{"id":23680,"date":"2022-09-02T13:05:25","date_gmt":"2022-09-02T10:05:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=23680"},"modified":"2022-09-02T13:05:27","modified_gmt":"2022-09-02T10:05:27","slug":"de-ce-e-cat-lady-o-jignire","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/de-ce-e-cat-lady-o-jignire\/","title":{"rendered":"De ce e cat lady o jignire?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Am o pisic\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>E companionul meu adorat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><p>C\u00e2nd dorm, mai ales \u00een anotimpurile cu vreme rece sau moderat\u0103, doarme cuib\u0103rit la subra\u0163ul meu sau \u00een curbura g\u00e2tului. Sau mi se pune cu\u015fm\u0103 pe cap. <\/p>\u015ei e cel mai reconfortant \u015fi energizant somn pe care \u00eel pot avea, pentru c\u0103 acel corpu\u015for catifelat \u00eemi schimb\u0103 instant dispozi\u0163ia, oricare ar fi ea ini\u0163ial, \u00een relaxare calm\u0103 \u015fi cald\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" data-instgrm-captioned=\"\" data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CHPx0cOAra_\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"14\" style=\" background:#FFF; border:0; border-radius:3px; box-shadow:0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width:540px; min-width:326px; padding:0; width:99.375%; width:-webkit-calc(100% - 2px); width:calc(100% - 2px);\">\n<div style=\"padding:16px;\"> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CHPx0cOAra_\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" background:#FFFFFF; line-height:0; padding:0 0; text-align:center; text-decoration:none; 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margin-bottom:0; margin-top:8px; overflow:hidden; padding:8px 0 7px; text-align:center; text-overflow:ellipsis; white-space:nowrap;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CHPx0cOAra_\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" color:#c9c8cd; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; font-style:normal; font-weight:normal; line-height:17px; text-decoration:none;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">A post shared by Lorena Lupu (@lorena.lup)<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p> <script async=\"\" src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n\n\n<p>Orice posesor de pisic\u0103 o \u015ftie: e companionul care face mereu o chestie amuzant\u0103, o tumb\u0103, o prostioar\u0103. E companionul care st\u0103 \u00eentins la picioarele tale cu c\u0103p\u015forul culcat pe papucul t\u0103u, c\u00e2nd te pi\u015fi. E companionul care \u00ee\u0163i vine pe la spate c\u00e2nd te ui\u0163i la un film horror, \u015fi exact c\u00e2nd zombiul \u00eel urm\u0103re\u015fte pe eroul care nu b\u0103nuie\u015fte nimic, te ia prin surprindere: Miau! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Una peste alta, e animalul cel mai pufos, cel mai iubitor, cel mai surprinz\u0103tor \u015fi cel mai haios pe care \u0163i-l po\u0163i dori. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 vrea el iubire, e c\u0103lare pe tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 vrei tu iubire c\u00e2nd nu vrea el iubire, e a\u015fa: <\/p>\n\n\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" style=\"border: none; overflow: hidden;\" src=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/plugins\/video.php?height=476&amp;href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Florenalupu%2Fvideos%2F496308382213380%2F&amp;show_text=false&amp;width=380&amp;t=0\" width=\"380\" height=\"476\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n\n\n<p>Apoi, undeva pe parcursul campaniei de hate pe care au pornit-o incelii \u00eempotriva femeilor care nu sunt interesate de avansurile lor, a ap\u0103rut acest nou concept inten\u0163ionat ca o jignire: &#8220;cat lady&#8221;. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ce \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 spun\u0103 incelul: c\u0103 a te bucura de compania unei pisici e un semn c\u0103 e\u015fti o feminist\u0103 frigid\u0103, care vrea moartea b\u0103rbatului adev\u0103rat \u015fi care.. m\u0103 rog, restul miturilor legate de feministe frigide. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A ce \u00eemi sun\u0103 mie acest mit? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A faptului c\u0103 l\u0103tratul incelului se na\u015fte dintr-o stim\u0103 de sine at\u00e2t de sc\u0103zut\u0103, \u00eenc\u00e2t se simte amenin\u0163at \u015fi complexat p\u00e2n\u0103 \u015fi de prezen\u0163a unei pisici. \u015ei, pentru c\u0103 incelul e \u015fi jigodie manipulatoare, caut\u0103 s\u0103 arunce pe spinarea ta propria nesiguran\u0163\u0103 legat\u0103 de sine \u015fi caut\u0103 s\u0103-\u0163i creeze un complex legat de faptul c\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i plac pisicile \u015fi le preferi tov\u0103r\u0103\u015fia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen realitate, tov\u0103r\u0103\u015fia pisicii e pl\u0103cere pur\u0103, pe c\u00e2nd tov\u0103r\u0103\u015fia genului \u0103luia de dobitoc nu e dec\u00e2t disconfort, iritare \u015fi stres. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Taman de aceea, utilizez postarea asta s\u0103 denun\u0163 bullshitul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pentru mine, a fi cat lady e o bucurie \u015fi o onoare. \u00cemi iubesc anim\u0103lu\u0163ul de companie, pre\u0163uiesc fiecare moment de dr\u0103g\u0103l\u0103\u015fenie \u015fi \u00eel consider un membru de familie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 \u00eemi spui cat lady pe net, probabil c\u0103 o s\u0103-\u0163i mul\u0163umesc pentru compliment. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>O cat lady e un om fericit. O nevast\u0103 b\u0103tut\u0103 de un dobitoc cu impresii de superioritate \u015fi un neant de prostie, mai pu\u0163in. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 v-a pl\u0103cut acest text, pute\u021bi sus\u0163ine activitatea siteului cu o dona\u0163ie.&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/paypalme\/Trollywood\"><strong>Aici<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-14577\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>***<br>Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/lorenalupu\">Twitter<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;\u015fi&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCCHBtHi6S2GlUFqETH70cjQ\">YouTube<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Am o pisic\u0103. 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