{"id":23752,"date":"2022-09-21T10:16:03","date_gmt":"2022-09-21T07:16:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=23752"},"modified":"2022-09-21T10:16:04","modified_gmt":"2022-09-21T07:16:04","slug":"femeia-si-pantofii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/femeia-si-pantofii\/","title":{"rendered":"Femeia \u015fi pantofii"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Ieri mi-am f\u0103cut ordine \u00een dulapul de pantofi \u015fi am aruncat dou\u0103sprezece perechi. F\u0103r\u0103 ezitare, p\u0103rere de r\u0103u sau emo\u0163ie. \u015ei asta mi-a inspirat postarea de azi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pentru fiecare femeie pasionat\u0103 de fashion, pantofii sunt un mijloc de autoexpresie. Un mod de a lua contact cu p\u0103m\u00e2ntul. Un statement de for\u0163\u0103, opulen\u0163\u0103 sau modestie, curaj sau la\u015fitate. \u015ei nu rareori, un mijloc de tortur\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Etapa “totul pentru art\u0103” <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2nd e\u015fti foarte t\u00e2n\u0103r \u015fi orice durere trece p\u00e2n\u0103 a doua zi, ai o etap\u0103 de sacrificiu pe altarul aspectului fizic. De\u015fi e iarn\u0103, a\u015ftep\u0163i s\u0103 ie\u015fi din c\u00e2mpul vizual al bunic\u0103-tii de la geam \u015fi \u00ee\u0163i sco\u0163i prompt c\u0103ciula, pentru c\u0103 te face s\u0103 ai obraji buc\u0103la\u0163i. Refuzi geaca groas\u0103, care te face s\u0103 pari un balona\u015f, \u015fi o iei pe cea de toamn\u0103, chit c\u0103 d\u00e2rd\u00e2i tot drumul ca b\u0103gat \u00een priz\u0103. \u015ei \u00eenduri ni\u015fte b\u0103t\u0103turi \u015fi usturimi de nedescris pentru c\u0103 v\u00e2nezi numai cei mai extravagan\u0163i pantofi, cu tocuri c\u00e2t turla bisericii, cu diverse forme ciudate care te lovesc \u00een puncte ale piciorului pe care nu \u015ftiai c\u0103 le ai, \u015fi care fac mersul un chin. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar nu \u00ee\u015fi pas\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mottourile tale sunt “Las\u0103, c\u0103 se l\u0103rgesc ei”, “Las\u0103, c\u0103 mi se modeleaz\u0103 mie piciorul” \u015fi “Las\u0103, c\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 m\u00e2ine trece”. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dup\u0103 dou\u0103 ore \u00een club pe instala\u0163iile alea de tortur\u0103 medieval\u0103, bei ca lihnita s\u0103 nu-\u0163i mai sim\u0163i r\u0103cnetul mut al picioarelor maltratate, dar a doua zi, repe\u0163i ac\u0163iunea, pentru c\u0103 sigur va veni o zi c\u00e2nd piciorul t\u0103u \u015fi pantoful se vor \u00eemprieteni. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Etapa viselor de\u015farte <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Asta vine o dat\u0103 cu primul job. Realist, nu po\u0163i sta opt ore coco\u0163at pe tocuri de 12 cm \u015fi nu po\u0163i risca s\u0103 \u0163i se rup\u0103 un toc \u00een timpul unei prezent\u0103ri cu clien\u0163i, sau whatever, \u015fi nici nu ai chef s\u0103 alergi dup\u0103 autobuz \/ metrou \u00een tocuri, s\u0103 ar\u0103\u0163i ca un cocost\u00e2rc apucat de streche, de aceea, \u00eencepi s\u0103 por\u0163i \u00eenc\u0103l\u0163\u0103minte comod\u0103 \u00een timp ce ai treab\u0103. \u015ei descoperi c\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103l\u0163\u0103mintea comod\u0103 face \u015fi seara la film, la restaurant sau la club mai pl\u0103cut\u0103, pentru c\u0103 nu te doare nimic \u015fi po\u0163i, pur \u015fi simplu, s\u0103 te bucuri de ra\u0163a cu portocale sau s\u0103 faci twerk pe ringul de dans f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 plece picioarele de sub tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei atunci, se trece printr-o faz\u0103 de genul: \u00ee\u0163i cumperi ni\u015fte pantofi pe care \u015ftii realist c\u0103-i vei purta, dar \u00een timp ce \u00eei iei pe \u0103\u015ftia, cumperi \u015fi unii frumo\u015fi, cu aplica\u0163ii nu \u015ftiu de care, cu inserturi \u015fmechere, cu glitter \u015fi cu tocuri, pentru c\u0103, la un moment dat, o s\u0103 te reobi\u015fnuie\u015fti s\u0103-i por\u0163i \u015fi pe \u0103\u015ftia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Evident c\u0103 nu se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103. Evident c\u0103, de cum \u00eei pui, te invadeaz\u0103 nu doar durerea prezent\u0103, ci amintirea tuturor nop\u0163ilor de durere de picioare, cu diferen\u0163a c\u0103 acum disponibilitatea ta de a \u00eendura s-a diminuat. Evident c\u0103, indiferent c\u00e2t de glorioas\u0103 ar fi ocazia, alegi pantofii comozi, pentru c\u0103 nu ai de g\u00e2nd s\u0103 strici fericitul eveniment cu agonia b\u0103t\u0103turilor supur\u00e2nde. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei aduni a\u015fa perechi frumoase, nepractice \u015fi nepurtate, p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een ziua c\u00e2nd vine… <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Etapa b\u0103g\u0103rii de p<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Orice femeie care are trei dulapuri mari pline cu haine \u015fi nu are cu ce s\u0103 se \u00eembrace, \u015fi orice femeie cu dulapul plin de pantofi \u015fi care nu are cu ce s\u0103 se \u00eencal\u0163e f\u0103ceau de fapt shopping pentru eul lor ideal, \u0103la care, \u00eentr-o zi, va sl\u0103bi 30 de kilograme \u015fi va merge pe tocuri de 20 de cm ca o gazel\u0103 zglobie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

E momentul s\u0103 iei un sac mare de gunoi \u015fi s\u0103 arunci acolo tot ce nu \u00ee\u0163i vine, tot ce te incomodeaz\u0103, tot ce te str\u00e2nge, tot ce nu por\u0163i pentru c\u0103 nu e de tine, cel sau cea de acum. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De cum intervine etapa b\u0103g\u0103rii de p, se schimb\u0103 procesul prob\u0103rii pantofilor. \u00cen faza I, \u00eei \u00eenc\u0103l\u0163ai \u015fi te duceai direct \u00een oglind\u0103: \u00cemi fac piciorul s\u0103 par\u0103 lung, zvelt \u015fi irezistibil? Se v\u0103d destul de bine ornamentele? Minunat. Ia-mi banii. Dar \u00ee\u0163i sunt comozi? NU CONTEAZ\u0102, UITE C\u00c2T SUNT DE MI\u015eTO! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen faza de acum, \u00eei \u00eencal\u0163i \u015fi verifici: m\u0103 str\u00e2ng? m\u0103 dor? m\u0103 apas\u0103 \u00een moduri ciudate? m\u0103 rod la spate? Abia dup\u0103 ce te asiguri c\u0103 nu se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 nimic din toate astea, te ui\u0163i \u015fi \u00een oglind\u0103. Da, sunt ok. cump\u0103rat!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei dup\u0103 ce ai aceast\u0103 revela\u0163ie, te duci la dul\u0103piorul de pantofi cu energia adev\u0103rului \u00een privire. Ce port de fapt? Pe \u0103\u015ftia, \u0103\u015ftia, \u0103\u015ftia, \u0103\u015ftia \u015fi \u0103\u015ftia. Ce nu port niciodat\u0103, nici la ocazie, \u015fi nici dac\u0103 ar fi o zi de filmare pl\u0103tit\u0103 cu 5000 de euro? Pe \u0103\u015ftia, \u0103\u015ftia, \u0103\u015ftia \u015fi \u0103\u015ftia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Perfect. La revedere. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ziua c\u00e2nd \u00ee\u0163i asumi picioarele pe care le ai, \u015fi renun\u0163i s\u0103 visezi la cele ideale, care nu dor, nu se umfl\u0103, nu se b\u0103\u015fic\u0103 \u015fi nu s\u00e2ngereaz\u0103, e ziua c\u00e2nd po\u0163i spune c\u0103 ai atins \u00een\u0163elepciunea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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