Scrisorica de azi spune a\u015fa:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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Bun\u0103, Lorena, <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Locuiesc in Bucuresti, am 32 de ani, sunt medic specialist pneumolog si am tr\u0103it p\u00e2n\u0103 acum crez\u00e2nd c\u0103 e meritul meu c\u0103 sunt a\u015fa cum sunt. Acum, m\u0103 \u00eentreb dac\u0103 nu e cumva meritul p\u0103rin\u0163ilor mei. N-am v\u0103zut niciodat\u0103 repezeli, vorbe \u00een contradictoriu, \u00eenjur\u0103turi, nimic de acest gen \u00eentre ei. Doar armonie. Nu am tr\u0103it in tensiuni, nu am \u015ftiut ce \u00eenseamna contre, nu am v\u0103zut violen\u0163\u0103 de vreun fel. \u015ei probabil c\u0103 e meritul alor mei, c\u0103 au creat un mediu liniar \u015fi solid, din care eu am absorbit. Poate e meritul meu c\u0103 am absorbit. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ce p\u0103rere ai?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n X. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Drag\u0103 X., <\/p>\n\n\n\n Ai p\u0103rin\u0163i minuna\u0163i \u015fi te felicit pentru asta. Probabil c\u0103 da, a contribuit mult la echilibrul t\u0103u emo\u0163ional \u015fi s\u0103n\u0103tatea ta mintal\u0103 faptul c\u0103 ai v\u0103zut acas\u0103 o rela\u0163ie frumoas\u0103 \u015fi pozitiv\u0103 \u015fi m\u0103 \u00eentreb, cu o f\u0103r\u00e2m\u0103 de invidie, cum ar fi fost s\u0103 experimentez \u015fi eu acest lucru. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sigur a fost un factor adjuvant, care \u0163i-a economisit o saco\u015f\u0103 de bani pe terapie \u015fi \u0163i-a dat \u015fi siguran\u0163a unui cuib cald la care te po\u0163i \u00eentoarce oric\u00e2nd, dac\u0103 via\u0163a e nasoal\u0103 cu tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u015ei da, faptul c\u0103 ai v\u0103zut acas\u0103 un model de rela\u0163ie s\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103 de-a ferit de multe gre\u015feli pe care le-am f\u0103cut noi, cei care nu am avut parte de un astfel de model. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dar, p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103, de cum ajunge la maturitate \u015fi devine de sine st\u0103t\u0103tor, omul se transform\u0103, indiferent de influen\u0163e p\u0103rinte\u015fti, \u00een propria lui persoan\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n De aceea exist\u0103 familii minunate \u015fi echilibrate care au dat na\u015ftere la infractori. Familii violente \u015fi dezechilibrate care au z\u0103mislit personalit\u0103\u0163i \u00eensemnate. Familii retrograde care au copii progresi\u015fti. Familii ultra religioase cu copii LGBT. Familii inculte cu copii autodidac\u0163i care au terminat facult\u0103\u0163i. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Pentru c\u0103 omul e influen\u0163abil \u00een prima parte a vie\u0163ii, dar, \u00een realitate, un munte de educa\u0163ie, sau absen\u0163a acesteia, nu \u00eel pot opri s\u0103 devin\u0103 cine este de fapt. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u015ei natura are un mod de a compensa: c\u00e2nd p\u0103rin\u0163ii nu dau doi bani pe tine, devii de mic propriul t\u0103u p\u0103rinte \u015fi cre\u015fti \u00eencotro vrei s\u0103 te \u00eendrep\u0163i. <\/p>\n\n\n\n A\u015fadar: da, familia ta are meritul de a-\u0163i fi oferit stabilitate \u015fi armonie, dar nu a dat examenele medicale \u00een locul t\u0103u, nu \u015fi-a tocit coatele \u00eenv\u0103\u0163\u00e2nd \u00een locul t\u0103u, nu a pierdut nop\u0163i \u00een g\u0103rzi interminabile \u00een locul t\u0103u \u015fi nu \u0163i-a tratat pacien\u0163ii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n E minunat c\u0103 te-a sus\u0163inut, \u015fi probabil c\u0103, dac\u0103 nu \u00eei aveai, studen\u0163ia ta ar fi fost mult mai grea \u015fi cu mai mult parizer pr\u0103jit, dar e posibil s\u0103 fi ajuns acela\u015fi om. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Deci: acord\u0103-le merit pentru climatul propice, dar asum\u0103-\u0163i meritul 100% pentru ce ai realizat. E munca ta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dar eu tot te invidiez un pic. \ud83d\ude42 <\/p>\n\n\n\n Lorena. <\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 v-a pl\u0103cut acest text, pute\u021bi sus\u0163ine activitatea siteului cu o dona\u0163ie. 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