Scrisorica de azi spune a\u015fa:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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Drag\u0103 Lorena, <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Sunt nonbinary queer \u015fi tr\u0103iesc de zece ani \u00een str\u0103in\u0103tate, unde am un job ok, sunt out, am parte de acceptare, respect \u015fi prietenie. Dar mi-e dor de cas\u0103, de familie, de ora\u015ful meu, de tot ce am l\u0103sat \u00een urm\u0103, chiar dac\u0103 sunt multe amintiri dureroase. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Merit\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentorc \u00een \u0163ar\u0103? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Love ya, great job, <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n X.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Drag\u0103 X., <\/p>\n\n\n\n Eu zic c\u0103 da. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Mailul t\u0103u nu precizeaz\u0103 care e ora\u015ful la care te referi, probabil \u015fi pentru c\u0103 \u0163ii la anonimat \u015fi confiden\u0163ialitate. Dar cel pu\u0163in \u00een ora\u015fele mari, cum sunt Bucure\u015ftiul, Clujul, Timi\u015foara, mi se pare c\u0103 popula\u0163ia s-a emancipat suficient \u00een mare parte \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 te ia a\u015fa cum e\u015fti \u015fi s\u0103 te lase \u00een pace. Sigur, bullies sunt peste tot, dar, comparativ cu num\u0103rul de postaci, troli \u015fi al\u0163i jego\u015fi de pe net, cet\u0103\u0163eanul rom\u00e2n obi\u015fnuit este mult mai tolerant \u015fi mai deschis. Sigur, o s\u0103 se holbeze la tine ca vaca la poarta nou\u0103, o s\u0103-\u0163i pun\u0103 \u015fi c\u00e2teva \u00eentreb\u0103ri idioate, dar cu un pic de r\u0103bdare, ajunge \u00een c\u00e2teva zile s\u0103-\u0163i spun\u0103 c\u0103 tu l-ai f\u0103cut s\u0103 iubeasc\u0103 gay-ii \u015fi c\u0103 vine cu tine la Pride. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cen ora\u015fele mai mici, lumea e mai ignorant\u0103 \u015fi mai \u00eenc\u0103p\u0103\u0163\u00e2nat\u0103 \u00een ignoran\u0163a ei, but here’s the thing. \u00cen ora\u015fele mai mici, opiniile neinformate ale homofobului obi\u015fnuit nu sunt contestate de nimeni, de vreme ce \u015fi gay-ii \u015fi lesbienele, \u015fi tot restul culorilor curcubeului o ard c\u00e2t se poate de heteronormativ, \u00eentr-o negare feroce, \u015fi to\u0163i au iubi\u0163i de sex opus pe net. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Taman de aceea, nea Gigel din B\u0103icoi nu se va educa niciodat\u0103 pentru c\u0103 scrie Lorena Lupu la ea pe blog c\u0103 orientarea sexual\u0103 nu te face mai pu\u0163in om \u015fi nu spune nimic despre caracterul persoanei. Nea Gigel din B\u0103icoi se va educa atunci c\u00e2nd fi-su gay care s***e p***a \u00een Bucure\u015fti, dar se d\u0103 mare ortodox acas\u0103, vecinele lesbiene care se v\u0103d toat\u0103 ziua “la cafelu\u0163\u0103” \u015fi restul closeta\u0163ilor \u00ee\u015fi vor lua curajul \u015fi onestitatea s\u0103 spun\u0103:<\/p>\n\n\n\n “Da, b\u0103, Gigi, suntem at\u00e2\u0163ia \u00een jurul t\u0103u. Nu \u015ftii, pentru c\u0103 nu vrei s\u0103 \u015ftii, ne-ai crezut heterosexuali de at\u00e2ta timp \u015fi noi te-am l\u0103sat s\u0103 crezi ce vrei, pentru c\u0103 era mai simplu dec\u00e2t s\u0103-\u0163i \u00eenfrunt\u0103m prejudecata. Dar noi nu suntem straight \u015fi n-am fost niciodat\u0103. Acum, schimb\u0103 asta modul \u00een care ne vezi ca oameni sau r\u0103m\u00e2nem acelea\u015fi persoane apropiate de p\u00e2n\u0103 acum?” <\/p>\n\n\n\n Abia atunci, se va \u00eent\u00e2mpla acel declic spre toleran\u0163\u0103 \u015fi acceptare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Unul dintre miturile grup\u0103rilor homofobe este c\u0103 “LGBT \u00ee\u015fi caut\u0103 adep\u0163i” \u015fi c\u0103 “se fac mai mul\u0163i”. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Adep\u0163i \u00een ce mod? E cumva o religie? Vrea cineva s\u0103 te converteasc\u0103 s\u0103 s***i \u015fi tu p***a? Nu. E despre adev\u0103ruri personale \u015fi eliminarea neg\u0103rii \u015fi ru\u015finii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Iar faptul c\u0103 “se fac mai mul\u0163i” e dintr-un motiv banal: din ce \u00een ce mai mult\u0103 lume care se ascundea aiurea p\u00e2n\u0103 acum simte confortul \u015fi relaxarea s\u0103 se asume public. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Eu zic c\u0103 e o idee bun\u0103 s\u0103 vii acas\u0103, c\u0103 uite, ai de contribuit la educarea societ\u0103\u0163ii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Ah, \u015fi cu joburile. Oh, well, salariile din Rom\u00e2nia nu se compar\u0103 cu cele de afar\u0103, de aceea, probabil, e o idee bun\u0103 s\u0103 faci remote un job din str\u0103in\u0103tate, dac\u0103 ai op\u0163iunea. Dar inclusiv \u00een mediul corporate rom\u00e2nesc, tratamentul egal \u015fi civilizat fa\u0163\u0103 de LGBTQ e din ce \u00een ce mai vizibil. La micile firme cu patron rom\u00e2n b\u0103d\u0103ran mai pu\u0163in, dar hei, oricum nu vrea nimeni s\u0103 lucreze la astea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sper c\u0103 \u0163i-am fost util\u0103, <\/p>\n\n\n\n Lorena. <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 v-a pl\u0103cut acest text, pute\u021bi sus\u0163ine activitatea siteului cu o dona\u0163ie. Aici<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n *** Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. \u00cen sensul \u00een care el sau ea, sau chiar tu, de ce nu, ne trimi(te)\u021bi problema voastr\u0103 de suflet...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":23505,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-23504","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/pride-gd573d8b83_640.jpg?fit=640%2C377&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23504","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=23504"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23504\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":23508,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23504\/revisions\/23508"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/23505"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=23504"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=23504"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=23504"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}![\"\"](\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\")
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