{"id":23650,"date":"2022-08-23T09:54:42","date_gmt":"2022-08-23T06:54:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=23650"},"modified":"2022-08-23T09:54:44","modified_gmt":"2022-08-23T06:54:44","slug":"raspunde-la-telefon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/raspunde-la-telefon\/","title":{"rendered":"R\u0103spunde la telefon!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Ai o rela\u0163ie nou\u0103. O persoan\u0103 cu care chiar sim\u0163i c\u0103 ai o conexiune, \u00ee\u0163i provoac\u0103 fluturi \u00een stomac, \u00ee\u0163i dore\u015fti  o apropiere pe care n-ai dorit-o niciodat\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u015ei atunci, ce faci? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Te apuci s\u0103-l \/ s-o freci fanatic la icre. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>B\u0103i, Loreno, po\u0163i s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i imaginezi c\u0103 nu mi-a r\u0103spuns la telefon \/ mesaj? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Evident c\u0103 pot. Oamenii au joburi. Plus proiecte private pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 joburi. Plus campionate de fotbal \/ patinaj artistic \/ \u00eenot. Seriale preferate. Acum \u00eencepe pe HBO prequelul la Game of Thrones. Salveaz\u0103 pui de pisic\u0103 de pe strad\u0103. \u00ce\u015fi plimb\u0103 c\u00e2inii. Sau, pur \u015fi simplu, dorm. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nimeni nu poate sta la palavre cu tine toat\u0103 ziua, indiferent c\u00e2t de tare i-ai pl\u0103cea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar nu ar trebui s\u0103 fiu o prioritate? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Din p\u0103cate, nu po\u0163i impune nim\u0103nui s\u0103 te considere o prioritate, dac\u0103 nu se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 de la sine. \u015ei insisten\u0163a pe a fi o prioritate genereaz\u0103 de obicei efectul opus. Indiferent dac\u0103 e\u015fti b\u0103iat, fat\u0103, sau anything inbetween. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar chiar dac\u0103 te consider\u0103 o prioritate: unele lucruri trebuie rezolvate urgent, iar lugu-lugu cu tine mai poate s\u0103 a\u015ftepte.  C\u0103 dac\u0103 era ceva important, \u00eel informai cu mesaj scris. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar dac\u0103 m\u0103 place, ar trebui s\u0103 r\u0103spund\u0103 prompt la telefon, indiferent de context. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 te place, dar acum are treab\u0103, te sun\u0103 \u00eenapoi c\u00e2nd se elibereaz\u0103. Iar dac\u0103 se elibereaz\u0103 \u015fi e rupt(\u0103) \u00een bot de oboseal\u0103, te sun\u0103 \u00eenapoi aa doua zi. Pentru c\u0103 are o via\u0163\u0103. O via\u0163\u0103 pe care o avea \u00eenainte s\u0103 apari tu. O via\u0163\u0103 pe care o va avea \u015fi dup\u0103 ce dispari tu.  O via\u0163\u0103 care are deja tabieturi, o ordine \u015fi un sens al ei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd \u00eent\u00e2lnesc o persoan\u0103 compatibil\u0103, oamenii fac frecvent urm\u0103toarea gre\u015feal\u0103: \u00een loc s\u0103 se bucure de ceea ce actually primesc, se concentreaz\u0103 pe a se v\u0103ic\u0103ri legat de tot ce nu primesc. Iar efectul v\u0103ic\u0103relii e exact faptul c\u0103 \u00eel\/o sictiresc pe cel\/cea vizat(\u0103). <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Poate cea mai grea lec\u0163ie, c\u00e2nd \u00ee\u0163i pic\u0103 cineva cu tronc, e lec\u0163ia l\u0103s\u0103rii \u00een pace. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 v-a pl\u0103cut acest text, pute\u021bi sus\u0163ine activitatea siteului cu o dona\u0163ie.&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/paypalme\/Trollywood\"><strong>Aici<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-14577\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>***<br>Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/lorenalupu\">Twitter<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;\u015fi&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCCHBtHi6S2GlUFqETH70cjQ\">YouTube<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ai o rela\u0163ie nou\u0103. 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