{"id":23841,"date":"2022-10-12T09:50:12","date_gmt":"2022-10-12T06:50:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=23841"},"modified":"2022-10-12T09:50:15","modified_gmt":"2022-10-12T06:50:15","slug":"da-o-femeie-poate-invita-in-oras-pe-cine-vrea-ea","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/da-o-femeie-poate-invita-in-oras-pe-cine-vrea-ea\/","title":{"rendered":"Da, o femeie poate invita \u00een ora\u015f pe cine vrea ea"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Ieri, Liviu Mihaiu avea o nedumerire: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/plugins\/post.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2FLiviuMihaiu.ro%2Fposts%2Fpfbid0276S4Rnw7sNzpf7FvpZisnE6SVBq4KXDsdqXrq5RYzgkLNXnTKiNgh9jxF3qg9dfCl&amp;show_text=true&amp;width=500\" width=\"500\" height=\"695\" style=\"border:none;overflow:hidden\" scrolling=\"no\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; picture-in-picture; web-share\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Legat de atitudinea lui fa\u0163\u0103 de femei \u015fi drepturile lor, Liviu Mihaiu are \u00een general inten\u0163ii bune. Dar face parte dintr-o genera\u0163ie mai veche, care era educat\u0103 c\u0103 bullyingul \u015fi agresiunea sunt de fapt forme de flirt, c\u0103 a fi b\u0103rbat include componenta de toxicitate \u015fi c\u0103 femeia ar trebui s\u0103 r\u0103spund\u0103 cu un z\u00e2mbet gher\u0163oielilor \u015fi s\u0103 se bucure c\u0103 beneficiaz\u0103 de aten\u0163ie, \u00een loc s\u0103-l bage pe agarici \u00een mor\u0163ii lui p\u00e2n\u0103 la maimu\u0163a originar\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u015ei se mai \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 s\u0103 lanseze verdicte pe tem\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 se asigure c\u0103 are date complete. Ca de exemplu, cazul angaja\u0163ilor unei pizzerii bune \u015fi brave, care \u0163ipau diverse obscenit\u0103\u0163i dup\u0103 femei, le umileau pe cele nu foarte tinere, nu foarte slim, nu foarte bine dispuse \u015fi nu foarte disponibile la cat calling, \u015fi le mai d\u0103deau \u015fi note. &#8220;A, nu, e doar flirt!&#8221; Mai bine ascult\u0103-le pe cele care au trecut prin asta \u015fi care preferau s-o ia pe str\u0103du\u0163e s\u0103 ocoleasc\u0103 zona, cam cum ie\u015feam eu pe scara din spate a blocului, pe c\u00e2nd eram copil, s\u0103 evit banca de babe clevetitoare \u015fi r\u0103ut\u0103cioase. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Da, bullyingul trec\u0103torilor lini\u015fti\u0163i e ceva practicat de ambele sexe, dom&#8217; Liviu, a\u015fa cum babele nu vor s\u0103 flirteze, nici t\u00e2rle\u0163ii nu vor s\u0103 flirteze. Flirtul presupune ca ambele p\u0103r\u0163i implicate s\u0103 se distreze \u00eempreun\u0103. C\u00e2nd unii r\u00e2d r\u0103ut\u0103cios \u015fi al\u0163ii fierb de draci, nu e flirt, e h\u0103r\u0163uire \u015fi NU e un lucru normal pe strad\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>OK, dar s\u0103 l\u0103s\u0103m aceast\u0103 lung\u0103 parantez\u0103 nepus\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 revenim la \u00eentrebarea: \u00een ce situa\u0163ii o femeie poate invita un b\u0103rbat &#8211; uite, dovada mentalit\u0103\u0163ii arhaice, &#8220;gender ok&#8221;. Toate genderele sunt ok, domnu&#8217; Mihaiu. Probabil c\u0103 v\u0103 referi\u0163i prin &#8220;ok&#8221; la cis heterosexual. Ei, bine, cunosc destui cis heterosexuali care nu-s ok. \u015ei destui gay \u015fi nonbinary care-s perfect ok. Ca oameni. Preferin\u0163ele \u015fi identit\u0103\u0163ile \u00eei privesc direct pe fiecare parte. C\u00e2t timp v\u0103d coloan\u0103 vertebral\u0103, bun sim\u0163, respect fa\u0163\u0103 de al\u0163ii, fapte care coincid cu vorbele, asta \u00eenseamn\u0103 &#8220;ok&#8221;. Restul e cancan. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mbun. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>P\u0103rerea mea pe tem\u0103 e c\u0103 po\u0163i invita un b\u0103rbat sau o femeie, sau orice alt gender, sau orice alt\u0103 orientare, \u00een ora\u015f, fie c\u0103 e interes profesional, fie c\u0103 e interes personal. E\u015fti un om liber care-\u015fi exercit\u0103 op\u0163iunile. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A\u015fa cum tu po\u0163i invita, \u0103la, aia sau them poate refuza, pentru c\u0103 \u015fi el \/ ea \/ them e un om liber care-\u015fi exercit\u0103 op\u0163iunile. Iar tu o s\u0103 respec\u0163i refuzul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Evident c\u0103 ea sau them nu vor judeca o invita\u0163ie \u00een ora\u015f de la o femeie, pentru c\u0103 nu sunt idio\u0163i \u015fi b\u0103tu\u0163i \u00een cap. Dar unii gigei sunt idio\u0163i \u015fi b\u0103tu\u0163i \u00een cap, \u015fi ace\u015fti gigei vor interpreta invita\u0163ia drept o dovad\u0103 c\u0103 e\u015fti c**\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>OK, bine c\u0103 s-au demascat din timp ca idio\u0163i \u015fi b\u0103tu\u0163i \u00een cap, s\u0103 nu te \u0163in\u0103 \u00een suspans, s\u0103 \u015ftii s\u0103 le \u015ftergi numerele de telefon din agend\u0103, s\u0103-i blochezi pe telefon \u015fi s\u0103-\u0163i bagi ad\u00e2nc p \u00een mama lor care i-a educat at\u00e2t de prost. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am \u015fi replic\u0103 final\u0103: Oi fi io c***\u0103, dar tu \u00een mod cert n-ai buget s\u0103-\u0163i permi\u0163i serviciile mele, so, te-a iertat Dumnezeu&#8221;. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Deci, o femeie \u00een control invit\u0103 pe cine vrea unde vrea \u015fi las\u0103 imbecilii s\u0103 se filtreze singuri prin reac\u0163ii idioate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Acum, \u00een ce situa\u0163ie NU merit\u0103 s\u0103 invi\u0163i \u00een ora\u015f. \u015ei nu pentru c\u0103 te-ar crede \u0103la c***, ci pentru c\u0103 devine neinteresant. Cel pu\u0163in pentru mine. Invit restul cititoarelor &#8211; \u015fi cititorilor, normal &#8211; s\u0103 expun\u0103 \u015fi ei un punct de vedere pentru c\u0103, p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een clipa \u00een care devii m\u00e2rlan cu mine, acest blog e democratic. (De cum dai cep la b\u0103d\u0103r\u0103nii, m\u0103 metamorfozez instant \u00een Kim Jong-un.) <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Dac\u0103 ai ajuns cu lectura p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een acest punct, probabil c\u0103 ai un interes pentru acest content. Poate ai mai citit multe alte articole. Pentru ca eu s\u0103 pot investi timp \u00een aceste articole \u015fi s\u0103 nu prioritizez alte proiecte, \u015fi pentru ca tu s\u0103 prime\u015fti cu regularitate content interesant, sus\u0163ine blogul cu o dona\u0163ie. &nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/paypalme\/Trollywood\">Aici<\/a>.<\/strong><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>***<br><strong>De asemenea, te invit s\u0103 faci parte din comunitatea mea online. Like&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\">Facebook<\/a>, follow pe&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/lorenalupu\">Twitter<\/a>&nbsp;\u015fi&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a>, subscribe pe&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCCHBtHi6S2GlUFqETH70cjQ\">YouTube<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Invi\u0163i o dat\u0103. Invi\u0163i a doua oar\u0103. Invi\u0163i a treia oar\u0103. \u015ei te treze\u015fti cu un lene\u015f pe cap, unul care te las\u0103 pe tine event plannerul rela\u0163iei, \u00een timp ce el nu vine niciodat\u0103 cu nici o ini\u0163iativ\u0103 \u015fi dac\u0103 tu nu \u00eel sco\u0163i cu forcepsul, nu v\u0103 vede\u0163i. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ei, stima\u0163i concet\u0103\u0163eni, pe \u0103sta de la un punct \u00eencolo ajungi s\u0103-l ur\u0103\u015fti pentru c\u0103, \u00een plm, dac\u0103 vrei event planner full time, ce-ar fi, gigele, s\u0103 \u00eemi \u015fi dai salariul unuia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>De fapt, e categoria aia de b\u0103rba\u0163i care nu mi\u015fc\u0103 nimic acas\u0103, care nu particip\u0103 cu nimic la gospod\u0103rie, care cred c\u0103 simpla lui existen\u0163\u0103 e un premiu pentru femeie \u015fi c\u0103 tot ce are el de f\u0103cut pentru rela\u0163ie e s\u0103 existe. Categoria &#8220;dac\u0103 ai prins trenul, nu mai fugi dup\u0103 el&#8221;. \u0102\u015ftia sunt \u00een elementul lor c\u00e2nd nimeresc pe una care preia \u015fi ultima lui func\u0163ie de mascul: cea cu ini\u0163iativa distrac\u0163iei. &#8220;Wooow. Pot fi \u015fi mai low input dec\u00e2t p\u00e2n\u0103 acum, c\u00e2t de tare&#8221;. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Po\u0163i, dar nu cu mine. C\u0103 nu s-a \u00eent\u00e2lnit ho\u0163ul cu prostul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ieri, Liviu Mihaiu avea o nedumerire: Legat de atitudinea lui fa\u0163\u0103 de femei \u015fi drepturile lor, Liviu Mihaiu are \u00een general inten\u0163ii bune. 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