{"id":240,"date":"2008-07-24T11:36:21","date_gmt":"2008-07-24T08:36:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.wordpress.com\/?p=240"},"modified":"2008-07-24T11:36:21","modified_gmt":"2008-07-24T08:36:21","slug":"si-mutii-se-cearta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/si-mutii-se-cearta\/","title":{"rendered":"\u015ei mu\u0163ii se ceart\u0103&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Dar nu se ceart\u0103 cu vorbe. Se ceart\u0103 coregrafic. Foarte spectaculos.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Am v\u0103zut ieri un b\u0103rbat \u015fi o femeie, am\u00e2ndoi cu dizabilit\u0103\u0163i de vorbire &#8211; posibil c\u0103s\u0103tori\u0163i sau prieteni foarte buni &#8211; care aveau o divergen\u0163\u0103 de opinii foarte vie. \u015ei-o exprimau gesticul\u00e2nd de zor &#8211; m\u00e2inile lor ajunseser\u0103 la viteze uimitoare, \u015fi se vedea c\u0103 sunt bine propti\u0163i \u00een punctul lor de vedere &#8211; fiecare \u00een parte &#8211; , c\u0103 \u015ftiu despre ce vorbesc &#8211; gesticuleaz\u0103, vreau s\u0103 spun &#8211; \u015fi c\u0103 vor s\u0103-l conving\u0103 pe interlocutor de dreptatea lor.<\/p>\n<p>Cearta consta de fapt \u00een gesturi \u015fi priviri. Partea frumoas\u0103 era c\u0103 &#8211; gesturile neav\u00e2nd poten\u0163ialul ofensiv al cuvintelor &#8211; erau doar \u00eencinse \u015fi foarte hot\u0103r\u00e2te, dar nu agresive. \u00cen nici o clip\u0103 nu vedeam cum gesturile vreunuia dintre ei ar c\u0103p\u0103ta o tendin\u0163\u0103 violent\u0103 asupra celuilalt. Se vede c\u0103 mu\u0163ii no\u015ftri sunt mai buni la capitolul comunicare dec\u00e2t noi.<\/p>\n<p>Ideea e c\u0103, la un moment dat, b\u0103rbatul a sim\u0163it privirea mea. Atunci, a realizat \u015fi poten\u0163ialul comic al situa\u0163iei: doi oameni stau pe strad\u0103 \u015fi gesticuleaz\u0103 frenetic unul fa\u0163\u0103 de altul. A \u00eenceput s\u0103 z\u00e2mbeasc\u0103 &#8211; \u015fi cred c\u0103 a cedat. Femeia, care st\u0103tea cu spatele spre mine,\u00a0s-a \u00eentors s\u0103 vad\u0103 ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103, \u015fi a \u00eenceput \u015fi ea s\u0103 z\u00e2mbeasc\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Concluzia: ar fi mi\u015fto ca toat\u0103 popula\u0163ia Rom\u00e2niei s\u0103 amu\u0163easc\u0103 pentru un an. Presupun c\u0103, paradoxal, s-ar \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u0163i sim\u0163itor comunicarea \ud83d\ude06<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dar nu se ceart\u0103 cu vorbe. Se ceart\u0103 coregrafic. Foarte spectaculos.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-240","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/240","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=240"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/240\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=240"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=240"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=240"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}