{"id":23869,"date":"2022-10-16T09:26:33","date_gmt":"2022-10-16T06:26:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=23869"},"modified":"2022-10-16T09:29:16","modified_gmt":"2022-10-16T06:29:16","slug":"posta-redactiei-vreau-sa-ne-cunoastem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/posta-redactiei-vreau-sa-ne-cunoastem\/","title":{"rendered":"Po\u015fta redac\u0163iei: Vreau s\u0103 ne cunoa\u015ftem"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. \u00cen sensul \u00een care el sau ea, sau chiar tu, de ce nu, ne trimi(te)\u021bi problema voastr\u0103 de suflet pe birou@lorenalupu.com. Noi citim, cuget\u0103m \u0219i analiz\u0103m, apoi propunem o solu\u021bie sau d\u0103m o opinie \u00ceNTR-UN ARTICOL PE BLOG.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sau \u00een consulta\u0163ie privat\u0103 remunerat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Subliniez: dac\u0103 nu vrei s\u0103 scriu despre, nu-mi trimite o po\u015ft\u0103 a redac\u0163iei cu amendamentul \u201cdar vreau r\u0103spuns privat\u201d, dup\u0103 ce am citit un \u00eentreg roman fluviu. Exist\u0103 dou\u0103 op\u0163iuni: vrei formatul \u0103sta, sau \u00eemi recompensezi timpul. Merci de \u00een\u0163elegere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Scrisorica de azi spune a\u015fa:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Bun\u0103, Lorena,<\/strong><br><strong>A\u015f vrea s\u0103 ne cunoa\u015ftem.<\/strong><br><strong>X.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bun\u0103, X, <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u0103rba\u0163ii ca tine, care trimit genul \u0103sta de scrisoric\u0103, au impresia c\u0103 e important doar ceea ce vor ei. Am o veste vag trist\u0103 pentru voi: mai trebuie s\u0103 vrea \u015fi persoana interpelat\u0103. \u00cen cazul \u0103sta eu. Iar eu nu sunt interesat\u0103 s\u0103 am o rela\u0163ie \u00een prezent. Nu am disponibil genul \u0103la de timp, nu am disponibil genul \u0103la de efort, \u015fi nici nu v\u0103d de ce anume m-ai interesa tu personal foarte tare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Varianta smart, c\u00e2nd v\u0103 b\u0103ga\u0163i \u00een seam\u0103 la modul \u0103sta, e s\u0103 v\u0103 uita\u0163i un pic pe ce scrie \u015fi face omul pe care \u00eel aborda\u0163i. C\u0103, poate, v\u0103 intui\u0163i \u015fansele la un anume r\u0103spuns \u015fi v\u0103 scuti\u0163i de unii singuri de nepl\u0103cerea unui refuz. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iar eu nici m\u0103car nu o ard ambiguu. Unde pe blogul sau pe social media mea vede\u0163i voi vreo deschidere de a m\u0103 cunoa\u015fte cu necunoscu\u0163i random la nimereal\u0103? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cred c\u0103 nic\u0103ieri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dimpotriv\u0103, ceea ce vede\u0163i, dac\u0103 v\u0103 obosi\u0163i s\u0103 v\u0103 uita\u0163i, este c\u0103 scriu despre c\u00e2t de mult \u00eemi place traiul single, despre c\u00e2t e de bine s\u0103 fac ce vreau c\u00e2nd vreau \u015fi despre c\u00e2t\u0103 libertate de crea\u0163ie are un om singur. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Besides, \u0163i-ai pus vreodat\u0103 problema dac\u0103 ai s\u0103-mi oferi ceva din ceea ce am nevoie eu, sau dac\u0103 dispui m\u0103car de ceea ce am nevoie eu? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu, pentru c\u0103 educa\u0163ia ta tradi\u0163ionalist\u0103 te \u00eenva\u0163\u0103 c\u0103 dorin\u0163ele \u015fi nevoile femeii sunt irelevante \u015fi e important s\u0103 vrei tu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ai venit la locul potrivit s\u0103 \u00eenve\u0163i c\u0103 NU se procedeaz\u0103 a\u015fa, c\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2i studiezi o femeie, s\u0103 vezi dac\u0103 manifest\u0103 vreo form\u0103 oarecare de interes spre a se cupla, \u015fi c\u00e2nd vezi c\u0103 nu e cazul, alegi s\u0103 nu te faci de r\u00e2s. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">NOT INTERESTED. Dac\u0103 nu po\u0163i interac\u0163iona cu social media mea ca un simplu cititor &#8211; spectator cu contentul unui artist, nu mai interac\u0163iona cu social media mea deloc. Dac\u0103 voiam s\u0103 ag\u0103\u0163 masculi la nimereal\u0103, nu aveam un blog de autor \u015fi alte forme de content online, ci o cas\u0103 de toler&#8230; masaj erotic \u00een centru \u015fi un Onlyfans. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar cum nu e cazul, a\u015f aprecia s\u0103 v\u0103 p\u0103stra\u0163i tentativele de hookup pentru doritoare.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sper ca r\u0103spunsul \u0103sta s\u0103 nu-l cite\u015fti doar tu, ci \u015fi al\u0163i \u00eenseta\u0163i de amor care m\u0103 mai plictisesc cu sfor\u0103ieli siropoase sau, dup\u0103 caz, negging de inceli rata\u0163i care au \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at masculinitate de la alt virgin de 40 de ani la fel de nef*** ca \u015fi ei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">NU m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 o rela\u0163ie, iar dac\u0103 m-ar interesa, nu ar fi cu voi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne-am calmat \u015fi ne vedem eu de scris \u015fi videouri \u015fi voi de citit? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mbun. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 nu ne-am calmat \u015fi continu\u0103m cu mesaje nesolicitate, ne calm\u0103m din block, din ban, din mesaje filtrate, \u015fi alte modalit\u0103\u0163i de a v\u0103 face s\u0103 v\u0103 prinde\u0163i c\u0103 interesul amoros nu e binevenit pe aceste meleaguri. Apoi tot voi: Vai, de ce asta are \u00een list\u0103 doar femei, \u015fi de ce asta are tratament preferen\u0163ial pentru femei? Oare de ce? Pentru c\u0103 femeile s-au prins c\u0103 discut\u0103 cu un creator \u015fi nu cu o *izd\u0103 ie\u015fit\u0103 la ag\u0103\u0163at. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Avantaj ele. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sper c\u0103 am fost util\u0103, <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lorena. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 v-a pl\u0103cut acest text, pute\u021bi sus\u0163ine activitatea siteului cu o dona\u0163ie.&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/paypalme\/Trollywood\"><strong>Aici<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-14577\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<br>Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? 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