o cheam\u0103 Suzy Devious \u015fi c\u0103 e \u00een turneu cu noua ei trup\u0103, Anathema Satanica. \u015ei s\u0103 vezi chin \u015fi jale pe arhiepiscopia de care apar\u0163ine, s\u0103 justifice cumva chestia asta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Hahaha, ce t\u00e2mpit\u0103 e\u015fti, fat\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Poate c\u0103 toate opreli\u015ftile \u015fi interdic\u0163iile puse asupra femeii de toate religiile clasice vor s\u0103 \u00eempiedice exact asta: s\u0103 \u00ee\u015fi fac\u0103 toate trupe de heavy metal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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