{"id":23602,"date":"2022-07-20T10:58:49","date_gmt":"2022-07-20T07:58:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=23602"},"modified":"2022-07-20T10:58:50","modified_gmt":"2022-07-20T07:58:50","slug":"nu-te-califici-sa-vorbesti-despre-hartuire-daca-n-ai-experimentat-o","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/nu-te-califici-sa-vorbesti-despre-hartuire-daca-n-ai-experimentat-o\/","title":{"rendered":"Nu te califici s\u0103 vorbe\u015fti despre h\u0103r\u0163uire, dac\u0103 n-ai experimentat-o"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Primul titlu al acestui text era &#8220;nu te califici s\u0103 vorbe\u015fti despre h\u0103r\u0163uire dac\u0103 e\u015fti b\u0103rbat&#8221;.  Pentru c\u0103 gigelachele obi\u015fnuit nu a avut parte de aten\u0163ie nesolicitat\u0103, b\u0103gare \u00een seam\u0103 aiurea, frecu\u015f la cap de la diver\u015fi &#8220;who the f are you anyway&#8221;. Dar primul titlu nu e corect, pentru c\u0103 b\u0103rba\u0163ii eticheta\u0163i drept feminini, sau diferi\u0163i, sau sensibili, au parte de un bullying la fel de agresiv \u015fi de insistent ca \u015fi femeile. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Se oplo\u015fe\u015fte ieri sear\u0103 la mine pe perete bovina asta. \u015ei \u00eencepe s\u0103 mugeasc\u0103 precum urmeaz\u0103: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"700\" height=\"395\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/bouuu.jpg?resize=700%2C395&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-23603\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/bouuu.jpg?w=757&amp;ssl=1 757w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/bouuu.jpg?resize=300%2C169&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/bouuu.jpg?resize=150%2C85&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/bouuu.jpg?resize=520%2C293&amp;ssl=1 520w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/07\/bouuu.jpg?resize=720%2C405&amp;ssl=1 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Evident c\u0103 pe Facebook nu \u00eei pot r\u0103spunde pe m\u0103sur\u0103, pentru c\u0103 nu merit\u0103 c*** lui insignifiant 30 de zile de zucc. Evident c\u0103 mi-am \u00eenfipt unghiile \u00een palme p\u00e2n\u0103 la s\u00e2nge, de frustrare c\u0103 nu \u00eemi pot b\u0103ga prompt o mie de b\u00e2rzoete belite \u015fi \u00eembujorate \u00een zdrean\u0163a infect\u0103 care a omis s\u0103 \u00eenghit\u0103 la momentul oportun. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar cum aici sunt liber\u0103 s\u0103 scriu ce vreau, cel mult \u00eemi demonetizeaz\u0103 AdSense ACEST articol, f\u0103r\u0103 restric\u0163ii lungi \u015fi stupide, e cazul s\u0103 m\u0103 r\u0103coresc: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u0103i, idiot patentat, b\u0103tubil cu capul de bordura de la trotuar p\u00e2n\u0103 faci model de creier pe asfalt, a zis ceva Buhnici de &#8220;comportamentul&#8221; femeilor sau de corpul \u015fi celulita lor, futu-te-n bot de prost? Da, comportamentul femeii poate fi o problem\u0103, \u00een m\u0103sura \u00een care afecteaz\u0103 libertatea altora, cam cum afecteaz\u0103 bullyingul jego\u015filor ca tine libertatea \u015fi starea noastr\u0103 de bine, dar fizic, femeia v\u0103 datoreaz\u0103 nici \u0163ie, nici lui Buhnici, s\u0103 arate \u00eentr-un fel anume, pi\u015fa-te-a\u015f \u00een bot cu m\u0103-ta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u015ei cine g\u00e2tu&#8217; m\u0103-tii de cancer cu buletin te face pe tine critic peste comportamentul femeii anyway? E vreo problem\u0103 real\u0103, care s\u0103 afecteze obiectiv via\u0163a, libertatea \u015fi starea de bine a altora, cum afecteaz\u0103 bullyingul via\u0163a, libertatea \u015fi starea de bine a femeilor? Sau e o problem\u0103 perceput\u0103, de tipul &#8220;vorbe\u015fti prea tare pentru o femeie&#8221; \/ &#8220;ai prea mult\u0103 \u00eencredere \u00een tine&#8221; etc. etc. \u015fi alte labageli similare de la al\u0163i boi sc\u0103pa\u0163i din staul educa\u0163i c\u0103 femeia trebuie s\u0103 look pretty and just shut up? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u0103 dac\u0103 e o problem\u0103 perceput\u0103, care nu afecteaz\u0103 \u00een mod real pe nimeni, ia-\u0163i p\u0103rerea de vit\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103l\u0163at\u0103 \u015fi bag\u0103-\u0163i-o ad\u00e2nc \u00een c**. NU ne intereseaz\u0103 ce crezi. NU vrem s\u0103 auzim ce crezi. Vrem s\u0103 NU ne strici ziua \u015fi vibe-ul cu mugetele tale dezarticulate. \u015ei vrem s\u0103 te duci cu bolt\u0103 \u00een mor\u0163ii m\u0103-tii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Legat de Budeanu \u015fi de \u015eo\u015foac\u0103, \u015fi de ce spun ele, faptul c\u0103 scot pe gur\u0103 enormit\u0103\u0163i nu are leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu faptul c\u0103 sunt femei, ci cu faptul c\u0103 sunt idioate. Nu fac de r\u00e2s numele femeii, bou b\u0103tubil \u00een cap, pentru c\u0103 nici \u015eo\u015foac\u0103, nici Budeanu nu sunt \u00eemputernicite pe nic\u0103ieri s\u0103 reprezinte femeia, ci m\u0103n\u00e2nc\u0103 kkt \u00een nume propriu, independent de gen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cam asta a\u015f fi avut s\u0103-i r\u0103spund boului, dar hei. 30 de zile de zucc pentru un l\u0103bete p\u0103rerist oarecare? Mnope. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u015ei \u00een general, c\u00e2nd se mai trezesc gigei \u00eencordaci din \u0103\u015ftia cu: Nu te \u0163ine s\u0103-mi r\u0103spunzi parte-n parte, de aceea raportezi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ba m\u0103 \u0163ine, \u00een mor\u0163ii m\u0103-tii de prost. La c\u00e2\u0163i ca tine m-au tot frecat la cap, am o ur\u0103 infinit\u0103 pe cei ca tine \u015fi m\u0103 \u0163ine absolut orice. Te \u00eenjur p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00eencepi s\u0103 pl\u00e2ngi, apoi te mai \u00eenjur pu\u0163in, dac\u0103 \u0163ii neap\u0103rat s\u0103 ne ducem acolo. Dar de ce s\u0103 iau zucc eu, c\u00e2nd po\u0163i s\u0103 iei zucc tu? \u015ei are \u015fi Mark dreptate, merit\u0103 un nimeni ca tine at\u00e2ta timp \u015fi aten\u0163ie din partea mea? No f**ing way! Raport \u015fi haisictir, \u00een mor\u0163ii t\u0103i. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Acum, c\u0103tre restul lumii care nu a fost vreodat\u0103 \u00eentr-o situa\u0163ie de bullying. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu ai trecut pe acolo? Nu \u015ftii cum e? Nu ai sim\u0163it pe pielea ta disconfortul emo\u0163ional \u015fi \u00een unele cazuri fizic, umilin\u0163a, furia? OK. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Rezum\u0103-te s\u0103 vorbe\u015fti despre ce cuno\u015fti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen nici un caz nu e cazul s\u0103 le spui tu celor bullied cum s\u0103 se simt\u0103. Pentru c\u0103 nu ai avut experien\u0163a \u015fi \u00ee\u0163i lipse\u015fte abilitatea de a te pune \u00een situa\u0163ie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 v-a pl\u0103cut acest text, pute\u021bi sus\u0163ine activitatea siteului cu o dona\u0163ie.&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/paypalme\/Trollywood\"><strong>Aici<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-14577\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<br>Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/lorenalupu\">Twitter<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;\u015fi&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCCHBtHi6S2GlUFqETH70cjQ\">YouTube<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Primul titlu al acestui text era &#8220;nu te califici s\u0103 vorbe\u015fti despre h\u0103r\u0163uire dac\u0103 e\u015fti b\u0103rbat&#8221;. 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