{"id":23849,"date":"2022-10-13T16:22:46","date_gmt":"2022-10-13T13:22:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=23849"},"modified":"2022-10-13T16:22:50","modified_gmt":"2022-10-13T13:22:50","slug":"cum-va-alegeti-un-psiholog-daca-sunteti-femei","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/cum-va-alegeti-un-psiholog-daca-sunteti-femei\/","title":{"rendered":"Cum v\u0103 alege\u0163i un psiholog, dac\u0103 sunte\u0163i femei"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

C\u00e2nd vine un gigel la nimereal\u0103 \u015fi \u00eencepe s\u0103 abereze despre cum b\u0103rbatul e superior din toate punctele de vedere c\u0103, na, de\u0163inerea unei buc\u0103\u0163i de carne \u00een plus te face special, po\u0163i pur \u015fi simplu s\u0103-l ignori, s\u0103-l pui la punct, s\u0103 \u00eel expediezi sau s\u0103 \u00eel evi\u0163i, \u00een func\u0163ie de context, circumstan\u0163e, situa\u0163ie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen schimb, exist\u0103 o meserie \u00een care acest tip de mentalitate discriminatoare \u015fi extrem de toxic\u0103 nu are ce s\u0103 caute, iar aceea e meseria de psiholog. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Singurii oameni care au vreun motiv s\u0103 se preocupe de psihicul uman sunt cei care au o \u00een\u0163elegere fundamental\u0103 a ideii c\u0103 fiecare fiin\u0163\u0103 uman\u0103, indiferent de gen, are acelea\u015fi nevoi fundamentale \u015fi probleme generate de anumite deficite \u00een \u00eemplinirea acestor nevoi. E absolut irelevant dac\u0103 fiin\u0163a e b\u0103rbat sau femeie. Problemele prezint\u0103 o varietate infinit\u0103, determinat\u0103 de temperament, caracter \u015fi experien\u0163ele anterioare, desigur, dar spectrul de nevoi este similar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Setul de a\u015ftept\u0103ri legate de b\u0103rba\u0163i \u015fi setul de a\u015ftept\u0103ri legate de femei, cum ar fi submisivitatea de la sine \u00een\u0163eleas\u0103 sau renun\u0163area la control asupra propriei persoane de sine \u00een\u0163eleas\u0103, aferente mentalit\u0103\u0163ii tradi\u0163ionale, nu au ce s\u0103 caute \u00een capul unui psiholog. Indiferent dac\u0103 e un b\u0103rbat educat aiurea de taic\u0103-su sau de un anturaj misogin, sau e o femeie care \u015fi-a internalizat misoginismul la care a fost supus\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een punctul \u00een care le h\u0103r\u0163uie\u015fte pe alte femei cam cum au h\u0103r\u0163uit-o pe ea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2nd un pacient b\u0103rbat \u00ee\u015fi caut\u0103 un psiholog, poate merge la cine vrea el. Desigur, \u015fi pentru el e o idee proast\u0103 s\u0103 apeleze la un astfel de individ, pentru c\u0103 un psiholog cu mentalitate machist\u0103 \u00eei poate crea un orizont de a\u015ftept\u0103ri \u015fi preten\u0163ii eronate de la via\u0163\u0103, de la femei \u015fi de la oameni \u00een general, iar acest lucru \u00eei va d\u0103una mult pacientului pe viitor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar ca femeie, e vital s\u0103-l intervievezi pe viitorul psiholog, s\u0103 vezi cam ce mentalitate are el fa\u0163\u0103 de femei, ca s\u0103 te asiguri c\u0103 terapia pe care o vei primi \u00ee\u0163i e cu adev\u0103rat benefic\u0103. Societatea te h\u0103r\u0163uie\u015fte \u015fi te umile\u015fte destul. Lucrul de care nu ai nevoie e s\u0103 dai bani din buzunar s\u0103-\u0163i spun\u0103 unul, pe banii t\u0103i, c\u0103 nu e treaba ta s\u0103 ai control asupra propriei vie\u0163i \u015fi s\u0103-\u0163i cau\u0163i un b\u0103rbat puternic, s\u0103 te controleze el. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un astfel de om nu \u0163ine cont de interesele \u015fi de priorit\u0103\u0163ile tale, ci de o narativ\u0103 fals\u0103, toxic\u0103 \u015fi d\u0103un\u0103toare pentru femei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2nd un om \u00ee\u0163i are \u00een vedere organul sexual \u015fi setul de obliga\u0163ii care \u00een mintea lui ar trebui s\u0103 derive din acesta, \u015fi nu nevoile, problemele \u015fi c\u0103utarea echilibrului necesar, \u00eencheie \u015fedin\u0163a imediat, pleac\u0103 acas\u0103 \u015fi blocheaz\u0103-i contactele. Nu mai conferi\u0163i putere economic\u0103 indivizilor sau institu\u0163iilor care trag femeia \u00een jos. Dac\u0103 tot desconsider\u0103 femeile, s\u0103 nu ia bani de la ele. (Wink-wink, cutia milei.) <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Singurul psiholog care te va ajuta eficient e un psiholog care te va considera un om. Un om care are nevoie de ajutor. Nongendered. Un om liber, cu drepturi \u015fi obliga\u0163ii, st\u0103p\u00e2n pe propria persoan\u0103 \u015fi propriile decizii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cine nu are abilitatea de a porni de aici, trebuie boicotat din sistem, pentru binele tuturor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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