{"id":23657,"date":"2022-08-26T10:30:58","date_gmt":"2022-08-26T07:30:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=23657"},"modified":"2022-08-26T10:31:00","modified_gmt":"2022-08-26T07:31:00","slug":"spania-si-legea-consimtamantului-explicit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/spania-si-legea-consimtamantului-explicit\/","title":{"rendered":"Spania \u015fi legea consim\u0163\u0103m\u00e2ntului explicit"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Iar e scandal \u00een online. Iar pl\u00e2ng gigeii cu lacrimi de crocodil c\u0103 vai, ce se alege de bietul b\u0103rbat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Motivul? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Spania a ales s\u0103 urmeze exemplul Suediei \u015fi a redefinit violul. Sexul cu consim\u0163\u0103m\u00e2nt va presupune cu adev\u0103rat consim\u0163\u0103m\u00e2nt, \u00eentr-o form\u0103 clar\u0103 \u015fi explicit\u0103, cu o partener\u0103 care confirm\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 dubii \u015fi ezit\u0103ri c\u0103 \u00ee\u015fi dore\u015fte respectivul act sexual. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De ce rag gigeii? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pentru c\u0103, \u00een foarte multe situa\u0163ii, sexul, mai ales \u00een societ\u0103\u0163i \u00eenapoiate cum e a noastr\u0103, are o component\u0103 de japc\u0103. De insisten\u0163\u0103 agasant\u0103 \u015fi detestabil\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd o femeie cu stima de sine mai sc\u0103zut\u0103, sau mai dornic\u0103 s\u0103 plac\u0103, sau disperat\u0103 dup\u0103 o rela\u0163ie, cedeaz\u0103. De \u015ficane, de manipulare, de diversiune, de intimidare, de minciuni, de h\u0103r\u0163uiri, de tehnici pick up. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cu c\u00e2t e societatea mai retrograd\u0103 \u015fi mai tradi\u0163ionalist\u0103, cu at\u00e2t mai multe acte sexuale au un singur beneficiar: b\u0103rbatul, \u015fi ulterior un singur vinovat: femeia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Chit c\u0103 b\u0103rbatul e cel care apeleaz\u0103 la tot arsenalul enumerat mai sus, dar hei, el e b\u0103rbat, e dreptul lui. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cu o lege care impune consim\u0163\u0103m\u00e2ntul explicit, acel “DA” clar, r\u0103sun\u0103tor, care e “DA” \u015fi m\u00e2ine, nu “\u0103\u0103\u0103, unde sunt \u015fi ce e cu mine”, toate formele de japc\u0103 sunt scoase oficial \u00een afara legii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

R\u0103m\u00e2ne doar versiunea clasic\u0103 a ob\u0163inerii acordului \u015fi disponibilit\u0103\u0163ii femeii prin abordare politicoas\u0103 \u015fi curtenitoare. Pentru c\u0103 o femeie tratat\u0103 cum trebuie nu va spune niciodat\u0103: Sta\u0163i, domnule judec\u0103tor, eu de fapt am fost violat\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Una h\u0103r\u0163uit\u0103, manipulat\u0103, min\u0163it\u0103 \u015fi abuzat\u0103, da. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

“P\u0103i \u015fi dac\u0103 se r\u0103zg\u00e2nde\u015fte, \u015fi m\u00e2ine zice c\u0103 am violat-o”. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Perfect. A\u015fa te va face \u015fi pe tine s\u0103 te orientezi spre oameni care nu se r\u0103zg\u00e2ndesc \u015fi care \u015ftiu ce vor. Prin urmare, te va obliga s\u0103 cuno\u015fti cu adev\u0103rat persoana, \u00een loc s\u0103 \u00eencerci pe toat\u0103 lista de Facebook tacticile alea de cea mai joas\u0103 spe\u0163\u0103 predate de un distrus jalnic de pe 4chan \u015fi s\u0103 vezi cu cine merge vr\u0103jeala. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Legea consim\u0163\u0103m\u00e2ntului explicit \u00eenseamn\u0103 respect fa\u0163\u0103 de corpul femeii, pe de o parte, \u015fi fa\u0163\u0103 de decizia ei, pe de alta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Evident c\u0103 gigeilor nu le convine. Istoric, le place s\u0103 considere corpul femeii un bun de uz personal dup\u0103 bunul plac, iar decizia femeii, ceva irelevant, pentru c\u0103 oricum \u015ftiu ei mai bine ce vrea ea de fapt. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

“\u0102vai, o s\u0103 trebuiasc\u0103 s\u0103 facem dosar cu \u015fin\u0103 \u015fi acord legalizat \u00een trei exemplare”.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lol, nu. Doar s\u0103 te asiguri c\u0103 \u015fi femeia vrea. At\u00e2t. \u015etiu, sun\u0103 \u00eensp\u0103im\u00e2nt\u0103tor c\u00e2nd tot BS-ul toxic \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at de la guru de ag\u0103\u0163at de pe net pic\u0103 \u015fi va trebui s\u0103 actually placi cuiva prin cine e\u015fti. \u00cen special c\u00e2nd \u015ftii \u015fi tu c\u0103 nu e\u015fti mare lucru, \u015fi \u00een sinea ta, nici tu nu te-ai tufe. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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