{"id":23796,"date":"2022-10-02T09:34:03","date_gmt":"2022-10-02T06:34:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=23796"},"modified":"2022-10-02T09:34:05","modified_gmt":"2022-10-02T06:34:05","slug":"despre-unatc-hartuiri-si-homofobie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/despre-unatc-hartuiri-si-homofobie\/","title":{"rendered":"Despre UNATC, h\u0103r\u0163uiri \u015fi homofobie"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ieri, am v\u0103zut m\u0103rturisirea dureroas\u0103 a lui Maurice Munteanu, care a relatat cum profesorii au c\u0103utat s\u0103-l saboteze pentru c\u0103 era gay. <\/p>\n\n\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/plugins\/post.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fmauricemmunteanu%2Fposts%2Fpfbid0EbQtPRGQvbssYLo3Hqbkzciy8nErd1pv8va658UBwRBSUTWomwDYNvJ8zGb2mtPol&amp;show_text=true&amp;width=500\" width=\"500\" height=\"291\" style=\"border:none;overflow:hidden\" scrolling=\"no\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; picture-in-picture; web-share\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aceast\u0103 m\u0103rturisire vine \u00een cadrul unui scandal prelungit care vizeaz\u0103 UNATC, dup\u0103 ce Puiu \u015eerban \u015fi Alexandra Velniciuc s-au l\u0103udat \u00eentr-un interviu luat de M\u0103ru\u0163\u0103 cu conduita reprobabil\u0103 \u015fi tratamentul preferen\u0163ial din timpul \u015fcolii, el ca profesor, ea ca student\u0103. Da, s-au c\u0103s\u0103torit ulterior, dar asta nu face numita atitudine mai pu\u0163in nepotrivit\u0103, \u015fi s\u0103 \u00eencurajezi h\u0103r\u0163uirea sexual\u0103, care deja e o problem\u0103 dezv\u0103luit\u0103 de at\u00e2tea actri\u0163e doar pentru c\u0103, din pur\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2mplare, \u00een cazul vostru doamna consim\u0163ise, e extrem, dar extrem de problematic. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Eu nu am fost h\u0103r\u0163uit\u0103 sexual \u00een UNATC. Asta pentru c\u0103 am fost virgin\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een ultimul an \u015fi eventualii h\u0103r\u0163uitori se temeau c\u0103 dac\u0103 ar \u00eencerca ceva cu mine, ar ie\u015fi ditamai circul, de vreme ce virginele sunt g\u0103ini proaste \u015fi dramatice. Deci, am fost tratat\u0103 ca o g\u0103in\u0103 proast\u0103 \u015fi dramatic\u0103, la modul \u00een care foarte mul\u0163i au \u00eencercat s\u0103 m\u0103 duc\u0103 de nas cu diverse, profit\u00e2nd de naivitatea mea \u015fi de angoasa mea de copil \u00eendelung h\u0103r\u0163uit \u015fi umilit de m\u0103-sa care se bloca \u015fi \u00eencepea s\u0103 transpire rece de cum auzea \u00eenc\u0103 o insult\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u015ei da, pe atunci, mi\u015ftoul \u015fi insulta \u00eenc\u0103 erau considerate metode didactice. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am fost h\u0103r\u0163uit\u0103 de mul\u0163i c\u0103 sunt prea gras\u0103. Ce \u00eensemna prea gras\u0103 dup\u0103 normele UNATC? 40 la haine. Adic\u0103 m\u0103sur\u0103 medie. Dac\u0103 nu erai b\u0103\u0163, erai gras\u0103. Erai \u00eentrebat\u0103 ce ai m\u00e2ncat la cin\u0103, dac\u0103 ai f\u0103cut sport \u015fi alte interogatorii staliniste de genul la care azi a\u015f r\u0103spunde: Beetch, nu te tufe grija. Statul pl\u0103te\u015fte un loc pentru mine s\u0103 \u00eemi perfec\u0163ionezi mijloacele actorice\u015fti. Perfec\u0163ioneaz\u0103-mi mijloacele actorice\u015fti \u015fi d\u0103-te jos de pe ce fac eu \u00een timpul liber. Uite Whoopi Goldberg c\u00e2t\u0103 era \u015fi tot a jucat multitudine de roluri superbe. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am fost h\u0103r\u0163uit\u0103 de mul\u0163i c\u0103 sunt prea ciudat\u0103. Ciudat\u0103 \u00een ce mod? Nu \u015ftiu, ciudat\u0103 pur \u015fi simplu. Azi a\u015f r\u00e2de \u00een nas unei asemenea afirma\u0163ii, dar atunci eram un copil terorizat de m\u0103-sa \u015fi fiecare afirma\u0163ie de genul \u00eemi era ca un bocanc cu noroi pe inim\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Azi \u015ftiu de ce sunt &#8220;prea ciudat\u0103&#8221;. Sunt prea ciudat\u0103 pentru c\u0103 sunt o persoan\u0103 nonbinar\u0103 \u015fi am o masculinitate pronun\u0163at\u0103. Asta, combinat\u0103 cu negarea de sine \u015fi cu angoasa teribil\u0103, erau un cocteil de st\u0103ri care nu puteau trece drept diurne. Dar eu eram un copil, nu \u015ftiam ce am. Ei erau adul\u0163i. Treaba lor ar fi fost s\u0103 se prind\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 m\u0103 ajute. Cu suport emo\u0163ional, nu cu presiuni la anorexie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am fost h\u0103r\u0163uit\u0103 de mul\u0163i pentru c\u0103 &#8220;nu eram feminin\u0103&#8221;. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Feminin\u0103, \u00een accep\u0163iunea de atunci a UNATC, era una care s\u0103 r\u0103spund\u0103 la orice insult\u0103 cu un z\u00e2mbet, care s\u0103 arate \u015fi s\u0103 se poarte mereu adorabil, chiar dac\u0103 era nervoas\u0103, care s\u0103 aib\u0103 c\u00e2t mai pu\u0163ine idei proprii. Pentru c\u0103, vezi doamne, marii regizori erau to\u0163i ni\u015fte dictatori nemilo\u015fi \u015fi \u00een fa\u0163a lor nu sufla nici musca. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am fost h\u0103r\u0163uit\u0103 de mul\u0163i pentru c\u0103 eram &#8220;prea citit\u0103&#8221;. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Prea citit\u0103 \u00een accep\u0163iunea de atunci a UNATC era s\u0103 ai un lexic bogat, s\u0103 \u015ftii s\u0103 te exprimi \u015fi s\u0103 nu beh\u0103i de proast\u0103. Dac\u0103 un b\u0103iat era citit, hai, treac\u0103-mearg\u0103, e b\u0103iat. Dar fetele prea citite erau \u0163inta unui bullying f\u0103r\u0103 egal. Aproape c\u0103 nu \u015ftiai cum s\u0103 maschezi c\u00e2t de citit\u0103 e\u015fti de fapt, s\u0103 nu \u0163i se pufneasc\u0103 superior \u00een nas cu &#8220;Ce, drag\u0103, te crezi de\u015fteapt\u0103?&#8221; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Din cauza acestei perpetue c\u0103ut\u0103ri de nod \u00een papur\u0103 care m\u0103 irita, m\u0103 crispa \u015fi m\u0103 bloca, am fost un student mediocru, care venea la \u015fcoal\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 chef \u015fi \u00ee\u015fi f\u0103cea treaba cu sil\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am citit ni\u015fte comentarii de la profesori UNATC care spun &#8220;a\u015fa motiv\u0103m noi studentul s\u0103 devin\u0103 mai bun \u015fi s\u0103 se descopere&#8221;. Nu, a\u015fa \u00eel demotiva\u0163i, \u00eel face\u0163i s\u0103 se nege \u015fi s\u0103 se urasc\u0103, s\u0103 nu cread\u0103 \u00een propriul talent \u015fi s\u0103 \u00eei fie fric\u0103 de castinguri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u015ei presiunea asta, ca fetele s\u0103 fie feminine \u015fi b\u0103rba\u0163ii masculini era un mod de a marginaliza eventualii gay, lesbiene, transgenderi \u015fi alte culori ale curcubeului, o reminiscen\u0163\u0103 comunist\u0103 sinistr\u0103. To\u0163i colegii mei gay erau convin\u015fi c\u0103 nu pot face carier\u0103 dac\u0103 li se descoper\u0103 adev\u0103rata orientare \u015fi o ardeau c\u00e2t se poate de straight. C\u00e2nd i-am \u00eent\u00e2lnit la GayFest anii trecu\u0163i, m-am pocnit singur\u0103 peste ochi legat de propria mea orbire. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am participat la primul meu Pride Parade c\u00e2t eram \u00eenc\u0103 student\u0103 \u015fi am primit o mustrare sever\u0103 a doua zi. Tu ca student strici imaginea UNATC dac\u0103 te duci printre travestite. Uite, dom&#8217; profesor, acum sunt \u015fi eu printre travestite, \u015fi m\u00e2ndr\u0103 de asta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Da, Maurice Munteanu are dreptate. H\u0103r\u0163uirea \u00een UNATC a persoanelor queer era, cel pu\u0163in pe c\u00e2nd eram eu student\u0103, ceva greu de descris. De aceea nu se asuma niciunul dintre actori \u015fi niciunul dintre regizori. Presiunea heteronormativ\u0103 constant\u0103 era ca pic\u0103tura chinezeasc\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iar azi, cu seriale ca Pose sau Scream Queens, cu reality shows ca RuPaul&#8217;s Drag Race sau Queer Eye, e loc \u00een showbiz pentru toate culorile curcubeului, deci mentalitatea de tip comunist a UNATC ar avea toate motivele s\u0103 se schimbe. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Niciun copil de 18 ani nu ar trebui s\u0103 treac\u0103 prin chinurile iadului, \u00een loc s\u0103 aib\u0103 profesori care s\u0103 \u00eel ia drept ceea ce e \u015fi s\u0103-l creasc\u0103 de acolo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar spre bucuria mea, am vorbit recent cu o fost\u0103 coleg\u0103 de facultate care e acum profesoar\u0103 de actorie la un liceu de art\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">-Lorena, a venit la mine o feti\u0163\u0103, mi-a spus c\u0103 e transgender \u015fi c\u0103 vrea roluri de b\u0103iat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">-Dac\u0103 e transgender, \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 e un b\u0103iat transgender. Ce ai f\u0103cut? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">-I-am dat roluri de b\u0103iat, normal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 ai fi cerut un rol de b\u0103iat la UNATC, pe c\u00e2nd eram eu student\u0103, te exmatriculau direct. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 v-a pl\u0103cut acest text, pute\u021bi sus\u0163ine activitatea siteului cu o dona\u0163ie.&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/paypalme\/Trollywood\"><strong>Aici<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-14577\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<br>Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/lorenalupu\">Twitter<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;\u015fi&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCCHBtHi6S2GlUFqETH70cjQ\">YouTube<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ieri, am v\u0103zut m\u0103rturisirea dureroas\u0103 a lui Maurice Munteanu, care a relatat cum profesorii au c\u0103utat s\u0103-l saboteze pentru c\u0103 era gay. 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