{"id":23960,"date":"2022-10-28T11:02:05","date_gmt":"2022-10-28T08:02:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=23960"},"modified":"2022-10-28T11:02:08","modified_gmt":"2022-10-28T08:02:08","slug":"obsesia-slabitului","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/obsesia-slabitului\/","title":{"rendered":"Obsesia sl\u0103bitului"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Ieri, citeam un articol care relata cum un t\u00e2n\u0103r de 16 ani a ajuns la urgen\u0163e \u00een stare foarte grav\u0103. Motivul? Era un adolescent al anilor 2020, hr\u0103nit cu fast food, chips \u015fi bomboane, \u015fi trecuse bini\u015for de suta de kilograme. Dar, \u00een urma h\u0103r\u0163uirii necru\u0163\u0103toare a colegilor, a g\u0103sit pe net ni\u015fte pastile miraculoase de sl\u0103bit \u015fi a dat jos 54 de kilograme. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

La v\u00e2rsta aceea, dac\u0103 nu e\u015fti genul de copil geniu precoce al buc\u0103t\u0103riei, ca \u0103ia care se duc la Chefi la cu\u0163ite s\u0103 g\u0103teasc\u0103 beef Wellington, nu prea controlezi ce \u00ee\u0163i pun p\u0103rin\u0163ii \u00een fa\u0163\u0103. Eu personal am cobor\u00e2t sub maiestuoasa greutate de 70 de kilograme abia dup\u0103 ce am ajuns la Bucure\u015fti \u015fi am \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at s\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nc legume, pentru c\u0103 \u00een Ardeal, totul e cu cartofi, t\u0103i\u0163ei \u015fi p\u00e2ine, \u015fi nu rareori toate trei la un loc, \u015fi m\u00e2ncarea nu e m\u00e2ncare f\u0103r\u0103 r\u00e2nta\u015f, o concoc\u0163ie nesf\u00e2nt\u0103 cu f\u0103in\u0103 \u015fi ulei pr\u0103jite, pe care a\u015f interzice-o prin lege, nu doar pentru c\u00e2\u0163i col\u0103cei \u00ee\u0163i depune \u00een jurul taliei, ci \u015fi pentru darul de a-\u0163i face toate analizele praf. “Da, Lorena, dar a\u015fa e m\u00e2ncarea cremoas\u0103”. Prefer m\u00e2ncarea necremoas\u0103, dar care nu te bag\u0103 \u00een morm\u00e2nt de la 14 ani. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Revenind: dac\u0103 un copil sub 18 ani are peste suta de kilograme, de obicei e vina familiei care \u00eei pune \u00een fa\u0163\u0103 cea mai infect\u0103 diet\u0103, \u015fi nu ar trebui h\u0103r\u0163uit el, ci protec\u0163ia copilului s\u0103 se autosesizeze \u015fi s\u0103 adreseze un chestionar bine inten\u0163ionat p\u0103rin\u0163ilor. Dar cum na\u0163iunea asta are un har de a mugi ira\u0163ional \u015fi de a ataca verbal exact persoana care nu are nici o vin\u0103, copilul a luat bullying ur\u00e2t la \u015fcoal\u0103. Ca noi to\u0163i cei gra\u015fi la vremea noastr\u0103. Noi \u00eens\u0103 nu \u015ftiam de pastile de sl\u0103bit minune, \u015fi ce bine era. OK, ni\u015fte abuz \u00een plus care, pentru c\u0103 eram mici \u015fi pro\u015fti, ne-a \u00eengropat stima de sine p\u00e2n\u0103 mult dup\u0103 20 de ani, dar m\u0103car nu am ajuns la urgen\u0163e, pe buza stopului cardiac. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Amuzant cum to\u0163i gher\u0163oii detestabili \u015fi hateri care latr\u0103 a prost la persoane cu kilograme \u00een plus au ipocrizia dezgust\u0103toare de a pretinde c\u0103 “vai, ne preocup\u0103 s\u0103n\u0103tatea”. Unii te latr\u0103 cu furie \u015fi ur\u0103 proletar\u0103 inclusiv dac\u0103 por\u0163i M la haine, greutatea normal\u0103 pentru un adult, pentru c\u0103 \u00een mintea lor, femeia trebuie s\u0103 fie obligatoriu S \u015fi XS. \u015ei \u00een m\u0103sura \u00een care \u015fi-ar alege strict nevasta pe acest criteriu – ceea ce e total dreptul lor – \u015fi nu ar abuza verbal femei care nu sunt interesate de ei \u015fi care nu au de ce s\u0103 se conformeze imbecilit\u0103\u0163ilor lor – ar fi o treab\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar c\u00e2nd \u00eenjuri \u015fi insul\u0163i o femeie cu dimensiuni M – perfect s\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103, de greutatea ideal\u0103 \u015fi indicele de mas\u0103 corporal\u0103 ca-n manual – c\u0103 de ce e gras\u0103, nu mai po\u0163i s\u0103 gui\u0163i despre s\u0103n\u0103tate. Buhnici \u015fi-a primit pe drept cuv\u00e2nt amenda aia, \u015fi trebuia una tripl\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un copil a sl\u0103bit 54 de kilograme, \u015fi numai s\u0103n\u0103tos nu era. Dimpotriv\u0103. L-au dus \u00eent\u00e2i la spitalul local, apoi l-au transferat la Ia\u015fi, c\u0103 spitalul local nu f\u0103cea fa\u0163\u0103, \u015fi se \u00eencearc\u0103 men\u0163inerea lui \u00een via\u0163\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pentru c\u0103 a cedat presiunii gunoaielor jegoase puse pe l\u0103trat \u015fi \u015fi-a supus corpul acelui tip de priva\u0163iuni. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eu am \u00een prezent o ofert\u0103 bine pl\u0103tit\u0103 de publicitate pentru ni\u015fte pastile de sl\u0103bit. Dar ezit s\u0103 \u00eei dau curs, taman pentru c\u0103 nu vreau s\u0103 trimit lume la spital. Am colaborat cu noom \u00een trecut, tocmai pentru c\u0103 noom se bazeaz\u0103 pe sl\u0103bire \u00een ritm lent, alimenta\u0163ie dup\u0103 principii corecte, care s\u0103 nu-\u0163i priveze organismul de nutrien\u0163i, \u015fi are \u00een primul r\u00e2nd \u00een minte s\u0103n\u0103tatea \u015fi energia organismului. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adic\u0103 modul ideal de a sl\u0103bi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pastilele de sl\u0103bit sunt de dou\u0103 tipuri: cele care nu au absolut nici un efect sub soare. \u015ei cele care \u00eentr-adev\u0103r au efect, dar \u00ee\u0163i dau ni\u015fte st\u0103ri de r\u0103u \u015fi de grea\u0163\u0103, de mergi ca be\u0163ivul \u0163in\u00e2ndu-te de pere\u0163i pe strad\u0103. Primele sunt bani arunca\u0163i pe geam; ultimele sunt boal\u0103 pe banii t\u0103i. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu mai groh\u0103i\u0163i c\u0103 l\u0103tratul vostru toxic legat de persoanele cu probleme de greutate este despre s\u0103n\u0103tate. Nu e. E despre r\u0103utate, prostie \u015fi libidino\u015fenie. Indiferent de greutate, orice om merit\u0103 un tratament politicos \u015fi civilizat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iar voi, oamenii care decide\u0163i c\u0103 vre\u0163i s\u0103 pierde\u0163i kilograme, nu o face\u0163i de gura pro\u015ftilor. Cine v\u0103 vede doar ca pe suma unui num\u0103r de kilograme, \u015fi nu ca pe un om, cu g\u00e2nduri, idei \u015fi sentimente, nu merit\u0103 timpul vostru. Face\u0163i-o dac\u0103 vre\u0163i s\u0103 dansa\u0163i rumba ca ni\u015fte campioni, face\u0163i-o dac\u0103 vre\u0163i s\u0103 v\u0103 mi\u015fca\u0163i mai u\u015for sau s\u0103 duce\u0163i un stil de via\u0163\u0103 mai activ, face\u0163i-o doar dac\u0103 vre\u0163i, \u015fi face\u0163i-o lent, cu grij\u0103 pentru orgasnismul vostru. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jigodiile care l-au abuzat verbal pe t\u00e2n\u0103rul de 16 ani nu sunt l\u00e2ng\u0103 el pe patul de spital. Nu primesc ei perfuziile. Nu sufer\u0103 ei toate consecin\u0163ele otr\u0103virii organismului cu toate substan\u0163ele chimice riscante din acea pastil\u0103 de sl\u0103bit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iar r\u0103spunsul la bullying e unul singur. Un tandru \u015fi c\u0103lduros “dar mai d\u0103-te \u00een mor\u0163ii m\u0103-tii, c\u0103 nu te-a \u00eentrebat nimeni nimic”. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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