{"id":23494,"date":"2022-06-15T09:04:30","date_gmt":"2022-06-15T06:04:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=23494"},"modified":"2022-06-15T09:04:31","modified_gmt":"2022-06-15T06:04:31","slug":"de-ce-sunt-necesare-premiile-scolare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/de-ce-sunt-necesare-premiile-scolare\/","title":{"rendered":"De ce sunt necesare premiile \u015fcolare?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

A pornit zilele astea un debate online, c\u0103 de ce s\u0103 premiem copiii, c\u0103 oricum gloria mundi nu conteaz\u0103, c\u0103 e important doar c\u00e2t \u015ftii cu adev\u0103rat, c\u0103 mai bine un cinci autentic dec\u00e2t un zece pe copiate, c\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u0163\u0103m pentru noi, nu pentru coroni\u0163\u0103 \u015fi c\u0103 blabla. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pentru c\u0103 \u00eemi place s\u0103 se certe lumea aprins \u015fi cu pasiune \u015fi la mine \u00een comentarii, iat\u0103 pozi\u0163ia mea pe subiect: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen primul \u015fi \u00een primul r\u00e2nd, p\u0103reri\u015ftii care debiteaz\u0103 tot ce scrie \u00een primul paragraf au uitat cum e s\u0103 fii copil. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De le place cel mai mult \u015fi cel mai mult copiilor? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aten\u0163ia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De ce \u00ee\u015fi a\u015fteapt\u0103 un copil ziua de na\u015ftere cu \u00eenfrigurare, chiar dac\u0103 \u015ftie c\u0103 p\u0103rin\u0163ii nu prea au bani \u015fi prime\u015fte un kkt pansat cu fundi\u0163\u0103? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pentru aten\u0163ie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De ce a\u015fteapt\u0103 un copil Cr\u0103ciunul, chiar dac\u0103 \u015ftie c\u0103 etc. etc.? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pentru aten\u0163ie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De ce fac copiii neglija\u0163i o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de n\u0103zb\u00e2tii, unele periculoase? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pentru aten\u0163ie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Care e factorul cu care motivezi copilul s\u0103 adopte comportamentul dezirabil? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cu aten\u0163ie pozitiv\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 festivitatea de premiere? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aten\u0163ie pozitiv\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un copil care ia o dat\u0103 coroni\u0163\u0103 \u015fi c\u0103rticele, plus aplauze de la toat\u0103 \u015fcoala, va t\u00e2nji s\u0103 le ia over and over again, drept care va investi mai mult efort \u015fi mai mult\u0103 energie \u00een fiecare an. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Been that kid, \u015ftiu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un copil ale c\u0103rui rezultate pozitive sunt \u00eent\u00e2mpinate cu yeah, whatever, va avea rareori motiva\u0163ia s\u0103 pompeze efort \u00een continuare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pentru c\u0103 e copil. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu vede utilitatea practic\u0103 a lucrurilor \u00eenv\u0103\u0163ate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu \u00een\u0163elege c\u0103 materia parcurs\u0103 \u00eenseamn\u0103 educa\u0163ie, \u015fi c\u0103 acest lucru va fi valorificat mai t\u00e2rziu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un copil \u00eenva\u0163\u0103 pentru a avea note mari, pentru aprobarea p\u0103rin\u0163ilor \u015fi a celorlal\u0163i adul\u0163i \u015fi pentru aten\u0163ie pozitiv\u0103. Singura finalitate practic\u0103 pe care o \u00een\u0163elege la v\u00e2rsta lui. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ia-i copilului coroni\u0163a \u015fi ceremonia \u015fi e ca \u015fi cum i-ai lua bonusul de performan\u0163\u0103 unui salariat model. O s\u0103 \u00eenceap\u0103 prompt s\u0103 nu se mai strofoace at\u00e2t de tare, pentru c\u0103, dac\u0103 nu exist\u0103 diferen\u0163ierea bazat\u0103 pe calitatea presta\u0163iei, ce rost mai are deranjul? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Da\u0163i premii copiilor, frustra\u0163i antihaji \u015fi plictisitori. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u0103rb\u0103tori\u0163i-le micile victorii, c\u0103 a\u015fa \u00eei motiva\u0163i s\u0103 lupte pentru marile victorii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu le lua\u0163i toate bucuriile din via\u0163a real\u0103, apoi tot voi: M\u0103 \u00eentreb de ce Costelu\u015f st\u0103 toat\u0103 ziua pe tablet\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Costelu\u015f st\u0103 toat\u0103 ziua pe tablet\u0103 pentru c\u0103 sunte\u0163i detestabili, nu v\u0103 suport\u0103 \u015fi prefer\u0103 s\u0103 evadeze \u00een imaginar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 Costelu\u015f a muncit tot anul \u015fi a ob\u0163inut rezultate, \u00ee\u015fi merit\u0103 premiul \u015fi coroni\u0163a. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu-i lua\u0163i momentul de glorie cu mentalitatea voastr\u0103 de babe obosite \u015fi corecte politic. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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