La fiecare 30 de secunde, o rom\u00e2nc\u0103 este b\u0103tut\u0103.<\/a><\/strong> Ne e destul de clar tuturor c\u0103 o femeie aflat\u0103 \u00eentr-un mariaj \u00een care este tratat\u0103 cu violen\u0163\u0103 \u015fi abuz este o femeie care a luat o decizie de via\u0163\u0103 gre\u015fit\u0103, \u015fi \u00eentr-o lume ra\u0163ional\u0103, singurul pas firesc ar trebui s\u0103 fie divor\u0163ul. Imediat \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 ezit\u0103ri. \u015ei, da, femei maltratate \u00een c\u0103s\u0103torie sunt mult mai multe dec\u00e2t persoane care decid c\u0103 via\u0163a de trangender nu e pentru ele. <\/p>\n\n\n\nDac\u0103, dup\u0103 logica lui gigel, c\u00e2teva experien\u0163e de detranzi\u0163ionare invalideaz\u0103 experien\u0163a trangen, \u00een ce hal ar trebui s\u0103 invalideze aceste statistici institu\u0163ia c\u0103s\u0103toriei? Ca mediu prielnic pentru abuz, h\u0103r\u0163uire, teroare, nesiguran\u0163\u0103 \u015fi violen\u0163\u0103? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Evident, realitatea nu e sclava cazurilor punctuale. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Exist\u0103 oameni care tranzi\u0163ioneaz\u0103 pentru c\u0103 vor s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 o via\u0163\u0103 adaptat\u0103 la identitatea lor autentic\u0103. Ace\u015ftia sunt adev\u0103ra\u0163ii transgenderi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u015ei exist\u0103 oameni care tranzi\u0163ioneaz\u0103 din diverse motive f\u0103r\u0103 leg\u0103tur\u0103. Cum ar fi impresia unor b\u0103rba\u0163i c\u0103 femeile au parte de mai mult\u0103 aten\u0163ie. Abia c\u00e2nd descoper\u0103 c\u00e2t de lipsit de valoare \u015fi consisten\u0163\u0103 este acel tip de aten\u0163ie, \u00eencep s\u0103 se prind\u0103 c\u0103 de fapt femeia \u00eencaseaz\u0103, la nivel de societate, mult mai multe umilin\u0163e \u015fi \u00eenjosiri, ajung s\u0103 regrete pasul f\u0103cut din calcul meschin \u015fi s\u0103 realizeze c\u0103 ok, nu e incitant s\u0103 nu te bage lumea \u00een seam\u0103 dac\u0103 e\u015fti un gigel neinteresant, dar e mai bine dec\u00e2t s\u0103 fii h\u0103r\u0163uit\u0103 \u015fi abuzat\u0103 de oricine e prost \u015fi gunoi \u015fi ajunge la concluzia c\u0103 pari o \u0163int\u0103 u\u015foar\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sau impresia unor femei c\u0103, dac\u0103 adopt\u0103 o identitate de b\u0103rbat, vor fi mai protejate de prostie \u015fi agresivitate random. De p\u0103reri nesolicitate despre rolul lor biologic. \u015ei de expedieri la crati\u0163\u0103 de la to\u0163i b\u0103g\u0103torii \u00een seam\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Evident c\u0103 oamenii care tranzi\u0163ioneaz\u0103 din orice alt motiv dec\u00e2t asumarea onest\u0103 a identit\u0103\u0163ii veritabile obosesc \u015fi se frustreaz\u0103 s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 o minciun\u0103, a\u015fa cum obose\u015fti \u015fi te frustrezi \u00een general s\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u015fti orice minciun\u0103, pe orice plan. \u015ei, dup\u0103 un tip, ajung la concluzia c\u0103 beneficiile de suprafa\u0163\u0103 (dac\u0103 exist\u0103) nu compenseaz\u0103 pentru negarea de sine din profunzime. Detranzi\u0163ia este reasumarea identit\u0103\u0163ii pe care ace\u015fti fake trans people au avut-o all along, pentru c\u0103, punct\u0103m, decizia lor a \u00eencercat doar s\u0103 rezolve ni\u015fte probleme de integrare social\u0103 \/ stim\u0103 de sine, nu s\u0103 corecteze disconnectul dintre corp \u015fi identitate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pe scurt, dac\u0103 auzi c\u0103 Vasilic\u0103 detranzi\u0163ioneaz\u0103, e la fel de relevant pentru identitatea de gen a altora, pe c\u00e2t e de relevant un divor\u0163 pentru institu\u0163ia c\u0103s\u0103toriei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u015ei acolo. Unii se c\u0103s\u0103toresc din iubire \u015fi compatibilitate adev\u0103rat\u0103. Al\u0163ii din frica de a r\u0103m\u00e2ne singuri. Al\u0163ii pentru c\u0103 vor “s\u0103-i ia \u015fi pe ei cineva”, oric\u00e2t de lame ar fi acest cineva. Al\u0163ii pentru c\u0103 vor un statut social mai bun \u015fi se folosesc de c\u0103s\u0103torie ca de o scar\u0103 spre “lumea bun\u0103”. Evident c\u0103 deciziile luate din calcul se r\u0103zbun\u0103 \u00een timp c\u00e2nd ajungi \u00een situa\u0163ia c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 convie\u0163uie\u015fti zi de zi cu boul pe care l-ai ales pe diverse criterii de integrare social\u0103 \/ stim\u0103 de sine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
OK. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Deciziile gre\u015fite ale unor gigei nu au nici o leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu valoarea \u00een sine a conceptului de identitate de gen, ci strict cu responsabilitatea individual\u0103 a respectivilor gigei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mai dau un exemplu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u00e2nd eram eu la liceu, toat\u0103 lumea era presat\u0103 de p\u0103rin\u0163i s\u0103 dea la ASE \u015fi la Drept, pentru c\u0103 “faci la bani de-i \u00eentorci cu lopata”. \u015ei subsemnata a \u00eendurat cu greu povara a doi ani de ASE. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
O gr\u0103mad\u0103 de oameni f\u0103r\u0103 voca\u0163ie economic\u0103 sau juridic\u0103 au fost presa\u0163i de p\u0103rin\u0163i atot\u015ftiutori \u015fi indiferen\u0163i la personalitatea real\u0103 a copiilor s\u0103 fac\u0103 ni\u015fte facult\u0103\u0163i pe care le-au ur\u00e2t cu pasiune, dup\u0103 care, s-au refugiat \u00een joburi aflate la polul opus \u015fi nu au practicat niciodat\u0103 de au \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at \u00een cei patru sau cinci ani de agonie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Invalideaz\u0103 asta cu ceva facult\u0103\u0163ile de economie \u015fi drept?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
EVIDENT C\u0102 NU. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sunt \u015fcoli perfect onorabile \u015fi absolut minunate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pentru persoanele care au aceast\u0103 voca\u0163ie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Iar pentru gigeii care au inspirat acest text, verdictologii lui pe\u015fte: dac\u0103 nu \u015fti\u0163i cum e, pute\u0163i admite c\u0103 nu \u015fti\u0163i \u015fi pute\u0163i alege s\u0103 v\u0103 educa\u0163i. \u015ei dac\u0103 vre\u0163i s\u0103 \u00een\u0163elege\u0163i experien\u0163a transgen autentic\u0103, sta\u0163i de vorb\u0103 cu persoane transgen. Nu produce\u0163i voi brainfarts din neuronii pu\u0163ini care sunt pe cale s\u0103 se usuce \u00een absen\u0163a utiliz\u0103rii.
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