{"id":23491,"date":"2022-06-14T10:14:44","date_gmt":"2022-06-14T07:14:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=23491"},"modified":"2022-06-14T10:14:45","modified_gmt":"2022-06-14T07:14:45","slug":"adolescenta-si-influencingul","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/adolescenta-si-influencingul\/","title":{"rendered":"Adolescen\u0163a \u015fi influencingul"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Ieri, a murit o vedet\u0103 de pe TikTok, un b\u0103iat pe nume Cooper Noriega. Avea un chip dr\u0103g\u0103la\u015f, puritatea specific\u0103 v\u00e2rstei, \u015fi aproape trei milioane de fani. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cauzele decesului sunt \u00eenc\u0103 sub investiga\u0163ie \u015fi, probabil c\u0103, av\u00e2nd \u00een vedere v\u00e2rsta, nu vor fi dezv\u0103luite niciodat\u0103, dar se pare c\u0103 au leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu consumul anumitor substan\u0163e care ar putea sau nu s\u0103 dea st\u0103ri euforice. \u015ei spun asta nu dintr-o prejudecat\u0103 de bigo\u0163i, harharhar, uite tineretul din ziua de azi. Noi, tineretul din ziua de ieri, eram exact la fel. Cum am sc\u0103pat de sub papuc m\u0103micesc stalinist, jap direct \u00een sticla de vodc\u0103. Ar fi ipocrit din partea mea s\u0103 judec pe cineva pentru alegeri pe care le-am f\u0103cut \u015fi eu pe exact acela\u015fi pattern. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

O spun din cu totul alt\u0103 perspectiv\u0103. \u015ei anume: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Acum vreo dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni, o prieten\u0103 m-a \u00eentrebat dac\u0103 \u015ftiu ni\u015fte agen\u0163ii de casting unde s\u0103-\u015fi \u00eenscrie copilul. Un b\u0103ie\u0163el frumos \u015fi de\u015ftept. Prima mea reac\u0163ie a fost like: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Ce frumos, uite o mam\u0103 care-\u015fi sus\u0163ine copilul \u00een ambi\u0163iile lui artistice, nu ca… m\u0103 rog, hai s\u0103 dep\u0103\u015fim. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei i-am dat c\u00e2te agen\u0163ii mi-am amintit \u015fi eu c\u0103 exist\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ieri mi-a relatat c\u0103 nu \u015ftie cum s\u0103 \u00eel consoleze, c\u0103 l-au chemat la nu \u015ftiu ce casting, pentru un rol fain, pe care chiar \u015fi-l dorise, \u015fi dup\u0103 audi\u0163ie, l-au expediat destul de rece. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ooook. Atunci mi-am dat seama c\u0103 \u0103sta e un aspect care trebuie discutat \u015fi luat \u00een considerare. Pentru c\u0103 nu po\u0163i vinde unui copil iluzia str\u0103lucitoare a pozi\u0163iei de vedet\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 presupui c\u0103 umilin\u0163ele aferente se vor regla de la sine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Noi, actorii adul\u0163i, suntem obi\u015fnui\u0163i cu proiecte \u00een care nu suntem ale\u015fi. Sau mai frumos, cu proiecte care ne plimb\u0103 luni \u00een \u015fir, \u015fi la final, e ales altcineva. Sau cu proiecte care nu se fac din lips\u0103 de aliniere de astre. Sau cu v\u0103 sun\u0103m noi. \u015ei avem maturitatea de a nu privi aceste respingeri ca pe un cap\u0103t de \u0163ar\u0103. Dac\u0103 e un rol \u015fi sunt 50 de candida\u0163i, e clar c\u0103 49 vor fi respin\u015fi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar pentru un copil, e o dezam\u0103gire dureroas\u0103 \u015fi devastatoare, \u015fi o experien\u0163\u0103 care \u00eei poate face terci sufle\u0163elul nevinovat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu e o \u00eent\u00e2mplare c\u0103 pu\u0163ini dintre actorii copii celebri mai fac meseria de actor \u015fi la maturitate. Sau ajung s\u0103 fie adul\u0163i echilibra\u0163i cu vie\u0163i coerent organizate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Acum, c\u0103 au ap\u0103rut re\u0163elele sociale, po\u0163i ajunge vedet\u0103 chiar \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 acest aparat de selec\u0163ie \u015fi promovare, care e show bizul. Ajunge s\u0103 faci filmule\u0163e amuzante pentru TikTok, poze incitante pentru Instagram \u015fi a\u015fa mai departe. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ceea ce, \u00eentr-o prim\u0103 faz\u0103, pare s\u0103 fie minunat. Mai ales c\u0103 adolescen\u0163a e taman v\u00e2rsta la care vrei cu disperare s\u0103 fii remarcat \u015fi s\u0103 devii popular. S\u0103 te plac\u0103 oamenii \u015fi s\u0103 te adore. S\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i spun\u0103 c\u0103 e\u015fti special \u015fi c\u0103 nu au v\u0103zut a\u015fa ceva \u00een via\u0163a lor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Numai c\u0103, odat\u0103 cu asta, vin la pachet presiuni de toate tipurile de la diver\u015fi, tentative de manipulare de la to\u0163i cunoscu\u0163ii care cred c\u0103 pot profita cu ceva de pe urma ta, diverse propuneri de contracte care mai de care mai abuzive \u015fi mai jecm\u0103nitoare, o periodic\u0103 campanie de hate de la c\u00e2te cineva care se treze\u015fte din senin c\u0103 are ceva cu mecla ta, cyberbullying sexual \u015fi abuz verbal de la to\u0163i nef**ii universului dac\u0103 e\u015fti fat\u0103, \u015fi nonstop, dar nonstop, c\u00e2te cineva care te tufe la cap cu c\u00e2te o irelevan\u0163\u0103, dar pe un ton de procuror stalinist, de parc\u0103 i-ai datora ceva. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei c\u00e2nd vine momentul \u00een care popularitatea ta scade, cum au fost ace\u015fti doi ani de zuccuri continue \u015fi shadow banning pentru mine pe Facebook? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

R\u0103sar de nic\u0103ieri diver\u015fi raha\u0163i cu ochi s\u0103-\u0163i r\u00e2njeasc\u0103 satisf\u0103cu\u0163i \u00een nas, c\u0103 uite, nu mai e\u015fti nimeni, ce \u0163i-am copt-o, lololol. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Noroc c\u0103 eu, acum, sunt la nivelul de maturitate la care s\u0103 \u015ftiu c\u0103 abjec\u0163ia lui gigel e strict defini\u0163ia lui ca om \u015fi dest\u0103inuirea faptului c\u0103 at\u00e2ta poate, drept care, dup\u0103 b\u0103garea ini\u0163ial\u0103 \u00een mor\u0163ii de p\u0103rinte matern. voi refuza cu obstina\u0163ie s\u0103 m\u0103 deranjez emo\u0163ional. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar nu \u015ftiu dac\u0103, la 19 ani, a\u015f fi putut. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ba \u015ftiu. \u015etiu sigur c\u0103 nu a\u015f fi putut. Probabil c\u0103 a\u015f fi cedat nervos, cam ca pu\u015ftiul de pe TikTok. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

“P\u0103i, da, Lorena, dar banii care se fac online ca influencer…” <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Da, \u015ftiu. Nu se fac dintr-un salariu de part-time la H & M. Pe de alt\u0103 parte, adolescen\u0163ii care lucreaz\u0103 part – time la H & M sunt bine, s\u0103n\u0103to\u015fi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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