{"id":23574,"date":"2022-07-11T10:32:13","date_gmt":"2022-07-11T07:32:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=23574"},"modified":"2022-07-11T10:32:14","modified_gmt":"2022-07-11T07:32:14","slug":"stiu-ca-ai-facut-o-cu-x","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/stiu-ca-ai-facut-o-cu-x\/","title":{"rendered":"\u015etiu c\u0103 ai f\u0103cut-o cu X!!!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

De c\u00e2teva zile, am \u00eenc\u0103 un troll. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Majoritatea haterilor mei merg pe linia: Am o problem\u0103 cu tine pentru c\u0103 e\u015fti feminist\u0103 \u015fi pentru c\u0103 e\u015fti queer, \u015fi pentru c\u0103 faci travesti, deci apari public \u00een haine masculine \u015fi cu p\u0103r facial, la care eu r\u0103spund mereu cu da, gigel, dar oric\u00e2t hate ai rev\u0103rsa pe pere\u0163ii mei, aceste lucruri NU se vor schimba, deci ai dou\u0103 op\u0163iuni solide \u015fi valide: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

a) x din col\u0163. Ce nu vezi nu te sup\u0103r\u0103. Prezen\u0163a public\u0103 a unui artist e expresia lui de sine, iar sinele meu e \u00een egal\u0103 m\u0103sur\u0103 masculin \u015fi feminin, \u015fi faptul c\u0103 nu-\u0163i place asta e strict problema ta personal\u0103, care nu are de ce s\u0103-mi strice mie ziua cu nimic, c\u00e2t timp nu \u00ee\u0163i datorez absolut nimic sub soare <\/p>\n\n\n\n

b) f\u0103-te fanul Gabrielei Firea. Femeie bisericoas\u0103? Check. Nevast\u0103? Check. Copii? Check. Toat\u0103 ziua cu Dumnezeu \u00een gur\u0103? Check. Cas\u0103 plin\u0103 cu haur \u015fi bibelouri? Check. S\u00e2rm\u0103 \u00een c**, s\u0103 se asigure c\u0103 ob\u0163ii pl\u0103cerea doar pe calea binecuv\u00e2ntat\u0103 de Dumnezeu? Check. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

My point is: AI OP\u0162IUNI PE PIA\u0162\u0102 CARE S\u0102 REFLECTE IDEILE TALE. De ce s\u0103 m\u0103 latri pe mine dac\u0103 o ai pe ea, numai bun\u0103 de aleluia, aleluia, aleluuuuuuiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apoi mai sunt \u015fi haterii care se folosesc de filmule\u0163ul \u0103la f\u0103cut f\u0103r\u0103 acord, cu un cretin din cercul de prieteni al altor prieteni, care s-a apucat s\u0103 m\u0103 abuzeze verbal \u00een taxi \u015fi c\u0103ruia i-am b\u0103gat pwla pe g\u00e2t, \u015fi \u0103la a filmat interac\u0163iunea din punctul \u00een care m-am enervat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Da, bitchez, nu v\u0103 datorez nimic, drept care, dac\u0103 veni\u0163i s\u0103 m\u0103 agresa\u0163i verbal, o s\u0103 v\u0103 iau to\u0163i mor\u0163ii \u00een pwl\u0103 \u015fi \u0103sta nu e un secret. De ce au unii gigei preten\u0163ia de la femei c\u0103 tolereze abuzul ca mieii la abator \u015fi s\u0103 nu riposteze? Din masculinitate toxic\u0103, care neag\u0103 femeilor p\u00e2n\u0103 \u015fi dreptul elementar de a-\u015fi proteja demnitatea \u015fi a se ap\u0103ra sub atac. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2t timp b\u0103gatul \u00een mor\u0163i de mam\u0103 nu e ilegal, o s\u0103 \u00eei bag \u00een mor\u0163i de mam\u0103 pe to\u0163i cei abuzivi, iar dac\u0103 devine ilegal, o s\u0103 sun la poli\u0163ie de la primul cuv\u00e2nt jignitor, s\u0103 nu ajungem acolo, dar m\u0103 voi asigura mereu c\u0103 oamenii care, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 le fi f\u0103cut eu vreodat\u0103 ceva, caut\u0103 s\u0103-mi fac\u0103 r\u0103u, \u00ee\u015fi vor lua pe o cale sau alta r\u0103splata. Punct. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen rest, r\u0103m\u00e2ne cum am zis de n ori. Dac\u0103 vrei s\u0103 fim golani, o s\u0103 fim am\u00e2ndoi golani \u015fi te bat la gol\u0103neal\u0103 de pleci scheun\u00e2nd. Dac\u0103 e\u015fti sensibil la mor\u0163i de mam\u0103, nu veni s\u0103 m\u0103 agresezi \u015fi s\u0103 m\u0103 agasezi. Dac\u0103 vrei s\u0103 fim mimoze, poart\u0103-te cu decen\u0163\u0103 \u015fi delicate\u0163e, \u015fi \u00ee\u0163i voi oferi \u015fi eu asta. Deci, golani sau mimoze, alegere simpl\u0103 \u015fi clar\u0103. Odat\u0103 f\u0103cut\u0103, \u00ee\u0163i asumi \u015fi ceea ce decurge din asta. Ca rezultant\u0103 a faptelor TALE. Pentru c\u0103 eu nu m\u0103 duc la absolut nimeni cu inten\u0163ie conflictual\u0103. Sunt un om pa\u015fnic, focused pe ale lui. Faptul c\u0103 \u00eencerci s\u0103 creezi un conflict cu mine e strict ini\u0163iativa \u015fi fapta ta, \u015fi e\u015fti singurul responsabil, drept care, \u00ee\u0163i asumi \u015fi nota de plat\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mbun. Asta cu haterii mei obi\u015fnui\u0163i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar de c\u00e2teva zile, a ap\u0103rut un troll nou, care m\u0103 tot agaseaz\u0103 c\u0103 a\u015f fi avut activit\u0103\u0163i de dormitor cu un domn. Un domn absolut minunat de altfel, cu care suntem foarte buni prieteni, \u015fi care m-a sus\u0163inut mereu \u00een proiectele mele, cu tot ce a putut. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Prilej de a deschide o nou\u0103 discu\u0163ie: c\u00e2t mai agas\u0103m femei cu presupusa lor activitate intim\u0103? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nici m\u0103car nu m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 s\u0103 confirm sau s\u0103 infirm nimic, PENTRU C\u0102 NU E PROBLEMA NIM\u0102NUI CE FAC EU \u015eI CU CINE. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Faptul c\u0103 pe diver\u015fi b\u0103g\u0103tori \u00een seam\u0103 \u00eei f*** aprig grija cu cine se co\u0163\u0103ie o femeie e tot o reminiscen\u0163\u0103 a mentalit\u0103\u0163ii medievale, care trata femeia ca pe o proprietate. Proprietate privat\u0103, dac\u0103 o are unul cu acte, \u015fi bun ob\u015ftesc, dac\u0103 e singur\u0103. De aici \u015fi infecta \u00eentrebare: Ai iubit \/ e\u015fti c\u0103s\u0103torit\u0103? de la dobitoci cu care n-ai nici o treab\u0103 \u015fi pe care via\u0163a ta intim\u0103 nu are de ce s\u0103-i priveasc\u0103 cu nimic. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Da’ ce, b\u0103i, kkt, absen\u0163a unui mascul implic\u0103 \u015fi disponibilitatea automat\u0103, f**-\u0163i mor\u0163ii t\u0103i? \u00eentrebi tu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u0103i da, prin viziunea medieval\u0103 a femeii – proprietate, dac\u0103 nu e\u015fti “a unuia”, e\u015fti a tuturor \u015fi, da, disponibilitatea ar trebui s\u0103 fie automat\u0103. \u015ei iat\u0103 de ce e necesar feminismul. S\u0103 seteze limite tuturor acestor gunoaie care au impresia c\u0103 a\u015fa func\u0163ioneaz\u0103 treaba. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ar trebui s\u0103 \u00een\u0163elegem cu to\u0163ii c\u0103, \u00een 2022, nu ar trebui s\u0103 mai fie nevoie de explica\u0163ia faptului c\u0103 femeia e o persoan\u0103 de sine st\u0103t\u0103toare, un cet\u0103\u0163ean pl\u0103titor de impozite, deci cu drepturi depline, \u015fi care nu are de ce s\u0103 dea socoteal\u0103 public de ceea ce face privat, c\u00e2t timp e consensual \u015fi agreat de ambele, sau \u00een cazul unei orgii cu zece participan\u0163i adul\u0163i \u015fi doritori, de toate cele zece p\u0103r\u0163i implicate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Da, dac\u0103 femeia e m\u0103ritat\u0103 sau \u00eentr-o rela\u0163ie (NOT my case) are de dat explica\u0163ii unei singure persoane: cea cu care e \u00een rela\u0163ie \/ c\u0103s\u0103torie, \u015fi fa\u0163\u0103 de care a depus la altar jur\u0103m\u00e2nt de fidelitate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar cum eu n-am depus la altar nimic fa\u0163\u0103 de nimeni, via\u0163a mea privat\u0103 m\u0103 prive\u015fte 100%, nu am de dat socoteal\u0103 asupra a absolut nimic, iar h\u0103r\u0163uirile de tipul “ai f\u0103cut-o cu x sau cu y” sunt complet nelalocul lor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De c\u00e2nd aveam 16 ani, am tot auzit zvonuri despre mine cum c\u0103 am f\u0103cut trebu\u015foara aceea cu oameni cu care nu m-am aflat nici m\u0103car singur\u0103 \u00eentr-o \u00eenc\u0103pere vreodat\u0103. Mi s-a atribuit de mic\u0103 o via\u0163\u0103 sexual\u0103 at\u00e2t de dezl\u0103n\u0163uit\u0103 \u015fi de turbat\u0103, \u00eenc\u00e2t aproape c\u0103 o invidiez pe Lorena din folclorul urban. Regina videochatului rom\u00e2nesc, \u00eenv\u00e2rte milioanele de euroi cu lopata, se culc\u0103 cu tot ce e mai influent din \u0163ar\u0103. A\u015ftept\u0103m cu interes ecranizarea XXX \u015fi v\u0103 rog s-o distribui\u0163i pe Audrey Bitoni \u00een rolul Lorenei. Sem\u0103n\u0103m fizic. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Problema e c\u00e2nd vin b\u0103g\u0103tori \u00een seam\u0103 pe care nu-i cunosc \u015fi care \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 bully pe seama folclorului urban. De unde \u015fi p\u00e2n\u0103 unde am eu de dat raport tuturor nimenilor, pe baz\u0103 de zvonistic\u0103 nedovedit\u0103 cu nimic? F** off. \u015ei f\u0103 amor \u015fi cu altceva dec\u00e2t grija, c\u0103 iat\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sunt un om liber? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Da. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mi-am asumat vreun angajament fa\u0163\u0103 de cineva? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Prin urmare, e dreptul meu absolut s\u0103 \u00eemi tr\u0103iesc via\u0163a exact cum vreau eu, at\u00e2ta timp c\u00e2t nu implic\u0103 minori, fiin\u0163e incapabile de consim\u0163\u0103m\u00e2nt sau persoane care refuz\u0103? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

DA. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

DA. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015fi DA. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

OK. Nu m\u0103 “expui” dac\u0103 vii cu zvonuri, pentru c\u0103 nu e problema nim\u0103nui in the first place. \u015ei chiar dac\u0103 o nimereai, \u015fi descopereai vreo aventur\u0103 a mea real\u0103, tot nu era problema nim\u0103nui. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

My body, my choice. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Haipa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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