{"id":23666,"date":"2022-08-30T10:34:48","date_gmt":"2022-08-30T07:34:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=23666"},"modified":"2022-08-30T10:34:50","modified_gmt":"2022-08-30T07:34:50","slug":"vancica-trebuie-tras-la-raspundere","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/vancica-trebuie-tras-la-raspundere\/","title":{"rendered":"V\u0103ncic\u0103 trebuie tras la r\u0103spundere"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Noaptea trecut\u0103, am primit de la Antonella clipul de pe TikTok. O form\u0103 umanoid\u0103 pe nume Fane V\u0103ncic\u0103 \u00ee\u015fi bate amanta, \u00eei administreaz\u0103 picioare \u00een cap \u015fi \u00een coloana vertebral\u0103, \u015fi pe unde mai apuc\u0103, \u00een timp ce o \u0163ine \u00eengenuncheat\u0103 \u015fi o pune s\u0103 repete ni\u015fte fraze care nu au sens pentru ascult\u0103torul care nu \u015ftie despre ce este vorba. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ce e tragic? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pe de o parte, faptul c\u0103 acest gunoi este at\u00e2t de popular online. Viral pe TikTok. Urm\u0103rit de pu\u015ftime. Exact ca Andrew Tate, luat ca exemplu de masculinitate adev\u0103rat\u0103. Ce \u00eenva\u0163\u0103 b\u0103ie\u0163eii de la el? C\u0103 a\u015fa se trateaz\u0103 o femeie, dac\u0103 vrei s\u0103 ar\u0103\u0163i c\u0103 e\u015fti tare-n cioc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pe de alta, faptul c\u0103 victima e at\u00e2t de pasiv\u0103 \u015fi de supus\u0103. Faptul c\u0103 nu se revolt\u0103, nu se ap\u0103r\u0103 cu nimic, nu \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 protesteze, nu \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 plece, nu \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 se apere. \u015ei dup\u0103 toate astea, mai au ni\u015fte gigei tupeul s\u0103 m\u0103 tot frece la icre c\u0103 societatea e perfect ok a\u015fa cum e \u015fi c\u0103 feministele sunt de vin\u0103 c\u0103 le \u00eenva\u0163\u0103 pe celelalte femei s\u0103 urasc\u0103 b\u0103rba\u0163ii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aceste imagini sunt dovada vie c\u0103 femeia rom\u00e2nc\u0103 mai are nevoie de mult feminism. S\u0103 i se \u00eenl\u0103ture condi\u0163ionarea de slug\u0103 umil\u0103, gata s\u0103 tolereze orice tip de abuz de teama singur\u0103t\u0103\u0163ii. Sincer, a\u015f prefera s\u0103 mor pe o insul\u0103 pustie dec\u00e2t s\u0103 permit vreodat\u0103 vreunui individ s\u0103 m\u0103 trateze a\u015fa. Cred c\u0103 i-a\u015f face ou\u0103le omlet\u0103 \u015fi i-a\u015f scoate ochii cu unghiile, \u015fi probabil c\u0103 m-ar omor\u00ee, dar ar pierde \u015fi el ni\u015fte organe p\u00e2n\u0103 acolo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u015ei mai e o lacun\u0103 \u00een lege. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u0103 un astfel de abuz fizic e infrac\u0163iune doar dac\u0103 victima depune pl\u00e2ngere. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iar victima depune \u00een rare cazuri pl\u00e2ngere. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Violen\u0163a \u015fi abuzurile, venite dup\u0103 o educa\u0163ie &#8220;tradi\u0163ional\u0103&#8221; \u015fi dup\u0103 o copil\u0103rie traumatizant\u0103 \u00eentr-o familie \u00een care gigelul trata \u00een mod similar femeia, au rolul de a strivi demnitatea \u015fi con\u015ftiin\u0163a de sine \u015fi de a transforma victima \u00een sac de box asumat. Poate c\u0103 biata femeie chiar  crede c\u0103, din diverse motive, merit\u0103 s\u0103 fie tratat\u0103 astfel. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ulterior, G\u00e2ndul <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.gandul.ro\/actualitate\/imagini-socante-cu-interlopul-fane-vancica-in-timp-ce-bate-si-umileste-o-femeie-ca-in-evul-mediu-scene-de-o-cruzime-uluitoare-au-aparut-pe-retelele-de-socializare-video-19832358\">a publicat &#8220;explica\u0163iile&#8221; gunoiului odios<\/a><\/strong>. Femeia abuzat\u0103 era amanta lui. Da, gunoiul are o so\u0163ie \u015fi, pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 ea, are \u015fi o amant\u0103. De ce \u00ee\u015fi b\u0103tea jegul amanta \u00een acest mod? Pentru c\u0103 i se p\u0103ruse c\u0103 s-a uitat nu \u015ftiu cum la Ahmed. Pe acest link e \u015fi videoul cu b\u0103taia. Eu refuz s\u0103 g\u0103zduiesc a\u015fa ceva pe aici. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Stai, ce? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Deci c\u0103catul \u0103sta deja \u00eensurat, cu obliga\u0163ii legale fa\u0163\u0103 de alt\u0103 femeie, adic\u0103 aflat \u00eentr-o rela\u0163ie non-exclusiv\u0103 cu victima &#8211; \u00eei car\u0103 picioare cu nemiluita pentru c\u0103 pretinde o exclusivitate pe care  el, jigodia dezgust\u0103toare, n-o ofer\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar, conform gigeilor oplo\u015fi\u0163i ca r\u00e2ia \u00een sec\u0163iunea mea de comentarii, cumva problemele societ\u0103\u0163ii din zilele noastre sunt tot feminismul, legile \u00eempotriva violului \u015fi educarea femeilor s\u0103 plece dac\u0103 nu sunt respectate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">De ce scriu acest text? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pentru c\u0103 sper s\u0103 fie parte din presiunea media care va determina autorit\u0103\u0163ile s\u0103 se autosesizeze \u00een acest caz, chiar dac\u0103 victima nu face pl\u00e2ngere. \u015ei la cum st\u0103 s\u0103 fie b\u0103tut\u0103 ca un miel la abator, sigur nu va face. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Individul trebuie s\u0103 \u00eenve\u0163e c\u0103 astfel de violen\u0163e vin cu consecin\u0163e, \u015fi s\u0103 \u00ee\u015fi ia la zdup propria lui por\u0163ie de picioare-n bot \u015fi-n spinare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Spre deosebire de femeie, el merit\u0103 b\u0103tut p\u00e2n\u0103 i se rupe fiecare oscior din corp. Pentru c\u0103 agreseaz\u0103 un om care nu se poate ap\u0103ra, pe baza unei preten\u0163ii pe care el \u00eensu\u015fi nu o \u00eendepline\u015fte. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sper ca urm\u0103torul filmule\u0163 viral s\u0103 fie pe TikTokul poli\u0163iei, cu rahatul \u0103sta \u00een haine dungate, undeva dup\u0103 gratii, acolo unde \u00eei e locul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 v-a pl\u0103cut acest text, pute\u021bi sus\u0163ine activitatea siteului cu o dona\u0163ie.&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/paypalme\/Trollywood\"><strong>Aici<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-14577\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<br>Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/lorenalupu\">Twitter<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;\u015fi&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCCHBtHi6S2GlUFqETH70cjQ\">YouTube<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Noaptea trecut\u0103, am primit de la Antonella clipul de pe TikTok. 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