{"id":23583,"date":"2022-07-16T11:10:04","date_gmt":"2022-07-16T08:10:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=23583"},"modified":"2022-07-16T11:11:23","modified_gmt":"2022-07-16T08:11:23","slug":"23583-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/23583-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Despre femei \u015fi respect"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Zilele astea s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat un lucru care m-a bucurat foarte mult. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mai multe personalit\u0103\u0163i din online-ul rom\u00e2nesc, \u015fi fete, \u015fi b\u0103ie\u0163i, au luat ap\u0103rarea unei influenceri\u0163e pe nume Raisa Beicu. Fata, pasionat\u0103 de teatru, se pozase cu badge-ul de la FITS peste bustier\u0103. S-a luat de ea Cristina Bazavan, s-o thrashuiasc\u0103 cum c\u0103 nu po\u0163i face jurnalism cultural \u00een sutien, s-o bully pentru \u0163inut\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 \u00eencerce s\u0103 v\u00e2nd\u0103 nu \u015ftiu ce curs online de f\u0103cut pe interesanta profit\u00e2nd de imaginile Raisei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Drag\u0103 Bazavan, am ve\u015fti pentru tine. Jurnalism cultural po\u0163i face \u015fi-n chilo\u0163i, dac\u0103 ai fundamentul cultural adecvat. Iar dac\u0103 recenziile \u015fi cronicile tale tale sun\u0103 a compuneri de a treia, nu po\u0163i face jurnalism cultural nici \u00een sutan\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trec\u00e2nd peste asta, vreau s\u0103 punctez un lucru important: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Degeaba ne d\u0103m feministe, degeaba \u0163ip\u0103m la b\u0103rba\u0163i s\u0103 ne respecte, dac\u0103 trat\u0103m alte femei cu mentalitate de ev mediu \u015fi list\u0103 de preten\u0163ii parc\u0103 smulse din agenda Coali\u0163iei pentru Familie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vrei s\u0103 ob\u0163ii respect pentru femei? Implicit pentru tine? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

OK. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trateaz\u0103 alte femei a\u015fa cum ai vrea s\u0103 te trateze b\u0103rba\u0163ii pe tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu te lua de vestimenta\u0163ia lor \u015fi nu \u00eencerca s\u0103 le discreditezi prin vestimenta\u0163ie, sau s\u0103 justifici varii abuzuri prin vestimenta\u0163ie, dac\u0103 \u0163ie nu \u0163i-ar conveni s\u0103 mergi la poli\u0163ie s\u0103 raportezi un viol \u015fi s\u0103-\u0163i r\u00e2d\u0103 garcea \u00een nas c\u0103 por\u0163i fust\u0103 scurt\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu \u00eencerca s\u0103 aplici cli\u015fee de genul p\u0103pu\u015fic\u0103 stupid\u0103, dac\u0103 sunt frumoase. Genul acesta de cli\u015fee au tras \u00een jos \u015fi au subminat carierele a nenum\u0103rate femei, invidiate de alte femei \u015fi sabotate de b\u0103rba\u0163ii cu care nu erau dispuse s\u0103 se f…. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fie c\u0103 e\u015fti frumoas\u0103, fie c\u0103 e\u015fti ur\u00e2\u0163ic\u0103. \u0162i-ar conveni s\u0103 depind\u0103 cariera ta \u015fi viitoarea ta evolu\u0163ie profesional\u0103 de acest aspect? Dac\u0103 r\u0103spunsul e un NU ferm – \u015fi \u015ftim c\u0103 e – ce ar fi s\u0103 nu mai cau\u0163i s\u0103 subminezi pe aceast\u0103 cale alte femei? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu mai presa alte femei s\u0103 fie obligatoriu feminine, dac\u0103 ele nu simt s\u0103 fie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nimeni nu datoreaz\u0103 b\u0103g\u0103torilor de seam\u0103 s\u0103 fie \u00eentr-un anumit fel, dac\u0103 nu vrea \u015fi nu simte. \u015ei dac\u0103 tu \u0163ipi \u00een gura mare c\u0103 e\u015fti o individualitate \u015fi c\u0103 vrei s\u0103 fii respectat\u0103 ca atare, how about s\u0103 extinzi curtoazia asta tuturor celorlalte femei? A\u015fa cum sunt importante priorit\u0103\u0163iile \u015fi preferiin\u0163ele tale pentru tine, a\u015fa sunt \u015fi priorit\u0103\u0163ile \u015fi preferin\u0163ele lor pentru ele. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei un lucru esen\u0163ial: nu mai face hait\u0103 cu c\u00e2te un gigel bully toxic pentru a h\u0103r\u0163ui femei pe care are \u0103la boal\u0103. Nu de alta, dar nici \u0163ie nu \u0163i-ar pl\u0103cea s\u0103 i se c\u0103\u015fune unui gigel bully toxic pe tine \u015fi ai \u0163ipa ca din gur\u0103 de \u015farpe c\u0103 a sunat evul mediu \u015fi \u00ee\u015fi cere mentalitatea \u00eenapoi. Realitatea e c\u0103 mentalitatea de ev mediu persist\u0103 cu fiecare dobitoc care trateaz\u0103 femei ca pe obiecte \u015fi cu fiecare proast\u0103 care groh\u0103ie de fericire \u00eencuraj\u00e2ndu-l pe dobitoc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Legat de asta, am un update cu o faz\u0103 care m-a dezam\u0103git ieri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

E o pizzerie \u00een Rosetti, ai c\u0103rei angaja\u0163i cocalari infec\u0163i s-au trezit peste noapte juriu de dat note trec\u0103toarelor \u015fi clientelor, chit c\u0103 ei personal ar fi de un 5 cu indulgen\u0163\u0103, dac\u0103 ar fi s\u0103 le dea cineva note. Ur\u00e2\u0163i, pro\u015fti \u015fi, din ce jigniri am citit pe wallul Oanei Maria Zaharia<\/a><\/strong>, care a scris despre subiect, genul \u0103la de gher\u0163oi obraznici \u015fi misecuveni\u015fti pentru care a\u015f face mass shooting cam cum fac tinerii dezechilibra\u0163i \u00een State. Am \u00eendurat at\u00e2ta gher\u0163oism de cocalari infec\u0163i \u015fi jego\u015fi de c\u00e2nd sunt pe social media, \u00eenc\u00e2t pot s\u0103 \u00een\u0163eleg de ce cineva pierde controlul, ia o mitralier\u0103 \u015fi \u00eencepe s\u0103-\u015fi fac\u0103 dreptate singur \u00eentr-un sistem care e\u015fueaz\u0103 s\u0103-i fac\u0103 dreptate. A\u015f \u00eempu\u015fca to\u0163i c\u0103ca\u0163ii \u0103\u015ftia agresivi \u015fi nesim\u0163i\u0163i din Bucure\u015fti \u015fi \u00eemprejurimi, \u015fi apoi m-a\u015f \u015fi pi\u015fa pe mormintele lor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Faptul c\u0103 au venit al\u0163i \u0163\u0103r\u0103noi b\u0103tubili cu \u015flapul peste bot s\u0103 \u00eei apere pe \u0163\u0103r\u0103noii de la pizzerie e cumva de \u00een\u0163eles, pentru c\u0103 b\u0103rba\u0163ii \u015ftiu s\u0103 se coalizeze \u015fi s\u0103 se \u00eenfr\u0103\u0163easc\u0103 \u00een mitoc\u0103nii \u015fi m\u0103g\u0103rii de toate tipurile, de aceea merge crima organizat\u0103 at\u00e2t de bine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar m\u0103 exaspereaz\u0103 c\u00e2nd vin femei, sau mai exact ovine sp\u0103late pe creier de educa\u0163ia care le priveaz\u0103 de con\u015ftiin\u0163a propriei puteri, s\u0103 abereze c\u0103 oricum nu se poate schimba nimic \u015fi c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 ignor\u0103m. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pe genul \u0103sta de mentalitate, “c\u0103 nu se poate schimba nimic”, r\u0103m\u00e2neam \u015fi acum propriet\u0103\u0163i ambulante, care treceau din tezaurul tat\u0103lui \u00een posesia primului gher\u0163oi care oferea mai multe c\u0103mile, apoi deveneam unelte de f\u0103cut treab\u0103 \u00een cas\u0103, lab\u0103 asistat\u0103 \u015fi f\u0103tat copii, ca \u00een vremurile fabuloase (NOT, gigel, NOT) de alt\u0103dat\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ba da, se pot schimba lucruri, \u015fi noi avem drepturi civice \u015fi economice TAMAN pentru c\u0103 oamenii care au crezut c\u0103 se pot schimba lucruri au luat atitudine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 e\u015fti at\u00e2t de vac\u0103 \u015fi de imbecil\u0103 s\u0103 crezi \u00een mod real c\u0103 nu se pot schimba lucruri, nu veni s\u0103-mi muge\u015fti \u00een mesageria privat\u0103 c\u0103 ai nimerit un cocalar care te bate de-\u0163i sun\u0103 apa-n cap. O meri\u0163i. Genul de om care se complace cu rahatul \u015fi nu protesteaz\u0103, ba dimpotriv\u0103, face pact cu rahatul \u015fi vine s\u0103 latre la oamenii care protesteaz\u0103 pierde dreptul s\u0103 se pl\u00e2ng\u0103 de abuz. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Abia mobilizarea \u00een comun a femeilor \u015fi a b\u0103rba\u0163ilor corect educa\u0163i va face ca, prin presiune public\u0103, managementul cuiburilor de dobitoci ca aceast\u0103 pizzerie s\u0103 le pfoot\u0103 c\u00e2te o sanc\u0163iune de 10% din salariu gunoaielor h\u0103r\u0163uitoare \u015fi s\u0103 le spun\u0103 ceva de genul: B\u0103i, jigodie obosit\u0103 de lab\u0103, nef** ta cronic\u0103 nu e treaba businessului nostru, drept care, \u0163i-o \u0163ii pentru timpul t\u0103u liber \u015fi dac\u0103 te mai prind vreodat\u0103 s\u0103 te bagi \u00een seam\u0103 aiurea cu o femeie pe durata programului de munc\u0103, zbori p\u00e2n\u0103-n Spania la cules c\u0103p\u015funi, pi\u015fa-te-a\u015f \u00een bot. Poate c\u0103 nu ai destule sarcini de munc\u0103, dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i r\u0103m\u00e2ne at\u00e2ta energie s\u0103 agasezi nesolicitat femei. Ia mopul \u0103la \u015fi spal\u0103 c\u00e2rciuma, \u00een mor\u0163ii m\u0103-tii, c\u0103 te pl\u0103tesc s\u0103 munce\u015fti, nu s\u0103 stai! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2nd intru \u00eentr-o pizzerie \u015fi mai dau \u015fi bani s\u0103 fiu servit\u0103, mi se f\u00e2lf\u00e2ie c\u00e2t de b\u0103rb\u0103tu\u015f e angajatul. Vreau s\u0103 se comporte profesional, s\u0103 \u00eemi ia respectuos comanda \u015fi s\u0103-\u015fi \u0163in\u0103 p*** \u00een pantaloni \u015fi notele legate de aspectul meu fizic ad\u00e2nc \u00eenfipte \u00een locul umbros unde nu-l lumineaz\u0103 niciodat\u0103 soarele. \u015ei da, vorbesc de creier. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2nd vreau note, m\u0103 \u00eenscriu eu la examen, merci. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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