{"id":23774,"date":"2022-09-26T13:11:25","date_gmt":"2022-09-26T10:11:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=23774"},"modified":"2022-09-26T13:11:26","modified_gmt":"2022-09-26T10:11:26","slug":"violenta-domestica-nu-e-mondenitate","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/violenta-domestica-nu-e-mondenitate\/","title":{"rendered":"Violen\u0163a domestic\u0103 NU e mondenitate"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Peretele meu e din nou plin de Reghe \u015fi Prodanca, iar eu m\u0103 \u00eentreb ce e gre\u015fit cu na\u0163iunea asta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dincolo de popularitatea lor ca starlete \u015fi figuri publice vizibile, dincolo de faptul c\u0103 sunt prefera\u0163ii tabloidelor \u015fi ai publicului consumator de reality, ace\u015fti doi oameni au o rela\u0163ie toxic\u0103, ur\u00e2t\u0103, un model de “a\u015fa nu” \u00een orice rela\u0163ie de cuplu. De ce insist\u0103m s\u0103 \u00eei tot b\u0103g\u0103m \u00een seam\u0103 \u015fi implicit s\u0103-i aliment\u0103m s\u0103 caute \u00een continuare aten\u0163ie cu violen\u0163e \u015fi agresiuni reciproce? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

E \u00eentrebarea pe care mi-am pus-o \u015fi \u00een zilele de glorie ale cuplului Viorel – Vulpi\u0163a, dar eram zucced pe Facebook \u00een zilele alea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Numai c\u0103 \u00een acest caz, agresorul, bully-ul, omul care nu pare s\u0103 proceseze c\u0103 rela\u0163ia s-a terminat \u015fi \u00eel b\u00e2ntuie \u00een continuare pe cel\u0103lalt cu comentarii interminabile la televizor \u015fi \u00een pres\u0103, denigrare interminabil\u0103 \u015fi provoc\u0103ri infinite este ea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu, faptul c\u0103 o femeie face asta nu e o dovad\u0103 de empowerment sau de fabulo\u015fenie \u015fi NU ar trebui tratat\u0103 ca atare. S\u0103 tragi de un b\u0103rbat care nu te dore\u015fte, care face copii cu alta \u015fi care are cu totul alte priorit\u0103\u0163i NU e girl power. E abuz \u015fi h\u0103r\u0163uire, \u015fi ar trebui tratate ca atare. Empowerment e s\u0103 ai respect de sine \u015fi s\u0103 p\u0103r\u0103se\u015fti situa\u0163ia toxic\u0103, s\u0103-\u0163i creezi un echilibru \u00een via\u0163a ta, chiar cu riscul de a trebui s\u0103-\u0163i ba\u0163i pu\u0163in capul s\u0103 g\u0103se\u015fti un alt subiect de interes pentru tabloide. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Faptul c\u0103 o femeie \u00ee\u015fi agreseaz\u0103 \u015fi h\u0103r\u0163uie\u015fte exul nu e de r\u00e2s. Nu ar fi de r\u00e2s nici dac\u0103 ar fi invers. Nu e o tem\u0103 bun\u0103 de glume, nu e un model s\u0103n\u0103tos de via\u0163\u0103, nu e o tem\u0103 suculent\u0103 de b\u00e2rfe. \u015ei \u00een niciun caz nu ar trebui s\u0103 fie tem\u0103 de interes monden. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Spre deosebire de alte victime, nici el nu mi se pare un inocent care nu \u015ftie cum s\u0103 ias\u0103 din balamuc. Dimpotriv\u0103, face ce face \u015fi se nimere\u015fte \u00een calea pumnilor ei pentru \u00eenc\u0103 ni\u015fte \u015ftiri pe prima pagin\u0103 \u015fi aten\u0163ie public\u0103, iar asta mi se pare vomitiv. Nu la fel de vomitiv ca o femeie care trage de exul care nu o vrea, dar destul de aproape. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Taman de aceea, ace\u015fti doi oameni ar trebui ignora\u0163i. Pentru ca nevoia lor de aten\u0163ie s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 nesatisf\u0103cut\u0103. Poate c\u0103 asta i-ar ajuta s\u0103 ias\u0103 din dinamica oribil\u0103, care define\u015fte at\u00e2tea cupluri din \u0163ara asta, numai c\u0103, spre deosebire de \u0103\u015ftia, care au bani \u015fi pot pleca \u00een dou\u0103 col\u0163uri diferite de planet\u0103 c\u00e2nd vrea mu\u015fchiul lor, cuplurile de oameni simpli care adopt\u0103 modelul lor de comportament nu au unde s\u0103 fug\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

E un subiect care ar trebui s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een ni\u015fte dosare de poli\u0163ie \u015fi at\u00e2t. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Popor, ai nevoie de modele mai bune. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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