Ieri, m-a \u00eentristat un comentariu al unei fete. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Context: de c\u00e2te ori postez un machiaj mai colorat, apar nechema\u0163i de nimeni diver\u015fi indivizi \u015fi individe s\u0103 m\u0103 frece la icre cu mentalit\u0103\u0163i de Coc\u00e2rla\u0163ii de Deal legate de cum machiajul e a\u015fa \u015fi pe dincolo. Moment \u00een care eu regret profund c\u0103 nu mai po\u0163i da cu mor\u0163ii de mam\u0103 pe Facebook, pentru c\u0103 tot reachul t\u0103u sufer\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Suntem o \u0163ar\u0103 cu extrem de mul\u0163i gher\u0163oi \u015fi gher\u0163oaice, cu mentalit\u0103\u0163i de ev mediu. Oameni care la 30 de ani arat\u0103 de 50 \u015fi sunt m\u00e2ndri de asta. Oameni care tr\u0103iesc \u00een cacao \u015fi sunt m\u00e2ndri de asta. Oameni care nu \u015ftiu nimic despre nimic \u015fi sunt m\u00e2ndri de asta. Oameni care cred c\u0103 ideile lor pu\u0163ine \u015fi fixe ar trebui s\u0103 slujeasc\u0103 de verdicte pentru restul universului. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pe c\u00e2nd Facebook era mai liber cu b\u0103gat m\u0103ciuci printre amigdalele \u0103stora, \u00eemi pl\u0103cea s\u0103-i \u00eenjur cu pasiune. Pentru c\u0103 prost\u0103l\u0103ii \u0103\u015ftia nu se rezum\u0103 s\u0103 fie tri\u015fti, penibili, lipsi\u0163i de imagina\u0163ie \u015fi extrem de sc\u00e2rbo\u015fi doar pe peretele lor, unde po\u0163i uita de existen\u0163a lor jalnic\u0103 \u015fi irelevant\u0103. Prost\u0103l\u0103ii \u0103\u015ftia se oplo\u015fesc pe capul t\u0103u ca r\u00e2ia \u015fi \u00eencep s\u0103-\u0163i administreze numitele idei pu\u0163ine \u015fi fixe pe post de verdicte, \u015fi s\u0103-\u0163i otr\u0103veasc\u0103 social media cu ele. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Fiin\u0163e mai sc\u00e2rboase \u015fi mai vomitive cu greu \u00ee\u0163i imaginezi, \u015fi faptul c\u0103 puteam s\u0103 le creez \u0103stora dispozi\u0163ia nasoal\u0103 pe care o creeaz\u0103 ei mereu altora era o pl\u0103cere. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dar, ieri, \u00een timp ce discutam subiectul pe Facebook, o fat\u0103 mi-a m\u0103rturisit ceva ce mi-a sf\u00e2\u015fiat inima: A avut o pagin\u0103 de machiaj, dar veneau to\u0163i m\u00e2nc\u0103torii de c**t s\u0103 \u00eemproa\u015fte cu frustrare, de zici c\u0103 machia pe banii lor, \u015fi \u00een cele din urm\u0103, a cedat \u015fi a \u00eenchis-o. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Subliniez: era o pagin\u0103 de machiaj. Nu una de politic\u0103, s-o acuzi de fake news. Nu una de s\u0103n\u0103tate, s\u0103 zici c\u0103 d\u0103 cuiva ceai de traista ciobanului pentru cancer cu metastaze. Nu una de jobs, s\u0103 acuzi c\u0103 promoveaz\u0103 joburi prost pl\u0103tite de la angajatori neserio\u015fi. Nici m\u0103car una de cooking s\u0103 te cer\u0163i cu ea c\u0103 pune maz\u0103re \u00een salata de boeuf. (Glum\u0103\u0103\u0103: chiar nu mi se pare c\u0103 salata de boeuf a altuia ar fi motiv valid de ceart\u0103. Da, dac\u0103 sunt la restaurant, comand salat\u0103 de boeuf, cer f\u0103t\u0103 maz\u0103re, \u015fi vine cu maz\u0103re, \u015fi eu pl\u0103tesc nota la final, atunci am motiv s\u0103 smiorc. Dar dac\u0103 e pagina altuia, salata altuia, banii altuia \u015fi stomacul altuia, trebuie s\u0103 fiu idiot b\u0103tut \u00een cap s\u0103 o ard adversativ \u015fi recalcitrant.) <\/p>\n\n\n\n
A\u015fijderea \u015fi machiajul. E pe fardurile \u015fi banii \u0103leia? Chiar dac\u0103 arat\u0103 ca o sorcov\u0103 confec\u0163ionat\u0103 artizanal la gr\u0103dini\u0163a de nevoi speciale, nu am nici un motiv s\u0103 latru, pentru c\u0103 obiectiv nu e treaba mea. Dac\u0103 pot zice ceva de bine, zic de bine, dac\u0103 nu, tac \u015fi m\u0103 ab\u0163in. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pentru c\u0103 machiajul, ca \u015fi g\u0103titul, \u015fi ca orice altceva, presupune mult-mult exerci\u0163iu pentru precizie, formarea flerului \u015fi a competen\u0163ei \u015fi pentru g\u0103sirea unui stil personal. Iar dac\u0103 una arat\u0103 ca tencuit\u0103 cu mortar, oh well. E la \u00eenceput, \u00eenva\u0163\u0103 ea. \u015ei chiar dac\u0103 nu \u00eenva\u0163\u0103, bravo ei c\u0103 e fericit\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
De aici, un sfat prietenesc: niciodat\u0103, niciodat\u0103 nu-\u0163i \u00eenchide tu social media ta de gura haterilor \u015fi a gelo\u015filor. Indiferent c\u00e2\u0163i gher\u0163oi \u015fi c\u00e2te gher\u0163oaice se perind\u0103 pe acolo. \u015ei chiar dac\u0103 respectivii sunt prieteni ai t\u0103i reali, oftica\u0163i c\u0103 tu cre\u015fti mai repede \u015fi mai bine dec\u00e2t ei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ar fi nasol s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i spui makeup artist \u015fi s\u0103-\u0163i oferi serviciile publicului, c\u00e2nd tu nu \u015ftii s\u0103 estompezi o culoare de tranzi\u0163ie. Dar dac\u0103 nu te dai nic\u0103ieri ceea ce nu e\u015fti \u015fi e clar c\u0103 explorezi culori \u015fi at\u00e2ta tot, nu e treaba nim\u0103nui s\u0103 te latre. S\u0103 ai un hobby care nu face r\u0103u nim\u0103nui e \u00eenc\u0103 legal \u00een \u0163ara asta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
NU \u00ee\u0163i \u00eenchide niciodat\u0103 social media, indiferent de re\u0163ea, de gura l\u0103tr\u0103ilor, de gura prietenilor, de gura familiei sau de gura oricui altcuiva crede c\u0103 are un drept s\u0103-\u0163i strice mojo-ul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Apropo de asta, am mai cunoscut o categorie de doamne. Categoria care \u00ee\u015fi \u00eenchide social media pentru c\u0103 un gigel le h\u0103r\u0163uie\u015fte. \u00ce\u0163i vin cu ni\u015fte replici de genul: “Da, dar \u0103sta e \u00eensurat, nu vreau s\u0103 prind\u0103 nevast\u0103-sa ur\u0103 pe mine”. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jesus. Deci, tu nu i-ai dat niciodat\u0103 curs insisten\u0163elor, nu ai f\u0103cut dec\u00e2t s\u0103 repe\u0163i iar \u015fi iar c\u0103 nu e\u015fti interesat\u0103, dar tot tu te sim\u0163i aiurea fa\u0163\u0103 de nevast\u0103-sa pentru c\u0103 el te h\u0103r\u0163uie\u015fte? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tu nu i-ai jurat nimic neveste-sii la altar, deci nu ai nici un motiv s\u0103 te sim\u0163i nicicum, iar dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i pas\u0103 de sentimentele acelei femei, f\u0103 un print screen cu mesajele lui \u015fi pune-o \u00een tem\u0103 cu minun\u0103\u0163ia de b\u0103rbat pe care o are al\u0103turi. E singurul bine pe care po\u0163i s\u0103-l faci acestei femei. Nu de alta, dar din secunda \u00een care dispari tu din online, \u0103sta g\u0103se\u015fte prompt alt\u0103 \u0163int\u0103. Poate are zece alte \u0163inte chiar acum, \u015fi tu renun\u0163i la conturile tale pentru ce? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Fata \u015fi-a \u00eenchis conturile anyway \u015fi din secunda aia am rupt comunicarea pentru c\u0103, plm, via\u0163a e prea scurt\u0103 pentru oameni pro\u015fti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Social media ta e un drept al t\u0103u, un mod de a genera influen\u0163\u0103 \u015fi un mod de a comunica cu al\u0163ii, nemaivorbind despre toate glumele \u015fi memele de care po\u0163i s\u0103 te amuzi, dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i alegi bine lista de prieteni. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
NU renun\u0163a tu la ea pentru nesim\u0163irea \u015fi ghiolb\u0103nismul altuia. S\u0103 renun\u0163e el, dac\u0103 are o problem\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
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