{"id":23642,"date":"2022-08-12T13:43:51","date_gmt":"2022-08-12T10:43:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=23642"},"modified":"2022-08-12T13:43:53","modified_gmt":"2022-08-12T10:43:53","slug":"usor-cu-vehementa-pe-scari","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/usor-cu-vehementa-pe-scari\/","title":{"rendered":"U\u015for cu vehemen\u0163a pe sc\u0103ri"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Ieri, am asistat la o faz\u0103 care m-a pus un pic pe g\u00e2nduri. Ni\u015fte fete discutau cu pasiune \u015fi efervescen\u0163\u0103 despre drepturile femeii. All good p\u00e2n\u0103 aici. Deodat\u0103, una dintre ele afirm\u0103 cu \u00eenfl\u0103c\u0103rare: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mi-e sc\u00e2rb\u0103 de b\u0103rba\u0163i! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mai \u00eencolo, st\u0103tea un b\u0103iat t\u00e2n\u0103r, cuminte, lini\u015ftit. C\u00e2nd a auzit una ca asta, a ridicat o privire \u00een care aproape c\u0103 citeai sunetul de suflet f\u0103cut brusc cioburi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Feminismul nu e, \u015fi nu trebuie s\u0103 fie un r\u0103zboi \u00eempotriva tuturor b\u0103rba\u0163ilor. Sunt mul\u0163i b\u0103rba\u0163i care respect\u0103 femeile \u015fi nu le-ar face nimic r\u0103u. Sunt mul\u0163i b\u0103rba\u0163i care ajut\u0103 \u00een diverse moduri femei f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 aib\u0103 vreo a\u015fteptare de acel tip. Sunt mul\u0163i b\u0103rba\u0163i care v\u0103d femeile ca pe oameni, \u015fi nu ca pe proprietate sau prad\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iar discursul extremist \u015fi generalizant nu love\u015fte \u00een misogini \u015fi \u00een oportuni\u015fti. Pe \u0103ia \u00eei doare \u00een basc\u0103 de sentimentele tale. \u0102ia lucreaz\u0103 cu al\u0163i b\u0103rba\u0163i ca ei, s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i limiteze drepturile, s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i minimalizeze \u015fi discrediteze personalitatea, s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i reteze oportunit\u0103\u0163i \u015fi s\u0103 te reduc\u0103 la zero pe unde pot \u015fi cu ce pot. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Discursul extremist \u015fi generalizant love\u015fte \u00een b\u0103rba\u0163ii care iubesc \u015fi respect\u0103 femeile. \u015ei care nu au f\u0103cut absolut nimic s\u0103-l merite. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Feminismul, c\u00e2\u015ftigarea drepturilor egale, de care beneficiem azi, nu ar fi fost posibil f\u0103r\u0103 b\u0103rba\u0163ii one\u015fti, de bun\u0103 credin\u0163\u0103, care aud \u015fi \u00een\u0163eleg. Femeile de unele singure ar fi fost arse \u00een continuare pe rug ca vr\u0103jjitoare, sau c\u0103s\u0103pite pentru c\u0103 nu sunt unelte suficient de supuse. Chiar azi diminea\u0163a citeam un articol despre num\u0103rul mare de femei iranience condamnate la moarte pentru c\u0103 \u015fi-au ucis so\u0163ii care le b\u0103teau. \u00centr-o lume predominant toxic\u0103 \u015fi misogin\u0103, nu ai avea cum s\u0103 acumulezi credit social. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u0103 ne g\u00e2ndim la discursul revers. “Mi-e sc\u00e2rb\u0103 de femei”. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Da, e adev\u0103rat \u00een cazul multor extremi\u015fti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar de ce s\u0103 vrei s\u0103 fii versiunea feminin\u0103 a acestora? Cu ce te ajut\u0103 pe tine, pe femei \u00een general, sau pozi\u0163ia femeii \u00een societate? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu, nu \u0163i-e sc\u00e2rb\u0103 de b\u0103rba\u0163i. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0162i-e sc\u00e2rb\u0103 de tic\u0103lo\u015fi, de profitori \u015fi de violen\u0163i. De cei care fac r\u0103u femeilor pentru c\u0103 pot \u015fi pentru c\u0103 vor. De cei care umilesc \u015fi discrediteaz\u0103 femei pentru c\u0103 pot \u015fi pentru c\u0103 vor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 \u0103\u015ftia, exist\u0103 – \u015fi au existat mereu – b\u0103rba\u0163ii educa\u0163i corect \u015fi echilibra\u0163i psihic, care nu au nevoie s\u0103 te trag\u0103 \u00een jos, s\u0103 te aduc\u0103 la nivelul lor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0102stora nu ai nici un motiv s\u0103 nu le oferi tratamentul respectuos \u015fi civilizat pe care \u00eel dore\u015fti \u015fi tu \u00een societate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Decen\u0163a uman\u0103 se \u015fi ofer\u0103, nu doar se pretinde. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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